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Thursday, 9 March 2017

Actress Tonto Dikeh Details Her Domestic Violence Story - TEXT

Full text of Actress Tonto Dike's interview detailing how hubby beat her blue black and humiliated her....

Video Interview transcribed for SDK Blog



How did you feel when your son was handed to you after birth?


The feeling was really strange. It was like carrying my own heart in my arms. I heard his heart beat. I was so overwhelmed but I enjoy every minute of it till date.


When you had him, did you care about your career or it wasn't important at that moment?


Truthfully, I didn't have any other thought apart from being a mother. I just dedicated my life to going through my pregnancy, coming to terms with it and giving birth. I knew that I was not going back to work immediately because of the love I have for my son. I knew it was impossible to leave him at home. I have always told myself that when I give birth, I would like to breastfeed my child for a year and not go anywhere. I breastfed him for a year and a week.


What do you miss most about being single?


You really do not miss anything. Life is in stages. When it is time for you to be single, you'll be single. When it is time for you be married, you'll be married. When it is time for you to be elevated into another stage of your life, you will be elevated. I wouldn't say I miss anything being single. My single days were my single days. I did what I did during my single says, that was what was expected but now, I don't miss it.


What has been your greatest challenge as a mother?


I have never had any challenges with motherhood. I have a competent nanny that takes care of my child properly even when I am not there. Even if I didn't have a nanny, the welfare of my child would have been one of my greatest worries. I do have the best workers. I work with the best people. Anytime I am away which I am hardly ever, I know my son is safe.


There's been much publicity lately on your foundation. Can you tell us what it is about?


Well, my foundation wasn't launched recently. It's been around for 10years now. What you have been seeing is the "Tonto Dike Back to School Project". Basically, we are sending children back to school, focusing on the girl child , not forgetting the boy child too. There's a saying that goes "children are the leaders of tomorrow". I believe in change and if it has to come, we need to invest in the children who are going to bring about it. That's what the initiative is all about. I go to random schools that need me.


Is it marriage or motherhood that is preventing you from continuing your career?


I actually slowed down way before marriage due to personal reasons. I found myself thinking about what I really wanted. I was blocked emotionally and spiritually. There was this veil covering my face and I needed to identify with something greater which is God. I left my career to find God. I haven't gone back to acting because of my son. That's not to say that I am off the screen forever, I am coming back. 


Lately, there have been many stories concerning the happenings in your marriage. What do you have to say about this?


I have heard and read about it. Words cannot quantify how I feel about it. Like you rightly said, the whole issue is out there because I am a public figure. In all of these, I am just praying for strength, wisdom and everything else I need to move in and grow. It is a bitter experience for me to air. It is not easy. I am here because I believe I'll be helping someone out there by sharing my experience.

Do you have any regrets going into the marriage?


I try to live a life of not regretting my actions. I see every stage I am in as an elevation. I feel like I am going through this fire to come out stronger than I was. For now, I do not regret my marriage.

What has been your most embarrassing moment as a celebrity?


There has been a lot of moments. I cannot pinpoint any particular event. Just sitting down and reading something ill about yourself is embarrassing.


If you had your way, what story about yourself would you like to delete from the Internet?


If I had a way, I'll like to delete my whole existence because of my child. I know that the Internet never dies, he's going to grow up to read my stories and it is going to hurt him.


Tell us something about Tonto Dike that people do not know

I think people do not know that I am born again. I have been born again for a very long time. I did backslide at some point but I found my way back to God. It's been amazing and wonderful. I attend Mountain of Fire and I have two great pastors from two good churches that pray for me all the time.


Who do you miss most as a person?



Well, it's hard for me to be away from my child. I have only been away from him twice . The first time was when I went to Warri. It's really hard to stay away from him because he's very clingy. That's why I have a picture of him that I take with me everywhere I go.


What has been your biggest life lesson?


It has to do with going through things and not letting them bother me. 


What is that misconception about you that has brought you close to tears?

I have heard a lot of things about me. It's the same thing, it never changes. Something that has really hurt me recently was someone coming out to associate me with drugs, as a mother. It hurt me so much because no one sees how much of a good mother I am. Nobody knows the sacrifices I have made for my son. I have a file at home, I do a drug test every month. I write letters to my son, detailing how much his presence has changed my life. That rumour really broke and almost destroyed me.


You recently revealed that you have been treating STDs due to your husband's cheating ways


First of all, this interview is not meant to discredit my ex husband. It is not to bring him down or make people hate him. I am doing this for him to be a better man and like I said earlier, someone somewhere might learn from this. I did mention something about STDs. I am not taking back my words because they are not lies. I would not promote it, I would not embarrass my ex husband in that manner. Domestic violence is real. I do not understand how I went through it over and over again. I didn't stay back because of my son, I did it For myself because I loved my husband with all of my heart. I stayed because he begged me a couple of times to stay and I just didn't want to give up on my marriage. I believe people change. Anytime we had issues, my husband comes with a Pastor to beg. We have never had real counselling because he never admits his doings. I asked him over and over again why he kept doing it and if he felt no shame. I have pictures and videos of my domestic violence. I also have pictures at the Nigerian Embassy in Ghana because I had to run to them at some point. I didn't release the pictures because I was stark naked. My husband has really humiliated me so much. For anyone to tell me I am telling lies against my husband, it really hurts me more.


Were you on holiday in Ghana?


Yes, and he stays in Ghana. 



Is it true that his mother once caught you with marijuana and you pushed her down after she confronted you?

That is a lie from the devil. I am close to my mother-in-law and she has never seen me smoke. Mum, if you are watching, you know there were times that I was really sick and you offered me drugs that would make me better that I rejected because I knew I was breastfeeding my baby. I was scared of taking as little as Alabukun because I didn't know what it was going to do my child. I am saying this with God as my witness, my MIL has never seen me smoke and I did not push her down. Mum, if you are watching this, please tell the truth. I know that Kunle, your son put this story out there. You are a woman like me, you know this is not true. I really do not want to believe you said this.


Recently, a lady named Rosaline Meurer made a video saying she's your husband's PA, that she knows you and you are very nice to her. She also celebrated him on his birthday on her IG page. What do you have to say to her claims?


First of all, I do not know her personally but I am aware that she's sleeping with my husband. I am aware that my husband is taking care of her and she is the reason why he abandoned his son. I'm aware that she's the reason he abandoned his family because he took her on a trip. She's not my husband's sister, he is not her brother. She doesn't know me and I have never spoken to my husband about her before. I know their story and I know that they are in love. It's not just a relationship.



Rosaline posted a picture of a car on her IG page


My husband bought the car for her. He is responsible for her upkeep. I have pictures of them on a trip together. That's something my husband has never done for me or his family. It hurts me because I watched him make every dime he has and I know the sacrifices I made. All I expected from him was to be good to his family. It's not his first time. I have practically dragged someone off my husband's private part before. The women are not my problem. I was once single. I am not a saint. I forgive all of them with the love of God in my heart.



Is it true that he has kids from other women?


Yes, it is. My son is not his first child. That was one of my major concerns in the early stage of my marriage because he lied about not having any child. I didn't even know he was married unto the day the pictures were posted online. Recently, two women have contacted me that they have children for my husband but I cannot verify it. Like I said earlier, this interview is not to throw dirt on hi, pm. One of them said her child is 9months old, the other said her child is two years old. Just as i can't verify the gay accusations laid out against him. There are claims that he's bi-sexual.I don't know if it is true or not.


Is there any chance that you both would work things out if he claims to be a changed person?


I don't know what the future holds. I just want this phase of my life to be over and to be strong for my son. I really want it to be over because it is preventing me from moving on to greater things. I read negative things on the Internet over this issue everyday and it is really affecting me. There are huge projects I am supposed to be working on now but the issue keeps dragging me backwards. Going back to my marriage is a big impossibility. I do not pray to go back. I just want a cordial relationship for my son. He has hurt me so much and it is crazy how he keeps hurting me. People from his camp keep saying nonsense. He brought elders all the way from my village down to Abuja to beg me. Two hours later, I saw a post online by one Mr. Paul who claims to be his manager, saying I lied about all the revelations I made about buying my own cars and all. I do not have anything that belongs to him with me. I left my home with nothing. The clothes I wear today were given to me by Utee because I left my home with absolutely nothing. Thinking of all my husband's verbal abuse, I felt ugly, unworthy, less human. Then I called Utee and told her I wanted to feel powerful and beautiful.


 That was the lowest point in my life, having to ask for help. She responded 2 hours later. I do not want anyone saying I have any of my husband's property in my possession. I admit seizing one car and selling it off to give my son a better life. I have threat messages from him, saying the car wasn't mine and I have to return it. They have the Police searching for the car everywhere. I have proof of anything I say about my husband.



There's a picture of a car he claimed to have gifted your son for his birthday


There's no such car. That picture is an old picture. I take Uber to drop my son off at school and pick him up. That's how I run things now. We do not have any car belonging to my husband with us.


What advice do you have for women going through such?




First of all, to anyone who has been battered and bruised physically and emotionally, you are beautiful and God loves you. The truth of this matter is that most women live in self denial, they want to stay and make it work. They also want to pray and see changes. I advise that you seek help instead. In as much as you claim you are still in such marriage because of your children and wanting to give them a better life, you are actually hurting them. Most abusers grew up in hostile environments and I took my son away from such because I do not want him to grow up and become such a man. It is time for us to speak up for ourselves. The society doesn't help women because the backlash we receive from leaving our matrimonial homes is always horrible.


 The society needs to give us a break, we are humans and we need to heal. I said earlier that granting this interview is not out of anger or to bring down my husband. If my story heals just one person out there, I am okay with that. I am speaking up for all women. Enough is enough! Love does not hurt. It is not supposed to hurt. Please speak up and seek help. I have a deaf ear from all that violence.


 I just want to say to everybody that this really hurt me so much and I want it to die down. I want to move forward and stay strong for my son. In as much as half of you would not believe my story or that I am a changed person, I have nothing to prove to you.


 I want to thank all the women that have been sending me messages and DMing me, you all have been my source of inspiration. I also want to thank my husband's first wife, Mrs. Bimbo Coker for all the love and support. She's been in that position and her advice have been so helpful. Thank you


195 comments:

Miss Ess said...

It is well with her. I reaLly really feel for her

ukwu dimond said...

Is well

odi said...

Wish Her all the best.

*dat messed up silly girl*

QUEEN AMY Loves ACCESS BANK said...

This caught my attention
I watched my husband make all his money hmmmm, that means he was broke when you met and is not up-to two years cos we all know you were dating that bling bling dude. Churchill has to be investigated by Eric then .
Tonto please wipe your tears, look for a job or travel out of the country for a while till the embarrassment dies down
I pray you overcome this.

Yori Yori Princess Loveme Jeje said...

hmmmmmm it is well Tontoh. Be strong.

See his mouth like elenu okuko

Blackberry said...

Roseline Roseline! It would be a shame if churchill doesn't marry u, n i'll keep an eye on u till u marry, hehehe unless u go marry whiteman or remain single. I'm sure you are treating std's too.
Bottomline: you all suit each other!

Monkeynofine said...

And they will still come into this post with karma this karma that, hope is karma that also chase the first wife out of Churchill life? It is karma chasing all the married women out of their matrimonial home abi? OK let the karma continue.....

Anonymous said...

No one deserves to be battered or beaten, I said no one both male and female. All victims of DV should speak up as soon as possible. It doesn't kill, it's sets you free. I only pity her because she's a victim of DV, all others no concern me.

Olu Vee said...

We haff heard! Enough of tonto marriage crisis. U won't be d first neither d last. Do to others what u want to be done to U. 2mrw speaks of our today.

Arsenal Firstlady said...

I feel so sorry for you dear. Domestic violence is not anyone can wish even your enemy. I pray you come out stronger for your son and yourself

Bee10 said...

Eya very sad Tontoh will get better

popeyes said...

Poor girl! I no even understand why I have this special soft spot for Tonto. Ehugs little sis!

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Nawa, so she doesn't own a car now

LOLO IDEATO said...

I also want to thank my husband's first wife, Mrs. Bimbo Coker for all the love and support. She's been in that position and her advice have been so helpful



Prevention is still better than cure. Take a walk when you see the signs my dear sisters

nina chocomile said...

God will punish Churchill so much that he'll beg to die. Imagine doing this to someone's child, he should have just let her go if he didn't want the marriage again. Why torture her this way? Churchill just in case you see This, you're an animal, a beast. You will suffer in this life time. I don't care what tonto did as a single lady, no woman should go through shit like this.

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Blood of Jesu
Why? Why??
What a waaaaaawu

LOLO IDEATO said...

She might not be dating him for marriage. She only wants luxury and fun.

Rose is a 24year old... Is bobriskky dating bae for marriage?

Adeniji Bisi said...

Space booked...lemme go back and read




Mc pinky

LOLO IDEATO said...

So was he broke when he married those women?

She was dating him and watching while he was in previous marriages then

Anonymous said...

She did not in any part of the interview refer to him as her ex husband, she was consistent in calling him my husband.....so I wonder where did you get the ex husband part from?

BECKY DIVINE said...

Be strong baby! Be strong
God gat you!

Anonymous said...

Sorry to burst your bubble, rose ain't ready to marry churchill, she's not up to 30yrs, she's having fun, he loves her, she was there before tonto came along with her Bitchy self,nothing can break them and if she decides to marry churchill, it would be the best congugal bliss ever because she understands him way more than his tonto, afterall he didn't marry her properly, they did only introduction, no wedding traditionally or white.

Xristybabes said...

The Interviewer was something else abegi....Tonto my love,be strong ok?God got you always#bearhugs

Strong Mind said...

Well said!

Lifeisizzy said...

We all make mistakes,it is part of what makes us human.
How we recover and shy away from a repetition of our mistakes is all that really matters.
God please mend every broken heart.

peace maker said...

Tonto dike is a shameless stubborn woman. She must hv said or done something very serious to force d gentle man to beat her up like a Thief.

ovo said...

You'll be fine sweetie. Life goes on

BLUNT said...

Women! The way they drop shit when it's over is crazy. You've heard of him being bisexual, aren't you? Tonto, God is my witness, I saw you last year in a suggestive position with another girl you picked up at a garden in Abuja. The truth is, the both of you are scum. You married an irresponsible man just like you. My only concern is that you want the world to see him as the bad one. The both of you are bad. The both of you are too bad for that innocent child.

Anonymous said...

Oh my Tonto. I FEEL LIKE HUGGING HER

Anonymous said...

Tonto, go back to your movies and what you do best. Get in the gym and work out the anger and frustration. Stay healthy and strong for your baby and start making your own money again. I have long known that those ppl shouting the loudest about how great their relationship is are usually the ones living in misery. Marriage can be a blessing or a curse; Yet you will see ppl harassing Genny and Rita Dominic to go marry.

Bheem said...

#sad read

Anonymous said...

I love at sell the car part, Oshee bardesset

linda adaeze said...

Am out for anybody that will insult Tonto on this post.

Sharon Aminu said...

But why all the lies before?what were u trying to prove?if all this is true,why now?why not leave all the while? Anyway the story is somehow o but I pray u find peace and b strong for ur son.start over and God will c u try.

Olori footwear said...

It will be well. Men who beat their ♀ and rapists are the same

Valerie said...

E don do naa. Video of Tonto, text of Tonto, cry of Tonto. Haba! Una no de tire. Stella make una fish for other gists aside from Tonto biko.

Happyheart said...

This is not the time to condemn Tonto. She threw pride to the winds and apologised to everyone. That's not the Tonto we know. This is a new Tonto. I feel her pain and hope Oladunni is disgraced. Roseline na your own go worse last last just like Alero that married our Oga but later ran with her tail between her legs.
Be strong Tonto and stop talking.
Be strong. You have a great acting talent. Contact former producers and Directors. Get your groove back. You had your money before your ex came into your life. Do it for your son.
Malivelihood- thanks for keeping quiet and not mocking tonto.

snow white said...

May God comfort you..you sure gonna pass these phase of your life

Great lady said...

Na WA oh.
Already calling him "ex husband" marriage really has lost its essence.

LOLLAH said...

Oh nooo! You went through alot girl.it would be insane to go back. I pray things work out for you soon as its so hard to recover from this. God is your strength and thank you for this interview. E-hugs

peace maker said...

Madam. If ur hubby refused to take u on a trip ,it says a lot about ur character. He don't want u to start ur drama and nagging over there too. Amend ur manners for d sake of ur future relationship/ marriage. So u don't end up with disgrace again.

Anonymous said...

Enjoy this phase Tontolet.Learn the lessons and move on.This phase is to take you to the exact place you have actually prayed for.I went through this phase some years back.Today I am happy I did.I am wiser,smart

Anonymous said...

*Smarter and better. Be strong for King.

Adeniji Bisi said...

Why on earth will a man do dis trash to his wife?


Abeg stay strong dear



Mc pinky

Hadey Halaba said...

Blackberry is crazy from time immemorial ...lol
"Bottomline: you all suit each other" cranked me up,
meaning std carrier been infecting std carrier and both always treating std

chai

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Wao,this is very serious

Victory4me said...

Powers that be are not happy Tonto got married. Maybe spirit husband dey use Churchhill frustrate her.

Debi said...

God bless you Mrs bimbo coker.

Anonymous said...

I feel so sad for her... We all hope to get married to the right person but i just don't understand what happens in-between. i am so proud of you for taking the walk and not exposing your son to that violence.
After growing up in an abusive home.. i vowed never ever to stay in any relationship that has any trace of it. Honestly if any dude as much as say "i will slap you" i am gone. My mum eventually took a walk. I still remember that night. He slit her wrists and told her he will watch her die before she finally managed to escape. Me and my sibling all ran away from the house. i was just 10.
It is well o... May the lord strengthen and heal your heart.

#BVbabykingsway

Anonymous said...

I feel so sad for her... We all hope to get married to the right person but i just don't understand what happens in-between. i am so proud of you for taking the walk and not exposing your son to that violence.
After growing up in an abusive home.. i vowed never ever to stay in any relationship that has any trace of it. Honestly if any dude as much as say "i will slap you" i am gone. My mum eventually took a walk. I still remember that night. He slit her wrists and told her he will watch her die before she finally managed to escape. Me and my sibling all ran away from the house. i was just 10.
It is well o... May the lord strengthen and heal your heart.

#BVbabykingsway

Priceless said...

its well with her

Ugo Nze said...

My heart goes out to Tonto, I read every word and I believe she is honest about everything that happened.. I don't know her personally though, people judging her should let her be, we all make mistakes in life..She is just trying to live a normal life and I pray she finds the desired happiness.

Ogomegbunam said...

I believe Tonto cos that Churchill and his group of friends are overgrown babies. Birds of the same feather. Buruji Aniyikaiye God delivered me from you and I'm so glad i did not fall into ur trap. You and BigChurch should grow up already living fake lives. Can remember how you couldn't stop boasting when ur friend married Tonto. Tonto the Lord is ur strength you'll be fine.Please no self proclaimed Righteous soul should come and form judge here. He who is without sin should cast the first stone.

Anonymous said...

Looks like she lied about buying those cars herself. Her lies are now coming out. She has no car and she's using Uber. Na wa.

Anonymous said...

Tonto....i don't pity you at all. in fact shame on you.
When you fucked my hubby for 5M... did I go to Stella to report you.
When you fucked my ex boyfriend for 1000dollards..what did I do to you...nothing.
Shame on you I have no pity for you. Where is all the money nahhh...duped by your fake useless hubby.
This is just the beginning...born again or not...you will surely reap what you have sowed. mstweech.
Nobody bloody cares what you are going through but let me go back to read so that I can laugh at you and then show my hubby who paid you for sex.
Useless human being. At least now that you have scares all over your body, your toto can now rest. Animalll.

missylynn said...

Tonto stay strong and no matter people say about you,keep been positive cos I see a strong,courageous woman in you.may God see you through dear.

Anonymous said...

At least back then I was crying in a range...now you see crying in a uber..
Hahaha haha

peace maker said...

She should stop disgracing her son bcoz she hv no shame dancing naked in a market square.I thought U r tough woman. Why r disturbing us with a useless story. Like u r no longer d wild girl we know

Na Godwin said...

Hmmm.... Tonto, it is well with you. God will heal you and send help your way. Be Strong!

Na Godwin said...

Hmmm.... Tonto, it is well with you. God will heal you and send help your way. Be Strong!

Uriel (Freshdew) said...

"I have practically dragged someone off my husband's private part before." 😱😱😱

Bissy said...

You suffered in silence, and painted pictures of a rosey married life to the world! Now you speak the truth after all came crashing down! I feel your pain though! Get up, dust yourself and move on! You have a beautiful future ahead of you! Hold on to God's grace and power! True Love will find it's way to you! Recall Ciara 's story? Take care of your boy! Face your career! I miss your movies!

Anonymous said...

Tonto is broken,I pray God heals her.

Cherry Wine said...

Abeggi, make we hear word

Anonymous said...

She did refer to him as her husband then corrected herself and said ex husband at one point in the interview.

Mhzzbee int'l ( Mum Isabel) said...

Sorry about the DV and co, but does it means you do not own any car at all? Why should your son go with uber to school? The ride you flaunted then, is it not yours ...maybe I don't understand the whole thing .

Daenerys_targaryen said...

She should report him to the police. All these cry cry won't solve a thing. Report him if you want to serve as an example to women going through abuse.

Mhzzbee int'l ( Mum Isabel) said...

She should learn how to stop lying too.

Etsako Pearl said...

Dat spot she said she dragged a lady off her husband's private send chills down my spine😱
.... kpele Tonto! The Lord is Ur strength!πŸ’ͺ
Don't backslide again......u go dey alright.

St.FranKooL.... said...

#Life is all about a balance, in order to reach your goals and keep your sanity you need to relax and have some fun in your life*

linda adaeze said...

Get ur broke ass out of here. Inbe!

Anonymous said...

Hmmm dis life is turn by turn, wen dey r single n sleep wt married men 4 money, nobody hears, but wen dey marry n small girls won't let them be in their homes, they run to every blog willing to publish their story, kai infact they won't let the internet breathe. Whoever says it doesn't pay to lead a Godly life has clearly not jammed Tontoh's story. Tontoh sry ehhn, God will see u thru the way he saw all d other women u fuckd their husbands thru.

linda adaeze said...

There are different post on this blog must u comment here? Idiat!

sisi eko said...

I feel so sorry for her. Too much heartbreak to bear. Dayummm

Nike Victoria said...

With all d comments u've dropped abt Tonto's case I'm beginning to agree with u abt d no karma stuff

Anonymous said...

Shut that your mouth queen of rubbish. How dare you open that your illiterate mouth always talking thrash.a man is bad a man is bad. Because igbos carry drugs; do mostly kidnapping and rituals e.g. vampire. Would I say all igbo men are bad. What do you teach your kids. You're an irresponsible mother the way you talk.
My child belongs to two tribes. I don't start bastardizibg one tribe against another..
You are an excuse for a woman.
A product of poor upbringing.
If you are not educated,granted but atleast pretend you have a brain.
I feel pity for the type of blog fake personae you are living. Carrying out your fantasies meanwhile you no fit do Jack for outsiders.
We Yoruba women will keep marrying your men and the men vice versa. Bed and roses you made my week for finishing queen and boss

SUNSHINE said...

Oh yes, she did.
She said "my husband or rather, my ex husband". It was just once.
I watched till the end,

Yori Yori Princess Loveme Jeje said...

Stella this Peace maker will not let me concentrate at all. Chai i wonder why i keep laughing. Anybody that takes peacemaker word strong is a mumu. You all should just ignore him and carry on with your comments.

guys stop fighting with peace maker. he is a yeye guy

Anonymous said...

I am not going to condemn Tonto but this stories get k-leg, a smoker is a smoker, it's hard to quit, so the smoking part I do not believe Tonto on that part and u know mil in situations like this they over react apart from that there so many things that goes on in marriage that when there is fight many never says, they only say the favorite side of the story, I am not in support of wife beater but from the way Tonto lives her life when she was single tells a little she could be fault in her marriage apart there are a lot of lies on her first stories before this interview at first she bought cars for herself, now she took it away bcos of her son, her man was a broke man before marriage but her unheard foundation is rich now, he is a fraudster and u knew it but u choose to marry him bcos all that matters is the money and as for those talking about tribe for wife beater please singles don't say it's a tribe thing it is a nature you cannot change on some men, don't judge with tribe but judge with individual so u don't make a lifetime mistake.

Anonymous said...

Jobless idiatu, keep quiet when sane people are talking.

sisi eko said...

Anonymous, so why did he leave "the love of his life" to marry Tonto publicly? Why? If you say she has always been there and their love is unshakeable? Na question o

Not unless u are the other woman involved, u never can tell which of u a man loves deeply. Forget the charade. Churchill here is a confused man that wants to eat his cake and have it.

Why did his mistress claim that she was his PA if truly their affair is grounded and she's confident about it? She must be a foolish lady to allow her so called lover to elevate another woman above her, whilst she was busy hiding around dating him codedly until bubble burst.

That side chic should feel insulted because Churchill made Tonto his Queen officially before Nigerians. So the joke is on her, and on him too. I beg I beg.

Beautyplus said...

Tonto dear...God is ur strength.

My 1st comment in SDK. ..pls welcome me

Anonymous said...

Will you shut up you old foolish zygote. Stop talking rubbish. Get a life and quit bashing Tonto.

Lady T/ am worth more than a thousand dollars said...

Sorry to burst your bubble. If its true that Tonto has found Peace with God, then she has the last laugh. Because God makes all things new. He is the only one who knows how He does it. She is a new creature, old things have passed away and old things have become new. You can carry her past on your head like gala for all you want. The red card is there to show for it. The Blood of Jesus that cleanses from all sin.

Anonymous said...

Anoy 14.41
How many people don fuck you tire.... your thing must be as wide as EXPRESS ROAD ...CHEI

Only you one human being claims Tonto fucked her ex and then still fucked her husband .. biko why wont u fear God

sisi eko said...

Forget that clumsy interviewer. I wonder who "anointed" her a journalist. Biggest blunder ever

sisi eko said...

Well said.

Anonymous said...

Only you, she fuck your hubby, fuck your ex boyfriend. You must be a big mumu.

Anonymous said...

Only you Tonto fucked your husband for 5m and ec boyfriend for 1000 "dollards".Hmmm softly with the lies oh

Anonymous said...

Toyin is that you????? I don't pity Tonto one bit. she deserves all she got. There is still more coming, just watch and see. To all my hubby's side chicks, it will never be well with you and generations after you. You and your daughters will never know peace.ijn

Anonymous said...


@Anonymous14:40, are you for real? So Tonto dated your husband as well as your boyfriend? Were you run partners at all?
Your story does not add up, sorry.
Did she force your useless horse band and boyfriend to sleep with her?
You are a foolish woman!
Keep laughing at her downfall, your turn may be next. Already, your husband and boyfriend have not been faithful to your rotten pussy, so keep on laughing.
ODE!

sisi eko said...

SMH

I am the queen and the boss of this blog(CHIEF) said...

Hahahahahaha
James has reverted to peacemaker...
Smh

I am the queen and the boss of this blog(CHIEF) said...

Go and watch the video Ewu!...

I am the queen and the boss of this blog(CHIEF) said...

Are you minding them...
Churchill's spiritual wife will keep disgracing him!...

Anonymous said...

LIAR fuck for 5 million indeed. peacemaker we know it's you as anonymous playing rosaline piece mouth.Go find work jobless fool.

Anonymous said...

Sylvia you are a disgrace to women hypocrite as if you never slept with multiple men at the same times or deceive them. Mind your fucking life and if you are holy leave judgement to God because your opinion doesn't count on the long run. You are useless to yourself because you dont know that your comment will also have it Karma, people will also judge and criticise you for what you have done in the past.You will never be forgiven by people you hurt be it for something as small as gossip.Because most of you fair weather christians are hypocrites and you think there are small and big sins.
SINS is SINS, God doesn't look at it as small or big and if you think someone who killed a human being is more of a sinner than you who gossips and create rumours about people then you are deceiving yourself.We are all sinners one way or another and we believe God has forgiven us when we ask him to and if you think others deserve Karma because their sins is bigger than yours then know this your own karma is also coming, you will pay for your past sins. Some of you come here everyday to cry for financial help or looking for jobs, do you know the money you bribed to be a graduate is your karma? the school mates you refused to help when you had enough? the one your action made another student who studied hard but couldn't pass because you took her or his place in university during admission? Y'all fools think you have the monopoly to judge because you sit behind your cheap phones to spew trash.
Many virgins are being abused and killed by their husbands for what karma? why karma punished babies that are being raped and dumped in the streets? How many virgins are unable to conceive and how many of these women who have done runs, and countless abortions yet happily married and have kids to count?Where is their karma? All these politicians that are playing with your destinies where is karma? Mugabe still living for 90 years while new born opr babies are being killed daily where is the karma? Stupid ass people thinking with their anus.

Anonymous said...

peace maker idiot, a man crying like a little girl.shame on you since morning.tonto must give you nightmares.

ABUA Babe said...

Oh! My Tonto, here's a big hug to you, pls be strong.

Chickyclassy Mee said...

Anon 14:41 you are a liar,you forged this, only u hubby, ex hubby,why evils?

Anonymous said...

Tonto... keep replying me. Very soon I will come here with proof and you hide your face in shame.
Liar Liar, you gave been lying since the beginning of your marriage and you now expect these gullable bvs to believe you.
Better keep quiet or I will expose you some more.

Anonymous said...

You're a fool. This means that you also slept with other people's husband's before tonto became your karma. If u like don't hold ur dog, stay there and be calling 5 million that ur useless he goat and his generation can never afford

BLACK Loves Queen and The Boss said...

Chief chief

Nonye Inspired (James Bond's Girl) said...

Well Life happens!! and this should be a lesson to ladies who wanna marry a divorcee..U need to ask salient questions about the man you are about to marry before you enter the boat am happy she had a cordial relationship with the Bimbo Coker..Hmmm 'second hand and third hand husbands tire me oh...

Anonymous said...

Odiegwu! Karma ko, karma ni. And Stephanie Okereke is still married. At least I know a married man she dated well well.

fawaz said...

I pray God give you the strenght to scale through this. I can see that the birth of your child has changed who you are. As long as God is with you, whatever anyone says is irrevelant. Please one thing i beg of you, separate your personal life from the media. God bless you and your son amen

lovetoloveu said...

And u just had to hide yourself. If dem born u well unveil itself. Only u husband and boyfriend

peace maker said...

Madam. U r ill mannered and u insult ur hubby always. I know U don't allow him hv rest of mind at home with ur constant nagging ahd trouble. I believe he started beating ur out of frustration when u refused to change and he cannot endure it any longer.

Arab Money said...

This Mr Churchill is mean and he is a real manipulator

Jeni_zee jewellery uk +447459753657.. choker beads!! Pearls !! Coral!! said...

Fake story,only u had boyfriend and husband st the same time and even knew how much they paid her

Thatigbobabe(Lilyflower) said...

Kai!!!!

Rahel said...

Jesus is Lord! I actually feel like crying. Tonto, God is your strength. He will turn everything around for your good. Your bright morning is around the corner. Just stay strong love!

stella dimokokorkus said...

Peacemaker you are very insenstivie,if your mindset is like this you will end up in jail...RESPECT WOMEN AND MAY GOD STRIKE DOWN THE FINGERS OF ANYONE WHO LAYS HIS HANDS ON A WOMAN IRRESPECTIVE OF WHETHER SHE PRVOKED HIM OR NOT

Rahel said...

Sharon go read up on DV victims. They are experts in covering up. They can do anything to please their abuser.

Rahel said...

Jesus is Lord! I actually feel like crying. Tonto, God is your strength. He will turn everything around for your good. Your bright morning is around the corner. Just stay strong love!

Amacastel said...

May the lord be ur strength Tonto.

peace maker said...

Lolzz.Stella. No sane man will beat his wife up like thief as Tonto's hubby did unless he was provoked. He must hv endured it for long and reached his elastic limit b4 reacting at Last.
There are vicious women out there with fine face but mean heart

Anonymous said...

5 million naira from SIFAX right and $1000 from Aremo?

Valerie said...

The last time I checked I wasn't talking to you. Miserable swine. I still repeat. E don do. Kill yourself. You all that thrive on bad news and form like you are pitying the babe. Silly rat.

Anonymous said...

You are a very sick person for this statement..dont woryy all the females in your family will experience the same and worse

sholetoga said...

Hah...my Tontolet God is your strength.....I think she truly love Churchill.....please, stay strong for your son......I can feel her pain, when the other woman is enjoying all the privilege that should be for the wife......

Nice said...

In the same vein, u will be given the beating of ur life by someone who will claim u provoked him/her. U will not feel like u did but they will insist u did and give u the beating of ur life that ur life will be hanging by a thread. After that, I'll like to see u defend ur abuser, after all they reached their breaking point. Anuofia!

Mrz Gbagaun (aka pidgin arena) said...

Pls pack for one corner...

Anonymous said...

Tonto Tonto liar liar liar. The truth shall come out. Yes you were beaten sorry for that, but you always provoked your husband boo respect at all, lying to people that you get tasted every month for drug test ??? For what who gets tasted for drugs every month, unless you're an addict. You said you don't know rosline?????? What a stupid lie, did you not meet Churchill when he was trying to date Roselyn and you came and took over, where you not smoking Nd drinking with Churchill and Roselyn before you got pregnant. Where you guys not hanging out together. God is watching you. Now you want to tell the world it was rose who destroyed your marriage, you destroyed it with your own two hands. Liar liar liar if you can lie that you never meet rose then you're laying about every other thing. I was there when you people used to hang around and smoke weed. Pathetic liar. You should be ashamed of yourself.

Stella if you like don't post my comment, but trust me the truth will come out. Nonsense liar.

Anonymous said...


@Peacemaker, do you have any explanation as to why Churchill has the tendency to beat women to stupor? He is a violent man as far as women are concerned.
He used to beat his ex-wife and past partners.
Don't give a dog a bad name!

Etsako Pearl said...

Anon13:55
U mean mizz Meruwa is not up to 30years?

My grams of 70years looks younger Dan her!
Wawu!😱

Mrz Gbagaun (aka pidgin arena) said...

A smoker is a smoker Ko..
Forget it, I smoker wella before marriage... And ever since no more smoking.

Anonymous said...

Abeg help me answer this question...does a woman deserve to be raped if she wears a skimpy dress? Because i can see your argument leaning towards a woman being raped for her 'tempting' outfit.

Anonymous said...

It's sounds stupid when people keep sreaming Karma this, karma that. Karma my foot. Why is Karma always dealing with women and not our two faced wrinkled dick husband? It takes two to tango, these men were not forced nor raped, don't forget they opened their smelling mouth to ask the girl out first or vice versa, wait till the husbands catches Magun, I entered a bank yesterday and one stupid looking pot bellied looking very married stopped me and said I looked familiar, even gave me his card and said he lives in Abuja, I left the card at the bank, stupid men everywhere. The blame should be on both. Karma my foot. Tonto please get yourself together. Shit happens.

The General's Wife said...

I agree wit u πŸ’―%
Idiotic excuse of a man!
Animal!
And that Roseline,u have no iota of shame!
@Sisi Eko summed u and ur pitiable person plus ur condition very well. U were there and a Man U said loved u and u two were "comfortable" with each other married another instead of u. Shameless thing!

MrsB said...

Nothing is Lolzz here. He beat her repeatedly so he must have kept reaching his elastic limit right? If he's such a fighter, why can't he get a man to fight with? Stop encouraging bad behaviour to score cheap points on a blog where no one knows you. It's not right!
I used to think you were joking or just looking for popularity here but it's clear that this is a norm for you. Know this, no matter how provoked you are, you should never beat your wife. If you're tired because 'she is a nag and she fat' then seek counselling and help her lose weight.
But stop all these comments. You were born of a woman and will marry, birth one as well.

Justyswt said...

May God console u with a better man tontoh.

Olu Vee said...

Tonto's housemaid u are a bv too? If I start with u,u would regret ever. It would be cool if u just shut up frm here b4 I deal merciless with u.

anonymous gangster said...

You don't say! Hmmmmmmm

Starr Chy said...

The first day I saw Roseline in a movie, 2 thoughts crossed my mind; one is that she appears dumb and empty despite her looks, and the other is that she seems in the movies to market her goods. Damned! I am right again! Is this a gift or something? that I can easily spot sluts at just a glance

BLUNT said...

And what should happen to a woman that hits a man? Let me tell you something, a good number of DV cases begin with the woman hitting the man repeatedly. The day he loses his patience and retaliates, she runs to feminist forums like yours to scream blue murder. And who are you to tell God when and who to strike down?

one said...

Peacemaker ure a wicked fellow. A devil in mans body. Idiat

calabar chick said...

Stella Thank you!
Let him keep being insensitive.
Mscheew.

Anonymous said...

To all the self- righteous people on this thread, let him that has no sin cast the first stone... Not interested in the intricacies of the marriage, but domestic violence is a NO, NO. Better a failed marriage than an RIP story. If you make a mistake and have a chance to rectify it, grab the chance with both hands and feet. Societal expectations don't go through the experiences with you. You live to fight another day!

Chikito The Professional Fire for Fire said...

@sisi Eko- permit me to laugh! The joke isn't on roseline AT ALL! Afterall Tontoh do what roseline is doing and even more. So what the hell? Didn't she drive cars men bought for her too?

Please can we be objective at times. Yes tonto's home was broken. But as long as Rosaline remains single with many more married men in her quiver, there ain't no joke on her. The girl wants money and flashy things and she gone get it. When she's ready, she will settle and marry one small spoilt kid and dump Churchill like a bad habit. He thinks the money he's spending is the most she's seen? As if we don't know that mixed race girls are endangered species in Nigeria. That guy is another married he-goat suffering from low self confidence and instead of him using the change he has to build his home he's using it to chase a mixed race girl. Rosaline is most likely alright being a side chics because she won't be plummelled like tontoh. He can't touch her. Do you know how many Alhaji's would come for him if he does? When she chops him dry she would move on. And then his reputation would be too soiled to get over her so quickly. Men can be so foolish.

I don't blame him. I blame tontoh who didn't look for happiness in the right place.

Chikito The Professional Fire for Fire said...

Anon 15:43- You don't know it's the 'peaceful' man who sponsored her wedding? She was the main nau.

Chikito The Professional Fire for Fire said...

As in ehn...: toyin lawani would be having a ball right now

Chikito The Professional Fire for Fire said...

No oh! Na now she tie hair come be like saint. πŸ˜‚ Same tontoh??! Oh puhlease! ✋🏽

Chikito The Professional Fire for Fire said...

Baddest what? For car? Come let me give you gist of women who ran their ex husbands down. She's a learner. I sabi one wey sell house. Before the man return from business trip she don pack her children relocate. Dropped his things with the neighbors, as well as the wedding rings. And a very long letter asking him not to bother looking for her. Planned it with the kids who joined in her secret. They kept MUTE throughout the visa application process etc.

Chikito The Professional Fire for Fire said...

Wow thank God you're all alive. Evil men!

Anonymous said...

Buhahahahahhahahahaha.... "I have practically dragged someone out of my husband's private part " na wa o... Churchill is reallya king Kong

Anonymous said...

Oooh please bloody lies is she not the queen of threesomes. Did she not fuck rosey, and come to the world to talk rubbish.

Anonymous said...

You are a fool Nina and may that curse return to you.

Anonymous said...

Nike you dey agree?continue doing evil

Anonymous said...

13:59 you are right,tanto wasn't married,introduction isn't marriage.

Anonymous said...

Simi eko,a smart woman can tell when a man genuinely loves her,only in few cases will a woman not know if a man doesn't love her

Mary Fiyin said...

Big church has a big problem, and his also a womanizer.

Anonymous said...

See the screaming curses like if Churchill toast them now them no go wet... Nigerian women hypocrites..

Truth is u av your fun as single ladies... Breaking broke guys heart upandan... Insulting the ones wey get mind toast u as broke things... Sleeping with married men upandan... Aborting anyhow...& When una menopause wan start una go find prince charming & expect to enjoy Eldorado...

That Prince charming was once heartbroken & insulted as broke before e hammer..He couldn't enjoy the life you enjoyed in your youth

Now him don hammer as your oringo dey end Na him own dey start...U start calling him evil.. when u were once evil too...Make una swerve

Donation hub give me my 3.5m ooo

The young millionaire

Anonymous said...

Linda Tonto house girl..Caman shatap...Hungry girl

Donation hub give me my 3.5m ooo

The young millionaire

Anonymous said...

Una no dey use eye see young rich men like me..Taaaaa gbafuoooo

Donation hub pay me my 3.5m ooo

The young millionaire

Anonymous said...

You too must pay for every sin you committed. None shall you escape the punishment . More are coming your way. She slept with your ex and your husband. You must be an unfortunate being.

Anonymous said...

Idiot are you going to compare Roselyn and Tonto in movies, I dey laugh, Tonto that can't act, before she can act they have to read lines for her, all she does on set is smoke weed and get drunk before she can act,have you seen her in her movies, the useless girl is acting porn , doing useful rubbish. Now she's here acting Miss goody goody, she even said she stopped acting coz she was in a dark place,???? Hellooooo which dark place drugs and jazz,wake up people. She insulted mercy johnsons child,calling a baby ugly, when she knew Churchill was no longer interested, she came out to apologise to mercy johnson, so that she will mislead the Africa that she's changed, she knew what was coming, she planed it so that people can say she has changed, rubbish ask Madam Toyin Lawan dhe will tell you how deceiving Tonto is. We are just watching, she will soon outplay herself.

Anonymous said...

Still looking at headlines has Maje paid yam for Anita's head ?

Roseline abi with all the lies now she was before Tonto balbalah. Churchill is truly a scammer Na! bc he used Tonto to enable networking !
Pele Tonto God restore you.

these manipulators enjoy the free press now!Chia bullies and their lies! Repent for the kingdom is at hand!

Anonymous said...

Don't go back ever Tonto. You will rise above this.

Anonymous said...

So your husband and your boyfriend offered to pay a woman for sex when they had you and here you are insulting a woman that was bold enough to leave an abusive marriage. Self esteem is not easy to come by. My dear, it was Tonto yesterday it will be another tomorrow, direct your prayers at your own marriage.

nina chocomile said...

And you're a Bastard anon 19:16. The curse is yours and your family's. Idiot! I'm sure you're a beast like Churchill.

Anonymous said...

It does o! Ask men that have had stroke or one unknown illness about their past and you will be shocked. Most times their lives don't end well

seyi odulate said...

@ peacemaker or what do you cAll yourself. My prayer for you is that a man will flog your sisters, daughters and any female in your family. Ewu...

Anonymous said...

Haha...lmao

Anonymous said...

They were married o. Bride price was paid. They wore gold and silver outfits on that day. The introduction was low key. The traditional was not.

sisi eko said...

Chikito, I responded according to what the previous anonymous was saying.. gloating that the mistress is whom he loves and that they've been together before Tonto came aboard. OK, good.

So my query was, still is, why did he choose Tonto over her if truly the love was so deep. According to the anonymous? Hence the "joker" I highlighted. I still believe that the mistress allowed herself be used as Churchill's toy, whilst Tonto got herself grounded and God rewarded their love with a child.

So what has the mistress gained all along? Monies, perhaps? I hope none of you will tell me that she's the one enjoying the guy in all of these. Otherwise, she shouldn't have deactivated her social media out of pressure and shame. Just saying

OK bye

sisi eko said...

You know this @GW

sisi eko said...

Sunshine is right. Lol

Stella Nwodo said...

Tonto is way better

sisi eko said...

Chikito, it wasn't Tonto's intention to destroy her husband, goes to show she wasn't after his money. Selling the car was an after thought because she was under some financial duress. So I don't think rating her as "less baddest" because she didn't get more of his stuff is fair on her o.

Anonymous said...

Lies they were doing threesome and the girl wanted Churchill and she vexed. The man watching two of them having lesbian sex and then doing Tonto alone but the other girl wanted him too.

Chikito The Professional Fire for Fire said...

*tontoh did

Olu Vee said...

If u ever come for my comment again,sdk blog won't contain u and I. The last time I checked,I'm entitled to my opinion without insult from a stigma like you.

Starr Chy said...

Welcome Roseline, the fact still remains that you are dumb, empty and a slut!!! Whether she smokes weed before acting or not, she is still a bigger star than you and it will take you ages to achieve her status in the movie industry and thank Tonto for giving you this publicity because I bet no one knew you before now!!

Jennyswagger said...

Nawao odiegwiu

Nnukwu Nwanyi said...

Tonto, God is still saying something.... He ll see u thru.

Anonymous said...

You are lying. How much is he paying you to do this. Is it worth it? Remember that you reap more than what you sowed.

Anonymous said...

Blunt that is a very big lie. Most times abusers make the first move, so please put your money where your mouth is. You know, I beginning think that most of the men on this blog abuse women physically including you Blunt. Hmmm!

Anonymous said...

I dont support battering or cheating but mariage takes two. There is no perfect man nor woman, i am sure that tonto must have also played a part for the marital failure. It cant be all her hubby's fault. For you young ladies out there.if you are having fun with another woman husband. Dont worry enjoy ooo but I assure you that what goes around comes around

FLEX said...

Don't mind that woman. She's now forming d victim. Only someone who doesn't knw tonto very well will believe this her cock & bull story. Karma is dealing with her,period!

FLEX said...

Don't mind that woman. She's now forming d victim. Only someone who doesn't knw tonto very well will believe this her cock & bull story. Karma is dealing with her,period!

FLEX said...

Shut up,hopeless fool. Oya say piiim let me expose u here too. Runs girl. Ur own karma na small thing.

FLEX said...

Linda onye runs,i am warning u again,don't let me expose ur 10kobo runs here. Anu mpama! Ur own karma na koboko! Nkakwu

FLEX said...

Hahahahohohohehe...i laugh in spanish! Don't mind her. To all d husband fuckers,karma knows ur locations.

Ogomegbunam said...

Pls zip it peacemaker and live up to ur blog id

FLEX said...

Gbam!! It's her turn to cry now. Those women she destroyed their homes by sleeping with their husbands,cried then. Roseline maurer will cry later. Period. Tonto should stip all these drama & treat her STDs well. That was how those women treated theirs then!

FLEX said...

Who will welcome u? Okpo! With this ur useless comment. Go siddon joor.

Ogomegbunam said...

@anonymous 20:22 I don't need men like you. I have a job, I sell fabrics and I'm very comfortable rather men like u chase women like me.

FLEX said...

Gbam!!

Anonymous said...

Anon....how you come take know?
No be small something ooo.

Anonymous said...

Na wa ooo. This Tonto is really freaky.
How will you invite another woman into your matrimonial bed?
Shocking

Anonymous said...

Anonymous 00:59 you were the 3rd person there abi. Gullible Anonymous 16:07 has just believed. I have noticed that many bv forge stories to make things controvasial and sweet. Liars, pants on fire.

lovely heart said...

Why was tonto oppressing us with #great guy with large heart # push present #early xmas gift # numerous gifts before and after wedding #praises for making her a changed person etc whereas the marriage wasn't great.

Tonto do you realize how many families you made unhappy by giving a false image of happiness, people thinking their marriages were made in hell in comparison to yours.

Celebrities stop all these fake lifestyle.

Anonymous said...

Wether Toto is bad or not is not way we are saying.
She was molested,wrong wrong wrong!
Thanks Stella for posting all comments enjoying the drama here!

Anonymous said...

she only apologized to mercy,Tonto have messed with way too many people,she won't even know where to start from.

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