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Thursday, 22 December 2016

Actor Explains Why He Broke Up With Baby Mama - Lists Social Media As One Of The Reasons..

Na wah oh...I wonder how she will feel reading this interview...



Nollywood Yoruba actor, Lolade Mustapha Sholagbade, popularly known as Lolade a.k.a Lolly Boy, was a live-in lover to make-up artist, Dewunmi Fatai, who is also an upcoming actress. They had a baby boy, Ramaddan, six months ago but the relationship seems to have crashed irretrievably.Known to be best of friends, it’s surprising that they never wedded. In this interview, Lolly Boy opens up on what led to the break-up



What really happened between you and Dewunmi Fatai?

I have been hearing people calling her my wife which is not true. We are not married yet, she just got a baby for me whom I can’t deny but nothing else is attached to it. She was a good friend to me before the issue of the pregnancy set in and as a responsible man, I summoned the courage to see it as my cross and I decided to take it. She is a good friend and a good colleague.

From the start, we were just friends but along the line the baby came in. Later, I foresaw it that the relationship may lead to a good place and I cautioned myself. When the issue of the pregnancy came up, it was a shock because we were not on good term because we weren’t talking for months but I accepted my fate. Later on, I made up my mind to go for her and marry her but as the popular Yoruba adage has it, “Eyan ti Antori e Gbawe Ti o J’san” literarily in other words, means she is not worth it. I wanted to make things work out between us but she is not ready. I wanted to marry her but there are things she does which I don’t appreciate and I called her attention to it. I believe if there is true love we should be able to iron out thing among ourselves.




Why did you now change your plans to marry her again?


Actually, we were yet to start the planning neither did we cancel anything, my mother wanted me to marry her and due to what my mum was hearing about her, she wanted to change her mind and I made my mum understand that she shouldn’t listen to what people are saying about her. I said, ‘Dewunmi is a good person.’ I tried to protect her image in the presence of my family members but unfortunately, she revealed her real person to my mum herself. Yet, that didn’t stop me from holding the Nikkai wedding with her but she was rude to my mum not once or twice in my presence and this got me upset before I laid my hands off her. I can’t say it all but that was the height of all. I believe we are not compatible; God only wanted a child between us. After the child, I got carried away with the love I had for the baby but she unfortunately used her hand to kill the love I had for her in my heart due to her character and she is not ready to change and I can’t marry such person.




Apart from being rude your mum, was there any other things that changed your mind?



I found out that she didn’t have true love for me and she only wanted a child and now she has accomplished her mission. I don’t know her plans about the child or what I can bring out as what she wanted from me before the baby came. But when the child stuff came up she changed her attitude towards me. She started denting my image all around and people do tell me. When I confronted her, she denied it and I later found out that all they said are real. She did the same to two of my family friends which nearly split us. After the whole thing, I said before she ruins my life, I should let her be while I also stay on my own. I will give all it takes to bring up my child but as for his mum, it’s over between us. I didn’t sit her down to tell her this but I made my decision in silence.



Did you catch her with another man while you were dating?


I didn’t but there was a time we fought before the baby came, and when we reconciled, I asked her if she has found a man and she was like I shouldn’t bother and I am a kind of person who trusts and falls in love easily but once the person messes up, I will never look back. Nobody can change my mind again, I can only listen to you but what I will do is within me. Her stress was too much for me which I couldn’t take any more. After the baby, I learnt she has gotten another boy friend which is none of my business because she has her life to live. As far as my son is okay, I am fine. She will eventually marry someone someday. The baby was 6 months old, this December. At a time, I told her to stop posting the photos of my son on social media or parties and her response was what is my business with that, she said she can take my son to her own boyfriend’s house! I was shocked but it is normal. It’s just that it is too early to start doing such when our child is not even up to 6 months.




We learnt that you were staying together, how factual is that?

That is true, when she was pregnant; I was catering for her despite the fact that we didn’t have a smooth relationship because there were lots of fights and quarrels. She rained curses on me a lot which I still have some evidence of that at hand. I prayed to God that if it’s true that I related with her with one mind, her curses shouldn’t have an impact in my life and I thank God for that. After the 41 days, she wasn’t calling and that passed a message. I also didn’t call her because I have sealed up my mind but a real woman keeps her home. After all, they claim to own the house. We stayed together for that period she was pregnant. 


As a responsible man, I did that to stay with her till she delivered. Till date I am still taking care of my child but I don’t have interest in his mum again. I can say it all because it will look like I am exposing my baby mama which I won’t do. So, just let me stop here.

From City People Magazine


*If the baby mama reads this and feels she wants to respond,I am open to interviewing her.
Thank you.

108 comments:

Loveme Jeje said...

hahahahaha i am waiting for robust reply from baby mama 1

shaybee said...

Dis man just dey act like woman...smh













coming....

Becky Divine said...

He is an idiot!
She's a fool for thinking she can tie him down with pregnancy

Anonymous said...

Dis guy is very cool headed in all his movies i hv watched,anyway ther is no smoke wtout fire,untill we hear frm his baby mama,dt is wen i can kno who to blame

Biojay said...

Hmmmm Stella the senior aproko of Nigeria (SAN)

I need a job, I am qualified and experienced.

LADY PRESTIGE BEADS.08034205152 said...

Lol @you are ready to interview her.SDK,onye Oru.

Chidinma Grace said...

See gobe o!

Anonymous said...

"she was a good friend to me before the issue of pregnancy set in and as a responsible man i summoned courage to see it as my cross".......lol,dear yoruba actor,responsible men no dhey fuck girls and give girl belle wey dhem never marry.....men be donating sperm up and down..and gullible girls are busy receiving the donation of sperm.....

JSBunny said...

No woman changes overnight without a reason. He didn't give any reason why she did. And he didn't say anything bad about himself. Hmm. Ok oo let's hear her side.....

Audrey said...

What kind of stupid interview is this? You are far from being responsible Mr man. You didn't have a smooth relationship, yet to sleep together to the extent of having a baby. I don't blame you sha, I blame that woman that foolishly gave herself to you. Awon chew gum boys.

Adanne said...

And life continues... I don't even know why people grant interview over relationship matter.

Anonymous said...

Stupid boy,grow up,what kind of rubbish talk is this,"she is not my wife and I don't know why people are calling her my wife" you did nikkai wedding with her,ohhh boy that is called being married in the Islamic way you hear,that means she is your wife.you just made this story all up to make her look like she is the bad one and you got no fault in all these at all.why would she be raining curses on you if you didn't do anything wrong to her???you claimed she insulted your mum,now that is really bad,but what was the case that made this sort of thing happened?your mum must have been frustrating her,some mother inlaw's can be so horrible.i know it's wrong for her to insult your mother,she could've handled that differently....to make all these your talk even worst was that part you said you were not officially dating before the pregnancy,you were friends,but it was ok for you to be sleeping with her without condom,clap for yourself ok,as a friend with prick benefits that you IS.you better start working harder to take good care of that baby.i think it's money issues that caused this whole problem between you two,you can't provide enough for the woman and her baby,but your ego won't let you face the truth instead you decided to paint her bad.na una sabi jare,actors,musicians na who no know una dey leave tohtoh for una fuck cos una can like fuck upandan and born pikin everywhere.######I'll be back to read comments,make i go dress up enter this cold go do my xmasπŸŽ„ shopping,no parking for city even if I pay congestion zone charge.bus ride lo sure.winks

Babesarise said...

Madam, please do not keep quiet. Since this man has decided to take your case to the court of the public, please make sure you put your side of the story out there. Very irresponsible men everywhere. Tufiakwa! After you will wonder why your children don't talk to you. Mtscheeew!!???!!!

SHILZ said...

What else is there to expose again kwani!waiting for her reply

Bims said...

He talks too much.

All.I can deduce is what most of us Yoruba girls go thru - mother/ family of the boy rule the home and want you to bow to them.

Oga talkative, you are still a boy. Not yet mature for marriage. Its evident from all the perambulating stories you're telling.

If I'm the chic, I would never say a word!

Fierce of SDK blog said...

After reading "she just got a baby for me" I got tired. What is wrong with some people?

@DGoldenJenny said...

They are not just compatable
The guy sounds selfless and I believe the lady(baby mama) is not as bad as we may be thinking.....the main thing here is that they don't understand each other.

Anyways. Just take it easy and resolve whatever the issue here is amicably.

PEACE

blogprincess said...

Shey this oloriburuku wey anoda yoruba actress born for 3yrs ago... the babe name is Juwon..shes based in d UK. i remember when dz dewunmj gave birth middle of dz yr, na so so drama on this guy's page on IG insulting d other baby mama in UK.. awon were jatijati..

Gorgeous Lilian said...

They are very free to go their separate ways.Love No bi by force.

Anonymous said...

Why is this tribe shameless? No shame at all. See what a "man" is spewing! This people no dey get secret sef?

PL THE GREAT said...

Lmao @the baby came as a shock. Bros did the baby appear from nowhere or did the baby fly into ya babymama belle at midnight? Yeye nigga!

And oh, you held a nikkai with her. Meaning that the both of you actually got married. So why retain that babymama title?

Anonymous said...

Mtschww, so this one sef dey get baby mama, baby mama don become pure water, nawa o.but the.babe fine sha,abi na makeup, anyway she fine makeup or not. Guy hustle hard no babe wanna stay with a broke niqqa now, I said now, cos I did in my days and it pays me big time, cos I'm now enjoying my reward like ant wey dem put inside sugar

Beloved said...

Just Negodu

Ebony Ama said...

Stupid man. Women keep on opening ur smelly P for all des Fuck boys.

KING Nwa AMAKA said...

Which other exposing are you talking about. You have finished the exposure.

Biodun funke said...

This one na small boy explanation

Cyndilicious said...

Who has strength πŸ˜πŸ˜‚

stephan said...

Ndi nka sef.mtcheew

Jasmine said...

Dude is a talkative!!!

peace maker said...

Abegi there is nothing like Nollywood Yoruba. It is called Yorubawood.Let's not create unnecessary confusion pls

Intelligentsia princess said...

Just imagine this ugly pekemesi spilling rubbish. When did our naija guys start acting like faggots? Gosh! An average naija dude now talks more than an average naija gal. Nawa.. Women have suffered. Imagine who is dumping somebody. I can't even touch him with ten feet pole.mtcheeeew.
Run along sissy!!!

Aya Williams said...

So this guy sef don turn baby papa,So all this ones u said is not exposing abi?

Ibukunoluwa said...

Lolly
This was too much
I love u too much for all these

Iphie dearie said...

Lolly boy????
How do I get my time back??πŸ™†πŸ½‍♂️πŸ™†πŸ½‍♂️πŸ™†πŸ½‍♂️πŸ™†πŸ½‍♂️

Jennie82 said...

This guy is so irresponsible!


*Jus observing*

Kenny More said...

You did Nikkai with her and yet you claim you are not married, so what is the meaning of the Nikkai. All this uneducated people that are out there and we think stories of their lives make headlines is degrading.

nnuku Sexy pant-like boxers. 08170506432 Order now said...

Walks away 🚢🚢🚢🚢
And to think I wasted my time reading this bull crap.
The baby cane as a shock? Really boy? Boy bye!!!

nzube izuu said...

Akuko umu chewing gum boys! Ndi apari!

SWAG LAFRESH said...

He was watching TV then the baby appeared. Oloshi

Anonymous said...

I had to copy this link and use my phone's browser to comment. Abi eleribu ni boda yi ni? Dem knack am paent for head abi nah yansh of fowl he chop? See this way he is just blabbering like tap wey no get control. Nah wa o. Baby daddy weerey.
#Missfit

Anonymous said...

Lol

Anonymous said...

Me sef tire, the idiot needs to grow up. I hope his babymama ignores the fool.

Anonymous said...

And this idiot calls himself a man, I haff laff tire.
What is this babypapa fool talking about? He did Nikkai and says the lady is not his wife but when the going was good he was chopping her for free and anytime.
You need to grow up idiot and stop granting interviews because of the innocent child involved.
I hope the lady ignores him.

Anonymous said...

God he said she didn't want him again after she got the baby. You guys are so obsessed with this man thing. Always thinking a woman wants the man

Spicy April said...

Yes oooo. Not all with manhood is a man o. Negodu

Anonymous said...

Any foolish act is always likened to women. You people should stop rubbish talk abeg. He is acting like a foolish man, period.

Anonymous said...

Ds is why i dont subscribe to pregnancy before marriage,dont know when girls would stop thinking with their hormones.the guy be forming responsible guy,until i hear the girl's part of the story before i can judge.

Sorry to digress,why are all these S&M guys behaving like jerks..i added like 4(as a MAN-izer dt i is) and they were nothing to write home abt.the last one whom i have curbed the urge to delete is demanding a video call or we wont b cool..say whaaat??? So ,because you are based in d abroad,i should waste my mtn overpriced mb on you??.anty stella,i think you need to speak sense to the retarded muscle headed bufoons who drop their details on single and mingles..jus cos a girl sends you an invite doesnt mean "a cry for help" some people like me just like meeting new faces..NOTHING ATTACHED

In another news,my wedding plans would start rolling from january,Jesus take the wheel

Anonymous said...

Same story with my ex husband. Told all lies about his baby mama.i had no clue they were still fucking. He would travel nd go fuck her. That is why I advice women to check their hubby's fones. Maybe by now I would have contacted one disease. Married for six years nd was constantly lied to by this fool. He would slander her nd I was the one pleading he sends his son money nd was also encouraging this lady little did I know they were fucking.snooping saved my assignment and I LEFT!!!!! I'm sorry oh not every woman can eat shit. I took my kids and dashed him his 'Mrs' .If it's Mrs that will make me contact Aids then you can keep the title for me. Today I am absolutely happy looking robust frushhhh fine! Same man who doesn't last in bed 'nd I was there being patient. I had no idea his numerous girlfriends have used his prick to tie firewood it become useless in marriage. Lol

Jagaban said...

Have you seen someone talk bad about himself/herself during interviews or chronicles???

Jagaban said...

A relationship remains a private thing...whether in good terms or bad terms...why disclose wat happened btw themselves...thats BS..

Jagaban said...

You get sense....Silence is the best answer...why disclose wat happened btw them??? Na small pikin brain he get..

Sweet Lolly said...

OK Oh

temitope bunmi said...

you dont want to talk so it wont be like u exposing her abii,
after uve finish d poor girl 100% fault is from her abi just negodu for u,mama ramaddan pls dont die in silent pls reply him and wash his own dirt too i hate guys like dis you cant evenkeep quit cause of ur son, what they dont know is that the internet never forget how will d boy feel when he grow up and then come across this interview in d future aspa bad mouthing his mother very silly somebody tueh

Anonymous said...

Falls in and out of love easy...when a child is bored,a child is bored

Anonymous said...

Shut up!!! All tribes have fuck boys

DonMayor said...

Not all family rule. They can only rule if the guy give room.

Anonymous said...

And this idiot calls himself a man, I haff laff tire.
What is this babypapa fool talking about? He did Nikkai and says the lady is not his wife but when the going was good he was chopping her for free and anytime.
You need to grow up idiot and stop granting interviews because of the innocent child involved.
I hope the lady ignores him.

Esther Olufuwa said...

Like seriously? I can't imagine a man spilling the beans like this. Your mouth na tap? This man just dey 'jabo' anyhow. Anyways, wetin concern me? Biko, na work I dey find. I wan relocate to Abuja

DonMayor said...

This interview is unnecessary my guy. Everything shouldn't be on the internet.

Isaacson said...

lol tnx for making me laugh

Anonymous said...

Compatable????

Chidinma Gift said...

This one na fuck boy

Chidinma Gift said...

Did you read the interview at all? She no wan tie am down she just want a baby

World People said...

YORUBA DEMON

sense world said...

Heard ds is the 3rd baby mama

Monkey Face said...

* kneels down *
Baba God,
Please, ibeg you. In my life,May I never meet a man as foolish as this one who just granted this interview.**

* ends prayer*
What nonsense is this? I will take everything he has said with a full bag of salt. This dude has got a BIG mouth and it is obvious he is lying

Women, girls, children!!
When they tell us to close our legs, shey we no dey gree?
Now see how this lady has tied her destiny to that of a loud mouthed man
Mtcheeeeeeeeeew

sense world said...

Ohh uncle flavour nko?

Monkey Face said...

Don't mind the PERFECT ozwor

Monkey Face said...

Aswear***
I am truly pissed

sense world said...

Sebi dey are well known and making money, not begging unlike u. Jezz grow up

Monkey Face said...

I bet you the lady did NOT insult his mother!
Dude is just a f**kboy
Shikina

sense world said...

Fuck boy, vomiting rubbish

sense world said...

Cool headed? But hez acting na, script things.

Anonymous said...

But some men act like women just as some women act like men.

Anonymous said...

The man's mouth is leaking, e dey run like tap.

Anonymous said...

He is not considering that his son will one day grow up to read this.

Anonymous said...

Baby mama don't bother replying this nonsense from your baby daddy.

Anonymous said...

Don Mayor is right here.

Amacastel said...

This guy is the total description of irresponsible man. Na wa ooo wonder what this pretty lady see in him, okporoko

PL THE GREAT said...

Swag stopeeeeeet. πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚

PL THE GREAT said...

Just rewind the clock. πŸ˜†πŸ˜†

Anonymous said...

Hahahahaha,she wanted to say compachair not only table.

Mosi Jubelo said...

Anon 20:07 lol

In this life, there are always two sides to a story.
I can't and won't kill myself over an infidel or irresponsible man. In these days of STDs, I have said it, I will snoop till I get tired and if I discover my DH is cheating, I'll just jejely leave. I cannot comman go and kill myself over anyone. I'm too precious to waste like that. I'm faithful and I expect you to be.
All these type of men are the ones that have serious issues. They'll paint the lady as a wicked witch meanwhile they are the ones who have serious issues.

I'm sure you did something rely bad to her, that's why she doesn't want you again. Let her live her life.


Madam, if it's true you have a BF, there's nothing wrong there o but allow your body to rest that's if the action has started again.

Anonymous said...

Adonbilivit!!! Na how them take train this one sef? Get me thinking that na like this all yorubas be if no be say I don meet a few who rep the Yoruba nation wella.

Anonymous said...

But seriously, Anon 17:40 is saying the truth only a tiny fragment of that tribe know how to use their brain take coordinate their mouth. This is the thing that makes me live my life with little regard for them kind. Although I have met some of the credible ones too and I loved them.
Anon 17:40 is talking about the use of mouth una these anonyMOUSES dey take anoda thing. Sha una know say na confirmed talk bah.


Marjorie

Anonymous said...

Na snitch d guy be!!!

Anonymous said...

Looooolz @ April
The container and the content no be mate.


Marjorie

Janelle said...

Another Yoruba Demon.Na their way.

Anonymous said...

Dude should marry his mother!!! I am sure the baby mama doesn't want him so na just mouth him dey make.

Anonymous said...

@Anonymous 19:58 You are an irresponsible lady and I pity for your unfortunate fiance.
You added 4guys on SnM and even admitted that you are a flirt (Manizer as you call it) yet you have the dirty guts to play holy?
You are a peice of sh1t...
let me even ask, what is wrong in a guy you have been chatting with for a couple of days/weeks asking you guys do video call? Tell us. What is wrong... Except you have given him a false impression of your ugly and bitter self.
Most of us ladies come here to call guys "fuckboys" but we are dirty women just like this unfortunate anonymoue 19:58.
Why would you even participate and start leading guys on when you are engaged?+
Please curb your excesses before you give your fiance HIV. Thief

Chinny Baby said...

You are just a fuckboy

keke driver said...

"she just got a baby for me whom I can’t deny"....This dude is daft...Ladies be careful who you say yes to...What rubbish

Anonymous said...

Shefau (known as Dewumi) is Oloriburuku and the guy Mustapha is so stupid and too cool headed for not stating the main reason for leaving this razz girl. Mustapha left Dewumi 7 days after the naming ceremony because she was sleeping
and messing around with Seun Egbegbe (known as the IPhone's thief). Half of the people in the industry knows about this story too ......
She is nothing but a trouble maker, and a hoe she shows no regard to her mother in-law even to the guy himself. She talks to the guy anyhow. Were gidi ni omo yen And for this individuals commenting rubbish, Dewumi will never spend money on any man hehheπŸ˜€πŸ˜€, lai lai, never. She played as the victim posted lots of false rumours on social media.....

Anonymous said...

I heard she was sleeping with SEUN Egbegbe after claiming they are brother and sister, hmmmmm

Anonymous said...

Dewumi is Oloriburuku and this Mustapha guy is so stupid and too cool headed for not stating the main reason for leaving this razz girl. Mustapha left Dewumi 7 days after the naming ceremony because she was sleeping
and messing around with Seun Egbegbe (known as the IPhone's thief). Half of the people in the industry knows about this story too ......
She is nothing but a trouble maker, and a hoe and she shows no regard to her mother in-law even to the guy himself. She talks to the guy anyhow. Were gidi ni omo yen And for this individuals commenting rubbish, Dewumi will never spend money on any man hehheπŸ˜€πŸ˜€, lai lai, never. She played as the victim posted lots of false rumours on social media

Anonymous said...

You guys are so quick to judge, May God forgive you all

Anonymous said...

Na so I hear o, sey she dey sleep with Seun Egbegbe. Lol she wan be like all this her big sisters, she wan drive big cars too and she knows sey the baby daddy is too broke to buy her one πŸ˜ƒ

Anonymous said...

Please go back and read the interview, he said he was willing to do the Nikkai, they ain't married yet, which means she is not his wife hmmmm I feel bad for this guy, she said she will ruin him, and I guess it's working

Anonymous said...

Quiet ke?, she granted an interview about how she dumped the guy before Nikkai about 2 weeks ago. This is getting ridiculous, won sha fe ba aye guy yi je ko da o, eberu olorun

Anonymous said...

Dewumi Iyawo ole!! Nothing is hidden in the Industry, we all know what is really going on. I don't think the guy know about this interview, Dewumi you know you are wrong for doing this!!! Lolade left after finding out that you have been sleeping with Seun Egbegbe all because you want to change your car!!!!!.
You and Egbegbe claimed to be brother and sister but you are fucking! Eranko ni e o.... Lolade changed his name because he was scared, the baby his not his and his too broke to do DNA, I am ready to show facts and envidence about Dewumi and Seun Egbegbe's relationship, if it's needed. Stop covering her Lolade, your child will understand when his old enough

Anonymous said...

This is not new jor, they broke up 6 months ago, I was there when this yeye baby mama slapped the guy for public. I was really surprised, fear catch me sef and the didirin guy just walked away. Lol I can't slap my younger brother like that. They was arguing about not having the baby's picture on Instagram. The baby mama was so loud and arrogant. She wasn't listening to anybody. The guy was really calm o #Just saying my own o

Anonymous said...

Please do your findings before writing your bull-shit, don't involve my elder sister in this mess, Dewumi was behind the first blackmail and she is the Oloriburuku, she was giving up her pussy to dem dirty nasty Yoruba movie producers. She lied on my sister o, if I ever set my eyes on her, she is going down

Anonymous said...

Anony, keep posting different stories o! You hear? As if we all don't know that you are the same person trying to look like different people making comments. Mcheew! I don't know these 2 from anywhere but this boy is still a useless boy to be granting an interview like that. He's giving a lot good Yoruba men a very bad name. What an embarrassment to his kind

Anonymous said...

Gangan See Karma, this same girl nearly beat me up because she met me at egbegbe's place few months and I was there for business, this tea is hot hehe, she left her newborn with her mother and rushed down to fight me because she was told I was sleeping with egbegbe hehe esin e re

Anonymous said...

Yeah he is very calm, that is why she was taking advantages of that, riding him like a horse, She knew he will be too scared to leave her due to the first blackmail. She was treating him bad and manipulating him. Pele lollyboy, Dewunmi is not ready to marry, she is not ready to be submissive. I know they won't last anyways

Anonymous said...

Haha you are so funny, @gullible girls are busy receiving the donation of sperm, hahhahahhaha that cracks me up, but jokes apart I told this baby mama to blend her makeup very well on one of her picture on Instagram come and see gobe o. She cursed my mama and papa including my generation, chai her mouth is really bad, so I believe this story

Anonymous said...

Dewumi they have exposed you on Instagram so stop asking your friends to comments rubbish... Asiri e ti tu

Anonymous said...

Its so funny, cos it's the same anonymous posting different stories.
Ha ha ha.

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