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Sunday, 30 July 2017

Singer Chidinma Talks About The Benefits Of Being Single...

Some of you do not Understand the benefits of being Single...




30 comments:

Anonymous said...

Wow
Nice one !

LAGOSFINEST 007 said...

What is the big deal about being single. You can also maintain a special relationship with God and do all these things while being married. Everyone sha wants to give advise.

Iphie dearie said...

Wise Chidinma.
When I see single people spend their previous time worrying about how to get married ONLY.. I shake my head in amusement.
This is when you develop yourself... Enroll to learn some skills,Go back to school.
Check for short qualifications you can grab.
More especially,Serve God with the time you've got.
Invest in books and read em.
A lot of benefits I tell ya.
Bey once said "You need to get a life,before you become a wife"
Morning people xo

Cynthia Iyede said...

Nice one. Take care of the Lord? How is that possible? We are made for Him and Him alone to always minister to Him in new songs, prayers. I'm just knowing this new one. Ok.

Kathy said...

Well said

Cynthia Iyede said...

👍 @ "You need to get a life,before you become a wife.

Slushious said...

As in ehn..... I agree with you. Being married doesn't stop anything!

Anonymous said...

the girl na mumu.. finding xcuses for being single

Anonymous said...

There's nothing nice about being single. Even God knows how depressing it was and that was why he created Eve to be a companion to Adam. I cry every night begging God to send me a man of my own, so please there's nothing cool about lonliness, it's downright saddening.

Anonymous said...

My dear Chidmma, I agree with you

Anonymous said...

My dear Chidmma, I agree with you

trish said...

Oshe ma gallant iphie!

Didi said...

I swear..

Didi said...

Word!!!

Didi said...

Word!!!

Anonymous said...

Madam anonymous 9.14 sorry about your depression but your loneliness n depression is not for a man to fill, it's a vaccum reserved for God Himself to fill. Love yourself and discover your true self in Christ, a man will come and love you like Christ loves the church.. this mindset that marriage is key to happiness, ask the victims of DV they will say otherwise. It's better to wait and marry right than marry early and wrong.

Anonymous said...

Just say you never find husband. When you find him, TELL HIM NO and come back and give this advise.

Chikito The Professional Fire for Fire a.k.a 'Anike' 😂😂😂😂😂 said...

@iphie dearie mami you're my new blog crush 😍😍😍
I think single people (especially ladies) spend too much time worrying about getting married. The truth is that worry doesnt make it happen faster, you can't force God's hand or control time and chance. Instead, it can even lead you into making wrong decisions. My worst fear is even marying someone that will come and disorganise my life.
I dey so, I need to an able to fix a man in my life cos my daily schedule is crazy. If the guy isn't determined enough to fix himself up to a point where he's indispensable, na sorry go be him second name. Don't have time to chase you when there's so much on my mind to do. I'm a church worker, have my 9-5, side hustle (this week side hustle schedule na die i dey so!!), fitness and beauty routine, I assist my mum with her biz too (we slept at 1am yesterday after plenty discussion, cos she likes to catch me on weekends)
The interesting part is: as a woman putting yourself out there and just minding your business makes you more attractive to guys or people who know good suitors. They admire the fact that you're not desperate and you seem to make progress. Recently I've had to cut down on refferals cos it seems everyone knows someone that I can date. Truth is, we women don't know how strong we are. The day God opens your eyes to see your inner capacity you won't be sitting down crying over your status. You will even be praying that no one should come and alter what God is doing you life biko.

Anonymous said...

Have you finally lost virginity madam adviser? Yeye dey smell

La' Sunshine said...

Madam anonymous 9:14 marriage is not the key to happiness.
No human can give you that happiness you seek except God
There is vacuum that t is only a God fill that part of us
So many married people feel so unhappy,trapped and miserable because of that mindset of yours.

Anonymous said...

The truth is there is no joy in been married without a source of livelihood and always depending on husband before one get things done, on the other hand successful and single isn't good either let's just work hard and pray hard to strike a balance.

Iphie dearie said...

😍😍😍😍😍😍😍😍😍😍😍😍😍😍😍😍😍😍😍😍😍😍😍
You've typed it all.
Why wont people refer eligible men to you?
When they see an 'Already made' ofcourse they will want to rush you.
I am in no way telling young ladies not to settle down.. but while you are waiting.. Girl,learn a thing or two. Be Busy!
Be that girl that sees missed calls after a busy day and not the one that stays holed up in her room,hands under the chin waiting for that beep that never came!!
No man keeps his life on hold while he waits for the right woman.
Chikito,you are a church worked too? Impressive!👏👏👏👏

Iphie dearie said...

Thanks guys😘😘😘😘😘

Chikito The Professional Fire for Fire a.k.a 'Anike' 😂😂😂😂😂 said...

@Iphie yes i do. Church accounts and administration. We are doing the books, as i type.
Depositing funds into church account, paying salaries of church workers and ensuring they do their part, payment of monthly allowances for orphans widows, fixing and replacing equipment. Any request for financial support from church for burial/wedding support, school fees, etc passes through us, monitoring expenses so programs stay on budget. And we do it for FREE.
This is because adult life won't let me sing in choir. That was my department 😔
And sometimes I still feel like I'm not using my time well enough.
That answering call ehn... my own is when i open whatsapp i see the messages then i reply important stuff (family, friends & emergency) and go offline. Next time I go online see scolding from the guys 😂 or from the person who hooked us up. Dem go dey alright sha...

TRIUMPHANT ZION said...

I wish the wise ones will pick these words.
Marriage takes a lot from you.

TRIUMPHANT ZION said...

Matt 6:33. It is really a time to serve the Lord and use your service to secure a glorious future.
My dear,start now if you have not started,get busy in the house of the Lord. And let God show the world the great potentials he deposited in you.

Anonymous said...

Anon 9:14, you're an unhappily single lady which show that when u get marry you will also be an unhappily married lady.

Anonymous said...

Thank u. All this to justify lack of husband

Anonymous said...

So chikito, why did you think the best name to call yourself is 'professional runz girl'. Or was that before you repented? Why would a Christian choose such a name??? No this is not 'judging'

Beth said...

@Anon - you must be new here to wonder at how she came about the nae

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