Tatafo is greeting una oh!
Some women sha! Where person wan take start this story today ooo?
Please lend me your ears. Especially those of you who live abroad and are in search of "greener pastures".. Biko shine ya eyes very well and carefully choose whom you journey with.
If you are too desperate for anything, some people will use that opportunity to hold your destiny bound without any remorse.
If you think Tatafo is yaning okpata as usual, oya read for yourself and be the judge.
This is the story of a 40 year old man who lives in London. A very hard working guy, very handsome, polished, educated, very cool headed and humble. He's been living here in London for over 10 years. Never been in any kinda trouble, minds his business, and is far from being the attention seeking kinda London lad. He was lucky to secure a job in a good establishment where he makes cool cash.
(.....Whistling.. S n M in disguise.....)
He is a southern Nigerian whose folks also live in the U.K. This guy had a girlfriend with whom he has a child. The child recently turned 10, meaning, he has been dating his baby mama for so long.
Now to the koko of this tory.....
The man and his baby mama, for reasons you'd soon find out, didn't marry themselves legally. But they lived together as a couple. And together they looked after their adorable child. More so, the guy loved his child so much that everyone wondered if he could ever live a day without the child. He was a dotting father who ensured that his child lacked nothing. He worked so hard that he put the child in one of the most expensive private schools in West London.
For this reason, everyone around him applauded him for being a responsible father. He was a pacesetter for his friends.
But the only thing that was/is lacking in this man's life, which often makes him unhappy at the peak of his promising career, is the fact that he is an illegal immigrant. Not only him, his live in lover and the mother of his child was also illegal. Hence, you now understand why both couldn't seal their union legally in the U.K.
However, from the earlier days of their relationship, they had a plan. The plan was that since they welcomed a child together, they both agreed that once the child turned 10 they'd be able to file for the 3 of them. Father, mother and child. As is the law in the U.K that if both parents aren't British, and they have a child in the U.K, you can only get naturalised once the child turns 10 if you've lived in the UK uninterrupted.
Hmmmmmm!!! The story continues..
So in view of the proposed plan and agreement between the duo, they were highly expectant. Their future together seemed brighter after all. And as their child drew closer to clocking 10, excitement enveloped them. But the excitement for one of them would soon be terminated abruptly.
A few months to the child's birthday, as planned, it was expected that they had to prepare for the process of filing for their papers. After their lawyer intimated them on the protocol, the mother of this child suddenly became withdrawn from her partner of many years.
** Na so the babe begin para.. and guy man begin wonder wetin dey happen**
To cut the very long story short, this lady came home one day, and suddenly, she revealed to this guy that the child he had nurtured for 10years was NOT his child.
YES, you read me right. Whosai??
This suddenly reminds me of what one of my amebo friends once told me.. that if all men in this town were to secretly carry out DNA tests on their children.. Ewoo.. tory for another day.
Anyway, back to the matter...
Here was a child that his entire family dotted over, the only child he thought he had at age 40+, one he invested on and paid through his nose to send to a private school, one he stayed up most nights to watch over whilst she ran a fever... that same child he waited to turn 10 so to be the "angel" that'll give him and the mother the long overdue legal status that they anticipated in a foreign land, now that same baby was suddenly no longer his child??
My People, guy man nearly wan craze.... 10 years wasted just like that.
What made the man more bitter was the sudden change in the attitude of his supposed live in lover. She was not remorseful at all, she gave no tangible explanations as to why she deceived this man for so many years. She even went ahead to file for her papers without this man who had been her financial support until that point.
She claimed that she wanted to save him the public embarrassment of carrying out a DNA test as would have been required by the home office.. because she knew what the result would be. Hian!!
Na so this man take turn mumu for house oh. The man mama and him sisters begin cry dey pity am. The girl quickly packed her things and left his house without apologies. He became depressed. But few months after, he met a single mother of 2kids who was British.
Hmmmmmm... another waka come begin..
He narrated his ordeal to this single mother of two, she was sympathetic of his plight and she gave him her shoulder to lean on. Being a good looking guy that makes cool cash, naturally, the single mom found him irresistible. Soon enough, with her help, he started to get over his heart break and disappointment. He found respite in this new friend and her kids. They became his new family. Then he started to extend his financial benevolence to the kids of his new "friend".
She saw how soft hearted and vulnerable this guy was, and how much he started to love her kids. He paid for their frequent holidays abroad, gave the lady his credit card to shop with etc. She was a spender without apologies. She became comfortable and couldn't believe her luck. Truth is, he loved her genuinely and asked nothing of her other than to be loved in return.
Hmmmm... na so guy man take enter another second chance o. His mumu bottom was on flick. This girl attached a lot of conditions to their relationship even though she agreed out of her own volition to help naturalise the guy in the U.K. One of her conditions was that she didn't want any more kids.
But the guy wanted his own children nah. Na here the matter take get kleg.
What is he to do. He's not only after papers but wants a genuine family. One would think that this lady would also be happy to have found a genuine guy who took her in with her "baggage". This lady likes the guy, the attention she gets, the love he shows her kids, and of course.. the "cool Benjamins" that comes with the package.
Suddenly, things took a drastic twist between them. But lemme stop the gist here for now. The story continues.
Btw Tatafo has his consent to share the story.
Meanwhile shine ya eyes people. I don tell this man say I go enrol am put for the next edition of SDK' struggle to mingle.. abi how una dey call am?
Stella baibayy, attached are his pictures for YOUR EYES ONLY oo. I can't shout.
Tatafo is out
*Ogbele oh...the guy is HOT!!!...Na this kind hot man fall mugu double times so?..but wait oh,what is wrong with him that as fine as he is no woman?....hmmmm and tatafo you single oh,so i dey wonder why you nor apply?abi na your bwoda in Christ?
Please bring us the concluding gist.....
Hail the Bros for members of BVN.