STAND ALONE NARRATIVE..
MARRIAGE AND PREGNANCY ISH
Hello Stella, I will try my best to summarize my story.
I am a young lady who recently got married in August and also passed out from NYSC on 6th of this month, God has been faithful as he blessed us with the fruit of the womb immediately after marriage and I had to travel down to where I was serving for my Nysc, the journey was quite rough due to bad road and immediately I arrived I had to rest as prior to this time I was treating malaria, that same day was our POP dinner which I attended though it ended late but I could not be the only one left in my lodge so I waited till friends were ready to leave.
Fast forward to when I returned I got home sicker than I was as the driver was rough and I could not shout to tell him I am pregnant, hubby was at work as at when I arrived as he usually closes late due to the nature of his job with the state I was in that moment I could barely climb the staircase and when I entered our house I fell on the bed(due to cramps n malaria).
I then texted hubby to please eat at work as I could not cook perhaps he didn't see the message but he got home and was angry at me(despite how sick I was) I then told him I needed to go to the hospital and it was late so we agreed the next morning.
Next morning he got up drank tea and told me he would come back by 10 am to take me to the hospital (I was angry as he didn't understand how I was feeling) my dad called and hearing my voice he got worried and after some discussions he suggested to call my inlaw and tell him that if Dh is busy (since they also know d nature of his job) that if they can permit I come home so my mum can take care of me being first pregnancy I should need assistance and all.
Hubby got angry hearing from his dad what my dad had suggested to the point that my dad told me to tell my husband to call him and my hubby said he won't call my dad as my dad has lost his respect by suggesting I go home for my mum to take care of me, he even told his dad that if he calls my dad he will insult him, my parents are worried as am usually all alone from 7am till 8pm or later in my condition.
Did my dad do wrong?
Is hubby right?
Am so confused as I feel hubby is not understanding my situation, I barely eat, he just wants me to take the drugs he bought for malaria and typhoid, who takes drugs without eating? In pregnancy, am I being annoying or lazy? Our marriage will be 2months on 20th this month.I had to summarize using my little saved up energy (will welcome advice too for early n first pregnancy).
DO NOT TAKE ANY DRUGS BOUGHT BY YOUR HUBBY WITHOUT THE APPROVAL OF THE DOCTOR AND IF YOUR CASE GETS WORSE AND YOU REALLY NEED SOMEONE TO LOOK AFTER YOU,CALL YOUR PARENTS TO PICK YOU UP PLEASE!