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Monday, March 14, 2016

My Marriage Isn't Perfect....Is Yours?



Let me use myself as an example because i am not ashamed ra ra .....

Do I have a perfect marriage?
 No......Perfect Marriages aint real honey!
Do you?
I dont know but i care and thats why I am going to tell us all to look inward ,read that meme up there and be wise!.

I am a waffy girl,instead of Market to fall press me,i no go enter farm!..LMAO

Selah!



This isnt about anyone in particular so please do not take this post south...


228 comments:

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    1. Blessing Bulus leave my husband alone.its becos of this u are barren.i pity that ur husband who stays home like a woman so u can feed him.

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    2. Blessing Bulus of Batijay leave my husband alone

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    3. There is nothing like a perfect marriage. Marriage is a union of two different people, from two different backgrounds coming together under an umbrella love. Once in there, they both channel their individual efforts to make it blissful. Compromise, understanding, appreciation, tolerance, prayers, willingness to forgive and all necessary attributes are brought to the table by both for marital bliss. That's what marriage is all about.

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    4. So u know marriages are ain't perfect and yet u won't let Ay and his wife breathe just to prove a useless point as aproko blogger. Shame on u!!! Always preaching one thing and doing the other and spreading hate.

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    5. So u know marriages are ain't perfect and yet u won't let Ay and his wife breathe just to prove a useless point as aproko blogger. Shame on u!!! Always preaching one thing and doing the other and spreading hate.

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    6. Blessing,leave "our horseband" alone.
      Your own no do you?

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    7. Anon 13:35.And u think d Blessing Bulus is at fault? U re jst a coward if u can't confront d randy man. Mine isn't perfect but I confront him instead of belittling myself.

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    8. Haaaa, Blessing Bulus u don enter one chance o. Madam u for no go under anon now.

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    9. Stella wit her face like toto wey gonorhea don scatter satan's bedmate

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    10. @anon blessing of batijay travels in abuja?

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    11. End time anon 14:32, are u sure dats not ur face?
      End time bitterness. Rcv ur healing.

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    12. I don't give a hoot who the hell this woman is but why mention your name and remove your husbands name. Stop this pettiness. Your husband is just as guilty. Why tarnish her name alone.

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    13. Happily single!!! Yayyyy.....

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    14. Marriage hmmmm. Can I ever understand it. Living with a man that can keep secret for Africa. A man that will plan something with another woman in the name of ' my brothers wife and the man's legal wife will not know. God give me wisdom cos am just feed up.who knows other things that he is hiding.

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    15. Lol @ anon 16:46 same here dearie a man that will discuss the wife to his so called elder brothers wife. Idiots! But they shud cone and confront me!

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    16. Blessing bulus please hold her horseband tight! Siddon ther
      e o. No retreat no surrender!

      Madam horseband owner, go to your house and face your horseband. What's your business with the other woman? Did any wife harass you when you had your talons on their husbands during your single days? Abeg evaporate from this place! See 'em retired home wreckers calling out someone. Arrant nonsense.




      I have no pity for none of y'all. None!

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    1. Marriages are not perfect, but with God on your side, we are more than conquerers. A praying woman is the best gift a man can receive. Women, always learn to pray for your husband and children. She who kneels before God will stand before any man. #Godisgreat . This is not only for the married ladies. Singles in the house, if you haven't started, start praying now for your future partners, tell God how you want him to be. God does not fail. His answers are ye and amen .

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    1. instead of Market to fall press me,i no go enter farm!
      Hahahahahaha...which proverb be this again. All these south south people

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    2. When u marry a learned man he ll treat u like an educated man but when u marry an omata man he ll treat u like d illiterate he is. Imagine ur husband asking for sex like ' madam anyi aga Eme? Mtcheeeeew. When u ask mee gini, wahala go start. Next thing they'll call ur mother to report u denied them sex.
      #shaking head#

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    4. what's perfect?
      Nothing I guess
      Not yet married, no comment

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    5. When u marry a learned man he ll treat u like an educated man but when u marry an omata man he ll treat u like d illiterate he is. Imagine ur husband asking for sex like ' madam anyi aga Eme? Mtcheeeeew. When u ask mee gini, wahala go start. Next thing they'll call ur mother to report u denied them sex.
      #shaking head#

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    6. My dear I understand that anyi ge eme gist oooo na e make me chop slap for wedding night. To gain my sanity I've moved pass that idiot

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    7. Hmmm.my marriage is barely 3months and am already asking for grace.....

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  4. Nice one!! Haters this isn't about Ay

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    1. Yes o.. Instead of market fall press me.DH and I live like housemates, A man that can talk more than a woman. Borrowed money from my sister husband without telling me. I don't know what he used it for. Now he can't pay back. We Pretend in front of the kids. So no gbenshing for me. It's running into a year now. But my love for him is dead and buried. When I am ready to move on I will file for a divorce and leave the country with my kids. Right now I am smiling with my ears, waiting for the long hand to met the short hand on the wall clock. **tick**tick**tick... A man so comfortable with a woman paying his bills and that of our kids... I tire Jara!!!

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  5. Am single can't say anything, will just read comments.

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  6. oh well...I am hoping and praying for a near perfect marriage, so help me God.

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    1. No near perfect o, infact hubby n I use to fyt so much that our parents were so fedup. We just later stopped al d fyts, infact sometimes he'd say "weve not fought for a month" and im like "Im very tolerant ni".
      Dnt expect flowers every val n dnt expect cuddles at nyt
      Sometimes he juz wants to be alone and I respect that.
      I let him enjoy being d boss while in reality Im in charge.
      There was a time he banned me from wearing trousers coz he feels that wud Attract men, I totally agreed. Whenever we av outings, il wear a nice pair and be like "lemme wear this so pple will see where ur money lays". Bit by bit I got back to my trousers, he even buys sexy ones for me.
      If u humble urself while letting him feel in charge, u will enjoy him.
      Wisdom, tolerance and prayer is key.
      He might not really say "i lov u" evryday but he shows it in oda ways like remembering ur anniversary, choosing to eat at home every night, calling ur parents once in a while and many more.

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    2. Anon 13:42...
      So your husband choosing to eat at home,calling your parents etc like you said is an a big achievement in your marriage?...
      It's only on this blog that I read unbelievable stories...

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    3. Nice comment..chop kiss,i learnt from dis

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    4. That's the spirit anon 13:42 we might not have it all but we cherish the little things we get that's what feels our days little by little we realize we have won them over

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    5. Queen abi kiloruko e, anon is trying to paint a picture of respect & responsible husband there, but can u shut ur mouth & use ur head for a while?
      Some of ur comment sound ashunu

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    6. Momo babe,you are an asshole!...
      Am sure the husband you managed to grab at your old age uses you as his slave!...
      Idiot!...

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    7. Anon 13:42.. Your head is there... Thumbs up..The queen n the boss of godforsaken animals..it will never be well with you.

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    8. I dont think queen is married, If truly u are then ull understand that if he doesnt come home to eat; heaven no go fall. When ure tired, ull pack ur bags n leave but ow many men do u want to marry n leave

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    9. Honestly this stupid queen aka bush half baked illiterate of this blog is daft.....pls go back to night school so u learn how to read.....local rat forming city rat......how in your stupid mind did she say that was an achievement? Go back to school and stop tormenting the rest of humanity with your dumb comments..

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  7. Stella! Queen of subs๐Ÿ™Œ๐Ÿฝ

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  8. Couple should never fight at all.
    Unless the woman is rude.

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    1. And who says rudeness is exclusive to women? Yeye talk

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    2. Do u reason at all bfor u comment or u jst want to be irrelevant,y wil couples not have misunderstanding have you in ur lifetime seen a PERFECT COUPLE.so it's only d women that causes trouble in wmarriages.mr James na ur type dey marry doll for a wifey and again Mumu ni e

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    3. Money maker aka James, what if the man is rude.

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    4. Jameeeeesssss, y do u like making very stupid comments?

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    5. James!!!! I am anonymous cm and I dislike you with passion. You have a 'women belong to the kitchen mind and shouldn't talk back to a man. I don't even know where to begin. I pray we never cross paths cos I will give it to you in quantum. Mcheew!

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    6. James please it has nothing to do with rudeness although u might be right somehow. Men can be so annoying too, but thats where communication and tolerance comes in.

      To be sincere women are tolerating you men a lot, Yes a lot but still it doesnt prevent we women from making sure that the home is safe and peaceful.

      Most Marriage nowadays is just a whole load of crap because most men has refused to think straight and come down from their high horse coupled with their African mentality.

      Marriage is meant for two People to work hand in hand and not just one person. It doesn't work that way james. So dnt say that. Two people has to make it work. Respect your wife, treat her like a queen she is. Always remember those things you saw in her before you proposed to her. No matter how bad a woman is, there must surely be something good about her. I am tired of hearing divorce cases these days cos its getting out of hand.


      On the womens side.
      Why women end up with the wrong partner is mostly because they dont set their priority straight/low self esteem and society pressure.

      Be independent,know what you want in life, i mean set your priority straight and never settle for less.

      Most men feel its their right and they can do whatever they want nowadays because most women depend on them for everything, money for pad, money for this money for that. Be independent. Even if your husband is dangote and he doesnt want you to work, join online jobs, freelance, binary trading which you can do at the comfort of your home all you nees is a laptop and strong internet connection, and the rest if you are intelligent, you will make it and make sure he pays u monthly salary equivalent to the amount you are supposed to be paid had it been you were working but never the less, its always good to be your own boss.

      But in all marriage has no formular cos the way i handle my home might be different from yours.


      Another thing, career women should make out time for their family and kids,cos its your responsibility to take good care of your man and kids. Cook for your family, if you have a maid fine if you dont have fine. But always know that its ur responsibility. If your man is the type that can cook then you are lucky plus its another bonus for you. Do not leave every thing for ur maid sometimes suprise ur family with a nice meal. Make out time for intimacy, google different styles, ask ur partner, what he likes and enjoys.(same is applicable to men ask your wife which style she enjoys) Communication matters a lot cos with it, there wont be room for quarels and misunderstanding.

      Never allow your in-laws/parents to interfere in your home. Women never give ur mother inlaw a chance from the onset, yes NEVER including your mother, you can consult them for issues that is bothering you if they are the peaceful type but if not, never give them a chance and make sure you handle it with wisdom.


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    7. Continuation


      Men be faithful to your partner, a woman will wake up in the morning, prepare her kids lesson food, bath them, cloth them, make sure that they are ready for schl, take them to schl, bring them back, feed them, teach them home work, clean the house, make sure every where is clean, watch clothes (excluding those that has house help) but what you will use to pay her back or say thank you to her is by sleeping around. How do you think that she will feel? i mean how do u men even sleep at night comfortably?
      a woman who is making sure that the home is in order but the only contribution you think u can offer is to be sleeping around, contacting stds and transfering it to her, a woman u said you love with ur heart, body and soul. Its very bad. Very bad. Men and women should respect the institution called marriage and be faithful to ur partner, women the same is applicable to you all.



      Men, you are suppose to be the head of the family, provide for ur family, most men of nowadays are very lazy, men should sit up to their responsibilities as a man. U dnt just sit at home while your wife will be hustling out side by hook or by crook to make money while all you do is to sit at home and be watching super sports. Sit up to ur responsibilities, being the head of the family no be by mouth, its all about fulfiling ur marital vows,making sure you re very serious with ur responsibilities in the home

      Single ladies, never tolerate abuse of any form, are you in a relationship and that man is hitting you and u still think he will change after marriage, sweet heart you are wasting ur time. The percentage of him changing after marriage is not up to 10percent. I understand 80percent of ladies wants to be married but ur joy, health and happiness plus peace of mind should come first. Never allow a man to hit you. It doesnt worth it. But if you think you can endure, na ur palaver after all if he kills you, i no go come for ur burial, know ur worth and never allow a man to treat u like a trash you deserve that respect. You deserve to be loved and not to be punched at. Never tolerate that in ur relationship cos he might not change in marriage and the earlier the better than rushing into marriage and walking out with battered face.


      Women learn to briddle ur tongue, learn to control ur anger, same is applicable to men. If u are hot tempered person like me. Learn to say this prayer(Jesus meek and humble of Heart, make my heart like unto urs) learn to control ur tongue, if its hard when u are angry, chew a gum and chew it load, yes loud it, lolz. it works for my frnds and me too, it will help you calm down,. You can voice out ur opinion as u like but do it in a matured manner.

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      Women respect and love ur husband, husband respect and love ur wife. Women protect ur family with prayers, men do same too. if you are a Christian/catholic, join pioneer societies in the church, like sacred heart of jesus, legion of mary, immaculate heart, charismatic society and the rest and pray for ur family. This world is more than spiritual to physical. Most things happening to marriages nowadays are more of spiritual than physical. Men and women sit up to ur responsibilities, dont let ur friends decieve you, pray for ur family all the time. Songs and worship are very nice and can be done in the very comfort of ur home without visiting any pastor or imam.

      Men and women, know the type of people you discuss ur marital issues with, instead of telling the world what ur problem is on social media and other plat form, call ur partner in ur bed room, sit him down and talk it out with him or her . Know when to say sweet heart i am sorry,. Most men find it difficult to say i am sorry or please. I am sorry eases the soul of a partner who is angry. It doesnt cost much. Partners should learn how to use it. It will help.

      Marriage is meant to be enjoyed and not endured. It has nothing to do with u having a PHD, MSC, BSC, being posh, being the president and the rest. Its all about using ur Gods given wisdom, doing what is right at the right time, knowing when to keep quiet and when to say i am sorry. When to quit and when to endure.

      Men, child bearing sometimes make women look older or not so cool as per when u guys where dating, thats not enough reason for u to look outside or start misbehaving. If you truly love her, all she needs is ur advise, encouragement and ur support in order for her to burn that fat and look good once again. Its not easy to go thru pregnancy and give birth safely, she needs ur support and on the other hand, women should also know how to package them selves. No matter ur size, eat right, exercise and package ur self, look good and be happy with ur self.
      Cos never you leave the key to ur happiness in any mans pocket, true happiness lies with in you. Its in you. Be happy and do the right thing and if both of you are meant to be. Ur marriage will be a successful and happy home.

      If you cant work towards your marriage, abeg pls remain single rather than bringing innocent children into this world to suffer thru seperation and not caring for them. Children is a blessing from God and needs both parents for their upbringing cos they need to be loved and cared for.


      Keep pushing till the sky becomes ur limit. God help us all.


      Treat your woman like a queen �� and she will treat you like a king ��





      #nomindmytypos.

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    9. Waoh,good write ups,God bless your efforts and contribution

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    10. @ fearless orobo.... u go fear name
      Lmao

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    11. wow nice one! so educative .

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    12. God bless you for your comment joor

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    13. Sexiest mother print this comment for your husband to read and change his ways and stop coming here to disturb us Biko..who epistle help?

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  9. Am not married.... I don't think I know anything about relationships anymore (?) I don't even want to learn self.....

    Hissssssss

    #angry#

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    1. It is well dear, E-hugs

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    2. It's tiring, the rules and regulations are much

      Do this, don't do this!

      Longer hisssss

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    3. True love has no rules, y'all fill each other excesses

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  10. How can a marriage btwn two imperfect individuals be perfect.we can only work towards perfection. Mine isn't.

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    1. Nwa Amaka are you married? Good to know!

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    2. So Nwa Amaka don marry? I was trying to setP b4 ooo.... Thank God I briddled my keyboard ๐ŸŽน ๐Ÿ˜

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    3. Nwa somebori is married.
      I tot u r lesbo
      Nwa d trouble maker

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  11. Very true! That you are a saint doesn't mean you won't find yourself among sinners. You might be perfect and your partner is not. Know your differences, come to terms with your similarities and balance the equation! C'est la vie!

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    1. Olori,since u started selling ur bรกta on d blog and getting praises on ur fine leg and birthday post,u have ceased to interest me with ur comments,why? Not just on this post but on the others too. U ve suddenly gone soft like pap and ogbolo mixed together and somewhat started ass kicking,why???? So u dont loose ur customers?Pls go back to ur former self or better still,create another ID and use this one to advertise and use the other one to say it as it is..

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    2. *ass licking

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    3. Olori isis ur name is so scary.

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    1. Marriage perfect? hell no. Mine is hell on earth. Married for 2yrs 5months now but I have sent heart breaking chronicles twice. Still no improvement. He fights u his family fights u without asking what happened. A man that lies and gossips more than a woman. A man that has sworn to never see me progress. Everyone keeps preaching pray for him pray for him. Am done praying
      If only I had where to go to I'd ve left with my kids long before now.
      I ve been quite and ignoring him for a long time and my silence is driving him insane. Now he is screaming around d house that I must leave b4 tomorrow.
      I just dey observe.

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    2. Y marry a burden n a jobless man

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  13. I fear for couple who fights.My marriage isn't perfect but we don't fight.

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    1. Aunty, "Fights" do not necessarily mean "throwing blows". It means having misunderstandings..

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    2. Aunty, "Fights" do not necessarily mean "throwing blows". It means having misunderstandings..

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    3. Fight up there doesnt mean physical fights...

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    4. Fan Emmanuel don finish me with laugh here...so u actually thought d fight up there means physical blows??? I bu nnoo ezigbote iti aki! Unless God threw ur partner down frm heaven,then there must be some sort of quarrel or heated argument at some point in d marriage. I mean how can two people frm relatively different backgrounds not fight once in a while??? There must be some sorts of disagreement but d ability to rise above it is d koko.

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    5. End time AC or fan Emma nu can lie.
      Will u spoke d truth
      Spoke it let d devil b ashamed.

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  14. i am not a wifey yet tho, but someone's Bae, and the truth is, anytime we fight, we settle, and grow stronger.
    one thing i have observed is, we dont fight on the-same issues twice, he learns intermediately what i like and dont like, and avoids it like a plaque;
    thats how we fight, settle and learn more about each other.

    no one is perfect, no relationship can be perfect. we can only learn to compromise and forgive .

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    1. Its for married couples,whore!

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    2. Aahaaaaa anon 14:16, take it easy nau haba!

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    3. Hahahahaha oloshi!

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    4. This is so me! Thanks anon 13:08

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  15. Lol@ do not take this post go south. May God bless every marriages going through any sort of crises.

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  16. Lolz
    Is there really a thing as
    "A PERFECT marriage"?

    Hollywood and Mills n' Boom gave me a very wrong mindset. Lmaooooooo

    My sisters, marriage is garbage in, garbage out oooo. It's also a clear definition of "What you sow is exactly what you reap"
    Marriage is LIFE.... full of ups and downs. It's up to you to make the most of it

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  17. No marriage is 100% perfect , but inviting God into the marriage makes is super perfect.

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    1. At times that invitation dey hard if the foundation is faulty
      I think a good foundation determines a good marriage

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  18. You are adorable Stella. And very wise! Well done.

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  19. I so much love that meme. Mine is made in heaven. We are not perfect cos we do have our individual differences but we try to solve our ishh. Communication is the key.

    Any marriage that lacks good communication is dead already.
    Forgiveness, tolerance, endurance, prayer is very important


    I pray that God will continue to give us the wisdom, knowledge and understanding to tolerate each others differences and enjoy our home with love, peace, and happiness Amen. Marriage is not easy but in all i give praises to God.

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    1. Respect is also very important. Respect ia a reicprocal. Akanri kwoo aka ekpe, aka ekpe akwoo aka nri.

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    2. Is* Reciprocal*

      Auto correct mind your selfoo

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    3. I concur with prayer+tolerance+forgiveness+respect for each other, those are very important.

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    4. Kuo not kwoo...lol

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    5. God will continue to bless ur marriage

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  20. Mine is perfect and real, we have never fought nor exchange words *yimu

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  21. Respect in marriage 1st.
    The almighty power of make up sex and the sincere apologies that keep being interrupted by French kisses.
    The sweet whispers during 5am missionary.

    Everyone should remember that true remorse is change in behavior. Putting family happiness 1st. Protecting your spouse, making them at home with you. Never comparing them, appreciating their effort no matter how little.

    The grass is never greener on the other side. Infact you should be so committed to making your marriage better daily that you aren't left with anytime to notice if there's any other side with or without grass.
    Your prayer as a family is the fertilizer needed to keep yours Evergreen.

    God bless your marriage (yes you).

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    1. U re right
      But
      If not yet married, dont deceive urself that grass is not greener on the other side as an excuse to remain in the desert, keep searching fo the greener land b4 u settle. Some grass can never be green even wt green paints

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    2. The make up sex is to die for. Hubby just be killing me softly. I dont blame him sha cos this body just wont quit after 2kids.Lol I must find small quarrel tonite. After the kids have slept of course.

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  22. It's real , couples who appear perfect always aren't real at all..I concur. Fighting strengthens relationship wella,but not be dt type wen neighbors go cum dey settle una rara..I mean the codede heat.

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  23. Lol.... I know say style shade go follow ROTFLMAO who ask u if it's for someone sebi na u jagaban memo writer. I carry yansh for u.

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  24. I am enjoying my marriage!...will I say it's perfect?90% compared to the stories I read here....
    We argue,fight and make up the same way I fight and make up with my siblings and mom when we were all living together....

    In my next world(if there is something like that)...I would like to marry my man over and over again!...

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    1. I tap into your testimony sister..

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    2. Anonymous 13:20
      Carry your fustrated self out of this post.
      Old hag

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    3. @bitchplis, o yami lenu o....

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    4. Testimony tapper, u kno wetin u dey tap @ all?
      Ignorance is a virus that kills

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    5. Be careful what you tap for/at. Aanu e o shemi rara

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    6. With his disgustingly smelly mouth abi??
      Ok oooo!!!!

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    7. Queen of sheba..lame attempt there. We know u. Materialistic bitch

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    8. When you have already knack pigeon on his head. Lousy woman

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    9. Shut up dia...who dash you 90%.... Na yam? Olobo tancansul

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    10. Hahahahahahaa...
      See them awon Yoruba smellos masturbating under my comment...
      Just because your fathers and husbands treats you guys like shit does not mean others are in the same bitter situation like you all...
      Yes!am happily married to a wonderful man!...my husband is the best thing that has ever happend to me...

      dude worship the ground I walk on!...you need to see how he talk about me in my absence!...
      He would rather die than to see me sad!...
      12 years this year and counting!...
      You all should drink otapiapia and die!...
      Am replying this cos am in a very good mood today...
      And as for you Mr gaylord Bitchpls and ugly fufu eggcalher...am not the cause of your miserable lives!...
      Oponu rada rada....Awon ti o ri ola ri ni e. Akuse lasan lasan....

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  25. I read one meme that said if ur dh do not discover something new or strenge about you at least a week...; you aren't real wify...hahahahaahah

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  26. No such thing as a perfect marriage, but we have more ups than downs! We learn each day and care enough about each other to work at it.

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  27. No one is perfect so I don't expect any marriage/couple to be perfect same as mine.

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  28. Yeah, real relationship aren't perfect but rara.... Ur right dere!!! But some will take it to south... Lol

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    1. Then why the freak are you commenting?

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  30. Yeah, no marriage is perfect.
    My marriage isn't perfect, we have our ups and downs.
    Am I happily married?........yes
    Do we quarrel?.......yes
    Do I regret being married?.....No
    My marriage is built on christ solid rock that's y we keep getting strong 2geda.
    I am most grateful for the kind of husband God blessed me with....what more can I ask 4?


    This every day Chronicle has messed some people's brains up to the extent that they now think that every married woman is in an unhappy marriage.

    Marriage is sweet jare when u. Are in it with the right person and also when you are financially blessed.

    Money also makes marriage sweet.


    Marriage is hard but sweet.




    No fustrated person should come under my comment.


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    1. U re a jobless attention seeker..I still remember u begging for 6k to go to ur villa in Dec...

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    2. Your soul is too bitter for you to be happily married. Stop telling lies.

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    3. And your marriage will be filled with bitterness n fustration .........if u aren't married, u will remain single 4 the rest of your miserable life.





      Stella, I don't want to look for my comment.

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    4. Hahahahaha.... Elixir is wikid!

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    5. Hahaha.gbam

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    6. Shut up dia.....ugly short engine... Which man can live happily with you? Bad mouth, uncouth somebody

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    7. Haahaahaa @ 6k to go to the village. Omo e better to fight oh. Loool

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    8. Even if she begged for 6k to travel and so fucking what?....
      You all go anonymous to beg for something as low as inner wears!....
      Irrelevant fools!...

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  31. Hmmmmnn..marriage...just too scary this days.Kudos to those who at least strive towards perfection.

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  32. Something tells me stella is still upset abt that AY ish.
    Uhmm, bt bck to the issue at hand, life isnt a bed of roses, therefore marriage is far from being one aswell. It need work! 24hr round the clock work and it need pple who are willing to mk it work. Bt it could be fun and interesting and all, bt for it to be called a successful marriage, it involves work, commitment, compromise, understanding, and more work. Hope I did not write a typo, before bvs come at me ooo.

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    1. Platinum she can't be more upset about ay than she is about d face she's stuck with,face wey dey make her children call her nanny in public

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    2. Anonymous, I speak fustration into your dead life.

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    3. @anon 14:39 I pray all your cusses be given u in 100folds

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    4. Haha anony, but how do you people say cruel things without feeling one kind?

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    5. Anon14:39 That's just mean. How dare you? Show your face let's see just how pretty you are. Her beauty isn't just skin deep it's from the inside and that's why a lot of us keep coming here including YOU! The beauty of the heart never fades, be like Stella anon!

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    6. Ay why u still dey vix na. Person nor fit follow u play again abeg leave my stellooooo alone oooo and focus on how to build ur marriage. I have seen all ur comment since ooo

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    7. Portable n ideato ur real life situations will continue 2 frustrate u so no point joining issues with maggots.
      Jostified abeg don't lump me wit all u frustrated beings that visit this blog,bitter empty souls like d blogger.This' my 3rd and last time on dis blog,save d responses 4 una lineage

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    8. Stupid anonymous, if u hate this blog so much, what are u doing here? Stella is not our mate. Neither is she your mate. You can't be comparing her to young girls. How is ur mother's face? If your family members are so cute, show their faces. Stop allowing satan to use u. Face d blogs u like n fuck off

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  33. True words there...it's not the fighting that makes you strong, it's what happens after- the understanding, the forgiveness, the renewed bonding, the strength that flows from one to the other oh and the sex. No marriage is perfect...in fact perfection is impossible ( when the people involved are not perfect ) but it can be bliss if both parties work towards it.
    This does not in anyway relate to nor condone abusive relationships & marriages where the fighting no be here.

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  34. Perfect???mine deff isn't...but d bond is forever strong.

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  35. Honestly no marriage is perfect ups and downs and then you blend back. I have a non chalant man who sees little as buy gift 4 u on ur birthday as a big deal lols! Yea been with him 4 10yrs now and am use 2 it to be able to live in peace

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  36. I have been married for 10 years. We rarely fight. My hubby is. Very peaceful. Fights that we have start with me and he will just kiss me and suggest we talk. Not everyone fights in a marriage.

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    1. Your hubby has never gotten angry in 10 years? And he calms you down always? Hes Angel gabbie mehn!!

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    2. I tap into a bliss like yours. You are blessed to have him!!!!

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    3. I tap into a bliss like yours. You are blessed to have him!!!!

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    4. ..Anon 13:44, BVs' may find this hard to believe but it's true. Not all marriages are filled with fights.

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  37. U're right Stella. My marriage isn't perfect..I learn every time i fight with hubby...

    I learn not to say some things, and to be a better person, and act right even though we are "bonning" for each other cos he does't even change when we are fighting he shows his love more.

    In the end, I think it takes u to remain sane and don't let your partner change u negatively.

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  38. Reading comment's, Cos i'm not married yet.

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  39. Hmmm!

    Surprising, because mine is.

    He wakes me up with a kiss, flowers and chocolates each morning, and carries me into the shower, before making me breakfast.

    We take turns with cooking.

    I do the shouting and he does the apologising.

    *pours cold water on myself *


    Earth to,earth to!! Get out of your imaginative brain.


    Lwkmd.

    #WhiteDiamondOut

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    1. Just wait till proper pepper land. When women would not leave him alone. Flowers ko, kiss ni. Wake up and smell the coffee honey. Men change everyday. Till they enter theur grave. Speak to older mature women and learn. No lala land.

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    2. You are just so sad to grab d joke

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  40. Mine ain't perfect.
    She's kinda rude, sometimes i feel regret i marry her
    She never want to listen to corrections.
    Even when she's at force she always want me to say ***SORRY*** everytime.

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    1. No be only force. With ya bad English why she no go dey rude

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  41. No marriage is perfect except for those deceiving themselves...

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  42. There is no perfect marriage. Me and dh fight and we make up.

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  43. It is well. We live to tolerate each other. Na me sabi find trouble

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  44. Hubby and I are so great but my inlaws don't have any joy in them. They believe were deprived of love so much they can't identify one when they see it. They believe I am using juju and heaven knows I never did such thing. I pray for God to restore love in their lIves so they know everything is not jazz.

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  45. Hubby and I are so great but my inlaws don't have any joy in them. They believe were deprived of love so much they can't identify one when they see it. They believe I am using juju and heaven knows I never did such thing. I pray for God to restore love in their lIves so they know everything is not jazz.

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  46. If two people in love never fight then they are seriously pretending.

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  47. All I can say is, I married a good man and I thanks God for that

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  48. Single
    Singlerr
    Singlessssssttttttt










    Sobs*****

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  49. My marriage is very peaceful, we are loyal to each other plus we are great friends. I think the only imperfect thing is that we don't 've enough money as we will want to, cos we hardly quarrel, we always 've our heart to heart talk where we reassure each other about how much we love each other.

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    1. Just because I said we don't 've enough money as we will want to doesn't mean we are broke or that my husband is broke. Save your insult for your husband, you must not reply every post.

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    2. Ideato u shd know as those're d only men dat'll forever look ur way

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    3. Not all broke ass nigga are loyal....some are very arrogant with the poverty! !!

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  50. There's nothing as good as make-up sex.
    Infact I feel like fighting sef.

    But this our Nigerian men,you guys fight. He's at fault and most times u'll still be the one apologising just for peace to reign in the home.

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  51. I have been married for over 2years and I can bodly say that we have never had a quarrel which made us sleep angry. Hubby is so mature that when I start with my tantrums, he will jokingly say that my 'orisha' has started and go to suya spot to buy me suya.
    Once I see his smiling face, I just marvel at his humility.
    Not all couples fight my people.

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    1. Not all couples fight??? What exactly do U call those tantrums of Urs and what exactly led to them. Let us think before we talk.

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    2. Mcshweeeeeeeeeeew come back and comment after two years.

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    3. You have used the right word 'matured' some men are just babies!!!

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  52. @sdk you are a fool walahi. why can't you let things go? must you always clap back? grow up please. @platinum gbam comment.

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  53. Marriage can only be perfect if both see it as a university where you learn each other everyday without quitting.

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  54. Marriage will be perfect is you both understand each other without limits.

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  55. So someone went to church to pray and you brought the story and picture to Stella to achieve what? That's how u will all be asking God to bless you yet don't see result cos all you do is gossip....it is not every story you make public...let some things be

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