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NARRATIVE NUMBER ONE

 'DOCTORING' YOUR AGE AND THE CONSEQUENCES

Good day Stella,

First i want to thank you for this platform that you created for us to learn from,may God continue to strengthen you.please permit me to remain anonymous as i seek for help and advice from other readers.

Am burdened and practically losing my mind. few yrs ago i lost some of my documents on transit including my birth certificate, so after NYSC i decided to get an affidavit and also use the opportunity to reduce my age a bit so as to fit into the age requirement of some of the companies i was applying for jobs then,so i reduced it from 1982 to 1985,and that is the same age on my passport too.

January 2014 i met someone and we started off as friends,along the line he needed to help me out on something so i sent him a copy of my passport.then later he told me am his younger sister's age mate,and i was like oh ok, then our friendship grew into us dating and that was middle of last year.though no sex at first cos he was living in a different city but he visits sometimes.from the 1st time dt we met he said he wants marriage, i told him its best we start as friends,but i later found out he is everything  i want in my man and he loves me more than life itself.

During the courtship i discovered we are age mates, just few months older than i am and in my mind i said i wasn't going to say anything since he has already told his family my age.we got married traditionally last year December, and church wedding is slatted for April next year,am so so happy and everything is going well.his family loves me so much and his mum is my BFF,she has plenty sweet names that she calls me and will never fail to buy me gifts whenever she travels.

I have never been bothered about not telling him the truth about my age cos i mentioned it to a friend once and she said its nothing to be worried about but 2 days ago something struck my mind,what if in a time of death?what if i manage to keep this till God knows when and God forbid something happened and my family and his family will start arguing on the age thing, and i will not be there to explain what really happened and i will be tagged a liar which means my marriage, the life i spent with my wonderful husband is all lies.

The thought is killing me and telling him the truth is not an option cos it will break him and i dont know what his family might say or think about me.please my dear people help me on what to do,initially it didn't seem like a big deal but now its driving me crazy.Bvs please attach an advice/solution under all your cussing out,Stella please i need sisterly advice from you as well. Thank you so very much. 

PS. He was the one that was desperate to marry me oo,no be me oo.again i try my possible best to look younger than him through daily workout.

My Dear why dont you discuss this with your family first?Since it is them that will argue on your behalf in case anything happens it is best you tackle them.

If you have the guts to go ahead,try to tell your husband and explain to him that it was due to a job you wanted and you didnt see the relationship going any where thats why you told him your 'football age'' and that somehow you forgot but doing so now that you remembered.

What could he possibly do?threaten to leave you?For Chrissakes both of you are age mates.

Be prepared also that he might not believe your real age if you tell him.

If you do tell him,discuss with him about his not telling his family,they must not know everything.

DISCUSS THIS WITH YOUR FAMILY FIRST OH.

Good luck Dear!

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NARRATIVE NUMBER TWO

WHEN SUCKING BECOMES AN OBSESSION - OMG!

Something has been weighing heavily on my mind and I don't know how to send it in. My husband can not sleep if he doesn't suck pussy. It's a serious habit and I have learnt to live with it. 

We have Been married for 2years now. If he travels, I go with him just cos of this. We don't have kids yet. When I'm on my period we make arrangement for a girl he can suck before he can sleep. The girl comes to the room, get on the bed and after sucking her and she cums my hubby will sleep off there and she can go to the guest room.

 I once arranged for one girl but she doesn't have clitoris cos of circumcision so it was hard for her to cum so hubby was just like a crazy animal that night, he just kept twisting his finger inside her vigorously with his mouth stuck on her labia and his leg was just twitching, still she didn't cum. I had to take her back and that night went out to look for someone. 

When I came back without anybody his eyes was just red and he said I should go and wash my period thoroughly and come and lie down which I did so that he can suck and sleep. Is anybody going through this? I'm tired of this. I feel nothing in my vagina anymore.

What do i do?