Stella Dimoko Korkus.com: The Meeting Point -21

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Friday, 2 December 2016

The Meeting Point -21

Choi,sweet story!





Hi Stella, your blog adds so much colour to my day. I love u too much jor.
So actually met hubby when I was six years old.( I know right!) Though I don't remember the day at all he tells the story all the time of that first day he saw me he was just strolling around the village it was xmas period (we are both from the same villa) and suddenly a little girl(me) ran out from a compound carrying 2wine bottles filled with sand and looking really worried, I said I was looking for my sister and cousins who were supposed to go and bring the ingredients we were to use to cook our "sand sand" food lol! 

(Christmas was the best time ever for us as kids).


 He asked me my name i told him then ran past him as I told him my mum would beat me if she saw me talking to a stranger. He said his cousin later told him about my family and all.


Fast forward to eight years later when I was 14, another xmas again in villa, I was strolling around enjoying the feel of nature as it was always so serene and beautiful and then I saw him with his cousin, he walked across the road to me and said hi. we got talking, he told me his name and family I (knew the family as it was a prominent one. So I was relaxed) 

We exchanged numbers after our walk. And I really enjoyed our talk even though I was forming hard to get.lol.


Some days later I was shocked to see him in my house gisting and laughing away with my mum. My mum introduced him to me as so-so and so's son. He even pretended he hadn't met me before and just said hello to me and they resumed their talk.


Later that day I asked my mum if we were related. She said we weren't, that that day was the first day she even met him said that he just walked into the compound and introduced himself coincidentally my mum said his mum was her classmate in Uni and since it was Xmas she invited him and they just hit it off like that. (My mum can gist for Africa eh). So that was how he started coming around and getting close to the family.



After the yuletide season we all went back to our Base. We continued talking over the phone for months. Omoh see love...we talked almost every night chai! My first and only true love . Somehow somehow my mum snooped on me and saw the text messages we exchanged. Omoh see raking. 


She Called him on phone then and warned him to stay clear off me as I was too young then for a relationship he apologised and promised her he would. He called me then and told me about it, he said he really liked my mom and wouldn't want to spoil the relationship he had with her and my family, so we kinda stopped talking then.


 The next year he graduated and went for his youth service I had just finished writing my WAEC then he called and told me he was posted to so so and so place. We rarely talked after that. But during Christmas he still visited my house to talk with my mom and after i will sneak out in the evenings to stroll with him. 

During one of those strolls i had my first kiss (hehehe) ;we had just finished walking and we said our goodnightsss he called me back to say I forgot my phone with him when he gave the phone to me we just stared at each other for a while and he then he kissed me.... I really liked him so much. Na so so butterfly just they parole my stomach through out that evening.


Later that year, When I got admission he was the first person I called to tell, he was excited for me and yabbed me saying "see this small geh of yesterday is now an undergraduate"


I moved into school and became busy we rarely talked anymore as we had a little misunderstanding sometime. My mom told me sometime he called to tell her he got a job (he had called her before the interview to ask her to pray for him as it was a tough one she said she prayed over the phone for him and assured him he would succeed.) so he was really excited when he got the job he even brought somethings to the house as token of his appreciation for her prayers.

 They became close again as I would over hear her laughing a few times on the phone with him.


Fast forward to my final year my mom kept bringing him up most times when am with her. She would mention how his parents were worried he has refused to settle down upon he had a good job and was doing well. One other time she told me how he refused all the ladies his parents and family members recommended to him. 


Hmmm like I did not know what she was trying to do. Sometime she even asked me if we still talked, I told her no, shebi she warned him never to call me again she laughed and said that was so many years ago now besides he's grown to be a really responsible God fearing man and all what not...


Sadly, one evening my mom called me to say he had lost his dad I was really sad so I called him immediately. When he picked my call and I heard his voice, his voice just felt like home, dunno how to explain it sha but I knew I was still in love with him. He texted me some weeks later to inform me about the burial. I attended with my parents. That was the first time I was seeing him again in like 4years, when he looked at me, in his eyes I saw a mix of grief and affection. 


I just automatically felt it in my heart of hearts that I belonged to this man. Somehow after the burial, we got talking again. 2months later he proposed. 


Even though I did my initial shakara I was very happy oo. When i told my mom about the proposal she laughed and said he called her earlier to obtain her permission saying for almost six years now he has been counting and waiting for me to grow up o.. she said she gave him her consent sharp sharp saying he was like a son to her already. We courted for 5months and got married early this year.


Hubby said all those years he never stopped thinking about me and praying that God would just keep me for him and that was the major reason he made much effort to keep in touch with my mom even though we had grown apart. He also said that day he met me when I was just 14 after our first talk something in him just registered that I was his wife. Our marriage has been bliss ever since. My husband loves me to a fault. Sometimes I wonder if am dreaming. His love for me is just too strong and deep. 

It's funny (and romantic) how he would roll over in his sleep at night touch me and say "nkem I love you" or "thank you for marrying me asam" Sometimes it makes me cry. 


He's the most sensitive and caring man i've ever met. I no know say naija man fit love like this. Both in words and action. His love reminds me of the love Christ has for the church. My prayers every day is that God will continue to bless him for us and Christ in me I will love him too as pure as it comes from my heart and be the help meet God designed me to be to him because I know in my heart this match was made in heaven and God has a purpose for our union. 


If you leave me I will take another 2pages to gush about his love. Sorry for the long story and Thank you Stella for this platform. Hope you enjoyed it. (The pix are for your eyes only oo)


Hehehehehehe hmmmmmm fine photos...Nice story and no errors to edit..thanks for that.
''Asam'' make you and le boo enjoy the weekend....by the way what is Asam sef?



77 comments:

Ideato/ilaje blood said...

Too Long. Sorry couldn't read.

I'll try read after work hours

Loveme Jeje said...

hmmmmmm very long story. Did not read it sha but all the same congrats to you and your hussy. May God bless both of you Amen

Becky Divine said...

I couldn't finish reading abeg. Your hubby sounds like a perv to me! What was he thinking looking at a 6year old girl like "that"
And he came back at 14? Jeez.. super glad it worked out for you guys

Jane Moore said...

So u are 21years old now?

Anonymous said...

I must to love ooooo
Congratulations sister girl...may u guys grow old together *kizzes in jenifas voice*
I'm 21years old and I have never had a serious boyfriend or kissed a guy sef not to talk of sex..all my life has been about sch,although i'm still a student.
I get all d attention and all cos i'm beautiful with a nice figure
But i'm just too scared to make a mistake bcos I don't wanna xperience heartbreak
So i'm always forming miss independent even when I feel lonely sometimes
I wonder if i'll ever get to love somebody cos my mindset is fucked up ryt nw
Please beveess is that normal?

GORRETI BAE said...

Asam is an igbo slang Dat means my babe.. But in real meaning Asa means pretty.

OLUCHI OSITA said...

Nice story indeed. Stella Asam means my beauty is a pet name thou. May God keep your home nnem.

OLUCHI OSITA said...

Nice story indeed. Stella Asam means my beauty is a pet name thou. May God keep your home nnem.

Chydi said...

Asam means my beauty. This is so good to read through.

Its-Gee said...

First of, Stella i would love to commend this Blog. I always read your blog sometimes i am the first to read sef but i never comment on it this is actually my first time in years to comment .This story is really peculiar in a way i really love it, Maybe because I have always been in love with my Childhood friend. right now we dont talk anymore been years we spoke we both just view our pictures and say wahooh look how big much u have grown. he is abroad am in Nigeria and all but i am still Crushing maybe that is why i feel a connection with this story. sighs, well if mine ends well too then someday i would send in my own story but for now please keep up the good work i love this blog so much i give up on sleep for it GOD BLESS U. I would be commenting from now on wards as its-gee i hope its okay. BEST REGARDS.

vancutie said...

smiling 'this is so romantic'...
good to know he loves you so much .

Babe said...

Awwwww, i go love o!! Poster your story is beautiful. May your marriage keep bringing you joy.

LADY PRESTIGE BEADS.08034205152 said...

Sweet story.me like

brown said...

Lovely story,God bless your home and keep it

Adaeze chuks said...

infact this story is so sweet.ur mariage is made in heaven

Olushanu said...

True love and patience is the key. God pls gimme me my own na.

RARE DIAMOND said...

Awww! Nice story your husband really loves you to wait that long, and he get sense too o imagine you guys weren't that close again and he kept talking to your mum he knew the trick. may God continue to bless your union. I need this kinda love o.

IJAY said...

Yes very interesting story, May God Keep blessing your home

Brown Sucre said...

Lovely.

KIDJO said...

Chai..see sweet story.I pray my childhood love and I end up like this oooooooπŸ˜†πŸ˜†πŸ˜†

Anonymous said...

may your marriage grow from strength to strength in Jesus name Amen
Lee boo where are you?
God please remember this Xmas Amen

Kaycee Blinqs said...

Beautiful story. I love love.....chaii

Anonymous said...

Darlyn don't be too up tight. Iife is not that serious!

Anonymous said...

My friend come on go and face Ur studies

Mother confessor THE REAL DEAL . said...

Thanks.

Anonymous said...

I was reading this story while listening to Seyi Shay's Right Now....I just have goosebumps all over me, your story is so sweet. May God continue to bless your marriage. Your mum is the real MVP.

prisco said...

Sweet story may God continue to make ur union as sweet as dis ur story.

GOONs Mi said...

Love is sweet.

Emmanuella Marshall said...

Awwwwww, come nd see love na,, me I must Love ooo,d love of my life, wereva u are better start making ur way to me, I want to love ryt

GOONs Mi said...

Love is sweet.

Lagos shopper(for your personal shoppings and goods directly from the popular lagos markets to anywhere in naija,07030493148) said...

Awww so sweet and similar to mine....i wish u guys more blessings and happiness!

CHIBOK GIRL said...

Nice story, I will send mine soon

CHIBOK GIRL said...

NICE STORY, WILL SEND MINE SOON

Anonymous said...

Very nice and interesting story. Wish you more blissful years, with plenty kids....Lol

Madea said...

Every woman requires a heart break (break Up). It toughens your shock absorbers. Lol!

Poster, nice story. You write well. May God remain in your union. Wish you all the blessings heaven can rain down.

Sassy 'Meruche' Fire said...

Too long abeg!!

Sassy 'Meruche' Fire said...

Mscheeew,don't mov on o.Stay there and be crushing on someone who is living his life.That's all it'll ever be..A CRUSH!!

THELMA'S CAKE WORLD said...

Awwwwwwww,now you're gonna make me cry....I love love so much....kisses poster!!
*Faithful bv*

Anonymous said...

I love your story, reminds me of my childhood love. We met every christmas,would sit on a broken tree in the village school and sing love songs together. He came to our house one morning to greet my mum, when he left my mum said "I hope u guys are not doing anything coz u guys cannot marry bla bla bla... that single statement affected the relationship, we grew apart. He is in Europe now though we still communicate once in a while. First love can be sweet sha.

Anonymous said...

Wow! I can relate to ur story, am still so much inlove wit ma first love!! He still luv me too, very much but we can't help it, bcos we met three months after he applied for Seminary tin, we were so in love wen dey called him up, he is still in the seminary and abt to b ordained a priest!! Its 8yrs now and we still loving each oda!! I can relate to ur butterfly in ur stomach, its bn hard luvin any oda man, most time I want to beg him not to continue wit d priesthood sometin?!!!

Anonymous said...

Smiled all try reading this story...may God continue to bless this union and give you beautiful kids..abeg send us ur wedding night brouhaha

dabsditty said...

Sweet story!

Anonymous said...

I feel like crying, true love is so hard to find. I have been married for close to 20 years and I have never felt loved. I wish I had waited for my true love, I love my husband but he doesn't love me and it's quite sad to say the least. God please compensate me by blessing my children that's all I ask.

Chyqueen, nwanyi onitsha said...

Wow, smiling all thru.

Anonymous said...

Lol..seriously
But can't I just pass d heartbreak stage and remain with a soft shock absorber?
Thanks thou @madea
May God bless u

Anonymous said...

Sweet torie...God bless ur union dear

Anonymous said...

My dear u are not alone o we are on the same boat although am older than u with a year...and i have kissed too and they have pwesd my bwest bt am still a virgin tho.

Anonymous said...

Not a perv, he was young too. Met mine when I was 12, he was 14. Tight love oh!

amanda favour said...

Hmmm...

Anonymous said...

My dear u are not alone o we are on the same boat although am older than u with a year...and i have kissed too and they have pwesd my bwest bt am still a virgin tho.

Anonymous said...

Awww, poster ur hubby acts just like my hubby, so romantic, wakes up at night to say he loves me, always writing romantic stuff on BBM and fb, would do anything to make me happy. You can imagine my shock when I found out he was cheating, all dt romance became worthless to me, sometimes I wish I didn't find out cos a part of me still hates him so much for the betrayal. I don't wish u that tho.

hope amasowomwan said...

Poster, wow, I love your story. I wish u blissful years ahead.

Classic Chic! said...

Butterflies just dey parole my belle...hrhehehehe chai love is sweet oo HML oo

Anonymous said...

Asam - my beauty or my beautiful.
May God keep you in Jesus name.

These stories make me happy. So no be for only Mills and Boon these kinda thing de happen.
I have not been lucky in love at all. T broke my heart into tiny pieces. The second one was a colossal utter total disaster.
Finally met my husband, I am grateful to God for my four beautiful children. But I am in a lonely, cold relationship. Life can be really tricky. God please help me

blessing ibukun said...

This stories hmmm just feel like falling in love over and over again.

caritas said...

nice stories

Amebo said...

Shut up ur kpomo mouth Becky. You pole must always fault something

Henny said...

Na your own spoil.

Henny said...

Ibiekha'

kindnikky said...

love is a beautiful thing. May God continue to bless your union dear.

Mosi Jubelo said...

Awwwwww

billy sule said...

Awww God will bless them but you need to also play your own part in their life

Ada Nnewi said...

I would have sworn I wrote this just some lil differences

NUVI HONEY said...

My first meeting point, 20 more to read, I pray say I nor catch up. I love this one... I'm sure it would be a hit. I stopped reading wedding night brouhaha way before I stopped commenting, it made me feel one kind.
Asam and le Boo I love this kind of love, may God bless your Union.

Weed Chic said...

😍😍😍😍😍me likey

Anonymous said...

You exchanged numbers with a guy when you were 14????? Would that be your cellphone number or house number??? LIAR...lol

Quality Madam said...

Chai l love this storyπŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚ this marriage is ordained from heaven. May God bless your beautiful union. At least not all those chronicles we read here their are still adorable marriages.

Anonymous said...

28,still a virgin,never kissed,never fondled,nor caressed. Waiting for true love to find me and wed me; that's the only way I'm giving up my cookie.

Till then, I'm just going to keep pretending I'm a mermaid.

Lemonade said...

Gosh , I thought I am the only person experiencing this , I am 21 never kissed , not to talk of sex , forming miss independent , extremely shy , gets nervous and starts sweating when approached by a guy πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚ . But I am of the believe that when the right time comes, everything will fall in place without me stressing myself.❤❤πŸ™πŸ™

Anonymous said...

Same boat, 27 never dated, never been kissed, a Virgin (obviously ) waiting for the right man. But ole boy is he taking his sweet time. Funny is am a tall and pretty lady, so alot of people just assume am in a relationship! Dem ask me? Just jump to conclusion anyhow. It's well.

Lawyer's wife said...

This is what happens when one does not read with understand ing. How old do u think the poster is?,when did GSm make it's entry into nija? Read,comprehend and do the maths, don't be in a hurry to doubt just cause it didnt happrn to you.

Anonymous said...

Anon 16:17, me too! I just can't trust him again like that or love him with abandon

Yko said...

This story made me gush so much.....May this love and happiness stay with u guys tI'll eternity.

Gbemi Sola said...

Awwww,pray i meet my love very soon

Iphie dearie said...

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Anonymous said...

Your story is very sweet. I pray I will send mine in soon. I met a guy 2 years ago. I am still a virgin but we bathe together,give each other head,he sucks my breast and the whole fingering stuff. I spend most weekends in his house. We haven't had sex because he is a man of faith and says he's team no premarital sex. My main problem is that he has never told me he likes me not to talk of love but I know he loves me and I pray that he will soon propose.

Anonymous said...

Your story is very sweet. I pray I will send mine in soon. I met a guy 2 years ago. I am still a virgin but we bathe together,give each other head,he sucks my breast and the whole fingering stuff. I spend most weekends in his house. We haven't had sex because he is a man of faith and says he's team no premarital sex. My main problem is that he has never told me he likes me not to talk of love but I know he loves me and I pray that he will soon propose.

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