Kai, see beautiful lady. But why ??? . God help us
This is sad. God!
Too tiny, I can't read it. Please where's her family?*Larry was here*
God what is happening?This has now become an everyday activity.What is really going on?
lord have mercy
The problem is that most of them will still go back...All this chronicle senders should learn from dis..Is better u take ur time even if it means marrying @40.Pls,don't marry bcos all ur mates are marrying @ the moment or bcos age is not on ur side.If he hit u once,he will do it over n over again.Common sense is still common
Marriage ooo!The face looks funny sha..babe pele
Chai. Women are suffering and are the architect of their problems You saw the signs but of course he wasn't a broke ass Nigga. I thought it is better to cry on a Maybach than a Toyota.Thank God you've left the beast of a man. Too young a 24 year old lady yo pass through life's trauma. Later y'all will call ladies building a career and developing theirselves while they await a better man Gwezz. Mshw
Chai.. This is really sad..
Hmmmmmmmm painful. Dont know what to say again. What I know is that May God heal your heart and give you the strenght to take care of the little girl.I dont know what is wrong with Nnamdi. A frustrated man and i am sure a BROKEASS IDIOT.Involve the WELFARE in your fight for your daughter.Let me borrow blog visitor words. PEACE OUT
Wow!!! This is really bad. Let's all join hands and say NO to domestic violence.
So Wetin ''consign'' me in this? You saw all the signs and still went ahead probably cis he has money.Maybe at that time, a struggling guy who loved you was there but you overlooked him and went for the money one.You de mad....Neeeeeeext news jooor
Why does this keep happening?
This is sad oooo
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Tina are you with your daughter now?If not....fight for custody.Goodluck.
Nawa. I'll be praying for youBut, how come she suddenly turned black in the other picture?
Sorry dear.He will meet his Waterloo soon.
Hmmmmmm, Good thing you have realized your mistakes and moved on. Thumbs up for staying strong and surviving without him.
Another day, another dv story. Young mothers pls bring up your sons properly so they won't go acting like lord & personal saviour of women folk.Even Jesus won't do this.
Baby mama. When they decided to chop what adults are chopping without protection. If you can't take care of a kid, asin gainfully employed, You have no right having sex with or without protection because anything can happen.
Eyaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaahhhhhhhh....... Wicked man...... Eeeyyaaaaahhhh..... Did you say you married someone who smokes weed, drinks and parties a lot? Omashe oh! Its better than being single right? I know. Eyyaahhhhhh. Stop being silent oh. You hear? Take heart.
So he took the daughter, why dose Nigeria law favours women beater,why is domestic violent so rampant in Nigeria and yet nothing is done about it, any man who hits you once will always do,flee from them
And you just had to bring it to social media, documenting it with proof to ensure your daughter doesnt 4get or resent her dad abi?
Hmmmmm..... Nawa o
Women are speaking up these days and not taking crap. No man has the audacity to hit a woman no matter what she does. Who beats the man when he offends? Take heart and be strong. You are alive and so you have the opportunity to have a better life.
I don't get how a man will beat a woman he once claim he love.... I took an oat and that oat will I stand by, never will I raise my hand on any woman no matter the provocation.
Sad, Sad, Sad.Am glad you summoned up courage to leave the beast alone. Karma has already located him.Please get that child away from him before he starts to molest her as well.It is well.
This is very bad.
Stella na wa o! Woman beating is highly unacceptable. But we should hear both sides before we judge.
Atheist, shut the fuck up! The world needs to know. And I'm sure, one day her daughter will understand. Are u a woman beater?
Is it just me who got so nosey, I had to go check out Mr Exola Inc on facebook??....See what Stella has turned me into, lol.
Abeg I can't chop beatings. I left with my little girl. Two years now, he is yet to see her and I'm not moved. My little girl and I don't know his whereabouts and he doesn't know ours. I doubt if she still remembers her dad sef so for now, No mommy I want to see daddy. Even though things are hard, but I'm at peace with myself. Back to the story, I don't know what to say but so sorry you got beaten. The word Marriage scares me a lot.
Atheist shut the hell up infact I am tempted to call you a fool allow Jesus in your life today coyote ugly piece of shit.
I hate reading stories like this, it leaves me sad
Lord have mercy upon us
Men wey no dey smoke hemp sef,girls still dey beg God join am,talkless of a hemp smoker. Women ,speak up against DV it gives you an advantage.
im not an expert in judging matters i know nothing about... but im an expert in telling people to move on amidst the hurdles... you are pretty and young, dont look for PITY... pick ursef up and keep pushing, God is not sleeping.... i dont care about the story uve told, i care about your safety.... just make sure you are fine... God loves you
I took my time to go through her husband's page he is not remorseful at all in fact he is making it look like the woman deserves what she got(beaten) according to him, she is steadily deleting comments on her facebook that will incriminate her.He apportioned all the blame towards her Smh what a man.
Sometimes keeping quiet is why these things go on and on, they will tell you, you have to bear it for you child's sake, don't talk back wen he is talking even wen he is feeding his friends lies about you in ur presence, don't defend ur self, let God fight for you, all these are our "Africa" or should I say "Nigeria" mentality. Wish I did not make same mistake with d man I married, who has turned himself to God in my life, always threatening to take the children from me as if I never contributed to bringing them to this world. Hmm, someday soon, I will surprise you.
Tell her to leave she no go hear. Abeg I don taya for their matter jooor. If a woman decides to let a man kill her then that's her business.
Did you read what she wrote or you just made up your own story? Where is it stated there that she is a baby mama
Effect of blue & black beating na.
There's always a pained guy who can't deal with rejection, waiting to vent over a domestic violence story.
But you are always one of the first people to call unmarried ladies 'gwemz'. Stop speaking from both sides of your mouth. And i'm married btw
God forbid bad thing o. Ladies pls flee as soon as u see the signs, don't wait until u are married to them. It's not getting married that is the ish, it's staying married!
Nnamdi,eyan Dino Melaye.
Oh Noo, this is what happens when you marry a jerk in the name of a husband. So sorry lady, I pray u get justice and take back your kid with you. God forbid another woman to train my child when am still living.I wish a lot of ladies will learn from her post. So sad
He even went ahead to say that the woman is not worthy to be called a mother.#Dear HeavensWhyAmITrollingThis Page
Lol. Phot filter or makeup
Honey do you have a problem with reading? My people respond wrongly for lack of reading.It is well.
The idiot beast of a husband is defending himself on Facebook o
My dear if you are reading this, please just move on. God is your strength. Its not easy but be strong please.I loosed all, I mean all not even a spoon was remaining. Even my certificates all gone but I have my daughter with me. My daughter is my gain for all the wasted years of being married.
I'm telling you
This is terrible.how could a man beat up a Woman like this? Now I feel so sorry for the cute little girl caught up in this mess. I pray she gets back her beautiful face soon and move on with life.
So Sad! Am New Here, Hope i am welc in.
I couldn't read it CUs it's too tiny buh the pix said it all....this is bad!
Okay,my boyfriend drinks and also smokes but I haven't caught him womanizing,we've been together for two years tho the relationship started as a fling per se.I don't know if he is pretending coz I have d pin to his atm cards,passwords to his fones and laptop,I heard he beats his ex and nakeds her I asked him n he didn't deny but he told me that things changed with me,and that am too fragile to b hit.I nag him to see his breaking point,I shout at him,he apologizes when am wrong n when am right,doesn't do anything without telling me,bought me a car,pays for my vacation abroad but I still think he is pretending...from everything I have heard about him n his ex,he threats me nice n fuvks me right,buh I don want him changing on me,I have locked him outside wen he went to hangout with frnds n came back in the early hours of the morning that he slept in the carbut he doesn't want to quit smoking and drinking even taking codeine....I love this dude so much buh i love my self dat i can't imagine ruining my future's happiness
This is sad 😔
Got married at the age of 21? God! This pathetic. Sorry o.
God punish you! Whoever you are, you are heartless
But they'll be call gweggs na if they decide to take their time till 40 like you said. My point is people should stop shaming the single ladies and guys who are yet to be married cos you just won't understand their plight.
This just so bad. The guy is simple heartless. That lil angel should be taken from him.It is well.
Atheist why should she keep on protecting the evil bastard? Tell me why she shouldn't tell her story so the world can see and learn from it? I pray that girl grows up to resent the bastard forever!! Who gave.him the right to do this to his fellow human being? Na devil go punish am
*Oath dear*Oat is the one we eat
Each time I read things like, I just cant help but shed tears. I dont only cry for the victims, but also for myself. A reminder of what I went through but today I am a survivor. May be if I was resident in NIgeria probably I would not have survived but all thanks to the Swedish govt, Who is allegick to domestic violence especially when there is a child involved. We all know that no one can take care of a child like the mum and that is the reason why irrespective of whatever happen between parent, the mother is always awarded custody of the child in the western world, as long as she has no alcohol or drug problem. Abusive men dont take away children from their mothers because they love and care for that child, noooo! They only do that to purnish the woman for dareing to leave them and they dont care if the child is suffering or not. I just wish the Nigerian govt will do something about domestic violence. Writer if you are reading this, contact the Lagos sate social services, that is if you are resident in Lagos. I just hope you have a good farmily who will stand by you att this difficult time. Just take it easy, this cup is going to pass over. You will survive this.
What brand of oat did you take? Quaker Oat abi Quick Oat? Listen in class and learn proper English, you won't...na to jump on SDK & be opening yansh anyhow
Speechless. I visited the guys fb page, he is so proud of himself.
Biko Nigerian laws doesn't favor "women beater" and there's no such thing as "domestic violent"...it's called domestic VIOLENCE.
God help us
Ada when is the concluding part of your yesterday story?I read it as bed time story for my children n u told them will continue tonight....biko don't let them crucify me
Taking ur time doesn't guarantee sh***, pple should learn to love themselves. If u make up ur mind to leave a husband, Pls cut all ties and communication with him, except u r in a country where there is law and order then u can divorce him and get child support. I broke up with my ex-hubby 6 years ago, I ve neither called nor seen him since then, the day I made up my mind, I left him and I took my child with me, I maintained my phone number and never picked any call from him or his family members. I ve long remarried and moved on with my life, as for my kid he bears my new hubby's name. If my new hubby misbehaved I ll still walk, YOLO...
Wipe tears,it is well,it's a good thing you've moved on. God will remember you.
There is nothing like better man, some women turn men to beasts and turn around to play victim, there is a beast in every human, it takes the devil in another to bring it out.
See fine girl.i just left her fb page.I really hope she gets her daughter back.Ladies don't succumb into pressure to answer Mrs bikonu she admitted she saw the signs and still went ahead.
Very sad.I hope she finds peace.
Sorry for the ass whooping and the resulting kpomo lips but if this man smoked hemp, drank like a fish, partied like he's homeless and to top it off is/was a man whore and you married him at 21, your middle name is "Desperado". In fact you're desperate for a lifetime because you were privy to this alleged nastiness but you foolishly plunged into the relationship which ended in marriage and produced a child
You made the right decision, all is well now. wipe your tears and pray your daughter do better in her choices in future.... Cheers!!!
Number 1 in the shaming of unmarried ladies is giving advice???
Its just the kids that get caught in their mess I feel for. No child deserves to be tormented by the memories of fights and abuse from their parents... Ladies please choose wisely. All that glitters is not gold.
Becky, what does an innocent child have to do with the problems of the parents? The child wasn't there when they were dating and everything was fine. I beg, parents leave the children out of your drama. They deserve to make up their own opinions from what they see.
She shldnt keep quiet oo. It is good dt she said it out loud. So that the man wld feed d child with as much lies as he can fathom and she won't hv any form of defence. Look @Tiwa savage dt is opening her mouth to say she regrets. I am ashamed of her. Even if u want to settle do u think if u had kept quiet ppl wld see u as a good wife? Ppl wld say ur family went to beg him for forgiveness not knowing say n.a. imm own bad pass. Don't let any1 belittle u o
Anon 12.19. I like ur sense of reasoning. Chop knuckle No time to check time
Them never born that man wey go hit me. Only God knows what I will do to him before leaving his sorry assRubbish
@ portable V, funny u never fail to tag single ladies as 'gwez' in all your comments,castigating them like you have their 'destiny' in your hands. Read what is up there, if it was your sister would you have encouraged her to marry that monster. Ladies the signs are always there, no matter the prayer and calling on God to change a man it rely happens.God has given us brain so he can Rest a little.Use it
Any man that lifts his finger against any of my daughters is a dead man, I swear! I will personally kill him!
Any man that lifts his finger against any of my daughters is a dead man, I swear! I will personally kill him!Dead!
Zoom in on your phone nau.So sad.At least,she admitted she saw the signs b4 going in. I'm happy she was able to leave.Once there's life,there's definitely hope.
BA you know this, Dino nani. 80% of married men in Okota and Amuwo Odofin beat their wives, smoke all sorts and club.Nnamdi owns Exola Incs at Milaco Plaza in Ago Palace, and is in the list. Forming big boys on cyber cafe money. Tina is wild too and cannot change him, @21 you are pregnant and was a live in lover, what turns up is fights and fights and 3 years after then you run out of the apartment, and your elder brother is busy typing nonsense on Exola's Facebook, what is all his muscles for. Person mamma your sister you siddon for Facebook dey type nonsense, block the fuckboy for Apple Junction or Century bus stop and destroy his face. Shame on Ukpo people, chicken nyash.
Me too o lol
Na wa. Instead of facing my job. I am looking at Exola Inc. May God help me to stop doing amebo in Jesus name. Amen
Anon 12:19, pls where can i find the like button for your comment?
Click on it. And No she's not asking for help
You need glasses
Amen. Let your Bishop pray for you
Onye asiri, igbagago Facebook page ya? What did you go there to do?? Oji anya acho nwoke! Aunty gwemz
Ano12:14 you are wicked. Kwakwakwwaaaa
Ada, yea I also did. Smh!Biko which story is she talking about? Link pls
Sorry for the beating but you must have seen signs long before now.
Lafresh:have I called u a gwemz before?If u decides to take my comments here serious,then deal with it n pls borrow urself some sense.My comment is not for people like u.Cissy : pls read my comment with ur brain n not with ur anus!Stop looking for who to unleash ur frustration at.
@Becky's Diary.... Thanks@Anon 12:14, I made a mistake, correct me. After all it was just a typographical error. Thanks all the same
@Somebody the child is already involved cos they are her parents!!! The girl should know what an animal her father is, so she can avoid such men in future!I pray Justice is served and the girl ends up with her mother
Anon12.29, so men do not bring out the "beast" in women...? Confirmed molesters and abusers is the lot of you.
U always call them gewgs na...
Atheist hahaha.... u no well atall
Mumu! No go hussle make women sef fight over you... Lazy idiot waiting for a woman to spend her money!
Hahahahha i laugh in Hindu and you are different from his ex because???? Your own day is around the corner babygirl just wait for it... If he doesn't do it now he will do it later... I'm not cursing you but just be alert and ready for anything.. Did he go for counselling? Or the angel of the lord appeared to him and he changed from being a monster to a "nice" guy? I pray you make it my dear.
He will still beat you when the time comes but since he is rich,I will advise you to tame your mouth and don't do those things that will trigger him like the things you mentioned above when you guys gets married!...Pray he doesn't go broke too cos that's when you will see the beast in him!...
Lol.... Gawd anon 13:09 ...your head dey there
Listen to yourself...they never change. Pick up your running shoes and run for your life. He smokes drinks and uses coke and you think he is nice to you?
See nyash opening. Choi. Nnamdi you didn't do well at all
Ada, I'm waiting for the conclusion also. Biko post. Kisses.
Fan Emmanuel ibuakwa ozo. Hohohoho
get a life ASAP
@ portable viv, the brains I have and I use it wella...and am not one bit frustrated.... imp! Guess with your zero grey matter u type easily n forget.The axe may forget but the tree remembers, I ain't no gwez n I ain't single...no noGo suck on d devil's cock....ass licker
With your command of English language, I'd loose you in a minute like a hot potato
Lips sealed.. It's 'gwegs' btw & not 'gwemps' 'gewgs' etc.
It's really sad cos she saw d signs but ignored them.... Just as anon12:13 is claiming dat he's nice meanwhile he takes cocaine n stuffs like dat.. Its a different issue wen we don't see d signs or heard bout their previous excapades,rather than seeing fire yet we put our hands into it n later on regret bout it. Its high time ladies stopped taking their lives for granted..all bcos you wanna settle down or he has money... The bible says that Wisdom is profitable to direct... Really wonder why we take things for granted,especially this precious life dat God has given to us... Rather we use our hands to destroy it.Ogwukwa ka oram Na Onu! A word is enof for d wise!
Hmmmmm.....Dunno what to say. A part of me wants to say" You are counting down to A Mega Showdown!But the other part doesn't. People change. God changes people. Repentance Is real.I hope u seek God's direction. He Wil show u the way.
Madam Portable,you don't even want to learn from this.People are calling you out cos they have noticed you shaming older single ladies.No need to insult people.You could have apologized and moved on but instead you are acting uncultured.Ladies,there is nothing like a marriage built on Christ.May God locate the right one for every one of us.
Many go darker during pregnancy and few months after delivery. That darker pics of hers was a week to the delivery of her daughter
I can never understand men who beat women. Totally unnecessary. The man is a beast
What is wrong getting married at 21 or younger? I married @ 21 when I was in year 2 and Omosexy got married younger 2,d problem is while dating what are d things u look for in a man?u like a man that loves clubbing and u expect him to change when u r married to him or still living in lover,u are d type that likes ur guy to be blinking from head to toe and all all his yans no dey make sense yet u close eye say he will change,my dears dnt let d fact that 9ja eye don open to DV dey change young girls away from marraige,am not in surport of DV but u all saying u can wait till eternity to get married should just starpit,stop consoling una self cuz some of u wasted ur time chasing shadows (career) igbawo Deni maku o ni ku? If u like get married late what will be will be if u r still married to d wrong guy and ladies let's learn to tame our mouth walk away jejeely,dnt wait for beating cuz u want to post on social media.... Stella omo mi forgive for d epistle
@ Debi, I Thoght u said your husband threw you and your daughter out ????? Hmmmm!!!
That was how our mothers kept it a secret till their daughters walked into same shit. My mum was beaten and I personally hate that she didn't ask for help, she's a grandma now but I still ask her today what she has to show for the patience. We would still be her kids today and be more proud if she had stood her ground saving us all the fear and hate and almost depressing feeling I personally had growing up. You get back from school and you can't even eat the lunch offered because your mum's face is battered and she's faking sick or fallen. Your father on the other hand looks angered and rejects his meal or escapes from home for the next 2 days....abeg speak out so we end this shameful act before it turns the next generation to broken messed up adults
And decide to stick to her word "for better for worst till death do me apart"
Am happy I can now comment. I have been sdk BV for more than a year now but I have never comment except today. #dancingalanta#. My God bless this one in a million woman,one with a big heart and an angel to the needy (stella) for me.
She is not a live in lover, they were legally married, traditional and court before she even got pregnant.
Stella Dimoko you have blocked me but Very well then I assume you are more powerful than Linda Ikeji that brought hers down right? the problem with you is that you don't know who your dealing, I will make sure you regret thisOnce again I need this post off your blog I pleaded with you but you seem to be proud if this trouble starts it starts to finish I don't give a damn just for Peace's sake bring it down
Mr Matthew Obasi block u from where?Do I know you before?you sent me an sms begging for a favour and i called u back trying to find out who you were and you sent me to voicemail and sent an sms that you would prefer to talk on sms,i dont do sms so i ignored you and the next thing you sent an sms threatening me to bring this down before 12noon today of Nigerian time or you will sue..you a blogger to sue me?The tina lady called me this morning sounding really rude and ORDERING ME TO DELETE THIS POST BECOS OF HER CHILD,I told her i couldnt talk and was very busy to call back and the next thing was the threat from you.Please go ahead and sue me.go ahead with your threat....I am here.
Mrs korks.....I have got love for you!!? ,#muah!Mathew Obasi, Okisabinigwe pogwa gi oku!
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