Chronicle Of Blog Visitor Narratives...

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NARRATIVE NUMBER ONE

INVESTING WITH LE BOO AND THE WAHALA THAT FOLLOWS

Good day Stella, great work you're doing. As usual, kindly hide my I.D.

There is this guy I was dating: We dated for 3 years plus, he was hoping to settle down with me. I didn't accept his offer (not financially buoyant enough ) and didn't reject it either( because I felt with the right push, he'll be fine). I decided to talk to him to set up a business so he could have another source of income.

Days later, he came up with more than 3 great business ideas but capital was the major issue. Since we were dating (hoping to get married soon) and I could fund his business ideas (I earn more than him), we picked one of the many business ideas he had and I funded it. We agreed I'll be in charge of all the cash made from sales (company account opened and I was the sole signatory, I do all the signing and also monitor money credited and debited) while he will only manage the company with my brother also (just another way of making sure he isn't doing something funny with the money).  

He was totally honest with all by the way, we discuss everything no matter how small and he doesn't make any decision without consulting me first.

As God will have it, the business grew over night with huge money inflow coming into the account, along the line we had a very big issue (irreconcilable differences) and I "sacked" him and my brother took over. 

The issue I'm having now is that he is asking I split everything about the business to 50:50 which I refused, after so much thought I proposed 10:90 ratio, my guy refused and threatened fire and brimstone (lol) that he will sue I and my company. Is 10:90 not okay? 

What do I do? 

Stella, put mouth for this matter oooo.

*Sue wetin?You were not married to him during the time he worked for you so i dont know how the law works concerning that,however for Peace sake i propose you give him 40percent and settle things off..you also didnt state if you both broke and you had to sack him.

Just settle him and get rid of him before it turns nasty..make them no go hurt you oh....you get?

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NARRATIVE NUMBER TWO

WIFE WITH HIGH LIBIDO AND HUSBAND WITH NO LIBIDO

Dear Stella, 

I'm a 34 year-old lady, pretty with all the attributes needed in a woman, I'm one person any man that comes across will wish for. I'm married, the marriage is blessed with 3 kids and I'm a medical practitioner.

Actually, I got to know about this blog 2 weeks ago through my very best friend, we've been friends since our university years. My chronicle is one thing I don't know how and who to talk to because I'm so shy when it comes to things like what I'm about to narrate.

I got married in year 2007 to a wonderful man whom my people cherish so much. Before we got married, we agreed that we'll not have s3x but as body no be firewood, we do every other thing lovers do to climax. His romance was something else. What made me get along without s3x with him is that he heads me very well, wow! I was like " if na only this one, I no need the penetration".

Two days after our traditional wedding, the heat was so much that we couldn't wait for the white wedding anymore to get it done to the fullest. So, after everything, we went back to the city. I noticed he keeps late night which made me cry all through the night. He woke up and saw me crying and told me that it's only hanging out at night he gets to meet with his clients to talk about business. That I should not try to come between him and his guys. He has this bound with one of his male friend that is questionable.

Hmmmm!

In the morning, I called my mum (may her soul RIP). She gave her motherly advice saying he'll still stop such life style that it's because we've just gotten married. My dear readers, I still moved on ooo with him. Then after our 2nd child, I noticed he no longer wants to make love to me not even the head he gives me that made me say YES! 

I did not really flex in the university because I thought I will when I get married because I dey enjoy that thing well with someone I feel for but I still maintained my decency.

I don't believe a man will stay for 6 months without touching his woman with the excuse of stress, not meeting his target, etc. If I make any move towards him, he'll say he's tired. He knows that alcohol makes him unable to perform, it makes his penis not stand for action but he drinks always. I'm this type that if I'm horny and don't get the satisfaction from my man, I won't be happy for days even months. I know your question will be "why didn't I go to him if he doesn't come to me?" yes!  I stopped going to him to make me feel like a woman because he told some of his family members that his wife is always on heat.

I just don't know what to do because I'm not happy again. It's almost 5 months and my man has not touched me and I've been so horny. So many cute guys /men are out there wishing to have me even if it's just for a drink. But I cannot! I need just my man, not that he even satisfies me but..... what can I do? All these makes me wonder if he's gay or seeing over demanding babes. I want to be happy ooo and I'm thinking of giving one sweet guy a chance ooo, 

hmmmmm!

You all should please advise me. Money I NO dey get and not that the money no dey, I take care of all my needs but you need to see how he gives to others and spends in occasions even love making I no de get. I believe there will be a way out after you guys response.  

Thank you. 

Dunno what to say but i think there are some people that naturally do not like s3x...They are not gay but they do not like sex...he is probably one of such....why dont you go to him if he doesnt come to you..like you care that he told his family his wife is always hot?you care?

My dear go and sit on that thing and ride it abeg!.

Note that i dont know what else to say but if however your hormones are too high,you be doctor make you treat yourself...LOL

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