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SETTLING FOR LESS OR IS THIS LOVE?

Hi Stella. Nice blog. My name is C********. But for this purpose lets use Sophia and i usually comment as anonymous. I'm just going to go straight to the point. .......So i met this guy like a month and a half ago through a mutual friend. We actually started dating immediately and we both agreed that we are working towards marriage. He claims to give it his all and made me cut out all suitors from my life.

So the first week of dating was fine. After that i started noticing some critical things about him. The smallest of things ever makes him angry. There was a recent one where he called at 1am in the morning to say he is hungry and he's coming over and begged me to make something for him.  I agreed and got up to cook. Throughout his trip to mine we were on the phone. As soon as he got to my gate i noticed the flame reduced and my gas finished. Luckily i was almost done with the food. So when he entered just as a normal convo i told him gas just finished. This guy blew up. Got very angry n that led to a quarrel (for no reason at all). Note this happens everyday. Sometimes twice a day.

Also his drinking habit has become unbearable. And when he drinks he starts looking for ways to pick up a fight. He drinks at least 10bottles of beer a day. He constantly reeks of alcohol which is beginning to disgust me. And when i try to talk to him about it, it becomes quarrel.

Some days i actually find it hard to see the good side about him. He never keeps to his promises. By the time he does something nice for me. Its too late to appreciate it cos we must have fought over it for days.

So I'm into biz n i asked him to invest in the biz which he agreed. Every time i have a talk with him about the way he acts towards he keeps talking about how he's about to invest in my biz n i should learn to appreciate his efforts. Money ive not seen oh.

Anyway i'm writing this cos right now he's in his car parked in my compound sleeping cos he's angry. Note that he came to my house drunk at 3am. Cause of anger - he told me to clear something on the floor in the morning and i told him not to worry ill just do it now :s. Anyway I'm gonna let him sleep in the car. I'm guessing he expects me to come beg him to come inside.

I'm honestly fed up and thinking of walking away. Or maybe take a break for a while. My breaking point was yesterday evening quarrel (don't even remember the cause) where he got so angry and i thought he was going to hit me. I had to beg to calm him down cos i don't want no man or woman raising their hand on me. I feel its way too early to experience these things. Ive not even enjoyed honeymoon phase. Im 28 and haven't been in a serious relationship in the past 5yrs. My family actually think i have an issue. I really wanted this relationship to work. Not necessary to prove to my family that i can keep a committed relationship. But to prove to myself too.

Btw I'm actually very pretty (my pic attached for your eyes only) and i noticed this makes him insecure a lot of times. Just to make him happy and confident i have cut all male friends from my life. Even some female friends. All these happened in just over a month oh. Imagine

I cant help but feel I'm settling for less. Please bvs what do you think?

WTF...why are you playing the role of a house girl in his life?Yes you are settling for less and you will get even less than you settled for ...this is the beginning of a domestic violence filled Marriage...The choice to RUN or stay falls on you!.....