FRIDAY MEMO
Salutations to everyone!
Who no sabi, no sabi!
Yesterday I chose two people for giveaway inside in house news and the second person is Chinedu Luke.....Hope i got that right? Please send me an inbox message….The other person should also send me inbox of account.
Yesterdays in house news was kinda fun and i had a good laugh reading comments, except for a few.
How are you People spending weekend? I am having a tea party on Sunday.....I am not baking at all, dont have that energy, I wanna relax and gist, so i will be ordering for cake
My beloved Father in law will be 90 yrs in about 2 weeks…...
I dont even know what gift we should buy cos apart from the fact that hes old, he has everything he needs…..Last year was a struggle to buy a gift and this year nko?e no easy.....His kids are having a big party for him in December eeeeeeeh…..Any suggestions for something i can do? I plan to make a big speech in English on that day but the Bambinos dont want me to do it but my hubby says i should do it and not mind them….They say the old people there will not understand what i will say...LOL wetin concern me? still thinking of it though….
Are you Christmas decoration out? Guys i have started from my hallway…..Its so beautiful with nice scenting perfumes….
Lets talk Kirisimasi!!!...hahah thats Yoruba way of saying Christmas!
Baba God gimme money to do giveaway eeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeh!!!!
Dunno what to cook today sef……...I need a chef but getting one would meaning eating all the time..lol
I hope we all as adults be intentional about the comment section and keeping tocix free...if you hold anybody for blokos, leave the peerson, if anyone hold anyone for blokos free the person...bullsheet becomes boring when it is overflogged!
Hugs to ya all!!!
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Are you Christmas decoration out? Guys i have started from my hallway…..Its so beautiful with nice scenting perfumes….
Lets talk Kirisimasi!!!...hahah thats Yoruba way of saying Christmas!
Baba God gimme money to do giveaway eeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeh!!!!
Dunno what to cook today sef……...I need a chef but getting one would meaning eating all the time..lol
I hope we all as adults be intentional about the comment section and keeping tocix free...if you hold anybody for blokos, leave the peerson, if anyone hold anyone for blokos free the person...bullsheet becomes boring when it is overflogged!
Hugs to ya all!!!
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NOTORIOUS FOR JESUS
This couple had been having problems in their marriage. One fateful day, the wife went out without husband's permission. Husband, already frustrated, instructed Nanny to not open the door when wife arrives since she never informed him before she left.
When wife returned, she knocked repeatedly, and when Nanny finally opened the door, wife inquired the reason for the hesitation, Nanny explained that husband says to not open the door.
Wife went upstairs to meet husband, and demanded the reasons for his actions.
Before we could say jack, argument turned heated. Wife slapped husband, husband pounced on wife and beat her to d3ath.
As we speak, husband has been taken into custody.
Although I have no iota of pity for men who commit crime against women, I personally have some sympathy for this man.
The couple have two, girls.
Nobody will take care of them whilst he serves his term, even when he finishes his jail terms, there's no way he would ever be able to convince his daughters that his actions against their mother was not premeditated, that it was just an accident, that the devil took advantage of the situation and things unfortunately spiralled out of control.
Going forward, the world would have to deal with two traumatized kids.
This is really sad….Why do some women throw the first slap to men that have anger issues? even confronting him was not a wise thing….May her soul rest in peace…
Oh those kids!
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STOP ABANDONING YOURSELF TO KEEP THE PEACE
There is a kind of silence that looks like peace, but it is really self-betrayal.
It happens every time you say "I'm fine" when you’re hurting, say "yes" out of fear of what your "no" might cost, and shrink yourself just so no one else feels disappointed. Before you realize it, you have built a life where everyone is comfortable except you.
Caring for others is never the problem—losing yourself in the process is.
Setting boundaries will always upset the people who benefited from you having none. Your honesty will rattle those who preferred your silence. That discomfort doesn't mean you are wrong; it just means you are finally growing.
Healing isn’t selfish. It is simply realizing that you are responsible for taking care of yourself, too.
So today, ask yourself: Where am I pretending to be okay just to keep someone else comfortable?
You don’t have to become cold or cruel. You just have to stop disappearing from your own life. Because peace that requires you to betray yourself isn't peace at all—it’s just self-abandonment disguised as harmony.
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Practical Ways to Avoid Trouble
----. Mind your own business. Stay out of drama, gossip, and conflicts that do not directly involve you.
---. Think before you speak or post. Pause for a few seconds before reacting in anger, sending a heated text, or posting online.
---. Choose your company wisely. Surround yourself with mature, level-headed people because you often share the consequences of your friends' choices.
---. Trust your gut instinct. Leave a room, conversation, or situation the moment the energy feels off or unsafe.
---. Avoid unnecessary arguments. Protect your peace by walking away from petty debates where nobody is actually trying to listen.
---. Keep your personal plans private. Share your goals, finances, and next moves only with people you deeply trust.
---. Say "no" without over-explaining. Set firm boundaries early so people do not take advantage of your time or goodwill.
---. Respect laws and basic rules. Follow everyday rules—whether driving, at work, or online—to prevent small mistakes from turning into big problems.
---. Stay away from toxic environments. Limit time in places or online spaces where tension, aggression, or reckless behavior are common.
---. Own your mistakes quickly. Apologize sincerely when you are wrong instead of letting pride escalate a minor issue.
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STRANGE STORY
I heard something strange yesterday and it made me realise that there are many mysteries in life we haven't even heard of.
In our kernel cracking site, we usually have sanitary pads available for women.
I started keeping packs of pad because the young women who work here sometimes starts seeing their monthly flow and once they take permission to go buy pad, they spend more than 2 hours going from place to place in search of sanitary pad.
So, I got a full pack, anytime it starts while on duty, it becomes easy for them to have a pad without having to wonder about.
Yesterday 2 ladies came to collect pad and they said something that sounded like a joke but upon further discussions, it appears to be true.
They said this is not the first time it's happening.
This has been going on for a long time.
There's a particular lady ( also a worker) once she starts seeing her monthly flow, every other lady around will start menstruating irrespective of when you saw yours last.
So, even if you had menstruated last week, once she starts and you are around her, you will start again to see your flow.
This was what happened that they are seeing their monthly flow twice in a month.
They narrated this laughing...
But I didn't take funny.
Could this be some spiritual or energy working occurrence?
Are these ladies saying the truth...
Have you heard about something like this?
Does it happen with other people?
Does this have a name and can it be stopped?
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THINGS YOU SHOULD KNOW'
1. When a person laughs too much, even at stupid things, he basically feels lonely.
2. If a person talks less, but quickly, he has secrets.
3. When a person sleeps too much, he is usually sad.
4. If someone can't cry, he's weak...
5. If a person cries over trifles, he or she is innocent and warm-hearted.
6. When a person eats abnormally, they are tense.
7. When a person gets angry because of stupid or insignificant (small) things, it means that they need affection.
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WEIRD FACTS
· ....If you're trying to sleep, focus on not moving and count to 300.
·.... If someone looks away first from eye contact, they find you attractive.
·... You can trick your brain into not being hungry if your imagine you just ate.
· ...If you smell nice people are more friendly.
·.... Happy people need less sleep.
·..... Being alone for too long is as bad for your health as smoking a lot.
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Congratulations to all the New Mummies in the House.
ReplyDelete@Mum Raheem
@Fan Emmanuel
@Creamy V.
You truly can't out grind a failing country
ReplyDeleteAs you dey double your hustle, the country dey triple its failure.
May GOD assist and help us get it right this coming election 🙏🏻
Asin ehn 😩😩
DeleteThere's a particular kind of freedom that comes from realizing you can survive being misunderstood. You don't have to correct every assumption, defend yourself against every accusation, or participate in every argument.
ReplyDeleteWow 😲 @ 90 years old...
ReplyDeleteIn Addy to your beloved father in law 🥳
Make an Emotional heart warming speech for him.
Good afternoon lovelies 😊
It's a beautiful weather here today 👌
Sane here dear 😍
DeleteWeather is cool like it wants to rain ☔😊
Build relationships before you need
ReplyDeletefavours. Check on people, offer help when you can, keep your word and stay in touch.
Networking feels different when people genuinely know you as a person, not just a request.
This 👍👍👍
DeleteGood afternoon bvs.
ReplyDeleteTGIF
Stella, there is a big issue in town right now. Why is it that Nigerian men living abroad seem increasingly reluctant to marry Nigerian ladies who are already living abroad? Some even go as far as travelling all the way to Nigeria to find a wife and take her back abroad.
ReplyDeleteBut now, there's a new trend where some of them seem to have completely shifted their preference towards marrying women of other nationalities, particularly Tanzanian and other African women.
Two of my friends have already married women from other African countries.
I'm planning to relocate abroad myself, and this trend has got me thinking. Should I get married before relocating, or should I wait until I get abroad and possibly marry someone from another nationality?
How that one that one take concern us? Every Saturday, Nigerian men and Nigerian women keep getting married but no, it’s your Twitter shenanigan you want to bring here.
DeleteWe should start crying because two of your friends married foreigners?
The same trigger happy foreigners?
Always looking for ways to look down on Nigerian women but won’t use the killing of Nigerian men by their foreign spouses to judge the entire foreign women.
Abegi 🙄🙄🙄.
You want us to beg you to come marry them? They are probably better off without you and your kind!
If you are asking these questions, then maybe you shouldn't even be thinking about getting married yet. You are allowing other people's experiences and influence to shape your approach to your own future marriage instead of developing your own convictions.
DeleteAnd no, there is no big issue in town except the one you have created in your mind.
Nigerians generally approach relationships differently. For many, relationships are often driven by survival, financial security, immigration benefits, or personal interests, especially among those living abroad.
DeleteOther nationalities sometimes seem to approach relationships with a stronger emphasis on companionship, genuine affection, and emotional connection.
Sometimes, it is worth observing how people from other cultures approach love and relationships and making comparisons. You might be surprised by what you discover. My bet? You may find yourself appreciating relationships with other nationalities, particularly other Africans.
This has to be your personal decision,no comment here will add kobo to your budget.
DeleteThe ladies didn't even try to listen and reason with the young man's worries, they just replied with insults, is it not obvious why those men are going to women of other nationalities
Delete16:42 some of us are not stupid and will not convince him to marry a Nigerian lady!
DeleteWhere are the insults in my comment? Could you point them out?
DeleteBesides, I listened to and read his comments, which informed my reply. Even though I couldn't identify a single specific concern he raised, perhaps you could point out what exactly he was worried about. He said quite a lot without communicating a clear point.
My initial comment still stands, he should put marriage on the back burner for now, declutter his mind and focus on developing his own convictions rather than allowing other people's experiences to dictate his marital decisions.
Interestingly, you're accusing the women of not listening to him, yet ironically, you were the one who didn't listen. He never actually said he was against marrying a Nigerian woman. He even mentioned that some of his friends return to Nigeria to marry Nigerian women. So what exactly are you suggesting the women failed to understand when you're the one who has chosen to twist a man's uncertainty about his own marriage decisions into an indictment of Nigerian women?
It is interesting how pleased you sound, thinking you've finally found an opportunity to make Nigerian women's behaviour the explanation for some men's preference for women of other nationalities. But that says more about your own bias than it does about the women you're criticising.
Hello All 👋
ReplyDeleteHappy birthday in advance to your father in law
Hi dearie 😘
DeleteThank God is Friday.Happy weekend.
ReplyDeleteCongratulations to New muns in the house.
Good afternoon
ReplyDeleteAbi oooo@sign out.
IHN
ReplyDeleteGood afternoon everyone 🥳
Thank God it's Friyay 💃💃💃💃💃💃
It's Keresimesi
Or they're just shy @wierd fact 2🤷♀️
ReplyDeleteI have heard of that menstrual fetish b4, never experienced it though.
El Niño creeping in like we won't notice 🤧
SDK your father-in-law is enjoying his old age surrounded by loving family. For the birthday gift, you can get a music band to come play him his favourite songs on his birthday.
ReplyDeleteGood idea Petal dear 👍
DeleteWow... 90 years old! He's a blessed man.
ReplyDeleteYou can give a heartfelt speech about him and bless him with some prayers.
I do see Chinese elderly riding bicycles.
DeleteHello beautiful people 💕
ReplyDeleteThank God it's Friday
Jummat mubarak ✨️ Muslim brothers and sisters ❤️
Have a wonderful weekend 😀
NFJ, I will always tell spouses to leave toxic partners, male or female. Leave to live. Now the innocent kids will live with this trauma for life. So sad.
ReplyDeleteStay away from toxic environment,it is very important for your mental health.
ReplyDeleteGood afternoon everyone 🥰
Good afternoon SDK and BVs. Happy weekend 💃💃💃
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ReplyDeleteWeird fact number 2 is not true. Are we supposed to be having a staring competition? Come on!! 😄
Awwwwww ThankGod For Your Father In Law...
ReplyDeleteThe Sun Hot Today No Be small
Went To Ketu And Mile 12 yesterday I Tired Tired ....
Make Una Stay well Oooo
Wellcomeee Innnnnnnnn Houseeeee Newssssss ooooo
I Greetlicious Everybody ooooo
Hello Iya Boys
Good afternoon my people, how are y'all doing today?
ReplyDeleteAbout the menstrual thing, I remember when I was staying with a friend, before staying together. We saw our period differently.
The first month we stayed together, I saw mine first, I do have menstrual cramps,so it was obvious. She needed to go out the next day. Late in the night hers started.
She was like shuga, you done make my period come quick ooo🤣😀.
After that first time, it became a normal thing, if she's first, before the next day, mine will start. If I'm first same thing.
Even now, the girl that do hawk with me sometimes, same thing. Once I notice she's on her period, I done prepare my mind say my own go show anytime. I don't know the science behind that thing.
WE KEEP MOVING!!
This reminds me of my uni days, almost all of us see our period same week
DeleteIHN o'clock
ReplyDeleteLol happy people need less sleep ke! This particular fact is not "facting" at all 🙄
Y'all enjoy your weekend 🥳
Fact isonu 😂 Abi na we need sleep pass 💤 Mercybee darling, how are you?
Delete@ it's not facting at all 😂
DeleteFact isonu gbaa ni 😂
DeleteI'm good dearest Adunni 🥰
@ Na me talk 😆
I no know wetin carry me go download the 7 Books of Moses. Ever since I downloaded it (I haven't read it though), na so so one kind dream I dey dream. I want to delete it but another part of me is wanting me to read it. Will decide later today sha.
ReplyDeleteWelcome IHNs.
IKWAKWAKWAKWAKWAKWAKWA 🤣
DeleteDeleteeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeee
DeleteAbort mission, ABIONAH I say abort mission. No start wentin you no fit finish. No enter were you go they run up and down to come out.
DeleteWE KEEP MOVING!!
No readooo, it can break your hedges, unless your are spritually strong, just like ouija board.you dont play with them.
DeleteAbionah, delete it ooooo. No start wetin you can't finish.
DeletePlease don’t read it. PLEASE
DeleteMy people I don hear una. Thanks a plenty much. Ama delete it sharperly.
DeleteI wanted to wish your FIL a happy birthday in advance till I remembered it's bad omen in Germany.
ReplyDelete@NFJ, I don't feel any pity for him ooo, do you know takes to beat someone to death?
Syncing periods isn't spiritual, it's a phenomenon that happens among women in close proximity. My friend's period synced with mine when we lived together during her service year.
Wow. Just learned this today and I used to wonder why it happens? There's nothing God doesn't use to remind us of his existence
DeleteGov. Sheriff Oborevwori warned intending Christian pilgrims not to abscond during the pilgrimage to Israel and Jordan.
ReplyDeleteHehehe, I hope they'll hear you sir 😀
Stella, happy birthday in advance to your dear Father-in-law 🎂🥰🎉 God bless him in good health & happiness 👏
Enjoy your weekend lovely people 😍
JP kuku means japa
DeleteKJ oniyeye 😂
DeleteDon't mind the Gov, people wey go japa go still japa 🤣🤣
Sdk, I'll suggest a collection of your father in law's favourite songs put in a mp3 player as a gift 🎁 Don't know if mp3 players still exist. I did this for my mum on her phone & the delight on her face was so beautiful to see 😍😊
DeleteLol 😂
DeleteGood Afternoon Beautiful People ❤️
ReplyDeleteThis sun dey vex ohhh,!
Hello ihn 🥰
ReplyDeleteGood afternoon my people and how go dey go.
90 years! Wow Stella your father in-law is a blessed man and happy birthday in advance to him.
NFJ poster, this is a very sad story. The poor children are left to suffer for their parents toxicity. If it becomes toxic please walk away.
Weird facts No2 they look away because they're shy or uncomfortable.
Strange story really sounds strange to me, never heard of such.
Bvs enjoy the rest of your day.
E go surely be ✌🏼
No2 fact no be for Lagos until them collect your phone run
DeleteHaa! From your comment, I had to go back to read the story. Abeg that's not normal o 😮
DeleteGood afternoon everyone
ReplyDeleteKeresimesi....
ReplyDelete90years is a blessing from God ooo. Happy natal day to him in advance.
We will all experience the end of this year in peace
Such a sad story, the little girls are now without parents
ReplyDeleteHappy birthday in advance to your father in-law 🎊🎉
ReplyDeleteHello 🙋
GOOD AFTERNOON MY SDK FAMILY 🌹
ReplyDelete90yrs birthday. What a blessed age. May God grant him more good health 🙏
80 to 90years...........na blessing
ReplyDeleteLike play, like play, so another Christmas go soon dey upon us o. Chukwu, thank you o!🙏
ReplyDeleteKeresimesi
Odun de
Odun olowo
Odun olomo
Olorun je ka ri opo re se
Odun turun to n bo yii
Ko ni no ja wa lo ri
Yoo soju emi wa
Gbogbo aboyun ile a bi were...tibi tire
Awon onisowo wa a maa ri ere je
Awon omo wa ko ni saisan
Odun yii a yabo fun wa ati SDK.
ayo wa a si kun.
Alaafia peregede la o fi pari re!
Amin Ase!
*Tutun
DeleteHehehe 😀 Baci baby, Christmas don reach finish o 🌲☃️
DeleteThere’s nothing spiritual about it. When women stay together, their cycles sync so they start having periods around the same time.
ReplyDeleteIs that really so? Wow. I believe this because it happens in my house. Just 😳
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ReplyDeleteTheir money no dey pass 2k
DeleteCondemn phone! Condemn computer!
ReplyDeleteHandset to baje baje!
We are buying it at a good price..
guess how much dem dey buy am 🙄🤦?
IKWAKWAKWAKWAKWAKWAKWA 🤣
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😁 hahaha
DeleteSomething wey no reach 5k
Nigeria is a joke
Jesus baby
Tell me, my ears are open 😺
DeleteThey bought my own 3k, very somehow...
DeleteHappy birthday in advance to your father in-law
ReplyDeleteECOWAS Appoints Ex-Ghana President To Lead Nigeria’s 2027 Election Observers
ReplyDeleteGood evening everyone
ReplyDeleteThe sun here today no be moimoi
It's weekend guys 🤸🤸🤸I can't wait to have the whole of the weekend to myself. Thank you Jesus for the successful week 🙏
Happy 90th birthday in advance to Papa!
ReplyDeleteAt 90, physical gifts no dey too make sense because they usually don't need much anymore...Since he already has everything he needs.
Okay, let's see....we are looking at something sentimental rather than material. 🤔 What about making a short video tribute where all the kids and grandkids say what they love about him, and playing it at the party? He will treasure that forever.
You could fill a nice basket with his favorite healthy treats, snacks, fruits, teas, or whatever treats he still enjoys eating.
You could also get a nice custom pillow, a blanket with his picture on it or a nice painted portrait of him. Old people love seeing their legacy around them. e go like am. You fit do big, customized birthday cake too just from you or even hire a live band or cultural dancers to surprise him at the december party. Old people love good music from their time!
Wetin again ooooooo 🤔
For the speech, don't mind your Bambinos . Dem just dey tease you. Go ahead with your hubby's advice. You don't have to speak big big grammar...just speak from your heart in simple English and everybody go feel you as e dey flow. But make you try keep am short, sweet, and speak slowly and smile a lot....and maybe add a few simple local greetings or blessings at the beginning and end. Everyone will feel the love, even if they don't catch every single word.
The lord is your strength, Stella.
God bless him with more healthy years!
90 good years? Wow. God has really blessed him. I pray for more beautiful years in good health for papa.
ReplyDeleteKeresimesi don come true true o. May God keep us all till then and beyond. And make money plenty for us to enjoy.
Thank God it's Friday..... eulogize your FIL,send card gifts or anything he likes..just ensure he enjoys his 90th birthday... congratulations to the GA recipients
ReplyDeleteThe mensturual myth or something,it happened to me and my roommates back at the university,then it happened to me and my sister too...but after something it didn't occur again..I don't know what happened or what stopped.,and I don't know the science behind it
Thank God it's Friday..... eulogize your FIL,send card gifts or anything he likes..just ensure he enjoys his 90th birthday... congratulations to the GA recipients
ReplyDeleteThe mensturual myth or something,it happened to me and my roommates back at the university,then it happened to me and my sister too...but after something it didn't occur again..I don't know what happened or what stopped.,and I don't know the science behind it
Why would the wife even slap the man? Now, see what anger has caused
ReplyDeleteStella, since you said he is old, you can do your speech but maybe, you can do it in German so that the old people there would be able to understand just like what your Bambinos said
Or, you can still get him a nice beautiful wrist watch
So Stella I got my Snickers chocolate and pop corn ready for tonight's gist.
ReplyDeleteDon't dull the fun,try and enable comments on time..... catch you later