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Saturday, 5 August 2017

Chronicle Of Blog Visitor Narrative...

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STAND ALONE NARRATIVE

DESPERATE FOR MARRIAGE


Straight to the point......


For the past 2years I have been unable to be in a serious relationship that will lead to a good marriage cos that's what I need. 

when I finished Youth service I prayed to God for a good job first, then relationship can set in, I have a very good job now that has made me independent and God is so faithful and kind I don't need to ask any man for money.

Now my issue is this I have been unable to get a man to love me or be in a relationship with, I am hard working, kind, I don't ask for money from men, I am very beautiful, good character but still no man.

 I have even participated in your Single and Mingle twice but yet nothing.


I am not choosy, I have prayed to God and I am in my mid 20's. please what am I doing wrong, I need and want to be loved by someone special.
Thank you.


*Perhaps you appear too desperate?Men smell a desperate woman from afar and it makes them run.
You are in your 20's..why dont you relax and breath easy?A man will come when you stop sniffing around for one.


66 comments:

Miss Ess said...

Please be patient. Don't be in s hurry, love would find you.

Jojo said...

But do you first love yourself?

Just negodu

STARRY LARRY said...

Mid 20s, well anyone who's destined to marry late can't do anything about it, if she find short cut to marry someone by force, she will also rush out. Continue to be praying, your time can't pass you bye




*Larry was here*

sexy Daddy said...

Poster in one word may HUSBAND fall on you!

Anonymous said...

Houses and wealth are inherited from parents, but a prudent wife is from the LORD. Proverbs 19:4

Are you prudent; wise?
Do you live a godly life; chaste?
Have you kept yourself pure?

God will give you to a man that pleases him to marry you. That's his word.

Anonymous said...

Start giving audience to guys below your standard, before you know it, marriage proposal here and there.. That's the best way for girls that are not so lucky with guys...

Sexy dove said...

Babes y dnt u jst be ursef n av fun.pls dnt b too desperate for marriage.

MonkeyNoFineTheTafiaMama said...

@poster better make use of the QUEEN AND BOSS comments, this is her area of specialisation πŸ™Œ

Anonymous said...


You can't be a judge in your own case. Calling yourself "of good character . . ." isn't going to fly here. Every good and perfect gift is from above; from God. If you are a good gift, God will give you to a pleasant godly man. You've got to be patient and serve God.
I find more bitter than death the woman who is a snare, whose heart is a trap and whose hands are chains. The man who pleases God will escape her, but the sinner she will ensnare.
Eccl. 7:26

I am the queen and the boss of this blog(CHIEF) said...

If you are a single girl without a boyfriend or only married men asking you out,biko carry your self to SCOAN for deliverance!!,,.
What is the job of some mothers towards their daughters sef?...
Some of these mothers don't offer spiritual help to their daughters and sons!!...
Answering mothers for mouth!...
Nonsense!!...

THELMA'S CAKE WORLD said...

Patience does it, stop working yourself up..


Thanks sterra ala carte, I won the 1gb of data yesterday.... Merci beaucoup mami.

Isaacson, thank you too, more patronages fall on you.
*Faithful bv*

MonkeyNoFineTheTafiaMama said...

Stella na so those wey dey their 20s relax but now most of them are still single @early and late 30s😊 good she know her problem she better start working towards it before it gets too late.


MrsB said...

You can't hurry love
It will come when you least expect it, you're in your mid twenties boo. Discover and rediscover yourself, live a little, travel, meet new people and make new friends. Most importantly, Get closer to God and ask for all you seek in a man. He will grant you your heart desires. Just stay calm and smell the roses, enjoy your youth and singlehood. You'll be fine! πŸ’œ

SWAG LAFRESH said...

Babe, calm down. Focus on yourself.

Why are you searching for a man? Only desperate girls do. It's written... He who finds a wife, not she who finds a husband.

Keep calm and love yourself, a man will find you.

Chike TEFLON said...

Poster is like you are the type that once a man says "Hi" you will hear "will you marry me"

The God that gave you good job will give you good husband. just believe. HML in advance

�� Dreamcatcher �� said...

You are just 25 or so and you are this desperate? You will only attract wrong men with this attitude so chill girl!

SUGAR. said...

🎺🎢And here we are..
🎀🎡 looking for whom to choose..

Aunty breath! Hian. There is a new format in town called "Promise marriage, quick access".

I know you are lonely but please Take your time. Enjoy this moment and pray.

Anonymous said...

Mid 20s dont be desperate,have done ur part by praying,give God time to answer..

Mrs.R SDK blog Official BFF said...

Poster, relax your mind! Do you want to work in God's hands or you want God to perfect His work concerning marriage in your life? If you choose the latter, then, be patients.

Don't be desperate, though you are not too young for marriage but you still have age on your side and a lot to conquer in life.

A man will come and please, stop acting all independent. Allow a man give you a treat even though you have all the money in the world. Allow a man spend on you, there is nothing wrong with that.

Some men don't like "miss independent", they like to be in charge and they want a woman they can treat like a queen, not a woman who claim to be "king".

Since you said you've been praying, wait on God, the right man for you will come soon.

Blackberry said...

Husband ultimate search....

MonkeyNoFineTheTafiaMama said...

Same questions I always ask myself after reading post like This, it's even now my mum is relaxing and enjoying the fruit of her Labour. Wish every mothers can be like her.... I can say all her sons married to the most perfect and loyal women likewise her daughter's .only one single for now but in a very serious relationship! How can a working class lady still be single at this age and time? Fine if she doesn't want to have one BUT saying non in the picture calls for alarm!

Anonymous said...

Segzy dada this is Ur one word Okwa Ya



Rich princess Rx

MonkeyNoFineTheTafiaMama said...

all runs Babe don Marry born finish u still dey here dey quote bible hissss....... please stop deceiving the youths

Anonymous said...

You mean mother's like you that "knack pigeon"; i.e. visit babalawo or spiritualists? The world don't need such mothers that are devilish, they help to multiply the unfaithful among men.

Bubul said...

Huh.

Madam Small Chops said...

It's good you have money,there is nothing as sexy as a lady that can take care of her needs whatever a man gives you is just extra.

Stop being worried Biko worrying will rob you off the joy of enjoying each new day and also give you frown lines. Maybe it's easy for me to do that's why I always advice singles to enjoy single hood.

Travel, go for sight seeing,get on dating sites your hubby might be looking for you in another country.

I can't stop stressing it,Babe enjoy your life!!! Love will find you and yes in his time God will bring your man your way.

I am the queen and the boss of this blog(CHIEF) said...

Gbam!...
Don't mind Stella...

I am the queen and the boss of this blog(CHIEF) said...

Hahahahahahahaha...
My girl the tafia mama!!...
You have known me wella...lmao

2muchjuice|2muchsauce said...

I remind this song to you poster..Relax - Frankie goes To Hollywood..Que sera sera whatever will be will be..Chill for the love of Christ..They will surely come and na you go still come here , they ask who should I choose oh..Marriage is deep..Celebrate your singleness and enjoy..Dont get married and now regret why you never enjoyed your singlehood..Mid 20s..My dear RELAX!! ***in Franke goes to hollywood's voice**

I am the queen and the boss of this blog(CHIEF) said...

Hahahahaha...
Monkey no fine,don't you know this anonymous?...
She is the copy and paste anonymous on chronicles!...

I am the queen and the boss of this blog(CHIEF) said...

So you want her to settle for a fuck boy?...
I reject it for her!!...

I am the queen and the boss of this blog(CHIEF) said...

You see why I like you?...
We always reason together...
Monkeynofine,high tenπŸ™Œ...

MonkeyNoFineTheTafiaMama said...

πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚ @copy and paste πŸ˜†

MonkeyNoFineTheTafiaMama said...

πŸ™ŒπŸ™ŒπŸ™ŒπŸ™ŒπŸ™

Chidinma Grace said...

Relax my dear, at least you have a job and still mid twenty. How I wish I have a job. But God knows the best. He gave you a job and he will still give you a husband. Chill

STARRY LARRY said...

Haaaaaaaaa see these 2 women, you mostly think alike




*Larry was here*

STARRY LARRY said...

Your matter don tire me, see me reading and laughing




*Larry was here*

Jeni_zee said...

Lmao at least it's not about septic abortion today πŸ˜‚

STARRY LARRY said...

😱😱😱😱😱😱😱😱😱😱 Taye and Kehinde




*Larry was here*

Anonymous said...

I'm 38, single, working class... and loving every bit of my life. My ex left on my 38th birthday. I moved on and kept slaying. Today he can't sleep and keeps calling and texting 24/7. He wants us to get married tomorrow, tomorrow. But hey, I would rather remain single.
You need to have peace with yourself.

Anonymous said...

dis queen sef. You that have sugarboys are you not a fuck girl?

Chikito The Professional Fire for Fire a.k.a 'Anike' πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚ said...

Abeg I'm tired of this issue 😣

Anonymous said...

Ana eto ogiri ona esi isi
Mgbeke huru nsi si na ob ogiri. A si ya were ogiri sie nri oju. Mgbeke saw feces and said it was local spice; ogiri. When told to cook with it, she refused.

Anonymous said...

This Linda Eze is the enemy of everything godly. That anonymous up there quoted God's word. The same God you claim to worship. Why make mockery of it. It wasn't meant for you. it was meant for the poster. Must you castigate everything about God almighty to be relevant?

DON™ said...

Auntie go and relax yourself somewhere! . Haaa. Wetin happen sef? If you are acting like this, men go chop you mugu

Cherry topaz said...

Poster NEVER you drop your sha card for any motherfucker!! That move reeks of unadulterated desperation. Anon keep misleading gullible ladies you hear? So you want her to settle for less. Shame on you!

SWAG LAFRESH said...

Chike, you're a clown πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚

Original cosmetic dealer(OSD) said...

Mrs R.SDK,I don't usually agree with your comments on some post, but this one is exceptional!

Iphie dearie said...

Lmao.. These two women.
Adanma and Adaeze🀠

Poster, Stop dwelling on marriage,rather do things that make you happy,go out.. eat healthy,travel,grab qualifications and above all... In your private prayers... Tell God exactly what you want.

He gives us the best,In his time.
Relax.

St.FranKooL.... said...

#It's better to have nobody than to have someone who is half there, or doesn't want to be there at all*

Anonymous said...

My dear calm down!u just in ur 20s so wats ur stress? Wat about those in dia 30s and 40s?wat do u want dem to do?comit suicide cos de are nt married? Pls calm down,tk a chill pill!God Dat gave u a vry gd job Wld Also Giv u a gd man!pls concentrate on ur job and pls pray very very well!Tell God Wat U Need In Your Man and u wld see God Perfect All Dat Concerns u!Ders Absolutely Notin God Cannot Do!Just Put To God In Prayers! U Wld See How God Wld Surprise U!its well with u ok?

Weed Chic said...

Poster, how can this be a chronicle? What will the men reading this think of you?

Weed Chic said...

Poster, you don't ask men for money? Is that a good quality? The man will end up spending it on other babes. A man needs to feel like man in a relationship. If you do all the spending, you will lose in the end

Chike TEFLON said...

Lol
Ugegbe m oooooo
Chiki Baby
You say what?
Biko come back and pour her wisdom πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚
Do you know how many times I have scroll down to check for your comment??? Lol

Yori Yori Princess Loveme Jeje said...

Hahahaha queen and Monkeynofine na wa for una today. Chai.

Anyone that quarrels with you people is on a long thing.

Poster since it is in your mind, abeg Promise God something and see how it works. It is better you started early. Don't mind anyone telling you you too worry. No gree at all

Stella Igbokei said...

Tnx weedweed chic. If u don't ask a man for money he'll definitely spend it on other babes. So ask even when u are comfortable or earn more than ur partner

Anonymous said...

16:14 if he is now ready why not give him a chance?

Chikito The Professional Fire for Fire a.k.a 'Anike' πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚ said...

Ugebe m I've talked and talked (typed actually 😐) and they don't wanna hear (read). What should I do? Biko today the Lord asked me to be silent *side at COZA pastor* before they accuse me of campaigning for single girls club. As I dey so, it's countdown to #ChikiChi2017 πŸ˜‰

Chikito The Professional Fire for Fire a.k.a 'Anike' πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚ said...

Happy that it's a guya saying it

wideawake naija said...

@ anony 16:14 he might have had baggages she was even managing sef. Proper opportunity to run for her life. Hahaha...

I am the queen and the boss of this blog(CHIEF) said...

My yori yori Princess!!..,

I am the queen and the boss of this blog(CHIEF) said...

Hahahahahaha Iphie,have a wonderful weekend!

Gold Taken said...

I like your first line.

Poster, revert to my dp.

ukwu dimond said...

Poster why are you rushing to get married? Do you think there is a prize you will win if you marry now? The only thing you are doing wrong is that you are desperate, no man is ready to accept responsibility of being married, just relax, take your mind off it, enjoy your life, look for something to focus on, get distracted with something, do not stop praying, the right one will come.

Serve God the more, be committed to the things of God, do not worry yourself over marriage. Good luck

Ronalda. said...

‎My darling, marriage isn't what you rush into because you feel you are old enough or "ripe" enough. You get married because you've found the right person and you are mentally, emotionally, spiritually and financially ready for the ride of a lifetime. 

At the rate you are going, chances are high that you will lower your standards and settle for "manageable" instead of the "choicest best". Just a friendly/big sisterly reminder, there are very few calamities worst than marrying the wrong person. Ohhhh! Hell on earth would be an apt description.‎

You've listed a handful of good qualities you possess which, you feel, make you an overqualified candidate for marriage but you seem to be unaware of one of the most important factors... a good man worthy of your love and affection. All you listed are irrelevant when it comes to getting married timeously until the right man comes along. Relax and keep improving yourself. Darling, you're just in your mid 20s, you haven't even began to live your life, you have your whole life ahead of you.

Please, focus on other important things and stop obsessing over marriage so you don't kiss a prince who would turn out to be a frog, instead of the other way around. Don't allow impatience make you inadvertently sign your own misery and marital imprisonment. There's, certainly no cause for alarm yet, just calm down and pray to God to send a guy tailor made for you.
#e-bearhugs.‎

Anonymous said...

Can't hurry love,
No you just have to wait,
She said love don't come easy,
it's a game of give and take.
You can't hurry love,
No you just have to wait,
She said love don't come easy,
It's a game of give and take
No matter how long it takes.
No love, love don't come easy,
But I keep on waiting, anticipating for that
Soft voice to talk to me at night,
For some tender arms to hold me tight.
I keep waiting; I keep on waiting,
But it ain't easy, it ain't easy when mama said
You can't hurry love no,
You just have to wait,
She said trust, give it time
No matter how long it takes.

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