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Wednesday, November 27, 2013

I wrote A Test For My BFF And He Has Reported Me To The Lecturer.....SEE GOBE!




I'm currently in my 3rd yr in a private uni studying law. I'm 20 and my best friend is 19.. We're both well above average academically(thankGOD) and he's the very religious type..

 So it happened on this day, that a lecturer (whose course is a 4unit one), showed up for his scheduled class only to meet an almost empty lecture hall..disappointed and vexed he decided to give an impromptu test.(2 case questions for just 10mins).. As I was battling with mine,I saw my guy across the window (cos the doors were shut).. ..let me just cut the whole story short. I therefore wrote his for him, after which he said he'd report me to the lecturer after; cos his conscience couldn't take it, it's against his faith, and all.. I didn't say a thing cos I couldn't really get myself to come to terms with how and what he meant at that instant... 



The day after, I went home cos I was down with malaria missing school for 3days, he never called or even hala... say, my guy hw far.!. just yesterday he called me with our mutual friend's line only to tell me that the lecturer wants to see me.. Now, personally I feel lot's of things, I still can't think straight, (mayb cos of my ill health) or what possible defence to put
up infront of the notoriously stern lecturer.. like is it possible I can be condemned morally for my own goodwill?? 

 I might just go mad with random musings  so I decided to come here. . .. I'm really hit in the most emotional kinda way, - the fact that he put me in a position where not only expecting a "thank you" is too much of a luxury but also being totally condemned as though I had committed a grievous sin, even though I had only wanted to help out a friend.. , As at now, I'm not sure  I know what to say before the lecturer unless to give in.


*if you are not expelled,thank you God and mind your business next time..i am just so sorry that this might spoil a lot of things between you and your BFF.....if you are penalised,pay the price,forgive him and move on.

87 comments:

  1. Next time darling never assume.....if he is truly born again his conscience will definitely bite him and the truly Godly thing to do is to tell the lecturer....but of course his actions after will determine his genuineess about the whole thing....I pray you get off lightly and he also pleads on your behalf too.....and to be clear there is nothing morally goodwill with what u did....it was wrong to write a test as another person, but we know u did it in good faith and by Gods grace you will not be punished.....just show remorse to your lecturer and promise you will not do that again that is if at all you have been reported.

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    1. Let me just tell you, before you go back to school, make sure you let your parents know what is going on, don't hide it from them. When you get to school tell the whole truth, I promise you things will work out...

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    2. Let me tell you what I will do!i Will tell the lecturer he wrote it and passed it 2 me 2 submit tru d window, but hay! They might compere the handwritting to see if its urs or his.

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  2. Your BFF is a pharisee',so pls u don't need such.
    If he actually reported u,find a way of wriggling urself out of the problem. maybe set him up in it#says and turns away#(cos it's better served cold)!but then run far away from him and forget u once had a BFF
    Foolish idiot,such pple are the type that can never make heaven!@poster u are a good friend,keep being gud to other friends u have cos that's what true friendship is!

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  3. Hia, Ndi oke church a sef! Odi egwu ooooo

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    1. Ify how market

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    2. Nwanne, udo di! Ke your way?

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    3. Market dey move well my dear..how much u and ur hubby don collect from danfo drivers dis morning na? @ anon 7:02

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    4. Lol....Stella and her comedians go kill person with laugh!

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  4. giftedworld.blogspot.com27 November 2013 at 22:02

    OMOH NA SERIOUS GOBE O..
    GIRL THAT YOUR GUY NA SERIOUS CHRISTIAN O

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  5. Eyahh, ur friend is stupid.

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  6. We're both well above average academically......lies. Then both of you shouldn't have done what you did. Dumbos.

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    1. Ode of the highest, he said his friend missed the test bcos he wasn't in the class! Over sabi they worry you nd you are the 'dumbo'

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  7. Trust God for favour.
    Go on ur knees and ask the lecturer to have mercy on you,cry,do all u can to get him to forgive u. My dear,una don see how human beings are?Next time,mind ur business,ok??

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    1. Talk to the man like a father...pray for forgiveness before you meet him, ask God to touch his heart
      Cry to him tell him you are so sorry, do not even mention your friends name or why you did it, just ask for mercy finish

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  8. This is serious issue ooooo. Pray and God will see you through

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  9. Your BFF was very unreasonable. He's finally condemned you to the mercy of your lecturer. No matter how religious he is, a stern caution from him to you would've been alright, knowing fully well the possible outcome if he had reported you. Sorry you have to face your lecturer because of this insensitivity, and brace yourself for the worst. That's all. Next time, look before you leap.

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  10. Aunt Stella hian what a way to tell us to go to bed *yawn* what a story didn't finish it*rme* to the poster don't worry nothing can happen it is a private school it will be sorted out. #okbye

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    1. That it's a private school is the more reason he should be be scared. Don't know about his school but if u try this shit in madonna, u are so going on suspension or even expulsion depending on our cso's mood.

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    2. LIAR LIAR who do u know dey have expelled 4 dis act....Madonna maybe fucked (excuse ma french)but dnt lie 2 make ur gist interesting..........

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    3. @7:52am Dat u fucked up and madonna treated ur fuck up u think the skul is fucked to u alone. B4 u were addmitted, u were gvn a hand book containing the do's and donts of the skul, u signed an undertaken, they didn't come to ur father's house to drag u to come skul with dem. So remain fucked up. Am sure u have series of carry overs due to ur unseriousness. U re sooooo fucked up and not madonna.

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    4. And mind u @ anon 7;52 madonna will suspend u cos dat is d purnisment for such crime. Except u find favour in d sight of God not man. Cos dis kind case for madonna, na only God's mirracle fit save the person. In madonna u must be up and doing, u will learn avoid trouble to the fullest. That's one gud thing about madonna..very strict. Only philo face wey u go see, u go knw wats up. Lol

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    5. Naturelle or what ever your name is,I'm very sre u dint go 2a private university cos if not you would not open your mouth to say its a private skool so it cnt be sorted,private unis are worse especially the christian ones,for the silliest things you would be suspended for a semester/session.for d poster just pray to God.

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  11. Serves y right. This is the result of Gbeburun, tatafo, aproko, sabi sabi. Did he send u to write for him? Next time mind your business. I hope you get expelled! That will teach u to mind your business in future.

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    1. Writn for someone is cheating but he shdnt v reported her, but to tnk of saying expulsion omoo u wicked ooh infact bitter cola na ur breakfast.

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    2. Haba!!! Y r u so wicked? " U hope he get expelled" may u never find mercy when u most need it ijn!!! AMEN!!

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    3. What rubbish are u writing down,fine he made a wrong ddecision but he had good intentions.I pray you don't find help when u are in a tight situation,if u hope he will be expelled.

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    4. He's not lying oh!
      I think he only stretched the truth a little.
      In Madonna...if you cheat during an exam, its definite suspension or expulsion its in the handbook too, except Gods intervention.
      However, the worst I've seen happen or the lecturer would probably do, would be to cancel your test script and your BFF's own or cancel your BFF's own and deduct 10 to 15marks from your exam paper..whew!!!
      Just beg the lecturer seriously and pray about it.....
      Meanwhile that your 'religious' friend should have been religiously inside the lecture hall for that class and not outside peering in through the window so that you can see his sorry face...mtcheww!
      Run away from him oh!! If you want to successfully graduate from that school.
      (hope dis comment enters don't know were the previous one vanished to)
      *Nicole Smith*

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  12. Stella you're on point...next time mind your business!!! You know the rules and you should play by it. Like stella said, if you're not expelled, forgive ur friend nd move on. Jst knw whr to draw the boundaries in ur frndshp. I'm sure you must hv learnt ur lessons now. Sometimes, not all good decisions turn out right even wt d receiving party, that's life for you!

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  13. Na real gobe be dis oooo.........kai,,just admit to d offence wen u get to see ur lecturer and beg him to pardon u.....as for d guy...i dont know how u'll handle him....but at least u now know d kind of person he is....

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  14. I do not agree with his reporting u yo d lecturer. If what u did didn't go down well with him, he should have just warned u against a next time occurrence n not reporting u to the lecturer knowing what consequences that may have on u. I'd just advise that next time u mind ur business n face ur aacademic pursuits.

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    1. In short his frnd is wicked...haba knowing he could be suspended fa...what kinda person is that...that's why I said do not talk about it to him or the lecturer just ask for forgiveness and bounce

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  15. I think it was wrong of your friend to report u to the lecturer seeing that his actions could cause u grave consequences. He could just have warned u against a next Ime occurrence. However, its spilled milk already, so just face d consequences (whatever that would be) n learn to mind ur business henceforth.

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  16. Na really Gobe oh, if u re in Babcock den na serious gone u enter. One advice never in ur life help him again even If it's a 6units course or even exam tins

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  17. First to comment yipee

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  18. Yes my brother you can be condemned for your own goodwill. Haven't you heard that the road to hell is paved with good intentions? Your friend is a mean bastard honestly. Which dirty conscience. Didn't he know the problems he'll bring upon you? I went to a federal uni so I don't know how strict ur lecturers are but in your shoes I will get on my knees and cry out to God. I will fast till I go and see the lecturer. When I get there I will fall on my knees and start crying(real or fake). I will cry and beg and plead. Just do what ever needs to be done to get yourself out of this mess and when you come out, you will by God's grace, cut off from that self-righteous, sanctimonous, selfish, annoying, wicked 19 year old prick!

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    1. @anon 10:35pm d case pain u personal O°˚ lol. E be u like say make u strangle the rightous 19yrs old prick. ROFTL

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  19. Religion makes Nigerians mumu die! WTH?! I am weak, i dont even now what to say, but do not blame ur self for looking out for a friend....u did well, but since this goat is throwing u under the bus not giving a single fawk that this may get u expelled, and ruin ur future for a good intention u had towards him, be careful about his unpredictable arse and look out for those who deserve it.

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  20. This experience should serve as a lesson to you about friends and friendship; you try to help a friend out of human kindness and he/she turns around to disown/stab you! Ouch! So painful a thing.

    I also went to a private uni and my help to my friends has limit; the highest I can do is to allow you dub(copy) me but not verbatim but to write a quiz/test for you simply because you were unfortunate not to have been in class at the right time is a never never for me.

    Understand you are in a private uni, no be him papa dey pay your fees and vice versa. You don't know him from Adam, na school you jam each other; so be wise when dealing with your coursemates and roomies.

    I'll advise you tell the lecturer the whole truth; that yes you did it but out of human kindness and you are deeply sorry that you have learnt your lession and won't ever do it again! The truth will always set you free.

    Lastly, remember the son of whom you are!

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  21. Stella as ur mouth open naso my mouth too take open o.

    See serious GOBE o
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    Well young man uv learnt ur lesson, what u did was bad, very bad buh u had good intentions. Itz sad u learnt ur lesson d 'not nice' way.
    My advice nw z dt u should go nd ask God 4 forgiveness nd dn pray dt God touches d heart of dt lecturer kz expulsion z inevitable in dz situation xcpt if ur school na yeye school

    I wish u d best

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  22. My dear ur story is painful. All I can tell u is go down on ur knees n pray to God to forgive u n den pray dt he tk charge of d situation of tyns at hand. The heart of a king is in his hands. Notyn is impossible for him. I had a similar issue wit urs wen I was in sch, my year 3, I was writing my HOD's course on dt day n d man knws me well, so I was done wit my questions n wanted to submit so my friend nw begd dt I shld wait n assist her wit question 2, I picked a paper I saw around me n wrote it for her. Hmmm one of d supervisors saw it wit her n den askd hw she got dt she just turnd to me n told d man its mine. Mhen I wanted to die, my HOD walkd upto my seat n said Joy u u u. So u can cheat all eyes just turnd to me. I felt lyk d ground shld open dt day. D man left her n punishd me, tore my paper n sent me out. I cried bitterly d girl cudnt say sorry. She just left. Got home prayd. Two days lata went to his office, he sent me out. I tried again d next day n explaind tyns d way it happnd. He just told me so I want to say I knw too much nw dts y am helpn ppl in exam hall. To cut d story short. I re wrote d paper n he didn't report me to sch authority for malpratice. I learnt my lesson d hard way. So I behaved n avoided friends till I graduated. So my dear put it in prayers. God wud see u tru. Amen

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    1. Joy,Oge D is that you?Unec things

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  23. My dear that work wey you do na "Ajayi" and your bbf though, even with all level of spirituality, he could have handled things more maturely. Going to the lecturer and trying to lie would just make you a fool. especially not knowing what your "BFF" has told him. just start apologizing and tell him stories of how ur the first born and you people live in abject poverty, that the education of your 6 other siblings is hinged on your future. that your currently on scholarship from your church, thats how your able to pay tuition fees. If you like when you want to go there and tell this kind lie wear better cloth and carry better phone

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  24. If its me after this I will runaway from this friend. He could have just told u that next time u shouldn't do it for him. See, don't be affraid. Just be positive and happy cus the lecturer would not penalise u. The more worried u are about the situation wouldn't change it but make it worse. Breath in n out n tell urself it would come out well and it will. But run from that ur friend oo. Its better to be alone than to have a friend like that.I know he has good religious intentions but that's a wrong move. Small small children wey dey university *smh

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  25. Long Hisssssss
    Singing:
    No new frnd...No No No

    ##Galore##

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  26. Hahahahahahahaahahahaha

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  27. Na wah for your BFF... I hope your lecturer pardons you. Next time, mind ya business..
    By the way, Stella, how far with the woman whose gold was stolen?

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  28. that your bff is a wizard, pls run run run like terry g from him. He will harm you harder next time.
    You should deny writing any text for hm when you are eventually strong enough to meet with the lecturer... Goodluck

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  29. He reported you?....technically its ofofo...and ofofo is a sin...oniranu friend

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  30. If you were older, I would have blamed you for not seeing through someone you call your BFF. You are young, you were loyal but you made an error in judgement.

    As far as I'm concerned, you did a wrong/illegal thing for a good cause. I dont know how serious it is in your school, it was a serious offence in the University I attended. I hope you escape with a simple caution.

    Dont feel bad. Také this as one of life's lessons. Dont love your neighbour more than you love yourself. Whatever the outcome, dont be bitter. Just move on.

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  31. My dear move on, I jes broke up wit my bf rytnau,I feel sooo terrible,I feel so used,cud God b seeing my pain,I think I deserve 2B happy,whoever is reading dis,pls say a silent prayer 4me and beg God 2 grant me happiness.pls I nid it.thanks and God bless

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    1. The only advice u need iz me in ur life,been looking 4 a serious relationship buh the girl I meet r not always serious. Add me up tho

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    2. It have teeh since I stopped thinking about r/ship(like 7months) cus the last I had wasn't funny atall. Be very careful this time around. Write down all the qualities u want in ur knew man n believe you have him. That's what I have been doing. I am just thanking God for sending such a perfect match me that has all the qualities I want. In the office I was so happy and rejoicing 2day lamenting how perfect he is in my mind. All this chykas that are flocking around me its not all that have the best intentions.

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    3. Tell God when you finish this crying. Tell Him what you want and work on improving yourself, get busy with positive activities. You can attract the right kind of man with your positive attitude.
      My bf is my answer to my prayers in many ways and even the/his shortcomings, I'm still handing over to God even before ii discuss it with my bf.
      Not trying to sound sanctimonious sha but in these days of all sort of leechs and horrible young men, I no wan marry amiss o so God help us all in Jesus Name

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  32. hmmmm, wat advice shall i give u dis guyman? Okay, If this private uni is babcock uni, u re safe but if d private uni is maddona there are two things involved, it is either father edeh gives u 100 lashes of cane or u are expelled. If father edeh give u 100 lash, u re safe but if hin expell u, there re two things involve, u either become a hustler or a begger. If u become a hustler u re safe but if u become a beggar, there are two things invlved, u either become a bambiala or a corporate beggar(many of dem knw book pass average). If u become a corporate beggar u're safe but if na bambiala, there are many things invlve, kai fit catch u, stray bullet fit hit, ritualist fit use and many many oda things dem wey i not fit list cos hand don dey pain as my money to buy qwerty fone neva complete.

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    1. Whoever you are...you got me rolling on the floor. Abeg make money reach for the qwerty fone...love ur comment

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    2. Ur 2 negative about the issue

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    3. Hahahahhahaha crazy fellow.

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  33. Dis ur bff na jst 4 mouth. D guy dos nt even care bou u. Yes wat u did s morally wrong bt d guy s hrtless sha knowin fully well dat ur sch can suspend u 4 such act n he stil reported.....
    as 4d lEcturer matter, jst pray2God. Wish u luck.

    Elsie

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  34. @ anon November 27, 2013 at 10:32 PM ode retard.

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    1. GALore says A PRAYER for @Amaka28 November 2013 at 05:08

      pls for goodness sake...
      Stop all ds name bashing using ''Anon''

      I had to scroll up,,just to read what ''Anon'' wrote that he/she deserved to be called ''retard'' by a ''faceless being'' like you

      All ds 'werey today,,,''retard'' tomorow,,it's not good @ all

      Ds same mouth u use to PRAY
      ITS NT FUNNY ANYMORE

      ##COME CLEAN PLS##

      AND DONT BOTHERR TO REPLY ME,,,IF U NOTICED,,,,I DONT REPLY ''COMENTS''

      @GALORE

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  35. There's no BFF anywhere, ppl shld stop deceiving themselves.

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  36. Ur bff is 4rm hell , just deny it or better still go 2 God in prayer & seek his mercy & dat of d lecturer & as 4 dat ur oni ranu bff set his ass up

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  37. The BFF did the right thing! Writing a test for someone else is malpractice and we all know it! God! Nigerian s are always hoping for a miracle in our leaders but look at the type of nonsense we ourselves are condoning!

    You poster! As a lawyer you should know what you did is wring. BFF or no BFF.

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  38. Abeg wich kin holy holy sef mscheew d bff neva kiss b4 abi y hin no go tell d girl z parent say I kiss ur daughter o...he's jst been mean a christian wil warn u nt 2 do dat again nd ask d almighty 4 forgiveness runaway 4rm dt guy o he's jst nt a friend....God hlp you.

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  39. GALore says A PRAYER for @Amaka28 November 2013 at 05:04

    @Amaka.......
    GOD WILL COMFORT YOU ON EVERY SIDES

    ##BE STILL AND KNOW THAT GOD IS GOD##

    HE WILL BE EXALTED IN YOUR LIFE
    PLS,,DONT RUSH INTO ANY RELATIONSHIP RIGHT NOW
    IGNORE THAT PERSON ASKING YOU FOR A RELATIONSHIP ON DS BLOG,,,DEY ARE ALL ''RECIRCLED'' CORPORATE ''THIEF''

    AND MY GOD WILL ''PUNISH'' THEM IN DUE SEASON

    PLS,,READ ''PSALM 27 VS 14
    IT SAYS:
    WAIT ON THE LORD,,BE OF GOOD COURAGE,,,AND HE SHALL GIVE YOU A STRONG HEART,,WAIT I SAY ON THE LORD

    ##CHEERS##


    @GALORE

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    1. @Galore, one of ur best comments so far! You just touched me with these words from the Holy book, Bible. Thanks v much!

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  40. Wait o, this is a guy and his best friend so who is here soliciting relationship (Mr Add Me Up, up to where). Secondly, I see your heart but you put yourself at risk from jump street, what if you were caught during the test. Your friend was harsh but please no dey do oversabi. He would have gotten a make up test or something. Next time help when it is absolutely necessary and called for. Your ajayi has backfired. As for ya friend, him suppose call you to once corner, but even if he did you will still be angry that he did not appreciate your "help".

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  41. Jes pray your lecturer is understanding and pls from hence forth don't keep such holier than thou friend, your good will turn evil for you! But you'll be just fine and I'm sure your lecturer will be considerate.

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  42. Nigerians o. An we are shouting Govt. Govt. This how corruption starts. Dis is malpractice and u are definately Going down for it. Why do I have a feeling u are in Babcock. Guy begin dey pray o or begin pack bag for one year

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  43. It was wrong of u to write the test for him. Period!!! It's malpractice. In a decent society u will be expelled. Admit what u did was wrong and stop blaming your friend.

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  44. My dear, BFFs turn Frenemies oo..(Speaking 4rm experience).
    I don't fault you for your good deeds but U nd ur BFF r supposed to ve an understanding(which clearly is nt dere). Just go to ur lecturer, appeal to his good nature/beg.. Don't lie(it wud complicate things further).. Tell ur parents(just in case), Pray, forgive ur friend(it wud b hard sha oo but jus try) and move on.
    I pray the lecturer pardons you.

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  45. I really can't believe what I'm reading here, you're all on the side of the poster???? What he did was callous and completely inexcusable. Are we as Nigerians now so comfortable with the idea of cheating to get ahead that we praise those who break the rules and condemn those who chose to take the high road? What else does this person get up to that in a simple situation like this, he chooses to cheat not even for himself but for another person? I guess the people in government can also steal money meant for hospitals and childcare and say they are stealing it to take care of their children and elderly parents.

    I've often heard the phrase "A people always get the kind of leaders they deserve" and I never believed that statement as much as I do at this moment. Our attitude here is sad and quite frankly disgusting and this is why I find it hard to believe that things will ever get better in Nigeria.

    Dear poster, what you did was wrong and in any university anywhere in the world, you would face a panel for it and possibly be kicked out. Man up to what you have done and stop blaming your friend for obviously being of a higher moral standing than you. God bless you Stella for your common sense in this matter.

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  46. @anon 9.37. Maybe the poster was wrong religiously, what of his intentions?? Mind u it was a 10mins test, so it's prolly an impulsive decision judgin by d fact that dia was little tym, much less after seeing his bff lookin lik it's d end of d world across d window..

    I could be in his bff shoe tomorrow or worse, even you, and it's much easier to sound preachy now. I get d whole morality thin, but guy pls chill there are beta ways to handle things more maturedly, bein 19yrs is no excuse not to have atleast common sense..
    And u think if all of us stuck to our principles so rigidly like dat, den wat would happen to a word lik "sacrifice"?? i bet d world wud be a sore borin place..

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  47. I would have advised you to get guys to tie him down and flog him to coma but you are in a private uni so let that pass.
    The guy is obviously joining the rest of us (sinners) in hell because his friend did it with a good intention and he repaid him back with evil by reporting him knowing the consequences attached to what he did.
    Good BFFs do exist.
    I have one and i'll always cherish her.
    Even when i'm wrong, she would stand by me in the open and scold me behind closed doors.
    The boy should be shot in the ankle.

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  48. my dear"sin is sin" no matter how hard you try to justify the intentions. always learn to do obey the rules.....if you had not written for him, he cud have prayed that God touches the heart of the lecturer so that he would cancel the quiz.......do not orchestrate strings that would entangle you in the future......i pray God touches the lecturer's heart such that as he sees your face, he would pardon you. also, ask God for forgiveness.

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  49. lesson of the day:
    "never drink panadol for another man's headache'
    . "everybody carry your cross"

    I put it to you dear poster that you are more academically sound than your BFF. somewhere in his heart, he knows you are better than him.....jealousy jealousy.... hence he uses 'Christian faith" to mess you up.
    why? to displace you and be on top.

    get well soon, go to school, face the music, pray its a light music...and then come back to digest my lesson of the day stated above for you.

    pele

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  50. As a true friend, they should have agreed to go report themselves to the lecturer together. The guy going behind to report alone insinuates that he is innocent and d victim guilty. I still believe the guy is not a true friend. what the girl did was bad, i believe she has learnt her lessons. The guy did not even care to reach her while she was ill.

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  51. @Anon #32- lmao. rotfl. this ur comment na die. me and my colleague don laugh tire.
    Dear poster, even my father who is a pastor wouldn't have reported u. The bible says: God overlooks the ignorant. ur friend didnt ask u to write for him and what u did, u did in ignorance and out of goodwill. cos thats how it seemed at the time. the bible says: there is a way that seemeth right to a man, but the end leads to destruction. meaning that, everybody is prone to mistakes, as things seems right initally. but its the end of it that matters most. and the way ur friend ended it is not good. Even God pardons sinners. He should simply have led u to fast and pray together with him. And ask for forgiveness from God, and warned u not to do it again, knowing the consequences of ur actions. if u now do it again afterwards, then he has a right to report. The first step to loving God is by loving our brethren. and I must say its people like this that give chritianity a bad name. they show no mercy even when due. A good friend would have agreed with u and gone along with u to report to the lecturer. even pleaded on ur behalf. The lecturer will understand. But by his actions, he put u in d net and walked out. Selfish okponu!!
    My advice: own up to ur lecturer. tell him you are sorry. that you have asked God for forgiveness (please do so). also apologize to ur friend for any sin he feels might have been committed on his account. Then, mind your business henceforth. Dude is not a friend.

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  52. I've experienced such before.....it was an assignment da was to b submitted da day n ma ex bff wasn't in school so I helped in doing it for her n submitted......wen she saw da I passed her by one point, she went straight to d lecturer and told him da I did it for her and she wud av gottn more if she did it herself....da was ma last miss.nice o...



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  53. @anon 9.37. Maybe the poster was wrong religiously, what of his intentions?? Mind u it was a 10mins test, so it's prolly an impulsive decision judgin by d fact that dia was little tym, much less after seeing his bff lookin lik it's d end of d world across d window..

    I could be in his bff shoe tomorrow or worse, even you, and it's much easier to sound preachy now. I get d whole morality thin, but guy pls chill there are beta ways to handle things more maturedly, bein 19yrs is no excuse not to have atleast common sense..
    And u think if all of us stuck to our principles so sternly like dat, den wat would happen to a word lik "sacrifice"?? i bet d world wud be a sore borin place..

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  54. @Anon #66- u are an insensitive person!! one of the attributes of a good leader anywhere in the world, in any organization is "EMPATHY". In doing what is right, have empathy. why didn't tell the friend to accompany him when he was going to report? instead, he went behind his back. if his friend is a sinner, would he condemn his friend to death? it's not done, i am telling you it's not. go and ask ur pastor. the deed is good, but the approach is bad. period!!

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  55. ikom girl in lagos28 November 2013 at 13:39

    @anon #66- even jesus didnt codemn mary magdalene ok? self-righteous ppl kill the excitement of christianity

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  56. lie to d lecturer dat he was d one that told you to write the test for him..shikena....see how it goes

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  57. Even jesus told mary magdalene i do not condemn you, go and sin no more. A strict stern warning never to do that would have been enough OR you guys would have gone together and he would have begged for you. Elizabeth B.

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  58. Even jesus told mary magdalene i do not condemn you, go and sin no more. A strict stern warning never to do that would have been enough OR you guys would have gone together and he would have begged for you. Elizabeth B.

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  59. *dead* *hang* *faint* Jesu!!!

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