Stella Dimoko Korkus.com: When A Woman Takes The Bull By The Horn And Asks Him Out!

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Saturday, 27 May 2017

When A Woman Takes The Bull By The Horn And Asks Him Out!

Please take this questions serious....you will be doing someone out there a whole world of good!





Has any female reading this ever asked a guy out before? what was the guys reaction? Did a relationship blossom from there on? Or Did the guy tell his friends and made fun of you? 


And for the guys.........

 how do you feel if a girl walks up to you and declares her intention/feelings? Will you take her serious or as cheap?Has it ever happened to you?How did you handle it?


80 comments:

I am king EZE said...

I like me a girl who knows what she wants and goes for it *wink* lol .......nahh green light will just do and I will do the rest.

Anonymous said...

It has happen to me. I take their request very serious and handle with care.
I date if i am not in a relationship.

Smurfette said...

There's obviously nothing wrong with a lady asking a guy out, though our society frowns at it,and some guys might not take the lady serious or tag her a cheap girl if the relationship goes south, but I think if any lady likes any guy, feel free, create a nice atmosphere for you and the guy, and I'm sure the rest will be history ,but be wise in your dealings ooooooo

Monkeynofine said...

Hey Stella while in secondary school, I was really crushing on one dude like thatπŸ˜‚ tho we live in same street , I did everything to get rid of that taught for where , so I summoned courage and wrote him a letter THAT I want him to be my fwend oooo before I got back home from school guy man Don kuku go report me to my parents ooooo boi the beating and the rest is history πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚ me before I got married if u don't come for me cha cha I no go move......

Iyara said...

I won't advice girls to ask an emotionally immature guy out.
I asked a guy out once he treated me like complete trash

I asked my husband out, in fact I took him out on our first date, he didn't make me feel anyhow, he accepted and even paid for our meal...lol

Its been 15years I'm so so happy

Kae_Kae said...

I did it once and it led nowhere. Can't even go into that.

Madam Small Chops said...

I've never asked a guy out but I know a guy who said "He will never take for granted any woman that will ask him out cos it shows that she knows what she wants".'

Well no be so dem take marry my mama so I wish people wey get mind luck.

Over to the guys though, come tell us your take on the subject matter.

Villager said...

Pliss dun axe me out,... Jos show me grin lihgt an lemme teck up my responcibiliti.

Anonymous said...

I will take her as a high class whore!

Anonymous said...

such a woman is a disgrace to womanhood.

Anonymous said...

He who finds a wife finds what is good and receives favor from the LORD.
Proverbs 18:22

"He" does the finding
Not "she"

Lagos Babe Elegance said...

Only if you hadn't meet a kiss and tell guyπŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚

Anonymous said...

Hhhmm. Stella very shy and quiet me decided to ask this guy out that I have been crushing on even though he was the one who started talking to me first but didn't come out to say what he wanted. Now I regret it, dude agreed o, after few romantic outings and one great sex he suddenly changed and even stopped answering my calls. Just because I have been single for a long time and decided to try asking a guy out for the first time. See my life outside!

Blackberry said...

Ask naija man out, Hahahahahaa, them go old....*looks for pammy to drink*

Sassy Meruche said...

Never done it before.I've never been the chaser,always the chased.I have a friend however who approached her then boyfriend.She made the first move, though they didn't end up with each other,but they had a very beautiful relationship.

I like me some bold girls however.If a girl sees a guy​she likes and decides to go for it,then that's really hold and mature of her.

Sassy Meruche said...

Awww,so nice.

Cynthia Iyede said...

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Sweet Child said...

The thing is that the society somehow frowns at it, they see it as if the girl is desparate, if not of these, no bigi. But i personally cant

Cynthia Iyede said...

Aw! It works for some and doesn't for others.

Cynthia Iyede said...

Aw! It works for some and doesn't for others.

Anonymous said...

Awww
I love love ��������

Anonymous said...

Look πŸ‘†
Don't give up if at first you don't succeed *in aliyah's voice*

Fity said...

It has happened thrice to me,and it was fun,thou the all later got married becos I was in my early twenties then and wasn't ready for marriage, I see nufyn wrong in it,if you want something go for it

CHI EXOTIC said...

Hehehehehehe
Sorry o.

LADYGEE said...

Well, the best I can do is to show green light. Even the green light has kept me wondering why I did that in the first place. Most men won't appreciate it if a lady comes chasing them o. They aren't exposed like that.

Anonymous said...

Hummmm
I have done it b4 but I regret it, most Nigeria guys are myopic in thinking, d guy took advantage of it, he was in a very serious relationship but still dated me cause he felt it was an opportunity he shdnt miss. I won't try it again and even tell the story to my children to discourage them from doing it.

NIRVANA said...

Most times it leads nowhere. Most Nigerian men not all are emotionally immature to handle it. Before you know it, they start telling everyone that you toasted them, then people will start seeing you as a cheap girl. My roomie back in school did it and the end result was very bad. Very embarrassing something.

Immaculate Heart said...

I can't try it again.. Before I gained admission into de university I meet one handsome guy fell for him, asked him out but unfortunately he turned me down. That was a huge mistake and I regretted it. thank God I'm married to the most handsome and caring husband..before once I see a handsome dude my body will start doing somehow lol.

my opinion said...

I don't advice it!

Just give him green light, if he doesn't come for you; move on!

These men? Forget 21st century o! Their minds are still backdated! Maka madu ikpari onwe ya...

Anonymous said...

The foolish woman takes the bull by the horn; the bull will crush her!

Amacastel said...

Lolzzz ur mum will be like "nwaa ichuabgo nwoke @ ur age "

miss priya said...

Yes oooo, we are winning baby 😘

miss priya said...

Hahaha I feel you

Fan Emmanuel said...

Villager I like your house.

Fan Emmanuel said...

Hahahaha

Taiwo Awolesi said...

The first n last i ever did was sometime Last year. Asked d guy if he was in a relationship and he told me "partially". Thought i had found potential boyvrend, unfortunately he was a jigolo. I will never make d first move again.

yellow sisi said...

Did once but dude didn't take it seriously.

I am king EZE said...

Priya love....we stay wining baby

Em jay said...

Shame will never let me laiye.
I have frnd who even go as far as asking for number.

emie said...

mbanu..ill literally die if he rejects...

AbaMade said...

Ask a Naija guy out and they'll hold it against you for the rest of their life.not all though, but 25% no be pass mark.

St.FranKooL.... said...

#Stay close to what makes you feel good. If something doesn't feel right, it probably isn't*

Anonymous said...

Not a wise decision. Every society has its own style. Ours doesn't encourage that. In Nigeria, the best a woman should do is to drop signals. If the guy wants you, he would then come for you.

Anonymous said...

I could do that only if I am dealing with a MAN and not some boy who would go on a ego/power trip with it.

MISS Jacobs.

Miss Ess said...

It is not appropriate at all. Try it and the next thing on a man's mind is free pussy.

RadioHead Steelheart said...

Hmmm This question reminds of KENNY ROGER's Song : What I did for love...I did it when I was in school, I was crushing on one Fellowship Brother, I MISTAKENLY told him oh about it..WOW this guy snubbed me and kept his distance from me after smooching the shit of me..Oh Lawd I swore never to try it again..

Anonymous said...

Why would you ask a guy out?
Have a FWB agreement and life goes on. Hehehe.

Shennel Hyacinth said...

I won't, I won't and I won't 🚢🏼🚢🏼

Anonymous said...

Nigeria men are generally not emotionally mature enough and evolved for this.

I would strongly advise against this.

SANDY YO said...

As in eh!!!πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜…πŸ˜† They must always kiss and tell na. Na today! Wont take you serious as such and end up just using you. Anyhoo, da pride I have got has never allowed me try that sha. Never even given it a thought.. I am of the opinion that the guys should always do the chase joor. Makes it sweeter and all.πŸ‘

Anonymous said...

Even in the white man's land, it is not advised to ask a guy out... There are many dating tips on the internet that would enlighten you. When a female asks a male out, she gives him all the power in the relationship. How does she say no sex in the relationship when she came to him first? Making the first move as a woman also encourages promiscuity as most men will not turn such an offer down. They just see the woman as a tool to be used and discarded. It is not the natural order of relationships...

Tuscany IG, TWITTER @onimisibespoke said...

Am sure u have read here how guys chased girls for yrs only to ignore the girls after sex.
He stopped picking ur calls not cause u asked him out, the sex might have been great for u but not for him.

Anonymous said...

Hmmmmmm

prettyPrisi said...

Hnmnmm I for tell my story but I never gather liver...will spill soon.

SDK PEPPER-THEM QUEEN said...

I am the last girl that will ask a man out no matter how huge the crush is lol
even when I meet a guy I like and he works up to me to chat...if he drops his number for me, I will NEVER call!
Guys learn o, ask for the girls number if you are interested, don't drop business card cos OYO is your case
That's old fashioned girl!!!

Anonymous said...

Since it's comes to these issue now, all u ladies are saying u can't do it, most of u who claiming feminist and equal right with man, why should have to wait for the man to come for you first. For me as guy don't mine if lady walk up to me,i have gotten experience while I was in secondry sch, I ran that day.

maryjaneforchrist said...

What a wawu

maryjaneforchrist said...

Interesting!

Dark Horse *** for your 3D wall papers call 09021363953 said...

Oh Lawd the fuckery going in some fellowships cannot be accounted for😁😁 back then in fellowship, I went to give a welcoming handshake to this first timer babe, as I took my gaze to her boobs, there and then I knew I could fvck this one. Kpakpakpa film start to dy play. Sometimes straight after fellowship for her room sef. The gal is one hell of a coded babe. Straight face for fellowship na our motto.

Dark Horse *** for your 3D wall papers call 09021363953 said...

I have deep respect for such ladies esp the ones that have their acts together. The problem I see in it is that these ladies eventually get insecure in the relationship.

ifeoma nnamani said...

I have never and will never since I am married

DON™ said...

You got me laughing.πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚

DON™ said...

Lol @ smooching the shit of me..πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚

Anonymous said...

To be honest a girl making her intentions known is an ego boost. Now it would be weird if a girl you don't know at all comes up to you and makes such a declaration, and also the manner in which it is said matters a lot. Another important issue is that they should be aware that just because you approach a guy doesn't mean he shares the same feelings.

Puregold said...

Is not advisable. A friend of mine did it, the guy just messed up her life and walked away.I will never try it.

jelly said...

Never ever

Cynthia Iyede said...

Hahahahaha don't break my ribs please.

oscar ogbakpan said...

I Ve Not Seen Any Lady Yet. But If I Get One.I Did Cherish,respect,admire And Love Her.Thats My Personal Opinion.Thank You

HANDEL said...

Well we can't all share thesame story! D beauty of life iz what works 4 a myt crash on B! I waz d shy type! My wife askd me out n now 8yrs latr it keeps gettin better by d day!

Justyswt said...

I always admire girls that would be bold enough to ask a guy out. But most guys will just use and dump them cos they feel they are cheap.

Justyswt said...

Awwwwww, thank God it worked out for u.

Justyswt said...

Hehe villager, lol @ responsibility.

Justyswt said...

Chai anon 14:20 my belle o. Lol.

Jasmine said...

Does it really matter? Ask him out if you like him. Asking him out doesn't mean you have to tell him outrightly.


U can just say u like him and want to be his friend. Then he can take it up from there

Jasmine said...

Mumu

Jasmine said...

It's

Lilly simple said...

Exactly @ your last sentence

Meeee said...

You must be talking about idi araba guys....kiss and tell boku for that medical school

Anonymous said...

It has happened to on several occasions albeit not direct wooing. But I've had girls do th3 troubles in making sure we hooked up and all, and personally, I honestly don't see anything wrong with it. Infact, I respect a girl more when she does so. That's just me though. The first time it happened to me was in 2002, and truth be told, I chickened-out and messed everything up. Subsequently though I handled it with tact and maturity. Of course I had had a change of mindset and perception years later, hence the better handling.

Mc.

Anonymous said...

Dont know why people are saying they will never try it again. I have asked a guy out and he turned me down but we are still friends till today. I even always abuse him that "you that did not want to date me". You just have to be matured about it. When you are looking for a job and you get turned down, do you stop applying for jobs? If you meet an idiot that can not handle it abeg move on, he is an idiot, but not all men are like that. You will end of up one that will appreciate the gesture. Then again women should now understand where men are coming from with women turning them down, left right and center. It is well with the world jare.

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