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Saturday, 1 July 2017

Chronicle Of Blog Visitor Narrative...

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STAND ALONE NARRATIVE
BETWEEN A MAN AND HIS DAUGHTER


Hello Stella,

I am sending this mail to guide my decision and idea.

Some time ago, I was discussing with my wife a sensitive issue the other day when on the news it was reported that a man slept with his daughter.

Although I totally condemn the act of a man sleeping with his daughter, sometimes I think there is a something to be learnt from this.

I have a problem with an adult daughter dressing carelessly at home. Sometimes you see a girl dressing in bum shorts and see-tru singlets at home around her brothers and father. Much as these people should have self control and know she is their kin, they have blood running in their veins and sometimes unconsciously they will start having ideas. You know how the devil works.

I remember in those days, when a girl dresses carelessly, their mother will ask her to go change. But today, things have changed.

So I told my wife that when our daughter grows up, I won't want that in my house. Though she didn't object, I heard the undertone on like "it doesn't matter"

My question:
Does it matter?
Am I being unnecessarily paranoid?
Am I being archaic?

Though I know I will never do such a thing to my own daughter, but one cannot have his grown up daughter dressing carelessly around her equally grown up brothers. Am I wrong?

I look forward to responses.


179 comments:

Ed said...

Me too look forward to responses... Though I don't see any big deal in ones daughter dressing that way at home. At least we were all taught morals at home such that my siblings can't ever think of such...

Anonymous said...

It is wrong. You are reasoning like a man.

DoppelgΓ€nger said...

So you'd rather tell your daughter how to dress around adults than making sure men like you and around you know that they don't have the right to define what is decent or isn't and a woman(human) has the right to wear what they like.
If anyone is turned on by a dressing then that is on them and not on the wearer of the dress. A woman's no is no it doesn't matter what her dress looks like or how looking at her makes you feel. Teach your daughter that and also let silly men turned on by dressing know that too.

SWEETIE said...

To me I don't really see anything wrong in dressing carelessly sometimes were my brothers or father its.except they were not properly brought up,I dress carelessly most times were my father its and nothing of such.depends on ur mind set.

Blackberry said...

U can caution your daughter against sexually sick people..tell her d dangers of indecent dressing, as for u, let your thoughts be pure n tell ur sons dirty thoughts could land them in jail.
There's a price to pay for indecency though, just a matter of time....

STARRY LARRY said...

Well it's not good and I wasn't trained that way. I can't be totally nude in front of my mum, let alone a male, in other words, I'm a very shy person and so I will train my daughter/s to always respect their nakedness. Mr man, abeg make you no look your daughter's side even if she's dressing naked in your presence, self control is a must please




*Larry was here*

Lady T/ am worth more than a thousand dollars said...

Dear poster, God bless you for being real. We never really know when it starts.
And no, I have a problem with girls dressing carelessly in the house regardless of if its their home or with their brothers. Wisdom is profitable to direct. Now that we have all kind of things happening. It is not to much to be cautious and to guard ourselves and help our loved ones as well.

I am the queen and the boss of this blog(CHIEF) said...

Jesus!...
This poster is a pervert!!,,,
How can you even sit down and think of this rubbish?...
Gosh!...
You stink!...
If you can not control your sexual urge around your daughter that means you are a demon!!...
A bastard and a stupid he goat!,..
You want to commit an incest with your daughter abi?...
You are doomed!!...
As big as my children are,I still bath them sometimes and even sleep with them on the same bed!!...such rubbish thoughts have never crossed my mind when I can easily get any dude I want...
They are my flesh and blood!!...
Tueh on you!!...
Abomination!!...
See person husband and father...
Tueh on you again!!..,
If I were your wife,I will knack serious pigeon on your head!...

Anonymous said...

If the man drinks, he will not differentiate between chiken and goat

Amaka Hundeyin said...

You're not wrong Mr, forget what people who try to be modern preach and all, it does matter the way a female is dressed especially when she's not in her room. I mean why walk around scantily clad when you're not in a female hostel?
This step you're taking is good, but also do well to give your children proper sex education.

Miss Juliet said...

You are not wrong,a girl should dress well all the tym weda she's with her brothers or father or anybody..Dick no sabi blood o

Anonymous said...

deliverance and annointing water fall on you.

Dope BaBe said...

You are not wrong for wanting your daughter dressing decently at home.

But what's with "men have blood running in their veins"??

Women don't have same blood?

Why do men look for senseless excuses to back up their atrocities.

Seriously it πŸ‘€πŸ‘€πŸ‘€πŸ‘€πŸ‘€ me

Men should have the fear of God and self control.

agbo ruth said...

It matters o because d spirit of konji don't knw daughter or sister....I wonder what God was thinking when he created dat pe*******

Chinyelugo Esther said...

Its a wise thought to put ur daughters to order when they reach adolescence. Times have changed and the devil has come out in full glare to entrap unsuspecting people. Why give him the chance. When you train a girl you train a nation. And its for her own good and safety.Some clothing are meant to be worn in the privacy of ur own room. Its a free world but Our daughters are precious. Lets correct them while we can

Bootylycious diva said...

This isnt chronicles abeg ,oga kids this days have their own fashion , especially teenages my second daughter at 15 she looks and dresses like a superstar i dont know how , if she style her hair you will think she just came from a saloon , kids this days come out with their own brand .my first daughter cannot be caught dead wearing heels , she loves her snickers .so my dear that thoughts in your mind are evil , must men that sleep with their daughters are just simply possesed with evil spirit .

I am king EZE said...

Boys should be taught that women aren't sexual objects, yes, but the daughter should also be taught that there's a time and place for everything and not everybody will be comfortable with somebody's nudity, nor is it, in many places and situations, socially acceptable to be in the nude. One person's comfort level (being nude) shouldn't trump another person's comfort level (not knowing where to look when a nude person's all in their face). Perhaps she can be in her room nude, but cover up out of respect for certain family members feelings when she comes out of her room? And what about company, or if you need to call a repairman to the house, or if the younger brothers want to invite friends over? Not only could that be uncomfortable, or even dangerous.

Breanna Mag said...

Seek help Sir! And be fast about it. The fact that you can even reason or justify this act is concerning! Gosh

PoshyJay said...

True talk!Even a girl is not supposed to be scantily dressed EVEN in the mist of her fellow girls/ladies not this days that homosexuals lesbians are everywhere now.

da diva said...

Mr man free your mind,no dey reason like dat.
When I was at home, I usually dress with pants n bra n be walking round the whole house, sometimes when I enter my parents room,my dad will be like why not be naked naa, like it's nothing atall and yes I ve brothers n I would still go to their room with my pants n bra, except when we have visitor,even till now, if I go home I still do dat cos it has become a part of me. please free your mind and be free with your family.

redbotafly said...

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Dope BaBe said...

Your second daughter 15? And I was thinking you're a young babe.
I salute you ma.

miss kenefo said...

For the first time in a long while I can totally understand your annoyance. The man is archaic, perverted and silly for thinking that way.

Only a person with a problem will get turned on by the way their child dresses. My dad had bumped into me naked a couple of times and he acted like I was fully dressed. Siblings have walked into the bathroom or too. while I'm takin a shower or dressing up to pick up something and we will even have a conversation before they walk out. What is there to be enticed in an immediate family member's body? Nonsense.

Tiger H said...

Oga...make u no dick down ur daughter oooh

This one you're talking like this...you're already imagining the act.

Dope BaBe said...

Babe easy on the insult is uncalled for.

Kamikaze said...

This chronicle is so abhorrent I shivered in disgust while reading it.This is loathsome.I want to spit.

You are basically saying its possible for you to be sexually aroused by your daughter,your mother and your sisters because 'you have blood running in your veins'.

Why is it okay to insult men like this?Why do men sit back and take it and often through their actions lend support to all the name calling?why?Why can't men roar in anger when they are called dogs?What stupid excuse is blood running in veins?

Mothers asked their daughters(and sons) to cover up for the sake of decency and modesty.Not because they married and bore 'animals'.

I LOVE my daddy with all my heart and I wish I can somehow unread this rubbish an adult posted.

This is all shades of fucked man!Whaaaatttt!To be female is a pain.Your daughter not only has to guard against predators outside,even in her home,amongst loved ones,there is still no freedom and liberty.

miss kenefo said...

Then men should not go about shirtless or with mere boxers in the house. Not only men have the ability to be enticed.

The problem here is understanding where to draw the line and teaching our children self control.

Did you say dick no sabi blood? Talking from a personal experience miss Julie? Your home and upbringing must have been very different from most normal homes.

da diva said...

Lol
Queen,but he said he cannot do such. He's being paranoid and he has all the right to be. We all see things differently n dat is exactly how he sees his. I just dont see anything bad in dressing like dat so long as you're home.

THE PARROT said...

Pls did you even read my mail? I said I am taking precaution for the future. I am a husband married to the most loving wife.

I only said, it is better to curtail what a daughter wears esp when she was grown up. Don't forget a parent won't always b home with the kids to check what they a doing a with the Internet normalising incestuous affairs, one needs b careful with their kids.

Where did I fault madam?

MISS DIASPORA said...

Poster if I were ur wife,with this mentality u have I won't let u near my daughter even if she's wearing overall cos u will still find something sexual abt that,this kind of thot is not supposed to be in ur brain,so becos "men have blood running in their veins" that makes it ok to be sexually attracted to ur daughter,no matter wat she's wearing oga na ur pikin and ur prick no suppose shake head talk more of standing abeg go for deliverance,u will need it in the nearest future

miss kenefo said...

One of the most irritating chronicles I've ever read. In those days our mothers and sisters walked about naked or topless. We did not record any invest taking place. But nowadays men want to wrap a woman like a mummy. Cover your hair. Cover your ankles. Wear a bra even at home in the presence of family? That is absurd!

Men should understand that the world does not revolve around them and self control is key. If seeing your daughter or sister scantily dressed in the house is a big deal then I'm sure it's your type that rape and impregnate mad women who walk around naked on the road.

Godgirl said...

First I'll like to say immoral dressing should not be an excuse for such abominable act . no matter what, people will always have an excuse for any evil they commit. That being said, personally I think it is not proper for ladies to dress anyhow at home(not because of fathers or brothers). Any clothing that is inappropriate to put on before any regular guy should not be put on at home except in ur rum. This habit of putting on anything at home is what some people inculcate wen dey get to school, for example u see ladies dress anyhow to fetch water with the excuse of sebi am in my lodge whereas guys are all around dem. As a father if u see ur daughter dress the way u don't like, its ur duty to correct her, u don't have to wait for the mother to do so, cos the mother may see it as nothing.

Kamikaze said...

I'm so pained reading this.Like physical pain.It's grabbed my neck and it's squeezing.

Poster to slap you dey hungry me.But I won't just stop at slap.

Your type probably always blames the victims in rape attacks.

I wonder the kind of kids you will raise.

gagaga said...

No...Doppel Sweet, I disagree with you. Even the Bible says we should not make our brothers stumble..hence we should watch how we dress,our grooming and behaviour too. As long as it can have negative effect on other people, our family members inclusive, then we must be careful. We all have roles to play. Ladies should mind their grooming, both outdoor or indoor (when people are around) and men too should not look lustfully or have lustful feelings towards the opposite sex, who is not their spouse, be it family member or not. It requires discipline though.

World People said...

Poster here in the United States it is summer

Every female above 3 is on very tiny bum short, it's so short you can see the ass cheeks. Even mothers and grandma's have on mid thigh shorts

For the top, they wear the flimsiest, tiniest top that exposes their stomach and back. Just so they can get fresh air

In my grad school. They dress EXACTLY the same way. Every female is practically naked. I have seen it all. Different kind of breast, yansh and legs... all exposed, for you to see. The leave their house this way and return home this way. They don't get assualted or ridiculed. No one even looks at them twice.

So what would you say in this situation ?

Please you are sick if you start developing feelings for your daughter cos she scantily dressed. Even if she's nude, your prick must not rise.

Person Peekeen said...

Tueh indeed
#lol
No doubt we have blood running through our veins,but that still doesn't give a father or mother the right to think of such negative thoughts at all..
#Tueh again...
#Asi......#Abomination!!!
#Your own flesh and blood kwa..
#Serious self-control is needed in this case...

MOST BEAUTIFUL said...

Oga you are a pervert!!! Please shift one side. Just imagine the crazy thoughts you Re having. You are not even concerned about outsiders, you are bothered about you and your sons having feelings for your flesh and blood and you have the guts to say "blood rushes in your vein" abi wetin seek help fast!

THE PARROT said...

If only you would understand where i'm coming from.

First off, I don't have a daughter...but I hope to some day.

And one thing married people do is make plans an take decisions for the future.

I don't have a daughter for who I am lusting over...i'm just planning for the future taking into cognizance recent happenings in the society.

Last time I read a guy married his sister...in my mind, I just believe there was a point when th brother started getting attracted to his sister.

Am I wrong dear?

Rredalert said...

Good! A man wrote today! Glad it's not only the women that's got something to tell.

My take on this is this
I do not think a biological father or brother should have feelings for ones daughter or sister once you are aware that you are related. I can't imagine myself being turned on by my dad or brother, it isn't just normal or natural. If such ideas are there????? Something is definitely wrong. ( psychiatric evaluation is needed a sap)

As for the dressing, granted that indecent dressing is abominable, .... A home is a place where one should feel free and safe enough to unwind and receive ventilation(breeze) without being bothered with thought s of indecency or otherwise. Granted one is basically covered. Whether bum shorts oh, tank tops oh, it's the home for crying out loud. When you come home , you exchange the heavy clothing for a light relaxing get up.
How about in those primitive days, when clothes weren't worn, when women walk around only in bare torsos????? And men only in loin coverings????
It's all in the mind.
No need to insult the poster please

Anonymous said...

You don't understand. Hmmm. Things re happening. Even pastors, respective personality do sleep with their daughters. It all starts from imagination. Is the father not a man with sexual urges, is he not a sexual being. Pls mothers teach ur grown up daughters how to dress in front of a man, wether father, brother, uncle, father's friend. The world has gone berserk. Our children and husband will not be usesd against us ooh.

O. Y. O said...

Well, am an only daughter in the midst of guys. I dress very well and cover up properly. 4example, if I want to wear only spag, I must wear my bra and I have been over disciplined by my dad since I was small so dats what guided me. It got to an extent that one of my brothers will make jest of me and say when u give birth,wont u breastfeed or u go hide am and we will laugh over it, eventually, the time came, I didn't hide it cos I Now cared less #smiles#

Anonymous said...

This your question doesnt make sense. You shouldnt even think anything sexual weda you daughter walks stark naked aroundt d house or not dude. Thats your daughter! Ur fucking blood!!
You need to cleanse yourself.

Monkeynofine said...

I don't see anything wrong but u made a point! Wat about gayz do guys go naked in dia presence before they find each others attractive? Well I reject this in my home in jesus name! Amen

Anonymous said...

mehn and all Thier flimsy excuses. oga sir u may be a pervert but u dnt knw yet..so ur daughters shoukd wear kaftan because Thier father may not be able to control his urge if they are on bumshort. I raise Beyonce hand for u. dnt go and learn ow to tame ur thing dere be crying for ur daughters to wear overall so u dnt fuck them.. mscheeeewwww

Anonymous said...

I don't tolerate my teen daughters waking half naked in the presence of their brothers. Sister-brother sexual relationships is on the rise in our nation. I have read and heard some very nasty stories. Moreover their cousins comes to the house frequently, if their brothers can tolerate their nudity, can their cousins do same, can friends of their brothers do same. Be naked in your room, come out decently. ...Josephine

Chartered Accountant said...

Thanks gagaga. My dad would always scold you to cover up yourself even at home. You don't sit down carelessly or lie down in the living room throwing your legs apart. He'd ask you either enter your room or sit right. I remember he would even tell my mum to enter the room if she wants to sleep as anyone could walk into the living room. I think we should do things right on our part as parents. All these craze about being modern parents in a modern world has really not helped.

Chartered Accountant said...

Even in the female hostel, such can attract lesbians to you.

Chike TEFLON said...

Mr Poster no go fuck your daughter because of that nonsense excuse you wrote up there...

Inukwa dress well because of her brothers and father...

Chike TEFLON said...

Poster I'm sorry to say this but you sound like a rapist..

Anonymous said...

smfh@gagaga...I agree with DΓΆppel..Only in Africa...Girls wear what they like in Europe and other developed countries..and nobody gets funny ideas. .Why iS our own case always different? A girls no is no

Anonymous said...

Their fashion is nudity . walking half naked in the house. Is this what you are you saying. We live in a society where more and more men are sleeping with their daughters. Call the men sick, label them with any name you like but it is the responsibilities of mothers to protect their daughters from that.

Anonymous said...

Be kind enough to tell us the level of rape and sex related killings in the states.

Anonymous said...

Miss kenefo, continue walking naked in your house, not everyone was brought up by a careless mother.

Anonymous said...

This is Nigeria not US, the average Nigerian man gets turned by a little nudity that's why I won't let my babies grow up there.

Anonymous said...

@Parrot...I agree with all the insults queen gave u..You are not taking any freaking precautions, and u know it...ANY man that would have any bad thought even if their kids are naked 24.7 is sick...and u are a potential sick being 4 sending in this chronicle..Your wife needs to be careful. .See as u wan justify what the man did to his poor child..smfh.You are sick..u probaby Do not know..but u are

Anonymous said...

So u will see nothing wrong if your girl wears undies n sit in d parlour with her bro n dad watching telemundo?

Anonymous said...

Bum shorts are allowed in indoors, but I don't condone a pant n bra in a house filled with males.

Sharon Aminu said...

Mr poster,pls are u saying u can sleep with ur daughter??like u can get attracted to her???if so u are sick..
U can caution ur daughters dressings because of other people not because of u..meaning she is not save around u when she grow up,my father bathed me until I started growing breast..
Anyway TankGod u said it on time..u are just been truthful

Anonymous said...

Don't u wear boxers or shorts around your house? Has your daughter have evil thoughts? Doesn't your son walk around without shirt..why ain't your wife having evil thoughts..This poster is a time bomb ticking....Pervert

Anonymous said...

The poster wants to sleep with her daughter...it obvious...

Anonymous said...

Mr poster, I understand your problem
All I will advice you is that make sure your sons do not walk around the house in underwear like boxers and singlet (I hope you know that they are underwears)
Because you're wife and daughters may take advantage including male and female neighbors.

I am the queen and the boss of this blog(CHIEF) said...

Parrot you are lying!...
You said you don't have a daughter yet but your mail says other wise!...
Oga,you are a pervert hoo haa!!...

Read your mail again and see where you goofed!...

Anonymous said...

I want to slap the evil outta this poster so bad..Smfh..Imagine him saying..men have blood running in their vein..Is it kerosene that women have running in their veins? He is stylishly siding with the man who raped his daughter..Evil man...

Anonymous said...

Gbam...

My two kobo said...

On this I disagree. While the onus lies on the looker to control his urges, the wearer(though I hate to state this) has a role to play. As the current trend these days, sexual urges/deviancy is no respecter of persons. My daughter will on no account dress inappropriately at home whether my husband is at home or not. No need to give the devil room to work or start sowing nasty seeds in the minds of men. Self control you say? Its easier said than done. I'd rather be safe than sorry. As much as the woman has the right to wear what she likes, those rights aren't unfettered else indiscipline and lawlessness would thrive...

Anonymous said...

This poster is very evil. If u dare touch that your daughter herh?

My two kobo said...

Madam Queen easy on the insults. Its reactions like these that deter people from asking sensitive questions or seeking help on issues like this. He asked a question, its left for you to give constructive or informative advice...hold your horses...;D

dibia banks said...

Is base on d mindset,when I was still in my parents house from my mum to my two sisters they do dress in my present,even in front of my 3elder brothers,blood is bLood..even when I visit them in there husband house they still do same..so oga watch ur mind

Anonymous said...

lol at Queen..I agree with u..He is lying..and if u ain't. .better not have any kids..cos you are sick...What does your wife have running in her veins? smfh..I guess u think it''s palm oil...Evil man

Dope BaBe said...

Anon 16:31 I hate that statement so much

Anonymous said...

Tell me how many girls raped in Nigeria wereally half naked? Africans are just evil..and would justify any freaking evil behaviour. ..The Poster is sick

Omasiri said...

As in eh the parrot you are being unnecessarily paranoid,archaic and EVIL. There's no justification for what you wrote up there. Everything about us lies in our mind and how we turn out in life largely depends on our mindset. Go and purge yourself

Chidinma Grace said...

What of men wearing only boxers or tying wrapper at the waist only while relaxing at home? What will you say if your daughter or wife start having such sexual urge towards her siblings or sons because they are wearing boxers only while relaxing at home? Oga you are sick to even have such mind set. Go for serious deliverance. That means you would have rape my sisters and myself if you happened to be our relation. For Gods sake she is at home and should be wearing light clothes for relaxation except if you have visitors. Sick men everywhere.

Anonymous said...

Why would someone in his or her right mind be attracted to their family members

My stubborn younger brother move around the house buttnaked dangling his dick all over our faces why haven't I felt anything all this while

Jemima John said...

If you train your children well either boy or girl or girl you won't have that issue. Most of the problems we have today is that parents no long take on time to teach, explain and guide their children. Boarding school, television and peer group have taken over the upbringing of children.

Lily Rose said...

So Poster, with all the numerous evils going on in the world that we all see, this is the one that picked ur interest to the point where u had to send a chronicle? Do u know why? Because u don't trust yourself. You suspect that someday, u could fall for ur own daughter, hence the reason why u cautioned ur wife. E no do you, u still sent a chronicle. Something is disturbing u, because I can swear on my life, that if u ask the average 'normal' man, which are the worst vices in the world today that he personally fears, he would never mention incest between he and his daughter. That's a normal person. No normal person with a healthy father-daughter relationship will EVER entertain such thoughts or imaginations!
Oga, even if ur daughter dresses fully, there may be times when u accidentally see her naked or semi naked. What happens then huh? You will get turned on? Because in ur words 'blood runs through ur veins'
And why do u men make excuses for yourselves? What the hell is 'blood is running through veins'? The men that don't sleep with their daughters or rape others, do they have water running through their veins?
If a woman sleeps with her son, will it make sense to justify it by saying 'she has blood running through her veins'? Abi women carry water in their bodies ni?
Mr. Man, something is wrong with you. For the fact this issue is sooooo important to u, there's a reason to be concerned. It's either u check yourself, or decide not to have a female child.

Anonymous said...

Asking.."I'm I wrong dear? You have no freaking dear on here..You are sick..Seek help asap

Anonymous said...

This is Nigeria where the rate of rape is on geometric increase. Sexual relationships between father & daughter, brother and sister is on the rise.

Moreover we know the level of rape and killings in that country

Sharumi said...

The teaching is both ways...boys and girls so as to avoid stories that totori the bum

Bootylycious diva said...

Dope Babe how old is Amara kanu s first child ,iam not even 40 yet ,i started early ok ,i have friends same age with me that have more grown up kids.

gagaga said...

@ Anon....how are you sure they don't have funny ideas in that your Europe? They surely have when they see such, but the law on ground is what serves as caution. By the way, our culture here in Africa and how we see things is quite different from theirs. Let's do what is right my dear...we all have roles to play. And apart from that, charity begins at home, if you train your daughters how to dress decently and your sons discipline and self control and you as parent leads by example, then you will at least be sure, they will know how to conduct themselves when your back is turned or in the school environment where there are no family members who cares. See, doing things right can save us a lot of heartache and regret...Gbabeskiii....

Anonymous said...

@Anon 16:17
When it comes to culture and moral, pls and pls, do not use Western countries as our standard here in Africa. Pls lead me to your evidence that 'nobody gets funny ideas'.

@doppel
Know this that nothing happens in a vacuum: every action has a series of consequences and at times it takes a long time to completely comprehend the consequences of our actions.

Your arguement is wrong and I stand to be corrected too. Why do we prefer to secure our properties/valuables? Why don't we keep them anyhow and simply write 'do not steal' on them.
So, would you rather not teach your kids how to stay safe and secure their properties?

This is not about telling females what to wear but about doing the proper thing.

MODESTY IS THE LOVING PREROGATIVE OF THE MATURE.

Push up said...

It's a good thing you noticed, and it's a good thing you want to put a stop to it now, it doesn't have to do with just her brothers, drivers nko, gatemen, I am not saying men shouldn't have selfcontrol but women should dress well Haba, even the bible says the dressers and the lookers are both sinners

Anonymous said...

In the early days it was okay for my wife to wear bum shorts displaying parts of her butt, her private when she is sitting. But when the kids started coming in l asked her to stop or wear more decent bum shorts. Today my kids are in their teens and l am very rigid about their clothes. The parade of boxers and panties, any form of nudity is not allowed. My wife say l am too rigid and l need to be flexible but l can't . just be decent, it won't kill any of tbem . l am not motivated by fear, my extended families are always around, l can't and won't stop them from coming . when l needed them they were there for me, burnt their joy and happiness to keep me alive.

Anonymous said...

Poster
Everybody must not have kids. Africans take this having kids to a whole new level.

You are not fit to be a parent, have some self control. What has dressing got to do with incest? A lust filled man can see through every cover-up dressing. Train your boys not to see their sister as a hit. How can you even say this? Does it mean if a woman is molested, it is because of her dressing?

In the olden days, maidens left their breast open. Fresh breeze blew on their breast, they dangled it every where. No one raped them and if they did, they were burned or ostracized to the evil forest. Wearing cloth is a foreign thing.

That's why most of you men lack self control when a woman pulls her cloth . Imagine you travel abroad and see white girls and their swimsuits and bum short, would you rape them? No. Because you know you will rot in jail and be deported. When you travel abroad, you behave yourselves but when you come back to Nigeria, you start acting like uncultured people with your silly question.

Don't annoy me today. Women will marry anything that says 'will you marry me' including a pervert and a potential rapist.

KING XOXO MYSTERY

Anonymous said...

Most of you are very shallow in your reasoning. Why the insults for God sake. If you want to disagree with the poster by all means do so but avoid the childish insults.

Anonymous said...

Kami l doubt you read the post. There is nothing evil about wanting his daughter to be property clothed. That you walk naked around your father doesn't mean others should do same. We are all wired differently, the fact your father is not erected when you constantly flash your nudity is not enough reason to assume others won't have erections.

Monkeynofine said...

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Anonymous said...

I am very scared for the daughter's of this writer....

Tee

Miss Juliet said...

Miss Kenefo girls have a high level of self control compared to guys..a guy can wear boxers or be shirtless buh I can't be moved,buh once it's a girl d guys get a hard on.. We were properly trained to cover up so dnt bring my home into ds.if u like train your daughter to go around naked one day d brother go finger am and u go knw wetin i dey talk..

ASA said...

Doppel, you got this very wrong. Modern day theory of sexuality and 'I own my body' and 'can dress anyone I like' is just a theory completely void of practicality and divorced from human realities. Everyone, I mean everyone is sensitive to many things and sexuality is one of them. No lady would deny it that she doesn't get itchy if a guy just wears a boxers in front of her with his stuff having an image through it and upper body displayed. It is only natural to feel itchy about such display. Either she ignores it, which is by trying to pay blind to it completely or have a wishful sense of it.
In our time, everything has become pornographic and people. Why do advertisement agencies love using scantily dressed ladies for adverts? Because they buy into our human psyche and control of our sexuality. The same way you see ladies shouting wow wuuu wuuu when a man with good body displays it in front of them. It is a two way thing. This is not about the modern post colonial and feminist theory we learn in grad school. It is natural. Learn to live by reality, practicality rather than theory.

sholetoga said...

Poster........you shouldn't leave instilling discipline into your children to your wife alone. It should be a joint task. I will advice that as your children are growing, you start letting them know how to dress around the house.
May all our children turn out well

Anonymous said...

You can leave your cleavage exposed profile picture and tell yourself what dressing decently means. But don't let a very modern day idea of 'there is nothing like dressing decent'. Stop deceiving yourself. There are still reasons why you, yes you cannot walk out with your breasts, vagina and backside completely exposed. It is because you have learned to set a benchmark that defines what a decent dressing means. I don't think you will celebrate people in primordial times not covering anything at all. I doubt if you will say, oh let them be. We shouldn't define decency for them if they choose to join us naked

Dope BaBe said...

Babe no harm meant😍😍😍😍😍

Wish I started much early than I did.

Can't wait to have grown-up kids.

One loveπŸ’•πŸ’•πŸ’•πŸ’•πŸ’•

Omalichanwa said...

Nawa o! Someone wants to b clear about sometin, na insults una de dish gv am! Smh Mr.Parrot na u I blame 4 bringing dis here.

Kamikaze said...

Anonymous 17:39 I did read the post and my point remains that his reason for this chronicle is disgusting.There is nothing wrong with wanting his children(sons and daughters) to dress conservatively even in their home.That is his own parenting style.But for the sake of modesty and decency.Certainly not because one day,he and his sons could become sexually attracted to their own blood due to her dressing.That is my disgust.In other words,since he has blood in his veins,as would his future sons,arousal for his daughter and maybe subsequent intercourse is almost inevitable so she has to cover up to help him and the sons he would raise.
Damn!

Anonymous said...

You this female, May God save your soul @ Agbo Ruth.

Anonymous said...

I salute you ma @bootylycious diva.
My greetings to your cradle snatcher.
please allow your daughters to rock their youth. Don't force them into early marriage.

miss kenefo said...

We are saying the same thing. You must have a first hand fingering experience from your brother to know that boys cannot control themselves even around their own sisters. Pele. Ndo. Hakuri.

In my own home everyone both male and female were brought up to exhibit a high level of self control. My parents understood that everyone can control themselves whether male or female. When we go outside or have guests in the house we all dress properly. None of us can ever be said to be indecent.

So miss Julie your advice goes back to you. Train your sons to believe that they have less self control and cover up your daughters like women in purdah so that your sons won't get tempted. To each his own. When they get outside they will so disgrace you.

miss kenefo said...

Dear anonymous sadist. I will walk the way I like in my house. No one has been raped by a sibling because we are family. My mother's mouth is full of testimonies of how her children have been praised to be morally upright people of integrity. And intelligent too.

But I'm sure I'll take a careless mother over a family of perverts waiting to rape each other at the slightest view of a cleavage or ankle.

DoppelgΓ€nger said...

Gagaga, my two kobo and Asa, I don't think you people read the chronicle at all before responding to my comment.
I quote what he said "I have a problem with an adult daughter dressing carelessly at home. Sometimes you see a girl dressing in bum shorts and see-tru singlets at home around her brothers and father". He made references to himself, other father's and siblings having bad thoughts over something his daughter, their sister is putting on. He is a pervert and his wife should be worried. If he makes it a joint effort to train his daughter well, he wouldn't need to worry after all for the first part of her growing years he and his wife would be the one buying her cloths and that is enough to form in the mind of the child what dresses are "decent". My mother raised me wearing trousers and it took me till my adult years to start buying and wearing skirts.
Train your child in the way they should go and when they grow they'd never depart from it.
Also remember that when it comes to molestation and rape, the victims type of clothing is irrelevant. I means, babies get raped too, are you saying diapers are sexy or their baby clothing are sexy.
Please let's dead the narrative that the way a woman dresses plays a role. I can paint so many scenarios as to why this is a wrong ideal to hold but I'm with the boo and he needs my attention. I have a male friend who a lady tried to seduce, he visited her because she said she was sick and before he knew it she was stark naked before him. He managed to turn her down and left her house. A man who for whatever reason molests a woman should face the music for what he is, SCUM. What the woman is wearing doesn't matter because even babies and underage girls get raped and molested.
I will wear what I want and raise my daughter so. Teach your/our sons that's a woman's body and dressing is not an audition to warm their penis. They should seek her consent if she is an adult and leave children alone.

Miss Juliet said...

Anon no mind am,make she dey naked dey go

DoppelgΓ€nger said...

Kamikaze, imagine the pervert. I'm sick to my stomach. His wife should be worried because the next chronicle might be from her.

Anonymous said...

Wedone ma! Continue walking naked.

DoppelgΓ€nger said...

Lily Rose, thank you. Imagine the thoughts of someone's husbands and father. I shudder at how he'd react if God forbid his daughter comes home to report that someone outside molested her. He'd blame her for it and tell her she deserved it.

ken watson said...

Wat happened to self control?

Anonymous said...

This poster is mad..So if your daughter forgets her towel..and ask u to bring it to her..you will go and rape, cos blood is running in your evil veins..mtcheew

Anonymous said...

The man is now denying he doesn't have a daughter..This man wants to sleep with his daughter 100%...

Anonymous said...

Juliet, you made sense with your comments. Leave Kenefo alone with her comments. Perhaps her brothers were feeling itchy after they left her room seeing her naked. They didn't have to tell her how they feel. Perhaps too, they kept making mistakes by opening the bathroom and bedroom doors just to see you naked.

St.FranKooL.... said...

#When things aren't adding up in your life, start subtracting*

Chikito The Professional Fire for Fire a.k.a 'Anike' πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚ said...

I cant be fully dressed at home inside this Nigerian heat because someone cant think straight. If that's the case then let her get her own apartment early enough before you fall into sin.

Well I remember once when one church lady showed up at our house. My younger sis and I were in our usual bumshorts and singlets. The next thing this lady said was 'please try and cover up even when you're at home. Daddy is still a man'. Lol. She didnt last 5 minutes. Right there and then daddy walked her out. Dont come and use your dirty mind to ruin the way i run my family, he said.

What I don't get is how you go from changing someone's diapers and nuturing them, to finding them sexually appealing. Any man who does that must have a fundamental psychological problem. And If you are afraid of that with your child then better go and seek help. Such an assumption, thought, prevention plan should NEVER cross your mind where your CHILD is concerned.

Plus, ensure you give your family certain basic standards. In my case, I've always lived in houses where evryone has their own bathroom so no one has any excuse to as anyone's nakedness ' by mistake'. My parents insist on not having shared/communal bathrooms and toilets cos really children are entitled to their privacy even from a young age. Simple manners like knocking before entry can also save you an ungodly sight.

But me I sha think you should NEVER even be afraid about seeing your daughters nakedness. Peradventure she slumps infront of you one day and you have to take her top off so she can breathe better, or goes to the doctors and you are asked to hold her to take an injection (I'm Talking grown up daughter cos I've done that before) would you also say you cant because you're trying to avoid incest in your family? Thats your daughter mahn! Jeez..... Oga, check yourself asap cos it shouldn't even matter.

miss kenefo said...

Lol. Julie Julie Julie. I understand your pain. To live in constant fear of subsequent rape encounters even by one's own siblings and father will take a tow on one's mental state. Don't worry. You'll be fine.

Anonymous said...

Don't pay attention to whatever anybody says, you have made your point. The queen has many followers, as soon as she made her point they all crept in to agree with her. A word is enough for the wise.

Anonymous said...

Thank u

MISS TRUTH said...

Pervert alert. I dont trust this poster around his daughter or daughters ( I may be wrong though )

Anonymous said...

He really is a pervert. So all those village women walking round with wrapper over their chest r tantalizing their male relatives?? Hian. It's right to tell ur kids the right thing to do for pro piety sake not cos they r seducing their family members. Oga I fear u o

Anonymous said...

Thank u chikito. This man dey fear me.

MISS TRUTH said...

I wish his wife will read this and act fast, ABOMINATION! Nah so e dey start o hian.

Anonymous said...

Nigerians even rape babies..so it has nothing to do with what anybody is wearing..Sick people like this sick poster are just sick...and they don't need any reason to rape..He thinks he has the right to sleep with his daughter just cos blood runs through his veins...

The Traveller said...

I will often wonder what is influencing some of the new age values? I find it interesting to note that there seems to be an increased correlation between a lot of new age values and the tenets of Satanism. One tenet from Satanism that is somewhat in agreement with the current subject says, "The freedoms of others should be respected, including the freedom to offend". Contrast this to the biblical law of love.

An application of the law of love to this situation might say: Fathers/male siblings will not sexually abuse the female in their lives but protect them. Conversely, the females in their live will acknowledge that subjecting the men around them to something that could potentially nudge them towards error is love.

Letdemsay said...

Poster, seek help, because you are very sick. You probably do not know , but you are.

miss kenefo said...

Julie's anonymous mouthpiece I've heard you. As they've seen me naked what happened next? Am I crying about being molested like Julie?

My brothers are kings. They respect women. Ask their wives. They understand that a woman's body is to be respected. They would never have gotten turned on by me because they understood early that I was their blood and it would be ridiculous to feel that way. Instead they knew that as their baby I was to be taken care of. That is the beauty of a proper home training and a family with agape love and the fear of God.

My brothers were trained to cook and keep the house neat. They could go to the market and do their laundry themselves. Well trained and properly groomed men. Godly in all ramifications. I can brag about them.

Not so sure about you though. Because it is obvious in your homes you all scampered around in constant fear of molestation by your fathers and brothers who were constantly "itchy".

Anonymous said...

This is the kind of man that will say all those 8 month old babies that were raped by adult men were seducing them by wearing only diapers. Oga I hail u!!!

Anonymous said...

What if this sick man''s daughter forgets her towel. .and goes daddy..can u please get me my towel...Is IT how your Penis will erect like a walking stick? and rape her..maybe?..Chai...This Poster makes me sick

Anonymous said...

Doppel and kamikaze, you two are just the perverts. Living with your heads in an imaginary world. The guy is being practical, you two are just disillusioned. He is not supporting sir saying he can have coitus with his daughter. He is speaking from the third sentence you are both denying. Read him again to understand. Sit yourselves down to understand what he is saying. We are talking about nudity, not just body. You two are just being irrational actors. You will defend what you don't want to understand. Period!

Anonymous said...

A pervert will be a pervert even if the girl is covered from head to toe. I have noticed a trend of Nigerian men abroad being caught for sexual offences. If it is because of the way women dress over there, it does not stop them from being wrong and facing justice. My point being that men should learn self control in every situation, or face the consequences. That is why there is a lot of sexual abuse in this country escalating, on children, teenagers and women. You even hear grown men saying that a small girl 'don spoil', hence they play with her and molest her. All this has to stop and our men take responsibility for their actions. Nothing justifies rape or molestation, period. And by the way, if a girl child can't feel free in her house among her kin, her father, her brothers, where is she to feel safe? It is this poor mentality that gives men excuses for raping women, even their own blood. I am not an advocate for indecent dressing, however I believe in personal freedom. And I reiterate whether y'all like it or not, there is NO reason or excuse that justifies rape. A female's no is no, no matter the circumstance or how close she was to saying yes. If men can imbibe this, rape would drastically reduce. Of course children should be brought up well with sound morals, but even if you see your daughter dressed in bra and pants everyday, it does NOT justify her being raped. I think you guys didn't understand Doppelganger.

Anonymous said...

Chikito, because you grew up nurturing and changing a person's diapers doesn't mean that such a person cannot move you sexually st a different times. There are many guys you grew up with while you were small and you all used to display your nakedness together while playing. Obviously you cannot do the same with those people now even if you did before. Your argument doesn't hold water.
The man is not talking about accidental sighting of his daughter's nakedness, like when she just slumps in front or opens the bathroom with her inside. He is talking about constant events. What he sees always. That is the point. He is not wrong to be cautious. He is just being practically oriented. Not living in a nonexistent world. Your parents are wise for not allowing shared/communal washrooms and toilets because they are being practical, not imaginary or disillusioned. They know what nature has for us. Today's children are people that act before thinking and that is why the comments are just silly.

Anonymous said...

The issue to be addressed is how to curb the spirit of lust. Whether fully clothed, half naked or completely naked, anyone that wants to be aroused will still be aroused. A girl can't have freedom in her own house again? Some are suggesting she can be naked in her room but when coming out, be clothed. What if her siblings come into her room unannounced and see her naked?
With what you are saying now, its like your treating malaria with only panadol instead of a proper malaria drug. That won't cure the illness. Teach your children to respect others and to control themselves. When you do that, you'll seldom have problem with incest or any unruly behaviour at that.
Its unfair to trap your daughter in her own house just because she is female and you are not sure if you can control yourself. Nigeria can be really hot sometimes with no constant light and yet you're still planning on how you want your daughter to be fully clothed. I feel your main concern should be on self control (inward), and not just clothes (outward). Its good to dress decent but in the house, there should be freedom. Freedom to be yourself, freedom to be comfortable with your family.
Well, everyone with his/her own opinion.
Pardon any typo...
#BvAnonimae

Anonymous said...

The problem is that you two are millennial children. You act before you think making the consequence unpleasant. Think hard, reflect, ponder, not just being disillusioned.

Hadey Halaba said...

Doppelganger my dear,
I always look forward to your comments but on dis one, maybe you were hasty to type.

No one is talking about female consent here, so the issue of a woman's No is a No shouldn't come up.

A concerned father is asking serious questions as concerns the safety of his daughters around himself, his boys and other persons.
Unfortunately, as parents, we have total control over our children's clothing as long as they live under us and it is our responsibility to teach them how to dress properly and decently.

Thank you.

Anonymous said...

Queen is right here. Let us be objective. Poster I think you have the tendency to be perverted because indirectly you are saying that you can get attracted to your daughter if she is skimpily dressed. Do you know what that means? It means you can also get attracted to your daughter anytime she looks pretty or beautiful. Sometimes clothes cannot hide beauty. It means if your daughter is growing up to naturally have full curves you will be sexually attracted to her. Please for your own good go and check yourself and seek psychological help if necessary. Your type should not be allowed to be close to his daughter because anything can happen, which is a tragedy because a father is the first man a daughter will know and he will typify to her the kind of man she should marry in future, it is good for a dad to be close to his daughter so he can guide her well, for her to grow up to be a well rounded individual. Please try and change biko. Those that are supporting you don't really understand what is at stake. If you know you will not be able to have self control in your mind around your daughter, please keep your distance from her to prevent stories that touch. And if your wife is reading this, madam you have heard your husband. Cover your daughter very well and watch her like a hawk, and when necessary hide her. Tufiakwa!

Anonymous said...

Exactly!

Anonymous said...

Mr poster, I think you'll make a wiser choice if you start planning to teach your children the word of God and the way of the Lord instead of dictating to your daughter what to wear. Because if you put your concentration on that, you won't need to stress yourself much.
Mr poster, what happens when you travel for some days with your wife? Do you think your daughter will still obey the rule of descent dressing in the home? What about when you go to work? Will she keep your rules? And what if she doesn't and her brothers get to see her? What happens then? I'd like answers to these questions.
some parents that tend to be extremely strict with their children end up bringing up the opposite. They enter uni and turn to who their parents can't recognise.
Its still your choice tho... Good luck to you.

Anonymous said...

Aunty look alike, it seems baseless praise on how smart (lol) your comments are has gone to your head.

The beauty in real smartness is in knowing or recognizing a superior argument or position. Learn humility dear.

miss kenefo said...

God bless you Chikito. You and Doppel give me joy always.

In my house we were not very well off in the beginning. My dad got a three bedroom apartment and we had just two toilets and a bathroom so privacy was out of the picture. In the morning when everyone is hustling about trying to get things done who has time to notice anyone naked? My brothers could walk into the bathroom when I was taking a shower to brush their teeth or pee. Who had time? Admittedly we had shower curtains even at that time but when I'm out of the tub to get my towel who cared? I will dress up in the room with them and until my mum taught me the bra trick my immediate elder brother will help me hook and unhook my bra.

My mum had a back problem after an accident and my eldest brother used to give her massages with a balm in the living room while we all watched TV. My mum will be braless and lying down and no one will be moved. To me that's the beauty of having a family.

When God settled us and we moved to a bigger house in a different state, we still remained free around each other. I had more privacy though because I had a room (en suite) to myself and my brothers started moving out one after the other to start their own lives.

I used to swimming with my brothers and the worst they can say is your tummy is getting bigger work on it. Sometimes they would joke that their sister is getting hotter. None have ever tried to finger me or got "itchy" as one idiot would say. That is the beauty of family. The beauty of a family brought up in the love and fear of God. Brought up with morals.

I've noticed that homes like mine bring up girls and boys that don't get carried away by sexual temptation and lust. All of my brothers are married. Happily married and will remain so by the grace of God.

Sorry if I seem to be making a lot of noise and insulting people but topics like this annoy me. If we can't train ourselves to be Godly and free in our own homes with our immediate family member's then there is a fundamental problem somewhere.

World People said...

Shut your bloody mouth the lots of you

Stop giving silly excuses for this men!

Don't the men here have the same heads and dick? If they can exert control, why can't Nigerian men? Coming to utter silly and unfounded justification. Nonsense

Lily Rose said...

Doppelganger, the thing tire me. I read this post and all I could ask myself was, why a normal person would even imagine such nonsense. There are more prevalent ills in the society but why is the poster so particular about this? It shows he is very promiscuous and lacks self control to the point where he doesn't trust himself around his own blood.
Oga poster, let me say this categorically, even if u mistakenly stumble on ur daughter's naked body, it is ABNORMAL to be sexually aroused! Do u hear? I'm not saying that she should walk around scantily dressed;that's not the issue here. The issue here is ur mind set. Being that she's ur daughter, u will most likely see her private bits once in a while at least accidentally. And truth is, if u get aroused even a little bit, then u are sick! Oga this is NOT NORMAL at all!!! Stop with the usual stupid excuses u men make just like the nonsense u wrote about blood. We all have blood running through our veins Abi? but are we all rapists, paedophiles or incestuous? Stupid talk.

Anonymous said...

Miss kenefo, lol. Pant is wearing you, and you know it!

Anonymous said...

Josephine, you have sense. God bless your home. A smart person is a person who reads wide and far and is realistic. Paranoia saves lives!

Anonymous said...

Bug nyansh diva, kids have their own fashion abi? Devoid of adult/parental supervision? Clap for yourself, modern day mother!

DoppelgΓ€nger said...

@anon 20:43, baseless praises you call it but here you are crying about it. Please get well soon. XOXO

Anonymous said...

"towards error isn't love" I guess you meant to say. But I applaud you line of reasoning!

THE PARROT said...

I have read all the comments here and one thing comes to mind...almost everyone is looking for the slightest avenue to insult or disparage another.

I have been a follower of SDK blog for about 5 years now and I find it disappointing that one asks a simple question albeit sensitive but the only result that it begets is insults.

There are some "commenters" who feel entitled and think they are "landlords" here and can insult whoever they feel like.

To set the records straight for those who feel i'm a pervert+rapist+immoral,...I grew up in a conservative catholic home, hence my conservative+archaic views...I was a member and subsequently a leader of the block rosary crusade of the Catholic church in my area even as a university undergraduate and was responsible for a lot of kids including adolescent girls before hustle took me away from my town...and our key gospel was emulating the modesty of the Blessed Virgin Mary.

Today as a husband, who is aware of all the depravity in the world today, I believe that avoiding occasion of sin is the best option always...and listening and reading about people marrying their siblings in Europe, or of parent-child affair, the rational thing to do is make plans towards resisting the evil one so he will flee.

I am proud of my style. I know my sons are men and when they grow up, irrespective of moral training at home, they will make friends in school and may meet people who don't see anything wrong with it. As well, I don't intend stopping them from using the internet...so I am conscious of potential external influence and will like to nip it at the bud even before it rears it's head.

For those who do not like my style or my line of thinking, I urge you to think again and prepare for the future.

When God asked men not to do certain things, He gave those rules because there was potentiality for those sins to be committed hence the rule.

I will return to my observatory mode on SDK but a piece of advice...if you cannot advice someone, save your data for something better

Anonymous said...

If you have love rape will not cross your mind and you will run away from temptation like Joseph did.

Anonymous said...

I'm sure that if the man is opportuned to see other people's kid in bikinis and swimming suits he will think its right to rape them

Anonymous said...

Well,the fool is just trying to say that his natural state is being a rapist so his kid not covering up properly might trigger it

Chikito The Professional Fire for Fire a.k.a 'Anike' πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚ said...

Anon 20:27 I wear bumshorts, singlets and constantly go braless at home. My sisters do same. It has NEVER been an issue in my house and as a matter of fact my dad will lol at you and tell you when your tummy is protruding or your gaining unnecessary weight. Why? Because he has a clear mind. He looks at us like the ones he birthed. I used to sleep on my brothers bed when they were still at home. In my night wear for that matter. When building a family you create an environment where bonding is too strong to be broken by petty things. Where your sibling can never be sexy to you because they are seen as an extension of you. It's purely different from a male childhood friend. This is family for God's sake.

Chikito The Professional Fire for Fire a.k.a 'Anike' πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚ said...

I maintain my stance that your overreacting and overanalysing on this particular issue. New dad syndrome?
Oga there is global warming. Please let a girl wear bumshorts at home, you hear? Cheers!

Bootylycious diva said...

anonymous orubebe ,i hope you wear wrapper like our mothers did ,idiota coming here to tell me about parenting ,you will soon get bp as na my matter dey worry you ,when you see Adaeze yobo and her mum what do you wish idiota ,my dad married my mum when he was 25 years old and his very very older than my mum do the maths ewu cambodia.messed up soul.kill yourself my daughter will get married before she is 20.

Chikito The Professional Fire for Fire a.k.a 'Anike' πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚ said...

@miss kenefo see me see wahala oh? πŸ‘ if thats not the beauty of family, then what is? The annoying part is all the people i mean ALL who use to criticise my parents parenting skills especially on the way we dress and makeup.... Today the story has changed. Irresponsible children, daughters birthing out of wedlock, school dropouts, not opening eye to marry better husbands/wives Etc. You can be soo careful about unnecessary issues that you end up ignoring the things that matter.

Chikito The Professional Fire for Fire a.k.a 'Anike' πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚ said...

Eze dear, if daughters are responsible they will know that such dressing isnt allowed infront of visitors or when non-family is around. My parents never told us this but we just somehow know it's the right thing. It's about giving the kids a good orientation about morals, discretion, initiative and sexuality. Not necessarily singling out different things to correct them about everyday.

Chikito The Professional Fire for Fire a.k.a 'Anike' πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚ said...

Na heat and body hair go be una portion. Will you be standing like a stick when the lesbian tries to touch your breast? Why are peopel so afraid to live life with ease? Gosh!

Chikito The Professional Fire for Fire a.k.a 'Anike' πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚ said...

Na heat and body hair go be una portion. Will you be standing like a stick when the lesbian tries to touch your breast? Why are peopel so afraid to live life with ease? Gosh!

Chikito The Professional Fire for Fire a.k.a 'Anike' πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚ said...

Calm down joor

Chikito The Professional Fire for Fire a.k.a 'Anike' πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚ said...

Thats why the men feel like demi gods nau.

Weed Chic said...

Poster, I agree with you. The devil works in mysterious ways. The bibles says that if your left hand causes you to sin, cut it off. And that's what you are doingπŸ‘

Weed Chic said...

Have we not read chronicles here of girl sleeping with cousin or brother?

Chikito The Professional Fire for Fire a.k.a 'Anike' πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚ said...

Your own comment na die! πŸ˜‚ Are you a social worker? so we should kukuma call child services asap

Anonymous said...

Stop typing and seek help..You were from a Catholic home so bloody what? Don't most of your priest rape kids? Were they brought up from homes of native doctors? The blood running through your vein line showed your true colours. ...Im so scared for those kids u claim were in charged for. .Your guilty conscience made you send this chronicle...Please,SEEK HELP. You could have been worried about men outside..but not u or your sons..smh..I really want to slap u 4 still typing

Chikito The Professional Fire for Fire a.k.a 'Anike' πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚ said...

Anon 20:27 please whats the big deal about accidentally sighting your daughters nakedness? No be 'sorry dear' you go talk face front? Hian!!

Anonymous said...

Always out of point because our school doesn't teach about solving problems. You think people develop lucrative solutions by thinking one way. One idiot will mention Europe, Europe that has more rape and incest issues than Africa... I tire for una reasoning,

Miss Juliet said...

Miss Kenefo biko no tym to keep replying u,do what u want with your children ok. Leave me to my own. Everybody's method of training no be same.. Bye felicia

Miss Juliet said...

Loool Anon feeling itchy no be small.. Imagine entering d bathroom md gisting with her, no restrictions!!! Tueeehh

Miss Juliet said...

U no even get common sense that everybody has, coman take small pls.
Even a girl that covers up can be raped at any time.. The point is a girl should dress well and be decent,no need showing ur private parts to ur siblings all in the name of blood. Wear decent nice dresses at home.. It will be easier for u to do same outside.. The girls raped by their fathers might have even over covered up! So stop talking trash, teach ur daughters how to cover their nakedness everywhere dey go. Simple!

SWAG LAFRESH said...

Our second name in my house is nakedness.

My dad stopped bathing me in JSS3. I can't count the number of bum short I have.



Poster to answer your question

1. It doesn't matter
2. You're being unnecessarily paranoid
3. You're the definition of archaic.

Oga, sinve you now have his kind of thought, I will advice you go for deliverance. The devil might use it against you someday.

Paige 3 said...

this man looks like a man that is thinking about using his daughter for evening party all the time,, how can he even sit down and think this shit? oh my God thank God i am getting high now if not i would have say something to make him cry.. anyway let me go on drinking my win...

Kiks said...

The outright attack on the poster though understandable, shouldn't have been so. He raised questions. We should answer him yes you are being paranoid, yes you are archaic, no it doesn't matter and so on backed up with the various points. I don't think he is a pervert. Our upbringings are different we tend to forget. I weak for the poster the way you guys came at him. Too harsh.

Anonymous said...

For once, I agree with Queen. How the thought of being attracted to your blood even if she is naked is beyond me. Did you sleep with your cousins? You are a potential pervert and needs to get help ASAP because even if your daughter is covered from head to toe, for you to have these thoughts now, it means she still won't be safe. Even girls in hijab and loose clothing still get molested. Househelps in loose uniform still get molested. Perverts need to seek help early instead of blaming others for their impure thoughts and actions. If you were brought up with the dangers of incest drummed into you, you would be doing same to your children instead of focusing on your daughter's dressing. Madam, guard your daughter and house girls if your husband refuses to go get professional help and thank God he expressed his perversion early.

Anonymous said...

Kenefo, thank you. It's sad to read what she typed up there, really sad. Next, she will justify why a man should beat a woman, after all, they have less control. It's not her fault though it's obvious her up bringing was in a toxic environment and they didn't teach her any better.

Anonymous said...


For once, I agree with Queen. How the thought of being attracted to your blood even if she is naked is beyond me. Did you sleep with your cousins? You are a potential pervert and needs to get help ASAP because even if your daughter is covered from head to toe, for you to have these thoughts now, it means she still won't be safe. Even girls in hijab and loose clothing still get molested. Househelps in loose uniform still get molested. Perverts need to seek help early instead of blaming others for their impure thoughts and actions. If you were brought up with the dangers of incest drummed into you, you would be doing same to your children instead of focusing on your daughter's dressing. Madam, guard your daughter and house girls if your husband refuses to go get professional help and thank God he expressed his perversion early.

Anonymous said...

Sick comment. Incest is Incest and even if you did it/were abused, it doesn't make it OK.

Utuocha said...

Miss Kenefo, explaining to people with low IQ like Juliet and Anon is like pour water on stone and expect it to be absorbed. May God save my kids from these perverted families.

Utuocha said...

And our sons aren't precious too so aren't worth training? SMH. You are one of the reasons some men of these days aren't striving to be of good behavior.

Miss Juliet said...

Utuocha u must be a foolish person. Low IQ indeed.. Comment nd leave others to their own. I must not reason like u ok.. Anuofia

Miss Juliet said...

Anon 5:12 Seems u haven't had something to eat. Teach ur daughters what u want nd leave me to mine. U wey dey bring up well i see u.. Onuku.

#Miss Kay# said...

All of your insulting this man may have been raped on time or the other by family members cos I don't know what th insult is for.
This man is stating the obvious, the world has become desperately wicked, it is only a wise man like this father who is planning ahead and wants to train his daughter well so none of this evils can visit his house. We all should take lessons from him to train our sons well and also our daughters. One can't be too careful in this perverse world.
Yes I know my ID is showing as No I won't be coming back to read any insults...

Ikye Chidi said...

I don't see any biggie tho

my opinion said...

Nawa

Stella your readers are just something else

No wonder there is sexual immorality everywhere

Poster don't mind them, you did nothing wrong by asking this question.

A girl shoul dress decently at home (not buba). But nice shorts are ok. Bum shorts that expose the ass n co isn't nice.

All these noise won't save either you or your daughters when something wrong wants to happen. It's better to be safe than sorry.

For those screaming wat of men that wear boxers. Be truthful to your self, women don't get moved with sight like men. Women are moved by what they hear (reason men lie a lot).

However poster, it's best to bring up ur kids right and also caution one's self. Your blood ordinarily shouldn't entice you. Rather, you protect your blood like your own body.

But the world is going hay wire by the day. So precautions are so so in order.

Good day

Chyluv! said...

I thoroughly agree with u doppel on this 1. Guy has pervert tendencies. So if a father rapes his own child cos she wore a spaghetti n shorts at home, its basically her fault for seducing him. Poster give me a break. I'm getting some negative vibes from this write up. Something doesn't seem right

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