Tuesday IHN

Have a Splendid Day Everyone...

Just got a new phone and thinking of changing numbers Incase i break this simcard in the process of reducing it or i opt for a new number and carry around three phones which is not cool   at all.....#stress #makeideythinkam #hissss

OH DEBBY!....
Good day darling. My name is debby and am a blog visitor. I love you Stella , you are a lady with a heart of Gold. God bless you real good.

I love you too Debby..kai,you fine sha!

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Omobolanle Naima COVERS IHN

Heloo Stella bae and everyone in the house, it's ur girl BONARIO NNAGS WIFE I say make I grace the cover of IHN today chai over qualify dey worry me sef.. Shouts out to..........no one jare I don't lick "furo".. Abeg make una sofry bash me o e go pain me make I no lie, I no wan form like yesterday poster omoT.. Have a blast day!

LMAO..I see the shade...

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UNWILLING TO RETURN TO NIGERIA
Dear Stella,
Please kindly post on your blog. I am currently on vacation in America with my family on visit visa and don't intend to return to Nigeria, please what is the best way to start my stay. For instance through school, or ‎work. Those who relocated via visit visa how did you start? If already in America how do I gain admission into graduate school, I already have a masters degree from UK? Thanks a bunch.
Bella.
beautifulbelle008@gmail.com

Na wah!


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GBENSHING IN DREAMS
Hello Stella and fellow bvs. I don't know where this fits, but I need advice accordingly. What I am about to say isn't fiction. Its what I am going through. I need help because I am loosing it. My story goes like this: Am a 28year old lady. 


I got married last year. Prior to my wedding, before i see my period, it would be like am in a trance or something. I would start touching my vjay very fast, then I would have a very bad stomach pain. 


My period would come like the next day. Well I didn't pay attention to it. After marriage, I was TTC for 5months. Within the 5months, I always had sexual dreams. Having sex with a guy, now its women I have sex with in my dreams. On the 6th month of TTC, I conceived, but then I had same dream. The next day I started spotting, then the doctor said I had a miscarriage. All of a sudden after like a month, they said it was ectopic. And I had my right tube surgically removed.


 I have intensified my prayers now. I do midnight prayers now and I no longer have the dreams. Just one day I was so tired, I couldn't do the midnight prayers, I had same sexual dreams. This time with a female. Am so confused, I need help. I don't know what s going on anymore. 


I never ever used to believe in such things. Has someone experienced something similar? I need advice, clarifications, everything I can get my hands on. Thanks and God bless.



OMG....Its like you are possessed!....Please go for deliverance darling..

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10k RENT PER MONTH
I can't afford to renew my rent now which expires next month, I don't have the bulk of the money to pay (400k) per annum, so I'm looking for a single person within Abuja metropolis who has a spare room and who doesn't mind to rent it out to me for 10k monthly. I can assist with cleaning of the apartment twice or trice weekly. I can be reached on
Purpleroses1ra5@gmail.com. 


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FRIENDS AND ADVICE NEEDED
Good day stella and darling bvs. Thanks a lot stella for this platform,it has helped so many people. I don't know where this fits in but pls stella fix it somewhere. My name is Wura and I'm addicted to this blog.                             

 my fiancé and I are having  our introduction and traditional marriage this July. Last Saturday I borrowed his phone to call a friend of mine as I did not have credit on my phone. I'm not a team snoop and I don't touch his phone. After I finished making the call,I opened his whatsapp(I  haven't done that before)and I read his chats.    

 The first one was a girl that he is having sex with,he even described how her pussy is the best he has felt before and he can't wait to f**k her again. I continued and stella I read not less than 10 chats with different girls , telling them the same thing. one of the girls even told her that doesn't he f**k his fiancée, he said its different    . I felt like the world crashed on me,I felt betrayed, I cried and cried. I don't know what to do, our traditional wedding is just  less than 3 months. we haven't spoken since that Saturday, to make matter worse he was  not remorseful after I confronted him,he only said what right do I have to read his chats. stella and darling bvs, I'm so confused and downcasted. What do I do ? I love him so much and the families are preparing in top gear for our traditional marriage. I know I shouldn't have read his chats .but is that the issue right now?  , I'm hurting badly, I'm dying inside,I can't even tell anyone. Please your advices are welcome..

my pin is 7BA2FE9D. I need help please !!! 
Stella our pictures for your eyes only. thanks.



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PUTTING GOD FIRST IN MARRIAGE

Hello stella, something crossed my mind and i decided to share it with blog visitors. This is going to be a long read.

I read daily on this blog how it is not wise to leave it all to God when choosing a spouse. How you need to taste the cookie, live with a partner before you decide if he/she is worth getting married to. And I am always amazed when I read this. I will always say, you can never partner with God and end up with regrets. I want to buttress my point with my uncle's life journey.

My uncle, john,and his friend were chronic womanizers. Till today, I have not seen any man who played the ladies the way they did. My uncle's friend, drake, had a christian younger sister, Rita, who was of marriageable age. She seek God's face about a life partner and alas, God revealed to her than my uncle, john, was the man for her. She was shocked and scared! She went to her spiritual leader for counselling, thinking she must have heard wrong, but he also said the same thing. When her brother heard this, he went berserk, saying over his dead body will his sister marry his friend.

 (My uncle never knew all these was going on in their family).  
Some months later, the lady my uncle wanted to settle down with broke his heart and it was Rita that comforted him, one thing lead to another and they fell in love and got married like two years down the line. My uncle did not stop womanizing. We were all sad about this, because we all know Rita as a good lady, and she deserve a  faithful husband.
If we try to hint rita that her husband has not changed, she will insist her husband is faithful and never cheat on her. We eventually left her to continue living in a fools paradise. 

Five years down the line, my uncle has stopped womanizing, supports his wife in all she does. We were all shocked. Then one day, she told me and my siblings how it happened. She said she knew her husband was womanizing but decided to hand him over to God. She always prayed to God, that if truly God love her and he is present in her marriage, he should right everything wrong  in her home. She never nagged my uncle about his lifestyle. Anytime he hurts her, she reports him to God, because she believe God can fight her battle better. (I really wish when I marry, I can have just half of her patience)

Their marriage is over fifteen years now, and I envy them so much. My uncle always flaunt her success in life. She is much more financially grounded than her husband, but she dare not buy ordinary provision in the house with her money. My uncle takes care of everything. He tells her to keep investing her money to grow her business. Saying 'aferall, whether it is my wealth or yours, my children will inherit it all'

Now, my point is, their marriage worked out only because she puts God first. It wasn't a smooth ride for her but anytime things go wrong, she could confidently go to God and tell him to fix it since he  ordained the marriage himself. I believe God knew she would go places in life and needs a man who will support her goals and dreams, I guess he saw that in my uncle. I believe he needed to bring my uncle closer to himself, so he chose a virtuous christian woman for him.

I read a lot of chronicles here, and I ask myself, did these people see God's face when choosing a spouse? If you did, good, go back to him and tell him to fix the problem. Even when I wasn't a true christian, I knew the spiritual controls the physical. So, why don't we always seek the guidance of the highest spiritual being of all in our life decision. I have seen destinies that got truncated due to wrong marital choices. 

The only thing constant in life is change. That sweet man/lady you are dating today can change tomorrow. That person you thing you are in sync with today might have a different life journey from yours. We are humans, we all change. The only being that can tell if the changes that will happen in your life will be in sync with that of your spouse years down the line is God! So let's learn to seek his face before marrying that person.

In addition, singles, please discover who you are, and who you wish to be before you seek to be married. Self discovery goes a long way when deciding on a life partner. I am not perfect, but I pray I don't miss it maritally. The family is key. Let's all learn to seek God's opinion concerning who we marry so that we can give our kids a happy home. If God is in the boat, no matter the storm, the boat can't sink. God will always tell the storm, be still.

Thanks for reading my long epistle. Much love. 



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TEACHERS NEEDED URGENTLY
5 - 6 male and female Muslim teachers needed at a Montessori School in Lagos for immediate employment. Intending applicant must be able to teach primary school Mathematics and sciences.Also intending applicant must be residing around Ketu,Ojota,Ikosi,Alapere,Mile 12 and its environs. Send CV to info @gradesgate.com.ng or call 09069189000 



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ANKARA SALES
This is to inform the BVs that called for the Ankara sales I announced earlier,it was closed the morning I sent in the mail but I just got word its been reopened this morning,its a first come first serve thingy and can be closed anytime again......07030493148!
Regards to the boyfriends madam!
Its THE LAGOS SHOPPER!



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HAIR STYLIST WANTED
 A newly opened saloon in Ago palace way okota, lagos is looking for an experienced hair stylist and nail technician. Interested persons pls  call  09080375145 .     08091929123.


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VACANCY

Professional chef needed for immediate employment ( He or she can either live with the family or must stay very close to the location)

Location: Ikeja, Lagos.

Kindly send your Cv to josephegbu@icloud.com

Thank you Stella.....KISSES

NB: Those of us that got employed via this medium should kindly send in their testimonies or appreciate Stella, so others will know that the vacancies they see here are for real.



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VACANCY
Hi SDK Family,

My Organisation is currently in need of the two persons to fill the following vacany: 

1. Project Analyst 
Desired Minimum Education and Experience
Bachelor (Master’s Degree preferred) in Economics, Business, Finance, Development & Public Policy, or related field.
Minimum 2- 3 years’ work experience in a consulting or other professional office environment and capacity.
Applied research and analytics, project management, business and financial modelling.
Mastery of Microsoft Suit, especially Microsoft Word, Excel, and PowerPoint.
Process Improvement, Analyzing Information, Reporting Skills, Problem Solving.
 Fluent in spoken and written English.
2. ICT Officer

Desired Minimum Education, Experience & Capacity:

Bachelor (Master’s Degree preferred) in ICT, Communication, Business Administration, or a related field. A professional certificate in ICT will be an added advantage
Minimum 3 years’ work experience.
Project Management, Planning, Verbal Communication, Written Communication, Process Improvement, Analyzing Information, Reporting Skills, Problem Solving, Perspective
Web Savvy, with particular experience of online management for businesses in consulting, financial institutions, or environments with comparative project portfolio.
Process Improvement, Analyzing Information, Reporting Skills, Problem Solving.
Mastery of Microsoft Suit, especially Microsoft Word and PowerPoint.
Fluent in spoken and written English.
Who Should Apply: Absolutely ALL applicants are encouraged to apply!

How to Apply: All the following must be included for an application to be complete and
considered:

Resume – chronological order of educational achievements & certifications, and details of work experience.
Cover letter – (separate attachment of no more than 2 pages) explaining
How you recently demonstrated innovative thinking,
Your ideal working environment; and
Compensation – your expected range of compensation.
All documents must be sent as attachments in the same email to pvacinfo91@gmail.com on or before Wednesday 21st April  2017. Indicate the position being applied for in the email subject as follows – [NAME] for [POSITION].  Late applications will NOT be accepted.


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