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Thursday, 14 September 2017

Chronicle Of Blog Visitor Narrative

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STAND ALONE NARRATIVE:
INTRODUCING THE 'CUCUMBER' IN A HOPELESS SITUATION

Hello Stella, I have a question that has been bothering me and will like to seek other BVs opinion on this. Please I do not want my name or email showing.


I have been married for 6 years and s§xually starved for as long as I can remember. You know those stories they say about a man changing once they get married was actually what happened. My husband changed completely. He now believes I am not entitled to an opinion talk less of wanting to share it with him. Because he is a very good and faithful man, I am willing to overlook all his excesses but I have one thing bothering me.


My Libido is very high and I have always known I couldn't marry someone with an average s§x appetite to avoid extramarital affairs which runs in my family. I am a Christian and just cant go that route. However, my cravings are up the roof.


I knew DH before we got married and we could make out 7times in a day. I remember clearly, he will tell me to imagine how marriage will be when we will have the whole time in the world. Hmn... Stella, for the past 6years, once he ejaculates he sleeps off and you dear not touch him. Even the one round is like torturing me.


Recently, I have been thinking of getting a Dildo.My question now is how do I introduce it to him without getting hurt. DH calls family meeting all the time over trivial things which is very embarrassing.If I get it and use it secretly and he finds out, Family meeting will hold. If I tell him we could use it together, I am so scared of his thoughts and reactions.


I am married to a traditional yoruba man. He says it all the time that I do not know what pleases me or what makes me happy so I should not try and tell him what i think makes me happy. He believes he's got me all figured out.


Please BVs who use Dildos should advise me on how they introduced it to their hubby. I just cannot continue like this.


150 comments:

  1. Who understands the 6th paragraph?

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    1. Nna ehn! Me sef confuse o....

      GOD BLESS NIGERIA.

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    2. Nna ehn! Me sef confuse o....

      GOD BLESS NIGERIA.

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    3. Buy and use. Let him call fam meeting, tell them u are fungry

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    4. I came to Shout my own WOWπŸ™‹

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    5. 6th paragraph means that "Yoruba demon" is a reality not a myth!
      That is if Stella uploads this comment, wondered why she didn't delete it in the chronicles.

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    6. Madam talk to him oh. Tell him he his not doing his job properly make him call family meeting then table your matter. The dick is yours to be used biko. Tell him you need pepper maggi crayfish salt etc in your sex life, in order words you need the rabbit to spice up your sex life and continue from where he stops. Goodluck

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    7. Poster I don't comment but I had to in your case . I never had a orgasm till my bf taught me how to touch myself . All women should learn how to please themselves . You don't need a dildo , just lubricant and your fingers . Check out some porn sites and learn how to touch yourself . If there is no dildo , there will be no family meeting .
      Please yourself at will , with your fingers .
      Btw , since I learnt this , I have discarded my dildo

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    8. Anony 17:51, masturbation is a sin o. Be informed. Posted, pls discuss with your husband.

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    9. Then using of dilldo nko?

      Tee

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  2. TGW
    Very High Chief Linda
    Iphie dearie
    Fab mum


    Over to y'all.

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    1. Bipolar, are you insinuating that the above names use DildoπŸ˜…πŸ˜….

      Okay, let me come and be going wetin be my own sefπŸ˜†

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    2. Lipstickalley. But I didn't say that na....
      They are married women.

      **shining teeth**

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    3. πŸ€£πŸ€£πŸ€£πŸ€£πŸ€£πŸ€£πŸ€£πŸ€£πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚
      As the professor of Sexology and Its tools that I is now🀣🀣🀣🀣🀣

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  3. Sex toys is a sin before God.

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  4. This chronicle is for the married ones,oya married ladies fall in here so we the single ones can learn from the comment session

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    1. Are you naturally a blonde or do you use a dye?

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    2. My husband carry am ,this days he gives me two minutes noodles ,I gats call am to order.wetin be this ?how I go get this big instrument ,e no go dey play well again.
      Three days ago fuck, he was touching my gizzard na so I dey scream,oh lawd,harder,harder am certain my neighbors heard me .the next day na so DEM dey look me but wetin b my own.I got my marathon fuck and was satisfied.
      Madam rape am.

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    3. I love the poster above.....you're in the spirit

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  5. What's dildo?

    I already knew he's going to be a Yoruba man..

    Lolz

    Always controlling n not ready to listen..
    Arrogant pomposity people..

    Well not all sha.. But most of them..

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    1. Omo ale ni e sha...

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    2. Really? ?? Biko gba mu okpa Na eze πŸ˜€

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    3. Ola you are sick in the head for that silly statement..
      Alajenu

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    4. Are u not one? Ola is Yoruba right? So y are u saying that about ur people?

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    5. And so @Stella ?Nkt everyone is a cowardly hypocrite that will see wrong and say it is to right. #sideeyes

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    6. @Stella igbokei pls free Ola. He is a son of the soil and for him to say that he must have had some experiences he doesn't want to voice out. Sometimes we get too into our tribes and erase objectivity.

      I will tell you that men from my side of the country have the tendency to be quite lazy and love sex (you saw two out of three in the last big brother naau?) it doesn't mean I hate them or I'm 100% right. I'm just being objective so we know where the problem is and how to solve it in the next generation.

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    7. Ola wealth, ur people will finish u for this ur comment.

      Madam, buy the dildo and use. If he sees u, tell him he is not satisfying u in bed. So u've gat to help ur ministry as u don't want to commit adultery.

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  6. Extra marital affairs runs in your family?
    U don't need advice naa! Even if u get a dildo, it's just a matter of time someone else shines your congo.
    Comman beat me.

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    1. Lol that one shocked me. Extra martial affair in family lineage what else are you waiting for

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    2. πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚

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    3. πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚ na wa o

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    4. I tire oh....is it genetic too?πŸ˜πŸ˜πŸ˜€πŸ˜€

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  7. Jesus fix thisπŸ™ŒπŸ™ŒπŸ™Œ

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  8. Hahahah, and someone will say s3x is not food. Shebi una see say this sister needs her 'food'.

    Poster, talk about it with your husband first before you bring that 'thing' in. Let it not be a surprise to him, else there will be wahala. Goodluck "dildoing"

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    1. hahaha @needs her food. sex is not just food oh but balance diet.

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    2. Chei! Sex is food o! If you want to introduce a foreign object like that, pls discuss it with him.
      Stroke his ego first, don't impose it on him or make him feel like he's not 'enough' (we know he isn't but don't make him feel that way), make it look like you both are experimenting/looking for ways to spice up your sex life.
      Bear in mind he's an African man, rigid pertaining things like things, so he may not be so receptive!
      Don't worry, I know how you feel, I have a high libido as well. Communication with your partner is key for you both to be satisfied. There are other less intrusive sex toys asides the dildo, start with those first!

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  9. MonkeyNoFineTheTafiaMama14 September 2017 at 15:07

    Hummmmm your matter hard. I use all kind of sex toys most of them bought by my husband he like it when using it on meπŸ˜‹ he introduced me to the world of sex toys and I am so enjoying it........ sometimes u just get bored of doing same thing every dame time😊 madam stylishly talk to your husband about it.tell him you want to spice things up by introducing in a sex toy, ask him if he's in or not .

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    1. Bey hands in d air for ur husbandπŸ™ŒπŸ™ŒπŸ™ŒπŸ™ŒπŸ™ŒπŸ™ŒπŸ™Œ
      Mine would be d last man in d world to use something like dt but.....we are sure crazyπŸ˜€

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    2. MonkeyNoFineTheTafiaMama14 September 2017 at 17:41

      Vic Vic 😊😊😊😊

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    3. Monkeynofine, I wish my hubby will do same for us jare. But he can shine pot wella.

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  10. Is he passing through stress @ d moment? He did he changed suddenly? How is your dressing? Do you dress like a traditional Yoruba woman? Always dress the same way you dressed during courtship. Wear sexy nighties with inviting perf. Make sure prepare his favourite meals always. I wish you the best.

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    1. Comments like this irritates d shit outta me. Must it always be d woman? Dress well, use perf, make ur hair, wear sexy nightie,dont nag bla bla....tank God u were sensible enuff not to tell her to watch war room. Who told u she hasnt tried all this trash u spewed☝up dere?
      To think ure a Finister(or not)....#radarada

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    2. Maybe she became πŸ’― % dependent on him after marriage and that put him under financial pressure. So he changed

      @Adadiorama you have a point πŸ€”

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  11. MonkeyNoFineTheTafiaMama14 September 2017 at 15:10

    Secondly madam please forget about ur dating days bikonu things like this do change while married.... think about how to make him understand how u feel.. .let him know that he's starving u sexually.......if he refuse you from getting a dildo please use shower head!

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    1. Shower head? You really mean this 🚿
      Chukwu abiama...Uwa Ekpu oooolaa, Biawasia

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    2. MonkeyNoFineTheTafiaMama14 September 2017 at 17:41

      Sure try it out πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚

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    3. Poster read this Monkey comment well well.
      If you talk to him gently and he doesn't change don't worry yourself.
      Forget the dildo, cos the next thing he will say is that the thing is bigger than his own and making you slack.
      Ensure you get the original shower massager head. When he dozes off after one round, go and #TakeAShower
      If he ever catches you, you can always say you warned him.
      *men and their egos*

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    4. Showerhead ke? How can it enter there? I àm at loss😱

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    5. Lmao@ Showehead ke.. How will it enterπŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚
      Hohohohoho!!!!

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    6. It's not meant to enter. You turn it on and the full jet of the water should pour on your clit. You won't know when how you get an orgasm. It's the best for when u need someone to give u head.

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  12. This is serious oo!!

    I don't have much to say on this other than you should look out for his very happy moment and politely tell him that he doesn't satisfy you these days.

    Tell him you miss the days you used to have 7 rounds.Then if he is open to talks ,find out what the problem is then you can find solution.

    Believe me it might be more pyschological,is he in debt? Are things rough? Has he lost interest in sex.

    Speaking for myself, I dont get horny when I'm worried.All the best dear.

    BV MSC

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  13. The thing is, you are hanging on a long thing. This is difficult sha. Get the dido. Do all tru can to keep it away from him. Things might just turn around before he gets the chance to see it.

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  14. Going by ur name I believe you are one of them

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  15. good men are most likely not good in bed but bad guys are..what an irony! I pray for a good man all round

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    1. Are you talking from experience, you don sample both ways,good girl always like d badt guys lol

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  16. He sure will use it against you. leave him out of it and find a trust worthy cucumber outside. i understands what it means to be sex starved. i am a man married but also sex starved. we can hook up for discreet affair if you like. reply in anonymous mood if interested.

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    1. She told you cheat is a NO NO.

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    2. Can't you work things out with your wife? What is your issue with her? We may be able to advise. Why have you made up your mind to go down the cheating route?

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    3. The problem is not my wife but my extremely high sex drive and my urge for crazy sexual things. My wife is doing her very best but when one's sexual orientation is wild it's hard not wanting to try something new. Seeing another deny for what i have in abundance to give it is hard to refuse. Discreet is the watch word. For me sex and love are different. Sex with you is without emotions or feelings

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    4. Mr sex starved,are you taking care of your responsibilities at home??maube that's why your wife isn't giving you some!

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    5. @Anony 18:36, shebi there's a new sex toy now in the market that looks and feels like the real thing. Why not get one since your libido is out of this world? NMTA

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    6. OnΓ­ranΓΉ okΓΉnrin.
      Olosho will set you back a loaf of bread but another man's wife could cost you your life!!!

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  17. Choi! Reminds me of that movie 'This thing called marriage'
    Me I can't advice you on telling or not telling. But per adventure he calls family meeting on that dildo ish tell them what you just told us. That he used to do 7 rounds before you married. Now even one round is a problem. And that you feel deceived because you ensured you checked 'every' before you said yes. What you are getting isn't what you bargained for. Shikena! They can't beat a grown woman can they?
    Infact say he promised you that 7 rounds was minor sef only for him to change when you married. that they should put themselves in your shoes.
    In my experience it's what you feel ashamed about that people will use to mock you. If he calls for that meeting cry sef, with catarrh running down your nose. and tell family that you are sex starved and losing your mind. If infidelity is rampant in your family(as you said) and you are a Christian (which is ok) your family will stand by you and ask him to please ensure he does what he was doing before that kept you sane. Kikikiki. You know some families cooperate very well in matter like this. It's nothing to be ashamed of because (I think) sex is a VERY important part of marriage. The only issue is we Africans (esp Nigerians) don't like to talk about such marital issues.

    Depending on how severe the starvation is, maybe you should even be the first to call that meeting and officially table your complaint. Let's see how traditional man will defend himself πŸ˜‚ If he asks you why tell him that's the way you people have been doing in this house so you learnt from the best.

    Just take my advice with a pinch of salt cos me I dey craze sometimes. You may not be as crazy as me and it probably works for you.

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    1. Poster come here,see the advice above,read it,read again,think about it,and take the steps immediately,call that family meeting asap as your dh doesn't have secrets,did you hear what she said,what you feel ashamed about that people will use in mocking you.

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    2. Chai chikito! Poster follow her advice

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    3. I always look forward to your advise Chikito, always sensible, you will sure make a fine writer

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    4. Best advice! No man will want his inabilities out there so since he is king or family meeting turn tables around and make the first call

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    5. Oh! So you people like my advice today? πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚ you see?? Sometimes craze is good. Not everytime quiet woman thinz.... sometimes show him that your vagina needs pounding

      On a more serious note, this post came on a wrong day (for me πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚) after all this rabbesh, ifa hear say guy man no fit do seven rounds plus, gaskiya I will kidnap and rape him to my satisfaction. Then we can call family meeting when I've had multiple orgasms. E chop winsch? Yeye fowl!

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    6. Lol @with cattarrh running down ur nose.

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  18. Madam if he's a typical yoruba man he won't listen as they feel that there knowledge on women and family is an inheritance attached to their DNA.

    He will not support you buying the dildo so just forget it (Yoruba pride)

    So you either bring him up to speed sexually by buying him herbal drugs that enhances sexual performance in men or you

    Buy your dildo and use it in peace quietly and if he finds out and threaten to call a family meeting pls let him.

    Let me see how he will explain to his family members that you have a dildo because he cannot satisfyou you.

    It's better you nip in the bud your sexual desire by using a dildo on yourself than to let frustration send you out there looking for a Dick.

    Been a Christian doesn't mean you can't fall,Sexual desires are the hardest things to battle as a "Christian".
    it's either you give way to it or a strong desire takes over.


    LEPπŸ˜›

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    1. For those who advocate 'testing' abi 'tasting' before marriage, read this chronicle very well. There is no garry and tea (guarantee) before marriage. Marriage as queen of the bus said is a bale of Okrika. Na wetin you see inside na wetin you get.

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    2. It obvious the man is doing it intentionally because even if his libido is failing discussing with his wife wouldn't be a bad idea. Since he changed he decided the torment her by starving her.I know of a man boast about how he breaks his wife using sex starvation.

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    3. That is bad. Starving your husband or wife of sex intentionally is a form of abuse.

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  19. Wow
    Pls I want to laughπŸ˜€πŸ˜πŸ˜‚
    Am I the one one that find this funny...
    Like seriously he will call family meeting for dildo matter

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    1. I doubt if he will call a family meeting and open his mouth to say the word D-i-l-d-o 😯😯.

      Shame go kill am before they get to item 2 on the meeting agenda πŸ˜†πŸ˜†πŸ˜†

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  20. I will say you should bring it to is notice...my dear if is not in support which I believe he will not react ...just let him know for love to reign.

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  21. @ poster. is high libido hereditary? cos the part where you wrote "extra marital affairs runs in the family" got me thinking... Well in my opinion I think u really need to get yourself very busy. By so doing, you will go to bed feeling tired everyday and even that one round from hubby will feel like a disturbance to you...

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    1. Oro odè.....she shld get herself busy from morning till night ba?? Guess u arent married.

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    2. So someone will now be doing celibacy in marriage again?
      Wait. We tell single girls to focus on other things. You tell married women same??!! As in really?? Someone has the license to have unhindered guilt free sex and you say she should focus on other things? Until Husband (and his penis) become a disturbance? How?

      Take your time πŸ‘ˆπŸ½

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    3. Princess Scheherazade14 September 2017 at 19:33

      Lol. Chikito, this ovulation de do you strong thing today oh... to me all your advice have been on pointπŸ‘πŸ½πŸ‘πŸ½
      Or maybe cos I'm in the same position.😩

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    4. πŸ˜‚πŸ€£πŸ€£πŸ€£πŸ€£πŸ€£πŸ€£
      Chikito and Princess Scheherazade. Lmao!!!

      Chikito is even pointing fingerπŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚

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    5. Princess Scheherazade hmmm! My sister the Lord will do it.

      See how @Iphie dearie be yabbing us. I'm sure she got some good 'sorting' while we are ovulating. And some of us are even afraid to climb bike πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚

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  22. Talking about an alternative to the available tool he offers is regarded as a huge blow to his ego, he just might even go xtreme & accuse u of infidelity... you've waited 6yrs enduring in silence, so it'd come to him as a shock. If ur husband has a sense of humour, it'd be mch easier throwing it in as a joke or using the line "my friends/colleague has a problem" then interpret his responds & reaction to urself.
    Most women reach orgasm by the stumulation of the clitoris, & the actual penetration dsnt do the trick for them, im guessing ure not such... you crave the hardrock penetration down to ur cervical wall, id have suggested vry handy & portable clit vibrators 4u, u can even carry it in ur handbag & ur DH wil be non the wiser, it can easily be mistaken 4 a makeup stick, u can even locate cloud9 during working hours to ease stress.

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    1. Choi! School us ooo. But hitting that G spot is bae. It beats the clit thing, though that is just fine 😁

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    2. Yoruba men & sense of humour. Where is that heard of before small joke will turn to DV abeg o

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    3. Do you know I recently found out that the vaginal walls don't really do 'anything'in terms of xxx? It's either it happens at the fore front or the back end. Anything in between is just.... well.... a train through a tunnel

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    4. not for all ladies chikito... some require girth to stretch their walls apart, thats why some ladies would suggest u use 2fingers to insert them

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    6. πŸ˜‚πŸ€£πŸ€£πŸ€£πŸ€£
      Locate cloud 9 during working hours?
      Don't let poster come back here eith another chronicle but this time 'How I lost my job'
      πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚
      Im just laughing here... Poster will become a vibrator-carrying woman🀣🀣🀣

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    7. The clit vibrators are called bullets. She won't loose her job πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚ they will only wonder why she's overly happy. You can actually walk around while it's taking care of u😜

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  23. I would have said you should send him this link if not for a statement you made. Your husband needs to listen more and quit acting like he knows it all. In fact, a family meeting should be called. He's just too selfish.

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  24. High libido? Hmmmm don't even know what to advice u, just accept ur husband the way he is.

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  25. Traditional man ...... ok na do 1,2 3,4,5,6 thrust, the matter end.

    Your traditional man will not like oyibo method ooo using dildo. Just buy it for yourself and use it to satisfy yourself.

    Why did you rush sex too much when dating, now married it has become boring. You see, not everything you give in relationship, keep the bottom pot for marraige, una no go gree.

    No vex enjoy your traditional man

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  26. Hmmm married people ti take over. No comment today

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  27. Me and u na d same, d way I love sex, I can't marry a man that won't satisfy me well o.

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  28. Poster please go and read your Bible or join a service group in your Church.I think that will occupy your mind so well.Lol


    After all sex is not food.
    We men got a lot to take care of other than sexual activities. Infact this Buhari government alone is enough to make man dick to be on a shrink mode always!

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    1. Pls I beg to differ sexy daddy. In marriage, sex is FOOD and must be done regularly.

      No matter what u r taking care of, u must satisfy ur spouse and urself.

      I wonder why pple run away frm sex when it's very sweet very annoying something.

      The only time I don't do is when I ........πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚

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    2. Your 2nd paragraph is very true. Stress is another thing that may cause it.

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    3. Shrink mode ni oooo..
      πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚

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    4. Sexy daddy please don't annoy me.... if it's not food that means it's water 😐

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    5. Sexy daddy, sex is very important in marriage biko. Can u starve @sexy Mummy with sex?

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    6. Chikito easy ooo no go kee my brother with gbenshing ooo.Lol

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    7. Chikito!!!!!!
      🀣🀣🀣🀣🀣🀣🀣🀣

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  29. Me and u na d same, d way I love sex, I can't marry a man that won't satisfy me well o.

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  30. Since he likes calling family meeting on every small issue..why not talk to him about your sexual concerns first..be firm but polite when stating your observations and demands. If he tries to belittle you or your concerns again then tell him you think its time the family gets involved so no one will say they weren't aware of such challenges in the future...then call a meeting and pour out your heart to them.
    I haven't used any sex toy before and don't think i'll ever...but I don't see that helping you much and you still may end up looking for "the do" outside... best you speak to the family about the starvation now..than loose your home coz of impending infidelity..... my one cent. Finito.

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    1. I cosign to this as well....call a family meeting and tell them how ur hubby has be one weak and unsatisfying.....he will buckle up

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  31. Oya use cucumber or shower head and treat yourself. His mind no go reach there atall

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  32. How and what made him change after marriage?

    Abeg sex is food in marriage o. U need to find a way to mk him want and long for it. Find another way to mk him desire sex frm u since u said he's a traditional guy bcx dt dildo might cause another wahala

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  33. Madam,I hope you've not told your husband that cheating runs in your family,if you have,be rest assured that there's nothing you'll tell the man that will make him accept a dildo. In his head that's just the route for you to take in order to "tear cloth and enter market"

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  34. My dear, get urself a dildo and don't hide it.
    It is high time he knows u have needs which he is not meeting.
    If he threatens to tell ur family, tell him to go ahead.

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  35. This is where i will sleep today... Oh dear...Well you see me i cant advise you o but babe have you heard of "rabbit ears"?

    Have a nice day.

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  36. This one is a tough nut to have a say in it. Let me sit down and learn from comments

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  37. He didn't just change, did you ignore the signs perhaps? Did you change too? Talk it out!

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  38. 'Traditional ' an euphemism for rigid/ never wants to think outside the box. This is one of the reasons a lot of people with African mentality will never progress to a given extent.
    Clearly there is an identifiable problem but because of his mentality and who it will not be addressed.
    Well my advice to you is to get the dildo to avoid issues that touch. If he decides to call the family meeting let him and let everyone there know that he is a wimp in bed . If any of the women there tries to blame you for having a high libido , ask them if there husbands only do it once weekly too. Lol.
    In summary, buy it but if caught face it squarely.

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  39. But why let it take this long before coming out?communictation is key madam,if u buy the dildo without his consent,he will find out no matter how long and you don't want to imagine the outcome......please wait for a good time to talk to him,u cud even tell him just after a round and see what he says....!it is well o!

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  40. "My Libido is very high and I have always known I couldn't marry someone with an average s§x appetite to avoid extramarital affairs which runs in my family."

    For me the quote up there is where your answer lies. I would have suggested some other things like talking it over with him, getting him some aphrodisiacs, or even counselling. But hey! There is a force that wants you to join the train, a strong force for that matter.

    There is an ancestral spirit which forces extra marital affairs on everyone in order to hold them captive.

    PRAY! PRAY!! PRAY!!!
    You said it yourself that sex was explosive before marriage. That's to tell you he has the capability, he's no novice. Let me tell you, even your dildo will not help you! Yes I said so, take it to the bank. That spirit is on your case.

    Don't be ashamed to take it God. He's God of all flesh, He hears.

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    1. Aphrodisiac πŸ‘πŸ‘ get tiger nuts, coconut n dates, juice it n refrigerate. His libido will increase

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    2. I love you AGELESS T

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  41. Madam buy your dildo and enjoy in peace jawe

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  42. Marriage is such an handful...madam I can't advice u

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  43. Monkey no fine ,your second comment got me ROTFL.....shower head kwanu.....odikwa serious something.....
    Poster.....try and bring up a discussion about your friend's husband that bought his wife Sex toy and hear his reaction......from his reaction, you will know what his reaction will be should you buy one or should he see you using one........
    But wait ohhhhhh......sorry to ask....do you have kids? ? Because I'm surprised that with everything going on in this country is libido and sex, you're thinking of.........

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  44. Linda Eze my baby booo , where are you ?abeg fall in o! Come read toryyyyyyyyyyy lol


    Poster kindly check http://www.zeevirtualmedia.com/

    Note: I'm not asking you to buy o just check them out lol.

    Let me break it down for some of you. In marriage ehn, SEX IS ESSENTIAL. GIDIDGAN. It's more than food. It causes a STRONG bond. But, sadly people don't like talking about it. OMASE OOOOOOO


    Hmmmmm still reading comments tho.

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  45. Hmmm what makes you cum?real fuck?or just stimulating the clitoris? If your answere is real fuck then you have to come out clean and explian ypurself to him when he is in a good mood,if stimulating you clitoris is your answere then you have no problem get small vibrator infact fancy looking one only an expert will know its a vibrator ,look for a secert place and keep it .Then you shld pray just incase its beyond human understanding.you cant keep managing it wont work cos you will always think of sex even at work.so get solution ASAP.You can enhance its drinks or food to increase libido.for some men stress ,lack of money ,liabilty spouse,fat spouse,its a turn off.check your self.

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  46. Buy your dildo & vibrator. He won't listen to you and his ego won't let him introduce the toys to make up for his poor performance. Sometimes men use it as tool to control you. Once he knows you like sex. Same way women use sex to control.

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  47. 🀣🀣🀣 I'm really enjoying the comments on this post. Chhaiii!!

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  48. Poster this ur case pass me....let me read comments from the married people

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  49. Madam buy your dildo and enjoy it in peace my husband is similar to your husband too is just that we both don't have high libido but he i don't reach orgasm thru penetration but stimulation of clitoris which the yoruba demon do give me head to achieve that before we got married but stopped when we got married and I have talked about it but he is not willing to change so I stopped giving him head everybody should hold their own and I got myself a vibrator which he doesn't know about and sometimes I use his vibrating toothbrush to please myself, don't judge me so poster don't be suprise your husband is wasting all his energy somewhere that is why he starving you because oloriburuku ni okunrin you can't trust them.

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    1. Princess Scheherazade14 September 2017 at 19:39

      Hahahahahahahahaha...you use his toothbrush sometimes!!!

      Chai!

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    2. πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚
      🀣🀣🀣🀣🀣🀣🀣🀣
      Lmao@ "The Yoruba demon refused to give me head.. Everybody hold their own".
      WTH!!!you used his tooth brush for what?????
      Funke!
      Funke!

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    3. Rotflmao...πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚. Stella ooo comman see ya BVs...

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    4. Oloriburuku ke, ki lo de?

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  50. Poster my advice finished before I read reach the very end. May God fix it, women are really suffering from men, when they want to marry you they will pretend to be so caring, loving, gentle, can listen to you give you attention but after marriage they will just become something else. Look at the way this man is treating this woman, now if she cheat people will call her names. The man will not stand to his responsibilities he want one small boy to out shine him. Poster your husband may be cheating on you.

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  51. I just hate it when an individual is bad and then his tribe is made to suffer cos he or she belongs to that tribe. Ola wealth, you are a bastard child. Stella, please, post this, you know I don't do this at all. Post it. Thanks in advance.

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  52. My dear just fake a sex dream and act like ur having an orgasm ... very early in d morning just about the time you know he would b awake ... he would get the hint...😝Try it today n thank me laterπŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚

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