NARRATIVE NUMBER ONE
BUSINESS WITH THE EX?
I and my ex broke up recently after six years. The break up came from the other party and He blamed it on me. So many issues and faults led to the break up from both sides.As for me I would say it was an attack from the devil because everything was in place. He already fixed our introduction and traditional wedding month.
Now this is the issue. Before we broke up he has always been of the opinion that he needs me to think up of a very good business or product that we can start up together. He is very enterprising, optimistic and a crazy risk taker.
Recently I got a beautiful inspiration from God for a product that is not in the market and very feasible. Capital is not a problem for me and him as well. I am just a very low risk person.
I feel I need a kind of push on executing the idea. I also think I would have to get a patent. Sometimes I am awake at night restless with this idea on my mind. I know I have to act fast else some company would just start producing it.
I have thought endlessly of the right person to approach and He keeps coming to my mind as the best candidate. This is because He is very daring and never afraid to take risk. His input is also greatly important in execution and possible exportation. I am positive that when he hears about the idea he will be super excited and might even want us to reconcile (I definitely want him back if that is God’s will). On the other hand I am also thinking of the worst case scenario that he might want to act not interested because of ego.
My beautiful blog visitors please and please what do you advise me to do. What would you do if you were in my shoes? To approach him or not. This is a money making venture that can improve my status greatly. Has anyone gone strictly into a business venture with an ex before? Do I go into a legal agreement with him? I honestly don’t know
No insults please. Help a confused sister. Thank you. **
Business with an ex smells like looking for trouble but then it would depend on how you both ended the relationship and if their frame of mind allows it....Yes,please get a lawyer if he does agree otherwise,he might pull the carpet from under your feet when you least expect it.
If you ask me oh,I would just ask you to let forget ever going into anything financial with an ex oh..it smells like trouble!
NARRATIVE NUMBER TWO
TAKING MONEY FROM LE BOO'S MUM TO INVEST...
Please make me anonymous. I am a very huge fan of yours and that's why I need your help. I am very confused at this point. I am at a cross road and that's why I am sending in this chronicle. I have been dating my boyfriend for close to 3 years. He is going to be 31 years old in 3 months.
I know he wants to marry me and he loves me. I have met his family and I think they are super cool. My boyfriend lost his job some time back and there has been financial constraint for a while. He is trying but the job is not forth coming. I work and I also have a side business that I do in my spare time. Its more like our business that we started when we were both jobless but we stopped putting so much effort into it after we got jobs then he lost his job.
He found this small place where we could use to continue the business but there is no money. Now the issue is his mum suggested giving us money to secure the place and then figure out a way to get enough money to furnish the place. I plan to quit my job soon so as to start my own thing. I don't know why but I do not like the idea of collecting money from my boyfriend's mum.
They are okay financially but I just don't feel peace within. I do not have money and my family is not as financially buoyant as his though. I don't want anyone disrespecting me in the future cos I hate in law drama. Please I need your advice. Please help. Thank you.
Hmmm,i really dont know but why invest with a boyfriend?under whose name?what if you guys break up?who gets it?if she wants to pump in money into the business and you havent married her son,thats very risky,what happens if you guys break up and she demands for the money back ?
Maybe someone else here has experience to tell you about....
*whispering and shivering*The chronicles folder is empty ooooh.lmao!