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Saturday, 14 January 2017

Chronicle Of Blog Visitor Narrative

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STAND ALONE NARRATIVE::

RETURNING THE RING FOR FEAR OF BEING EATEN ALIVE....
My bosom friend met a guy from Ngwaa in Abia State and she's from Enugu state. The guy in question loves her so much and worship the ground she walks on. The relationship has been going on well and smooth. 


She somewhat knew that le boo wants to wife her anytime soon but the peoblem is that any time she asks someone of how Ngwaa people are, they keep saying that part of igbo is bad. This is because of the old tales of cannibalism they were known for.



 Few days ago, the guy surprised her and popped the question in public, she couldn't help but said yes because it was in public. She told her family about it and the dad most especially kicked against it saying, people from Ngwaa are known for eating humans back then in the olden days and the stigma is still there. Even though they claimed to have stopped, they still eat foreigners (people that are not from ngwa). Also said they are wicked and very lazy. They don't take care of their wives.


Now my friend is seriously considering breaking off the engagement and returning the ring. I have talked and advised her that what matters is the guy's personality and his family she's dealing with not the entire village. She hasn't been herself. I have been the one holding her back from returning the ring.

Now my questions are; does this cannibalism of a thing still exist in Ngwaa? Is it true that they secretly do it especially to foreigners (people that are not from there especially the non-abians).

I really want those from Ngwaa to say something about this and women from other states that got married to Ngwa men to tell us their own experience and if any of these is true or still exist.

It's really heartbreaking that the tribalism that exist among the igbos is just too much.

My friend will be reading this as I told her that I have a blog family on SDK that will throw more light on this.

Thanks a lot Stella.


*Errrmm let me read comments please cos i dont know anything about this but why didnt your friend find out about him and register her fear with him when the relationship wasnt serious?Its not fair that she just wants to return the ring like that...why hasnt he eaten her since whilst they were dating?

Na she sabi,one mans poison is another man's meat.



211 comments:

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Quiksilver said...

Stella maybe he will eat her after honeymoon

peace maker said...

She should run for her dear life

Anonymous said...

Just like the stigma of imo girls being wayward and wild and I don't want my girls tagged like that

Anonymous said...

That was a thing of the past as in past. It no longer happens. I have 2 very good ngwa friends. Nothing do them. Let her not lose a good man cos of folk tales. It's just like the osu myth

Anonymous said...

What sort of lame excuse is that?

Mayb the man isn't as rich a the family wants.

Return the ring and he wil wife another babe in 3months.

Highness Gwen said...

mmmmmmm.superstition dear!
no sane person ll think of eating a fellow human!
nah!ko possible rara!

I am the queen and the boss of this blog(CHIEF) said...

Please allow your friend to return the ring so the guy can meet someone that loves him and where he comes from!...
Imagine saying rubbish in this time and age!...
Mtcheewww!...
Being a frustrated aunty gwe gwe hew is calling her!...

xxxTrinityxxx said...

Is your friend alright at all? Has her bf tried eating her before? I don't understand. Yes they are known for the cannibalism back then and yes the stigma is still there but it means nothing. I'm sure some bvs here are married to ngwa men and they have not been eaten yet. And no I'm not from ngwa. And which tribalism exists among igbos??

STARRY LARRY said...

Now were are moving from Osu to Ngwaa, why must you people be this? And yet you want Biafra, ok o. Over to those that will advice you




*Larry was here*

beeolah said...

Hamid bring chair let me read comments am tired, over to special advisers

* eating groundnut*

Anonymous said...

Always consider yourself when you do certain things to others!

What if you're the one in love and the man says he can't marry you cos you're from Ngwaa, you will feel used and heart broken, but that's exactly what she wants to do.

But that's her business.

Lady C said...

Reading comments

Chike TEFLON said...

Your friend is not yet ready for marriage.

Maybe your friend think that the title aunty gwenz comes with trophy or cash reward.
I'm from Anambra state but I know a lot of hard working NGwa men.

peace maker said...

Once u are not excited about marrying someone back out.This is God speaking.
I know Lilian is regretting marrying Ubi after she called off d engagement twice.
Always follow instincts

Asa nwa said...

Why refuse a man based on one unfounded hypothesis? That's not true. Just like saying mba ise people are wicked and crafty,
Been nice n good is an individual thing people should stop generalizing.
If you check history you 'll find out that this thing is just lies or maybe a member of the community killed someone n the stigma stayed.

Spidex said...

Hmmm heard a tale like this before but let me confirm it here *sits down

xxxTrinityxxx said...

Their men are wicked and lazy? Has your friends bf/fiancee displayed such behaviours apart from the tendency to want to eat her lol since you asked Bout cannibalism ? I don't understand this chronicle.

stunning slim shady said...

Wow! Another wedding loading! Abeg send us invite o wen una fix date...

Single Mom said...

Hmmm! Over to people from ngwaa.


Long live SDK.

charitybino said...

I know nothing about ngwa people

Villager said...

Let ha dey dia, whu she epp?????

Bubble gum said...

So Juvenile.

Fan Emmanuel said...

Poster your friend is from Enugu? Nwannem nwanyi ba? Okay,please tell her to remove her shoes while running away from umu nwoke Imo na Abia. They are selfish,lazy,controlling,liars etc
Ofuro nwoke na Enugu and Anambra? I tell you,she will be the one to fed her family. I've not even mentioned the issue abov,biko tell her to putaba that side cos uzo adiro ebe afa! Except if the guy is born and raised somewhere else. Asikwana nam agwaro gi!

Anonymous said...

E bu ewu,ne ife ina ko kandi ofe na mu ndibanyi amu.ebu ewu

Anonymous said...

Which part of Ngwa is he from? What is the name of his village?
My dear, don't even think of returning the ring because all these questions should have been answered if you truly love him.
Ngwa pple are very nice pple and even though they eat humans before, that practice is long gone. Go and be happy with your man and stop disturbing yourself.

BV EbonyIfy.

Single Mom said...

Lmao..... queen is not smiling.


Long live SDK

Anonymous said...

Nigerians and rumour,every town has one bad thing they are stigmatized with,just like they say Ekiti people are very wicked etc,the few I dealt with I found out it was true but one is proving me wrong.

JOYOUS said...

THAT WAS BACK IN THE DAYS....I KNOW SOME ONE WHO MARRIED AN NGWA MAN AND SHE'S NOT EVEN IGBO THEY ARE HAPPILY MARRIED! LIKE UR FRIEND SAID ITS ABOUT THE FAMILY AND PERSONALITY BIKO. COME TO THINK OF IT THEY ARE SO MANY PEOPLE WHO ARE NOT FROM NGWA YET ARE LIVING IN NGWA HOW MANY OF THEM HAVE THEY EATEN ....AND IF THEY HAVE IT WOULD HAVE BEEN ONLINE FOR SURE SO SUCH CANNIBALISM WAS IN THE PAST.
DEAR IF U TRULY LOVE HIM MOVE ON WITH THE MARRIAGE AS THERE IS NO SUCH CASE AS EATING HUMAN FLESH IN THIS MODERN AGE...IF THERE IS IT WOULD HAVE BEEN ON SOCIAL MEDIA ALREADY.

NO TRIBE IS FREE OF BARBARIC ACT SO FACE GOD AND ASK HIM FOR DIRECTION THAT'S ALL THAT MATTERS.

Fan Emmanuel said...

Is it your business? Please allow us to settle our issues.

Anonymous said...

Abeg poster run o..very mean...hot tempered set of people....all this shoe of love now na wash...try tell him you not interested then see how he reacts...any marriage my people no support i no do...because when trouble comes my family is the only one i got ......

I am the queen and the boss of this blog(CHIEF) said...

But mbaise people are wicked nah...I have mingled with them and they are deadly!...

Corper W said...

Yinmu! I had a lot of Ngwa friends while in school. In-fact, my two roommates back then in school are from Ngwa. They are very accommodating people. Infact, in fact, infact, I traveled to Ngwa on several occasions and am still alive.

In-fact I have relations fro Ngwa. God bless Ngwa people (nwaafo). In fact na Ngwa people welcome person pass for the whole of Igboland land.

N:B: ask questions, no just sit down for house know wetin market dey talk.

Make una no mind my plenty Infact ooooooooo.

Abeg go ahead and marry your boo joor. Or if you know want am, then throw am come my side if him get money. #shines teeth.

Marry him my dear if he is a great guy and he is worth the stress.God bless

Lady T/ am worth more than a thousand dollars said...

I don't know much about the Ngwaa people and their cannibalistic tendencies. But i have heard that their men do not take care of their wives. Its always the wives that take care of their Hubby's.

A lady I know that was married to an Ngwaa man went through hell. Eventually, he left her after 10 years of marriage. Of course they were also trying to conceive. In as much as there are 2 sides to a story,if you see the guy you won't believe he did those things to her. He beat her a couple of times. He will starve her. Cos she wasn't working and he brought her to abuja. And then he refused to go for checks in the Hosp to ascertain what was wrong or who needed medical help.
One day, he just packed his things and relocated to the east. She tried to get him to see the pastors but he had moved on and told her the marriage had ended. She only moved when the rent was due and couldn't pay or continue to stay there. But that is just one case.

Why can't the lady pray and ask God to reveal the guy or her future with him? There are always exceptions.

I am the queen and the boss of this blog(CHIEF) said...

*gwe...

Anonymous said...

Shut up with the biafra talk,is Nigeria united?yet you guys still believe in Nigeria so leave Biafra alone,discrimination is everywhere just the magnitude that differs,even some parts of ogun dont marry each other,some Yoruba hate ekiti and ondo and Yoruba see Egun people as inferior,discrimination is everywhere but you can't compare it with the hatred from tribe to tribe that is worse.

Frau Spat kommer said...

Hmm! Poster I have to be honest, although I'm from IMO State. This same incidence happend to my aunt several years ago, my grannies warned her but she didn't listen and now they are showing her shege! After 20yrs of marriage, and yes that part of the country are very diabolical. Now just 3yrs ago my immediate elder sis was engaged to an Ngwa, but my parents said over their dead body, my sis didn't listen to them and quickly took in, did court wedding, my parents have no choice than to give their blessings and continued praying for her, she gave birth to the baby, the baby died, she took in again, gave birth, and this time around it was twins, after 2days they died. Everybody kept telling her to kuku come back home, even that my aunt was telling her to go home, she refused! And the hubby's people were already maltreating her, whenever my mum go for a visit she keeps telling her to come back home, note that both families are very rich oo, we are all based in Lagos. Just last year February she took in again,around November last year, she birthed the child, after few hours the baby died, and she died too. Also note that we are 4 girls and all of us are happily married with kids. We are still mourning her though. So poster like my aunty that has been there for over 20 yrs, she said it better Ngwa-Ngwa, and not Ngwa verses other tribe. It doesn't really work except the man or the family are stuntch Christians. So my sister's incidence taught us a big lesson, because before I don't really believe all these. But now I ve understood. So it is better you let her go with what her mind tells her, advice her to pray fervently about it, if it's God's will why not!

Bekee's confectionery, onitsha said...

Just imagine o. The nicest man I know in my life is an Ngwa man. In fact eh, he's the reason I work hard and pray for God to bless me. Your friend no get wahala sha. Inukwa akuko. Has she noticed any of these bad traits since she started dating the guy? Marriage never start to dey hungry her.

Anonymous said...

I went to audit a branch account there five years ago, the hotel I lodged in, the housekeeper came to wake me up around 11:30pm that I should run because the people had a meeting in the afternoon, a prelude to eating me, I ran, forgot all my personal effects, thank God I had a car, can't imagine where in their stomach my enemy is lying fallow

Single Mom said...

If we all begin to go by all these stigma of a thing then you must always find something bad about a person you want to marry because no state is 100% perfect with out a bad history, why don't she weigh her options, and choose the best because no one is perfect he didn't choose his state or his town so that does not define him.


Long live SDK

Anonymous said...

In my training,we were told that when you get stranded in a desert or remote area,with no hope if food or waterr, we're advised to eat cadava,that iS dead humans and drink urine to survive until help comes,that one n.a. Oyibo training o.lol

Anonymous said...

I bu nno ezigbote ewu, mkpi for that matter. No wonder u behave this way, ignorant bush baby dullard!

Anonymous said...

Are you sure the practice existed or it is just rumours?besides let the girl return that ring since she has doubts,

Mary (Most highly favored lady) said...

My former boss is from Ngwa. I have never seen anyone as hardworking as he is. He doesnt joke with the needs of his wife and children. they attend the best schools home and abroad. His wife and children all look very clean and Ajeboish as expected but if you see this boss of mine, he looks exactly like an hussler that he is. never backing down no matter what. in the office then we (himself and we the staffs) would always joke about his tribe eating people. i forgot to mention that we had two other older men from Ngwa in the office too. All of them; superb, funny and hardworking. please let your friend judge this matter subjectively and not collectively.

Anonymous said...

My dear people must always generalise and say shit, that is how people keep saying rubbish about mbaise,ohafia and ngwa people and God keep blessing them with prosperity, ask those who are talking to tell u anyone who they have heard got eaten in ngwa,as for the lazy aspect,I've never been to ngwa but I heard the sort of mansions there are left for your imagination and can only be rivalled with Abriba,the only thing I know is that majority of them are cunny,it is left for your friend to notice his character, if he is a good man let her not leave him for side talks,enough of this new trend of enugu saying they cannot marry imo amongst others,how wonderful are those from ezeagu and nsukka sef rubbish,the laziest married man I've ever met in my life is from enugu his wife is just carrying the family while the man is bragging outside na we wey dey inside know what's up

MrsB said...

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'Has he tried to eat her before' sorry I find this hilarious

Anonymous said...

My dear people must always generalise and say shit, that is how people keep saying rubbish about mbaise,ohafia and ngwa people and God keep blessing them with prosperity, ask those who are talking to tell u anyone who they have heard got eaten in ngwa,as for the lazy aspect,I've never been to ngwa but I heard the sort of mansions there are left for your imagination and can only be rivalled with Abriba,the only thing I know is that majority of them are cunny,it is left for your friend to notice his character, if he is a good man let her not leave him for side talks,enough of this new trend of enugu saying they cannot marry imo amongst others,how wonderful are those from ezeagu and nsukka sef rubbish,the laziest married man I've ever met in my life is from enugu his wife is just carrying the family while the man is bragging outside na we wey dey inside know what's up

Passenger said...

Discrimination of the highest order exists in Nigeria and by extension to Africa and the rest of the world.
Last time it was Osu people now Ngwaa again. Most tribes have barbaric acts been done in ages past but abolished such and shouldn't be stigmatised for life just like cases of twins killing which is abolished. And it's worrisome some enlightened and even religious folks still dwells on some unnecessary stuff to affect their immediate family.
That been said, I think we can help ourselves earlier before getting things complicated in our relationships. Why wait till engaged or too deep in a relationship before finding necessary information abt our significant others? So wat den do people discuss in their relationship?

#passengerpassingthrough

Anonymous said...

Unu n'ekwu okwu Biafra, obu ukwua ka Nama ji eru umuahia. Amam na Biafra agaghi achita aja maka ndi di ka gi. Brain bu zero tufiakwa!

Falcon said...

Funny u, Igbo's can't stand each other but are crying Biafra. Akuko mike ejeagha.

Anonymous said...

Example 1- I had a friend way back in secondary school, she's from Ngwaa and she once admitted to me that they eat people in her village, she said her mother, though Igbo too, is not from there and that's why her dad has refused to take them home (make dem no go chop him wife). They stayed in Lagos till we lost touch (I wonder where she is now sef)

Example 2- My ex-husband's friend and course mate followed an Ngwaa girl he was dating to her village to meet her people after NYSC and that was the last we heard of them till date.
Now, before you say they may have had an accident, his friends, my ex-husband inclusive, looked for the guy, traced their journey up to when they got to the girl's village and that was it, they went with soldiers and all but no trace of them beyond them getting to the village though the villagers denied receiving them. They searched for up to two years before everyone gave up!

Dear poster, we are Africans so forget that talk about marrying the guy and not his village, won't they go home for Christmas? Will they avoid the guy's village forever? Is the guy the type that can avoid his own roots for love? For how long? Is she ready to live with the fear of being eaten for the rest of her life?

Remember,to every myth there's a shred of truth and the heart of man is deep.

For me, I'd choose my life over love anyday, you have to be alive to enjoy love, right? Wouldn't want to end up in somebody's stomach abeg.




SHARONNA

Anonymous said...

It is hard to expect a sensible response with the way you look. People like you should not procreate, to avoid passing your stupidity to the next generation. You are evil!

Anonymous said...

Example 1- I had a friend way back in secondary school, she's from Ngwaa and she once admitted to me that they eat people in her village, she said her mother, though Igbo too, is not from there and that's why her dad has refused to take them home (make dem no go chop him wife). They stayed in Lagos till we lost touch (I wonder where she is now sef)

Example 2- My ex-husband's friend and course mate followed an Ngwaa girl he was dating to her village to meet her people after NYSC and that was the last we heard of them till date.
Now, before you say they may have had an accident, his friends, my ex-husband inclusive, looked for the guy, traced their journey up to when they got to the girl's village and that was it, they went with soldiers and all but no trace of them beyond them getting to the village though the villagers denied receiving them. They searched for up to two years before everyone gave up!

Dear poster, we are Africans so forget that talk about marrying the guy and not his village, won't they go home for Christmas? Will they avoid the guy's village forever? Is the guy the type that can avoid his own roots for love? For how long? Is she ready to live with the fear of being eaten for the rest of her life?

Remember,to every myth there's a shred of truth and the heart of man is deep.

For me, I'd choose my life over love anyday, you have to be alive to enjoy love, right? Wouldn't want to end up in somebody's stomach abeg.




SHARONNA

peace maker said...

I like ur Igbo language @Fan Emmanuel will like to give u N5k rech card thru Stella. Which network do u use?

I am king EZE said...

Poster your friend is not ready to get married!

Eeyore said...

And you are the same fellow people were praying for so that MMM will return your money?? If this is your mentality, sorry but you deserve to lose all your life savings to MMM. Ewu Gambia.

Eeyore said...

And you are the same fellow people were praying for so that MMM will return your money?? If this is your mentality, sorry but you deserve to lose all your life savings to MMM. Ewu Gambia.

xxxTrinityxxx said...

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becky naka said...

You'll just open your mouth waaaaaaa and be talking anyhow.

Beloved said...

Lmao

Cynthia Iyede said...

I don't think she loves the said guy at all. A quick question to you friend.

Babe, what will you do or how will you feel if reverse is the case?

You ought to have settled this and asked the necessary question before he proposed since you knew he would.

The final decision is still yours. Follow your heart.

Anonymous said...

Beht are mbaise people not wicked and crafty and slimy? Very slimy deceitful traitors set of people! Dats y de say if u see a snake and u see an mbaise girl,u had beta go with d snake and run from d mbaise girl! Very slimy set of people!

Anonymous said...

Advice her not to return the ring but when they're married she shouldn't for any reason go to his village cos they still eat people in secret

xxxTrinityxxx said...

Lol what did imo men do to igbos? My friend runs away from them and tells me to have nothing to do with them but I don't get what the issue with them is

Isaacson said...

It was a thing of the past and am sure if I still happens it will be rare...she should care only about her husband and his family not the entire village nau...

Ps...some gals pray thier hubby eat them right if you know what I meanπŸ˜‰

Beloved said...

But wait o have anyone here seen them eating humans. .. all these are just hearsay.

But if the babe is having cold feets let her leave the guy for someone serious.
And I know if the guy is orji uzo kalu brother or Arthur's brother this wouldn't be an issue

Btw I know Arthur is from imo

Anonymous said...

Not true! My friend is married to an Ngwa guy. the marriage has been flourishing for the past TEN years. Biko u people should stopeeeet! If it really happened it should be back in d days. Inukwam cannibism. Mschwee

Anonymous said...

Can u friend pls put up d fiancee nos and pic for Sdk bv to apply? She de craze? Na wetin de worry her? For dis day and age person still de reason like goat? She go sit down for her papa house turn gwegs o! Has d guy eaten her before? Na which kain archaic reasoning and thinking be dat? She no serious at all! Tell her dat if she mean bisness mk she put up d guy phone nos and pic and see weda anoda sharp babe wey know wetin she want nor go take d fiancee from her! Her head nor de house at all!

Anonymous said...

Can u friend pls put up d fiancee nos and pic for Sdk bv to apply? She de craze? Na wetin de worry her? For dis day and age person still de reason like goat? She go sit down for her papa house turn gwegs o! Has d guy eaten her before? Na which kain archaic reasoning and thinking be dat? She no serious at all! Tell her dat if she mean bisness mk she put up d guy phone nos and pic and see weda anoda sharp babe wey know wetin she want nor go take d fiancee from her! Her head nor de house at all!

Olaide Ogunmola said...

May God help her, she should put it in prayers.

Chinny Baby said...

That cannibalism stuff no longer exist in ngwaland. I am not from ngwa but I know many people who are married by ngwa men, they take care of their. I advise your friend to marry the guy unless she doesn't love him. Ngwa people are good people.

Omotejowho said...

Reading comments

Anonymous said...

If he doesn't eat her, some other person might kidnap her and eat especially if she's not from Igbo or ngwa.

Chinny Baby said...

Thank you queen, tell her to return the ring cos it seems she doesn't want to marry the man. Ngwa people are nice people.
Anu gi afughi otita. Nonsense

Adanne said...

Chai! I cannot come and pass this post just like that.

@Zinny chocolate get here.
as much as i've read all the comments before commenting, I respect people's opinion.

It's unfortunate at this age and time people are still naive.
Poster, iwu better pikin, your friend is the one who needs help.

Now, she knew his bobo is from ngwa, and just maybe the parrnts knew, she didn't break up with him, she didn't stop collecting goodies before now, she was enjoying it like kilode,she's just plain wicked.

now to the questions: Cannibalism is no more, when you talk about being lazy please my sister look else where, cos the Ngwa people I know sabi work even to the domestic level, (jukwa ese)
Is unfortunate again that tribalism in igbo land is ridiculous, there's virtually something to say for every state or town in naija. So if we keep listening to that, we won't get married.

Anonymous said...

Common shut ur stinking mouth dia..its people like you that will frustrate ur brothers wife because she's not from where you like.. Dnt allow ignorance disgrace you pls..

Brown Sucre said...

You are here asking us questions,your friend is supposed to ask herself some pertinent questions;
Does he love God?
Does he love you?
Do you love him?
Has he eaten anyone before?
Is He is lazy?
Is He is wicked?
Is he a DV waiting to happen?
If the answers are NO, dear,dont return that ring.
No marriage is without its ups and downs,take it to God in prayers YOURSELF.

Anonymous said...

Rapu ya ka ona zuzu hari...

Lady Ijaaay said...

UMU NGWA! Where art thou?
Hmmm! No be Osu now na Ngwa man abi? Your friend never hala, moreover your friend should have heard about this superstition while they dated why did she decide to wait till now? If he was Gov Ikepazu's son or relative will she come and be forming all this "returning ring tinz" abegi. let her return the ring if she doesn't want biko.

Am from Ngwa "Nwa Afo" am proud,my elder brothers who are married never married from Abia State and we know see this kan tin of "return ring tinz".

Meanwhile shhhh dont let anyone see dis o Biko if she doesn't want my sister plrss send d guy's number to me as a sharp girl friend you is na.plrssss

Stella Asemota said...

When you are NOT in love with someone, every excuse becomes relevant.

Adanne said...

Like peace maker said, once you have doubt just forget it.

Adika la akpa ezubeghi ndi dibia, 'okoro' ekoro akpa abuo.
Let someone explain to you the above.

What do you even mean 'eating stranger' he heh heh .

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Fan Emmanuel said...

Trinity they like suffering they women.
Eeyore no body deserves to lose his or her life savings. Biko don't go there,no matter my offence

Adanne said...

Osi gini?

Adanne said...

Loud it

Adanne said...

Nwanne your thinking sometimes n'agwum ike. Kai!

Adanne said...

Gbam

Adanne said...

And after that?

Anonymous said...

See how MMM has affected ur brain that u now talk without reasoning. And to think that you are an Igbo woman baffles me. Only God knows what beholds ur daughters ( If u have one) or sistees. Efulefu like you.

Adanne said...

World people will always tag something to a particular village or town. So it's up to the person

LIGHT said...

All this excuses..I don't know why there is so much tribalism within our people,don't marry an osu,dnt marry from imo,dont marry from a village in Enugu,dont marry this,dont marry that.na wa o. Just like Stella said, why hasn't he eaten her already? Your friend isnt ready biko tell her to return the ring,there are lots of ladies out there that wont mind. I don't know why we judge people based on what thier fore fathers that thier bones have decayed and cant even be traced did. I tire jareee.

Anonymous said...

My dear, I'm Yoruba married to that tribe, and I must say I'm enjoying every bit of it! Heard that they do that in the past too, infact, I was too scared to inform my people in the beginning, but that was in the past, nothing of such now, my marriage is ten years of bliss! My hubby and his siblings are born and bred in the south. They are wonderful in law, no problem with them at all..if you ask me I will do this again and again!

Adanne said...

Help me ask her, if he has displayed any attitude you don't understand, then you can quit but not quitting because of your ignorance(no offense really) for DNA age.
Tomorrow you will say, parents no wan train a girl-child, meanwhile few that were trained dey reason from wherever they deem fit, instead of fortifying themselves with information.

Anonymous said...

Interesting to hear how we perceive fellow ndigbo.

Adanne said...

Nobody ooo

Fan Emmanuel said...

Hahaha Airtel ooo @Peace Maker. But biko,share it on this blog maka the thought of getting back my money from MMM makes me wonna start my own shoki na na now!
Thanks anyway πŸ™Œ

Anonymous said...

I served in ngwa! Them no chop me. The men are somehow lazy sha

Fuck you said...

Mbaise people re cunny that's y dem no dey marry dem

I am the queen and the boss of this blog(CHIEF) said...

Hahahahahahaha...
Lies!...
Which hotel is that?...

Anonymous said...

Biko how much is Mary Kay time wise foundation now? Pls somebody answer me

Anonymous said...

Follow ur heart dear

I am the queen and the boss of this blog(CHIEF) said...

Oriegwu oh!..

Anonymous said...

Follow ur heart dear

World People said...

Today you made sense .

Had the story said , she's fighting her family and threatens to still marry the guy despite their misgivings, I'd have said to go ahead.

But the lady doesn't even seem excited , like she needs a reason to leave the relationship, poster if you are d one holding down that Rship pls stop . Let her return the ring , is this Gona be her reaction - to run when trouble comes ? She might even use it against her hubby in the future ' after all i was was warned not to marry you cannibal ''

David chinedu said...

@peace do you just come to stella blog to comment about what u don't know. Am from Abia state and live in Aba which is Ngwa land and also my immediate elder sister have been married to an Ngwa man for 14 yrs. I can tell you there is nothing like that, it does not exist and will never there is no place in Ngwa land that they eat people yes there is a part of Ngwa land known as abala that is bad but that is in stealing and making trouble but they have never been known to kill their visitors. Pls your concern should be about your man and his immediate family

Anonymous said...

Ah! Mbaise people are worse than yaraba people oh! I almost got married to one. I thank my stars my parents vehemently refused. Otito Dili Jesu

Anonymous said...

She means discrimination. And yes no other tribes discriminates like the igbos. And that's why it looks like igbo people has different tribes among themselves. So she is right using that word "tribalism".

Anonymous said...

It may still exist u never can tell. Nysc camp is in isiala ngwa and I remember the driver of the abia line bus that I took that dropped me at the junction collecting the ID card and all he could use to identify him so that he can call me to confirm if am in the camp before asking him to come collect it in umuahia, which he did , he even asked me to give the phone to a soldier to be sure am no held under duress. So she should be careful.

World People said...

Lmao ! You were most likely pranked ...!πŸ˜‚

Anonymous said...

@Starry, even you could not stomach the "tribalism" among the igbos. If they finally get their Biafraud, I'm very certain they will have minimum of 1000 states. In Anambra alone you will have people that looks like Yoruba, hausa, egun, Tivs, just name it.

I tire for that set of people honestly.....


Kikikikiki

St.FranKooL.... said...

#You would never invite a thief into your house. So why would you allow thoughts that STEAL YOUR JOY to make themselves at home in your mind?*

Adanne said...

But it's doesn't stop you from marrying a go man or woman from there naa.

Daenerys_targaryen said...

Madam queen u remembered to take ur drugs this morningπŸ˜†

zizi said...

So sorry my dear. May ur sister Continue to rest in peace

Daenerys_targaryen said...

Larry don't mind them o. Truth is definitely bitter. Useless bunch of educated illiterates. Always discriminating and they want to stand united.mstchew!

Daenerys_targaryen said...

Anon 15:24 abeg abeg please shut it. Which yoruba parents will tell you not to marry from ekiti,ondo and egun. That's how u people will be lying upandan. You guys should work on ur hatred and stop thinking other tribes are like dt

Adanne said...

Since you know is one sided, why bring it here to make the ngwa people look bad.
you said you don't know anything about them yet you know something.

Babe hapu that this, what you said up there can happen to anybody from any tribe.
And in 10years, why didn't she find something to do?

#womenempowerment
Okbye

BLUNT said...

Fan Emmanuel, thanks for defending your tribe here. You always do that. Ezigbo nwa afo.

Anonymous said...

Oh so Trinity can now see the "tribalism" abi? Everyone pointing accusing finger. Una tribalism reach compound to compound.

What a people!!!! Smh....

Hissssss....

Anonymous said...

I hate to admit it, but if I were to judge Mbaise girls based on the one I dated, I agree with anon 15:49. She's indeed slimy. Too slimy for a woman.

Adanne said...

Sorry for your predicament.
Like Q n B will say, did you guys take your sis for deliverance? Oh well!

Meanwhile your aunt even stayed for 20 years, the union must be very good then.

Meanwhile you are from IMO, do you know what they say about IMO people? Just because you are lucky to get married you think you can sit in your couch and say things.

Marriage is but the grace of God my dear.

May your sister's soul rest in peace

Anonymous said...

Plenty tribalism o. Judgemental lot. Always treating people either good or bad based on tribe. Sotey dey do it among themselves. Nonsense.

Anonymous said...

You don't say!

Hmmmm...what do I know?

Anonymous said...

I hope you know Ngwa is not as small as you think. You are looking @ 8 local governments including Aba Ngwa. 80% of the people in aba are foreigners and hasn't been eaten. Ojukwu's 1st son married an Ngwa woman from isialangwa sef. A lot of people always make reference to one of their aunt or uncle or grandma said someone they know went to Ngwa land for burial or wedding but has never been found. No one I repeat no one has had a 1st hand experience. All stupidly cooked up story. I will be honest with you as an Ngwa girl whose father is a traditional ruler.
95% of the entire Ngwa land(8 local govnts) are safe. A very small fraction of isialangwa north a place they call Ngwa-ukwu i'm indifferent about. Their traditional ruler is Eze Barnard Enwerenmadu. You have to ask questions. This dosn't mean they are not good people amongst them. Also if her boo is from Nvosi in isialangwa south she should also ask questions. I can only vouche for my place a 100% Ummunna Nsulu. Where the NYSC camp was formally located.

The issue of Ngwa men being lazy is not entirely true. There will always be bad eggs every where. Our women are the most hard-working women I know. Yes Ngwa men can be promiscuous, which tribe won't you find such.
All i'm trying to say is she shouldn't listen to anyone. You have no idea how many Anambra and Enugu men/women are married to Ngwa women/men. We are very accommodating and I trust she will be alright.

AGELESS T said...

Just five years ago?

Adanne said...

And your conclusion about the missing girl and your EX's friend is? You see you don't even know.

My own is, as long as you have doubt about your to be husband, just quit already, instead of playing a blame game tomorrow.
So poster tell your friend to #bringbackthering. So she can have peace of mind. Cikina

Adanne said...

And to think she knew the guy will propose oo, she didn't run away then or voice her concerns...if it's was reversed they will curse the man out of course.

Anonymous said...

Oh pulease!!! Your friend should link me up with the Ngwa guy, she never ready to marry! Shior!!! See the rubbish rumors educated young people are telling and believing in this day and age. Until 40years nack am for head

Adanne said...

Maka why, and then it will lead to beating and divorce, and you will still come back here and say ngwa people bla bla bla.

Abeg return the ring already.

AGELESS T said...

Hmmmm.... I'm learning.

Adanne said...

If she had someone serious, you think she would fall yakata for this dude. Even her own people(the good enugu guys) no even send her.

Adanne said...

I dey 'tells' you

Anonymous said...

Are you for real ? 😲 ....frankly i find this so so hilarious 😁😁.....so u ran for your dear life.....so there was really a threat to your life? Were u not scared of leaving the hotel at that time of the night? U could have easily fallen into bad hands....

Anonymous said...

Only God knowns how this una biafra go turn out,you peepx so despise yourself,Una never get una country una dun dey segregate..Nawa o..Igbos don't have love for themselves..

Emilia Peter said...

Hmmmmm pls she should give him back d ringn so dat d guy will put it in another lady's finger. My consine got married to ngwa girl and they are doing fine Meanwhile we re from okrika

Beth said...

I'm sorry to say the way Igbos discriminate amongst themselves is just too too sad....

Anonymous said...

Lol. Yes, mbaise ppl r slimy, Ngwa ppl r very slimy, infact they have similar attitude. But as for cannibalism, nope, not at all. Before maybe, but not anymore. They are very hardworking too.

Ed said...

Lol...that reminded me of when an aboh mbaise guy wanted marrying me but ma dad didn't agree o.... That wen yu see mbaise n snake,that you should kill d mbaise and leave the snake....

Anonymous said...

Fan belt, see as shame leave me they catch you.do you still hate your own people? I thought it was Yoruba people that is always giving you sleepless night. Oponu afofun gbemu.omo radarada and that idiotic Trinity jatijati.I spit on you two. Coming to SDK spewing trash instead of learning from other people. Stella post my comment oo because you post their own when they talk down on other tribes.enu e lowa yen

SWAG LAFRESH said...

My cousin wife na Ngwaa. I'm even hearing this for the first time sef.

Anonymous said...

Yeah....very hilarious 😁

Muna said...

My aunt is married to an ngwaa man. He hasn't eaten her, at least not yet... Tcheeew.

SWAG LAFRESH said...

My inlaw is Imo. My family like igbo people wella. We marry from Enugu, Anambra(2), Abia(2), Imo. All of them are GOOD. The best is the Ngwaa and Imo.

SANDY NEKY said...

Chief chief, biko you can say that again and againπŸ’‹πŸ’‹πŸ’‹

SANDY NEKY said...

Anon 15:49 πŸ’‹

Anonymous said...

I never believed that until my sister got married to one..... Better to live with a snake than live someone from mbaise, tufiakwa

Anonymous said...

So you be divorcee?

Anonymous said...

Isn't life so funny? The ones that have husband with trait of beating, controlling and anger issues and Proll even cannibalism will be asking should I still marry him? I love him. Meanwhile the ones Wey nothing do dia husband dem one return ring be cos of dem say dem say. Life is really funny lol.

Anonymous said...

That the first thing i thought. For real ibos you guys suffered so much if any tribe should start united it should be u.

Anonymous said...

The truth is that MOST Ngwa men are really horrible, that doesn't mean that your man is. So you have to first of identify ur man, what kinda person us he and all that.
I was born and bred in Aba so I can tell u first hand what those men are capable of. As for the cannibal issue, yes it happened during those days and RARELY happens now but that doesn't mean it doesn't happen again. I should have love to spill more but I will let it pass, just know this I have experienced the cannibal stuff first hand.
Cheers!!!

Anonymous said...

Na wa ooo, nothing we no go hear, that is so not true, even though they that about owerri girls

Anonymous said...

Wawa that were going naked before Imo/Abia people started coming to Enugu. Onu gbawaa gi fan ice cream

Anonymous said...

Idi nno very stupid, I don see una ndi Enugu na Anambra, ri nsi (chop shit)onye ara.

Anonymous said...

I hardly comment but let me speak from experience. What your parents are seeing sitting... you will never see standing even one top of a ladder... My friend married to an Ngwa person in Lagos is not taken care of at even with all the wealth the guy flaunts around. This marriage can only work if the man has strong Christian values. I have another Ngwa friend that is the best father and husband to his wife and children. However, nothing was mentioned about the guy or his family? My experience is a good family will always play critical role in the peaceful co-existence of a marriage.
I'm married to an Imo guy and I tell you if I need to my family's warning, I wouldn't be in the sham. Let's see how the coming days and months play out.
Pls seek God's face on this as no one is in right standing to advise the poster's friend. But find out the real reasons behind your parents opposition.
Stella, I'm glad with your divorce post. There is a whole lot happening in marriages.

Anonymous said...

Nwafo nwannem, hafu umuohuhu adiwo away anya. I have 3 brothers.The eldest married from Mbano, the second married from Edo while the 3rd married from Orlu. So have we eaten them??. Just tell her to return the ring.A correct Ngwa guy will just move on to better things as we no get time for childishness.

HummingBird said...

No wa for people o. Which ngwa eat which human being. Well her meat never even mature self. Non sense

Anonymous said...

@fan, idi nno ezgbo stupid and hopeless. I will choose an Imo guy over an over again to anything from Enugu. Enugu guys that can be lazy and aggressive is what you are using to compare my Imo guys. Nne, i bu nno mumu. Ana akogheri na this blog. Danmit, it seems unu choro ka anyi wash dirty cloth anyi na this blog okwa ya. Aside Anambra, Imo produced the richest guys in igboland, argue with keyboard. Imagine onye "wawa" na ako sh***t. Anumpama. Maka chukwu, mjide gi face to face, ntiegi ezigbo ihe.

Zee ka said...

Me I can neva mari an mbaise person o.

Anonymous said...

Mbaise people are very cunny and bad. From afar u won't know it but when u deal wit them marry them for eg then you ll know they are evil

Anonymous said...

There us no stigma with the Imo girls bn wayward. It was just owerri girls which is cos of the presence or of higher institutions in the capital city. You are just jealous of Imo girls cos a typical Imo girl is pretty, brainy, smart. Btw, where are u from? Nowhere i guess, just hiding under blog to write shi***t about Imo girls

D'Artagnan said...

Mba, he is not waiting to eat her after the honeymoon, he's waiting for them to have children so he can use one do Christmas every year.

This should be disgusting enough for her to give him back the ring.

Anonymous said...

@queen, erm... an Mbaise person born and unborn is naturally ahead of u. Dumb a**.

Anonymous said...

You are just an OLODO, inferiority complex is your problem. You can't fit in where mbaise people are.

Anonymous said...

No wonder. WAWA people and their backwardness. I'm not surprised. How can anyone refer to an Ngwa man as lazy? NWA Aba lazy? Let her return the ring so the guy can marry an enlightened lady instead of your ignorant friend

Anonymous said...

Best comment!

Anonymous said...

For real? Hahahaha

Anonymous said...

Annon 18.31 you were eaten by a person from ngwaa *shockedemoji*

BEDS AND ROSES said...

You ppl are just too tribalistic for my liking.
Nawa o, even amongst yourselves again ??,
And who is the person saying egba abi Abeokuta don't marry that. In my growing up i have never heard of anyone saying don't marry from this Yoruba state or the other.
Infact I'm even married to a non Yoruba and I never had issues. I also have some relatives married to urhobo as well. As well as even Edo and Anambra men.
Nawa o, you people need to be enlightened. It's only unexposed people that talk like this. U

Anonymous said...

Lol...lekwanu onye waawa na ekwu okwu! I bu nno ezigbote ONYE APARI !!! As dirty as you look you are a representation of how dirty majority of wawa people are. Ndi hausa-Igbo! If we look at bigots like you, I for no dey fight to marry my Enugu boyfriend. Ewu mmeeee!

BLOGLORD said...

Dear Poster,

Tell your friend this- if she has doubts already and fear lies somewhere within her as regards this wonderful/fabulous/loving fiancè of hers, then she had better return his ring. Love is not enough. Trust has a major role.

Otherwise,

She will live a marital life of fear and no trust for her spouse right beginning from her wedding day
.
She will walk in the shadow of fear for the rest of her marital life.

Even some romantic gestures will become suspicious...more like, Is he luring me to a death trap? Is he about to eat me?(lol)

Pray tell, is that life?

Marriage is to be enjoyed with you walking on solid ground not on egg shell.


Cheers!

Anonymous said...

No mind dem...if they say Ngwa people are lazy, Aba no be Ngwa land? Ndi ofe ha bu so mmanu ga chigide NdiIgbo ochi ta! Owu otu anyi si eme Ihe biafra owu?

Anonymous said...

Akuko Mike Ejeagha! Why dem never chop my mama?

Anonymous said...

Nwannem nwanyi hapu ya ka ona ko 'tuuu'! Onye nzuzu

Evo D'blunt said...

I'm one of the most regular visitor's here but seldom comment. But this one touch me so let me put in a word.

I am an Ngwa man, and yes I grew listening to this Bull crap. Infact at a point I got tired of defending my pple that when u make that statement, I say "YES!!! We eat humans and my best part is d armpit. Especially when well dried and peppered like kilishi" .

But really, I have researched this story, and to the best of my knowledge, it NEVER happened. I believe for some reason,(probably during the war, due to famine) someone might have been caught in the act, but as Igbos/Nigerians that we are, the propagators of the gist just had to generalize.

To madam poster. You never loved the guy enough so return the ring and move on. For ur information, The present governor is Ngwa, and there are uncountable successful businessmen and notable Ngwa men in this country. I'm pretty sure if ur suitor was from one of these families, ur parents would be dancing like Mr Ibu in Psquare's song(bank alert).

I've taken time to read a lot of the comments about the men being lazy and all sort. But I stand to say this is untrue. From my person study of the people, if you would like to hear the truth I will tell you that MAJORITY of the men tend to be very controlling and rigid and generally believe in themselves to be smart(just as a warri person believes "warri no dey carry last) . A lot of the Women can also be strong-willed (stubborn) and daring.

As for being fetish, I have traveled far and wide this country especially the west and just like other tribes, there are still fetish pple, but it is soo soooo less pronounced than it is in other places. In fact they are learners compared to others who I won't mention.

Bottom line, if you wanna marry an Ngwa or any other tribe. Study the person personally and then his family especially if you would be closely relating with each other.

Anonymous said...

Nna ehn... ezigbote iwe n'di iwe'm maka ihe poster na n'di ikwu. I'm from Ngwa, gimme his number Lemme marry him

Anonymous said...

Gi na Linda na e potoghari onu na this blog, na enyegide nsogbu otutu ruo abali, owu unu abughi ndi enugu??? Ara a gbakwala gi o fanbelt!

sisinene said...

I'm from isi ala ngwa north local government, the men are not lazy, and we don't eat people.. Anytime I mention to some people I'm from ngwa I always get that 'u eat people looks' maybe it happened in the past I'm not aware but I haven't seen or heard of it..We are very friendly people and industrious.your friend is not ready to get married.

Anonymous said...

No oh...she should return the ring & marry her father, nna ga-anu! By the time desperation starts coming...it'll be a situation of "man-na-man"! What is wrong with human beings? Tell me what village, local government or tribe that doesn't have a reputation for something? You find a man who's ready to wife you & you're chatting rubbish? If I was this guy eh, I'm chase & marry a very close friend of yours so you can be staring at us from your father's house.

Anonymous said...

Enugu people hates imo and abia state people so she will definitely have problems as long as her father doesn't approve so let her return the ring.

Anonymous said...

I always laughed at the Mbaise story until I dealt with a few of them. It was horrible, till date, I feel like I'm watching a horror movie when I remember... God forbid!!!

Anonymous said...

I always laughed at the Mbaise story until I dealt with a few of them. It was horrible, till date, I feel like I'm watching a horror movie when I remember... God forbid!!!

Anonymous said...

I always laughed at the Mbaise story until I dealt with a few of them. It was horrible, till date, I feel like I'm watching a horror movie when I remember... God forbid!!!

Eminado Onimisi said...

Poster i don't know what to advice you, but follow the peace of your heart. One of my besties is from ngwa, this is the ninth year of our friendship. She is really nice, she knows up to my extended family, they know her too. I am known as her bestie in both her immediate and extended family, I was her maid of honour when she married, i am her first child's god mum. When she was having her traditional marriage in the village, every one stopped from going just because of this ancient myth of her people eating people. My family agreed to my being her maid of honour because the white wedding wad in Abuja. My husband, then fiancee refused me going like his life was threatened by my going. He pacified me by offering to fund their white wedding reception drinks. I had no choice but to stay back.

ukwu dimond said...

If you like dump him cos of rubbish talk, na you sabi. You waited till he gave you ring before your eyes open, yeye dey worry you.

oguike akudo said...

I can't marry an ngwa man. My aunty did but didn't come out alive. Her husband was too mean to her abeg I don't want to remember the past. Then again ngwa people can be short o!

anonymous?lol said...

Made sense & wrote good English, he must have taken his drugs.

Evo D'blunt said...

@fan Emmanuel nwannem onyeka waawa. Ibu ezigbota kabron. Please igbos should learn to stop all these tribalism. It makes u vulnerable.

Cha Cha Cha Cha nde k'anyi Kwenu!!!
Cha Cha Cha Cha nde k'anyi rie number!!!
Nuo nu!!!

Evo D'blunt said...

Hehehehe. Ara efu gbabara gi. Ur guy just needed u out of there for some reason or u are just plain stupid liar. Agwo vikwa gi asun l'anya

Sassy Meruche said...

This poster is very stupid.You never ready to marry.There is nothing like that in Ngwa land.Senseless idiot.

Sassy Meruche said...

Thank you Linda.Stupid girl.

Anonymous said...

Na wah! I am Anambra born by origin and married to ngwaland for 4 years now. I have two kids and my husband's people dont joke with me (i make no boast here please) and my marriage is still flourishing. Tell your friend to contact me if she wants proof.

Anonymous said...

I am married to ngwa oh yet not originally from there and yet am still alive..ha!

Anonymous said...

I am married to ngwa oh yet not originally from there and yet am still alive..ha!

Anonymous said...

Hahahaha.....mbaise ndonu

Chikito The Professional Fire for Fire said...

πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚@ frustrated gwegs. The girl isn't even serious at all rara.

Chikito The Professional Fire for Fire said...

πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚

Chikito The Professional Fire for Fire said...

Not yet πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚ y'aff killed me oh. Chai....

Anonymous said...

Mbaise men are wife beater. The women ashawo although they are hardworking. You beta run if you c one

amanda favour said...

@anon 16:29
I bought 6k last December

Cyndy Ifeajika said...

Ur friend is either not ready to get married, or she doesn't love the guy enough. I am from Delta state and I'm married to someone from Isiala Ngwa south. I can swear with my life that they are the best people to have as inlaws. My parents spent their Christmas with us in ngwa land and guess what, they went back alive.
Ps. I visited my husband's village a couple of times before we got married. Never met a more accommodating clan like ngwa ppl. They'll sing and dance to welcome a stranger. This chick jst made me type a lot on SDK. Something I hv never done.

Anonymous said...

I am Anambra married to Ngwa and i havent been eaten for going to 5yrs now.

Chikito The Professional Fire for Fire said...

What?!! 😲😳

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