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Wednesday, 20 September 2017

Chronicle Of Blog Visitor Narrative....


Hmmmm....''Are you are''! (Chief Zebrudaya)








STAND ALONE NARRATIVE
SNOOPING GONE WRONG


Hi Stella good day. Am a very big fan of yours. Thanks for this platform. Let me go straight to the point.


I've known my husband for ten years but we've been married for almost five years now with two beautiful kids. My second born is 2months.


Stella I was one of those women who would vouch for my husband no matter what especially when it comes to cheating. I always say not all men cheat because my husband never gave me any reason to think so. We are both 31 years. Stella he is hard working. Takes very good care of me and the kids. I am gainfully employed but hardly spend my money. We live in our own house, I have a very beautiful car and I was one of the first people to own sumsung galaxy s8 plus when it came out this year even though the s7 I was using was in good condition all thanks to him.


As human as I was something was still not sitting right with me.And so I had a prayer session one night and told God to let me know if my instinct was right or I was just being stupid. Well after that prayer I was surfing on net and came across whatsup clone so I put that on my husband's phone so I could read all his whatsup chats. To my greatest surprise Stella I was right all along. 


I saw a chat where my husband Was telling this lady to remember to buy the contraceptive. Mind you I was eight months pregnant with my second baby. I nearly collapsed. And I also read one chat where he was trying to book a hotel for a different lady so they could have a good time. I was shattered.



 I confronted him and he begged and cried and swore on everything dat it was a mistake and that he slept with the lady just once and after that he felt emboldened to continue. And he thank God I caught him that it will never happen again. I cried and cried and even had high blood pressure. I eventually forgave him. 


So fast forward to when I gave birth, things were alright until I noticed he was becoming protective of his phone and would sometimes not pick certain calls. So this time I put a spy app on his phone.
Hmmmm Stella my husband all along was dating another girl and had rented an apartment for her and was in the process of acquiring a shop for her. He spends on her like crazy. The girls parents are aware their daughter is dating a married man and both parents are even begging my husband to impregnate their daughter,can you imagine.


This time around I involved his parents and mine as well and threatened to leave cos I don't even know the man am married to anymore. And you know african parents and this mentality that if he doesn't abuse you and takes good care of you then you have no cause to leave a marriage. And a constant reminder of the kids too.


As usual he begged and begged and is still begging. I have forgiven him again. Mind you the spy app was a trial version and so has expired and I don't have credit card to purchase the package. He tells me he has broken up with the girl but i don't believe him.


Stella Do I go ahead and spy on him again to see if it's true because he is a pathological liar or l should let sleeping dogs lie. What if the girl eventually gets pregnant for him. Help a sister out.



*You are asking me if you should continue snooping?WHO SEN YOU TO SNOOP IN THE FIRST PLACE?did you ask me first then?
Unfortunately madam,you have opened a can of worms that will never close again...YOU CAN NEVER STOP SNOOPING AGAIN

Maybe members of team snoop should give you advice on what to do!!!

132 comments:

Miss Ess said...

You have seen it all, what else do you want to see again. Live your life jeje or leave if you can't continue.

Yori Yori Princess Loveme Jeje said...

Madam continue with HBP. I just pity you. At last at last another woman go take your position when you die. I wonder why you still wants to continue with snooping.

Why dont you start using protection so that you dont receive stupid diseases. stop vouching for any man.

Na my friend own i take no say, men na yeye. Me i dont vouch for my own. What i know he cant do rubbish where i dey because i dey kampe.

Sorry ooo, please tax him very well for anything you want. start demanding more and dont sorry for him at all.

Anonymous said...

Pls tell me more about WhatsApp clone .
If my husband should read my WhatsApp am finished......

STARRY LARRY said...

You're gradually digging your grave, madam with this behavior of yours, if care is not taken, something bad will happen.

If after all these you decide to leave, we have over 1001 single ladies that will jump to that man.

I'm not saying snooping is not good, but health wise, it's pure crazy.




*Larry was here*

Adele love said...

Madam instead of opting for plan B after snooping you are asking if you should continue snooping. Its time for you to start draining him. He has more than enough that's why he's been sharing. Shine your eyes and drain him. Build your own empire with his damn money. When you are fed up take a walk.

Juloghosa said...

Continue snooping n give urself high blood pressure

Just Glamour said...

You are asking Stella that is against snooping?let me read comments.

Chike TEFLON said...

Lord fix it.

IsaacBABA (N1300 for 2GB, N1800 for 3GB..call 08066929956 for more info) said...

I never support snooping but in a case where you keep repeating the same process and expecting a different result this time is just shocking.... Your husband will continue cheating if not with her then someone else and even limit thier communication out of his phone since that is how you always catch him

I am the queen and the boss of this blog(CHIEF) said...

Poster,don't even think of leaving your husband because of a woman!...
Continue monitoring his movements and try as possible as you can to get a credit card!!....
What you don't know kills oh!!...
Hmmm...
I wonder why most married women that has a philandering husband don't like chaining their dick!!...
Stay there make one small girl take sleep away from you!!...
Poster,you can give it a try so you can enjoy this your husband!!...
No side effects whatsoever depending on the person that did it for you...
But you must be renewing the chain all the time sha...

ANGELRAY4SDK said...

If u want to continue with your FBI work that's your business, he respects and takes care of u, u want to die bcos of a man, continue i hear, are u sure u did not date a married man before u married, maybe karma has come visiting.

Bianca BRUNO said...

Madam I'm team snoop but u are just a learner in d snooping business. You did double promotion by going to do whatssp clone and spy app. All those are recipe for heartbreak because you embarked on a journey without knowing the destination. You should always know what your plan of action will be if you catch him. Because you just spend your time crying and getting high blood pressure. You know you won't go anywhere so why do u bother snooping.
Instead increase your demands. Ensure he places you on wife's salary raven though you work. Build your account from him. Inflate every bill in the house. Ask him for money for you and your kids to go on vacatio
Ahan help this man finish his money since he has Enuf to rent house for ashawo outside. Finish his money. Give him bills upon bills.

One snag in your story is when u say u don't have money to buy the full version of d spy app yet you gave us a story of how u don't touch ur salary, how ur hubby picks all the bills, how ya all live in your own house,how you use the latest Samsung bla bla bla, yet no moneny for full version. Is it one million Naira for d full version? See how u guys get caught in your tall stories?

sexy Daddy said...

Madam poster,for your life and your marriage please leave your husband alone!

As far as he is not physically abusing you.

On a second thought,threaten him with divorce if you ever caught him cheating on you again!
Wishing you the best.


Ps:Ofu nwanyi na egbu amu!Chike help me translate

xxxTrinityxxx said...

Keep giving yourself headache over s man instead of concentrating on your kids. You need a job. You're idle that's ur problem. Practically all men cheat! All those women with i can vouch for my husband thing. I pity them.you can never vouch for anyone. Get something doing.Get ur mind busy and stop giving urself heartache. Leave your marriage,another will come in. You can choose to knack pidgeon on him to stop him from cheating but how long will that last? No man is worth ur peace of mind

miss kenefo said...

Snoop and snoop and snoop until you know what's up! Don't even think of stopping. Don't ever believe in that senseless and deadly slogan of what you don't know can't hurt you. If he gets a girl pregnant or he gets an STI or STD (seeing that he skin dives on a steady with his mistresses and most of those girls are random hustlers) you'll still bear the brunt of his prostitution.

fabulous mee said...

Since u started snooping, u have to continue. . But just know that the more u snoop, the more hurt u get...

redbotafly said...

Hahahahahahhhahahahah you see how you are slowly giving yourself BP.
Keep snooping while he keeps enjoying himself.
All he needs to do is beg and beg and you Wil keep forgiving him.
Mtchewwwwwwwwwwwwwww.

Disco Dancer... said...

U developed high BP after snooping?okay what will u do next if u find out he is still cheating?
Some have food but cannot eat,some can eat but have no food...

Cisca Chesca said...

I don't really like to snoop.
Maybe I'll give it a try one day sha... Make I see as e dey be.

Madam just be careful, make e no dash you orishirishi diseases.

Mystique said...

Seems like he's an unrepentant cheat.

Chikito The Professional Fire for Fire a.k.a Ugegbe Chike Teflon said...

Ouch! I can't relate....
Moral lesson: Abeg make una no dey swear, dey hear chest on top these men head. It's the disappointment that's paining you more than the act. Orisisisi ๐Ÿ‘

PLATINUM said...

Wow!!! Please dear lord, you know ur daughter, u know i dont hv the heart and patience for this. Im sure u still hv one decent man somewer who respects marriage and what it represents, please let that man be mine, give me a man that would love, appreciate and respect me enough and would ever do ANYTHING to hurt me. Amen.
Poster, im not team snoop, i dont hv the heart to easily forgive therefore i dont know what advise to give you...

Cassandra Carter said...

Hmmmn.... To think i am a strong team snoop all tge way, but this one get k-leg. It's like anooping shattered the bubble you have lived in all along. Now i am one of those people that believe that my hubby can never cheat and i have snooped and found nothing, but you have corrupted my mind. Poster, Go back to God in prayers to pry your husband out of the hands of strange women. Seems like the girl in question has a strong hold on him. Take it to God in prayer, involve your pastor, but don't be naive to think she will let up that easily.

Rredalert said...

They said curiosity kills the cat! Truth be told ,we all wanna know, even if it hurts, we still wanna know.
My dear, they all cheat except few God fearing ones.
Don't know why men lack self control.
I would advice you just mind your self and kids and remove your heart from there.be happy, live your life and groom your kids and ignore him in his promiscuity.

Sally jayd said...

Since you have started, continue. Your decision after finding out is up to you.

Btw, what is the name of the app?

Hot P!nk Lips said...

Dear Poster: I know it is difficult but wetin you wan know wey you never know before..Why not bury yourself into your business and think of how to grow it better and taking care of your children, improve your relationship with God..Treatas top Priority..When you want to make love to him, use condom..Just live your life and stop stressing yourself..Imagine you have high blood pressure and die, Who will take care of those beautiful kids, it will be those 'slay mamas' that will take your position.Abeg this life too sweet to worry yourself over man matter, abeg..

Anonymous said...

like madam stella said,once you start you can never go back,its a can of worms u've opened and no matter what you cant attain that level of normalcy you had before,because you will always read lies into everything he tells you.and from what you said he is good at hiding things,because you did not have a clue previously.the other lady has gotten to where money is being spent on her lavishly,she is not going anywhere,your best bet now is to take good care of your kids.all the best

Anonymous said...

like madam stella said,once you start you can never go back,its a can of worms u've opened and no matter what you cant attain that level of normalcy you had before,because you will always read lies into everything he tells you.and from what you said he is good at hiding things,because you did not have a clue previously.the other lady has gotten to where money is being spent on her lavishly,she is not going anywhere,your best bet now is to take good care of your kids.all the best

Rhoda Rex said...

You are right. He might even stop chatting them up.

bianca said...

She said she does not own a credit card. ...madam adviser

Anonymous said...

Madam Poster, For my own sanity, gave up on snooping a long time ago. I cannot come and die on top man matter. the high blood pressure that comes with snooping no be here o.

Now even if my hubby drops his phone beside me, na me dey stand up give gap to phone, even if the phone they ring till e explode i no dey even bother near am again. My people talk say "wetin eye no see no dey vex mind".

Even if you catch am, na beg e go beg and change strategy.

So poster, Snooping does not stop a man from cheating on you, only his conscience and the fear of God can stop him. Now he has both, and has changed

Anonymous said...

Abeg madam poster if na U dey cheat like dis then beg for forgiveness him go agree? Ur husband don see mumu. Abeg shift make I see far place.

I am the queen and the boss of this blog(CHIEF) said...

Awwwww I like your new name our wifey!!!...
Chike Nara ise!!...
Iji Chikito na oru...❤️❤️❤️

Anonymous said...

U see ur life? Alagbere

sexy Daddy said...

Linda Eze.You be cray cray woman!

kytan said...

Hian this one one pass me. Babe slow down.how you take know all this apps. Take it easy on hubby it is the girls that are disturbing him bcos he is a perfect gentlemen. You need to open the line of communication and interaction with him. Deliberately with humour ask him which girl is disturbing him so that you can flush them out. Draw him closer with lots of prayers and start acting quiet he will become scared thinking you might be up to something

sexy Daddy said...

AngelRay help me ask her ooooh

slimqueen said...

Snooping won't solve anything. Go to God about it and he settle it. Prayer is the key.

I am the queen and the boss of this blog(CHIEF) said...

She says he has a job nah!!..Nne,pigeon knacking is simply the best oh!!...

BRENDA C. said...

Well...you've started something that may never end and may even end up destroying your home...Your husband is a cheat and no amount of snooping can change him, he'll only get better at hiding his philandering ways from you and at some point he'll go all out and damn the consequences...meaning you can go if you want, another is waiting to take your place.

I'll just advice you to stop getting pregnant and focus on saving up real hard..as it is your husband may impregnate another woman who may end up jazzing him and....you know the rest.

Then again...why don't you turn to God and ask Him to secure your home and pray that his manhood will never work when he's with another woman except you...My dear you have spiritual authority over your husband even more than his biological father..so use that authority..when he's sleeping beside you, just lay your hands on him and say I decree and declare by the authority given to me (mention your name) as his lawfully wedded wife that from today your heart, eyes, emotions, P**s will never respond to another woman's seduction and call...but only to mine as your wife..this I decree and declare in the name of Jesus...

finito..you're good to go..keep praying that over him everyday for at least a month and even when he's not around... don't also forget to pray for God to touch his heart so he'll beging to yearn for God and all that is godly...

Wishing you the best.

Anonymous said...

U better hold him to buy properties for u and ur children dis one dat he is opening businesses and paying other women bills. If u smart collect ur share before it is too late.

Diidii said...

Lmao. Anonymous change your ways

Anonymous said...

I agree, live your life. You don't have a husband oh, what you have is a community helper. N that house you stay in is not yours oh.. So since the money is overflowing, get him to build /buy you yours in your name so that when the community want to hold family meeting and share stuff, you will be alright.

Stop snooping. Admit who your hubby is and face reality. Start over taxing him and build a strong savings.

I am the queen and the boss of this blog(CHIEF) said...

Hahahahahaha...
Ofu Nwanyi na egbu amu abi?...same with us women!!...
Ofu amu is not good for a woman!...
It makes us age quickly...And it shrink the walls of out pussy too...

Viva Ciara said...

Adele love, come and be my love.
I wanted to type this but I scrolled down to your comment. No need typing again.
Poster stop snooping and take this advice right here.

Anonymous said...

I agree. But don't take a walk. That will be letting him go too easily. Drain him dry n then sit on his head to suffer all the emotional pain n torture he put you through by deciding to stay.

I am the queen and the boss of this blog(CHIEF) said...

Abi??...

Bubul said...

How can you leave Abuja for lagos bc it rains in Abuja? My dear, lemme tell you something. it rains everywhere.Lemme be sarcastic, Please snoop again n this time ard leave him for good. But b4 you go kindly introduce him to me. Muah

Viva Ciara said...

Renewing the chain all the time is enough side effect. Lol
Linda abeg!

Viva Ciara said...

....your last paragraph
I just tire.

IJAY said...

Poster you have already snooped and know the kind of person he was, why do you want to Snoop more, Biko stop hurting your self

Brandedme said...

Tuale mama

Anonymous said...

U are both 31? Wow and ur marriage is 10 yrs. That means u both were 21yrs wen u got married. Nawao

I am the queen and the boss of this blog(CHIEF) said...

Are you a learner?...
You should get a separate phone for your kukere moves!...
Your husband most not see this phone!...it should always be in the car and on silence too...

Viva Ciara said...

Meanwhile poster come and throw more light on the whatsapp clone and spy๐Ÿ˜€๐Ÿ˜€๐Ÿ˜€

I am the queen and the boss of this blog(CHIEF) said...

Couples don't use condom nah my princess!...
No man will take it oh!...

St.FranKooL.... said...

Madam, e dey remain to install a micro CCTV on his blokos...

Anonymous said...

Not all men cheat,I have never cheated.

Jasmine said...

Madam poster, I know how u feel. And with this description u gave, trust me that girl will get pregnant soon and her parents will fight for your husband to marry her and make her move into your home.


I'm sure u don't want that. Double up the bills in the house. Increase the rate at which u ask for money and start saving more.


Double the price of food stuff, clothes, shoes, school fees, everything.


That way he won't have much to spend on the girl and once the money reduces or stops coming, trust me that girl will find another maga.


Don't leave your home

Anonymous said...

Keep deceiving yourself. You are obviously delusional that juju or charms works. Poster please ignore this imbecile. She is all talk and no bark. If you want your husband back. Kill him with kindness, look more attractive, don't nag him. Stop snooping just trust him blindly. Most importantly do midnight prayers! Cry to God. Only him can keep your marriage. And trust me when God do it nobody can undo. Relax and breath... You have 2 beautiful kids that needs you. Be the woman he fell in love with and married.

Anonymous said...

Pls I'm interested in the whatsapp clone. How do i go abt it???? My hubby passwords his phone. For a yr now I don't evn know A or B in his phone and I really want to know. Feels like I'm in the dark...

treasure BB said...

Ma'am, sorry for the pains.. stop snooping already.. save up as much as u can.. Watch and Pray.. it's well

Anonymous said...

continue snooping aunty and you will continue to forgive .the day you leave that house,the girl go enter sharp sharp.
how can you continue to give yourself headache .it takes a personal encounter with God for a man to stop cheating,pray to God aunty.
secondly,there is love in sharing biko!!lol
na only you the man go help..
president of side chics association has spoken..thanks chief for the alert..love you plenty.

Anonymous said...

For pple on No snoop team, one day, ull be taken unaware. Ur hubby will move one small girl into ur home. Or u hear he has a family elsewhere...better to be in the know

ChyAda adajesus said...

Adele thank you for this your advice. Poster this is the time to drain him well. ๐Ÿ˜ฃ๐Ÿ˜‰

Blackberry said...

Lol, let them be vouching....ndi 'my husband doesn't cheat', lmaooooo.

Anonymous said...

Even me sef I fear. My fiance is super jealous. I have tried breaking up with my ex but the love is still there. Though I have only seen him once this year due to distance. I keep him as plan B because my fiance is not predictable. He proposed since March and not talking again.
If he sees my chats I am done.
Can one know if your phone is spyed on.

Stella maris Baby said...

Queen you are bae๐Ÿ˜˜๐Ÿ˜˜

Blackberry said...

Vouchers association of Nigeria!
Until u catch ur man, continue attacking those who believe otherwise.
One day pepper will enter your eye n HBP will be d least of yo worries...
Hahahahahahahahahaaaaaaaa

Stella maris Baby said...

Anonymous delete messages that will land you in trouble..

Chike TEFLON said...

Queen and Boss aka CHIEF
Agu nwanyi
Odi mfe anyi alu
Okwulu oka
Show her the way to the jungle biko... Give her some pigeon also. ๐Ÿ˜‚๐Ÿ˜‚๐Ÿ˜‚๐Ÿ˜‚๐Ÿ˜‚๐Ÿ˜‚๐Ÿ˜‚๐Ÿ˜‚๐Ÿ˜‚๐Ÿ˜‚๐Ÿ˜‚๐Ÿ˜‚

That reminds me, Ola chain don lose ooooo.. Lol

Anonymous said...

Don't worry one day u go tire to snoop. I was once like u. Ur description of ur hubby is exactly like mine. My dear I was a team snoop leader. One day I woke up and asked myself what I was doing?? No be say the man change. All that happens is that he begs and I get hbp. No one told me to stop. Now, no matter how open his phone is I do not waste my time. And to be candid I am very happy. Try enh

Anonymous said...

Googling WhatsApp clone and spy app....*can't be suffering and he's cheating*
My dear poster after discovering all his cheating what did you do to make him pay? Task him in a way he'd never forget! Inbox me if you need suggestions.
After suffering with the man to make it, he's made money now and is cheating.

I am the queen and the boss of this blog(CHIEF) said...

Some of you can't just read and assimilate!!..
Read the story again ...

Stella maris Baby said...

๐Ÿ˜ฑ๐Ÿ˜ฑ๐Ÿ˜ฑ๐Ÿ˜ฑ

Chike TEFLON said...

๐Ÿ˜‚๐Ÿ˜‚๐Ÿ˜‚๐Ÿ˜‚๐Ÿ˜‚๐Ÿ˜‚๐Ÿ˜‚๐Ÿ˜‚๐Ÿ˜‚๐Ÿ˜‚๐Ÿ˜‚๐Ÿ˜‚๐Ÿ˜‚๐Ÿ˜‚
Sexy Spermy Daddy
It means love your husband.... ๐Ÿ˜‚๐Ÿ˜‚๐Ÿ˜‚๐Ÿ˜‚๐Ÿ˜‚

Oburo mu ka ifu

I am the queen and the boss of this blog(CHIEF) said...

Hahahahahahahaha...
Do God answer such prayers?...
Lwkmd!!,,,
Poster Ngwanu go and touch his prick and pray!...
Kwakwakwakwa...

I am the queen and the boss of this blog(CHIEF) said...

Watch war room join!!...

Yori Yori Princess Loveme Jeje said...

The Queen plenty ways to protect one's self.

Chike TEFLON said...

Queen and Boss aka CHIEF odighi ofele..๐Ÿ‘.
You see my ugegbe oyibo can't relate to the Chronicle. I'm faithful, iwotago?
๐Ÿ˜‚๐Ÿ˜‚๐Ÿ˜‚

I am the queen and the boss of this blog(CHIEF) said...

*she...

Anonymous said...

You've said it all. Women need to ask themselves what they want. If the aim of snooping is to get him to stop, you're on a long thing. If the aim is to use the information to protect yourself, stop once you find out! Why do you want to continue snooping indefinitely?

Madam poster, you married a man who's no longer yours. You have several options. You can stay, but restrategise and be clear what you want for yourself and your kids.

You can also decide to enjoy your life. Go out, have fun, and live life to the fullest. Do not under any circumstance have an affair, so that your own conscience remains clear and you can continue to receive Gods blessings.

You can also decide to walk away from the marriage. But are you in a position to support yourself and two kids? Let your decisions be guided by your head, not your heart.

Most importantly you need to plan for your future. Save, invest, plan, repeat.

And lastly, you need to stop loving him. A cheater deserves no love. Take care of the home and take care of your kids but stop loving him. Easier said than done, I know. But it's only when you stop loving him that you can stop caring.

I am the queen and the boss of this blog(CHIEF) said...

It's not Viva Ciara!...
Just once in 6 months or one year depending on your husband's spirit...
It's worth the heart ache abeg...
Sometimes,you don't need to visit the person doing the work for you,just place a call and send some money and the work is done shikena!!...

Anonymous said...

Madam if u don't stop you will die early and leave your kids with a stranger Pls stop for the sake of your kids. Jk.

Anonymous said...

Jasmine? If she doubles his bill and the other girl plays nice, the man go leave her and move in with the other girl. Mind you raising and providing for the family is not by force, it's only good men that do that,most men don't care,so if you meet one that cares just thank your God.

Anonymous said...

The fact that your husband buys the "latest version of phones and cars etc." does not prove love.
There is no love without faithfulness.
Hope other "marry him rich girls" will learn.
You prayed to God before these sign began to unfold; didn't you?
So where is God, has he slept; of course not.
Go back to God and ask him to give you the solution to all these.
You did not seek any man before you married him; did you?

***Shiny Boss*** said...

Hmmmm! Men are terrible cheats! Try and forget what he does outside, demand for protection each time you both fuck, and increase your demands. If he's that rich get a land and start building from his money so you won't be taken unaware when the unexpected happens. Goodluck

Anonymous said...

I repeat o! Madam be ur self don't go taxing and behaving anyhow don't worry he go tire. U can't get a perfect man. Now ask your self what do you want. A caring man that provides,but cheat or a none cheating man that don't provide and don't care. Like it or not ur in a competition and the best girl will win, just be the best girl he married you cos ur are his champion,so don't let some girl take ur place. If you start behaving stupid and don't care for him that girl will.

Simple gold$ said...

All these snooping things mehnnn.... The question is can you handle the outcome of your snooping? Poster now that you are aware his cheating, begin now to acquire what ever property you can lay ur hand on, let him buy properties in your name,. These are the things you will fall back on incase of tomorrow if things becomes worst and you want to leave. ThankGod you've got kids. Relax your mind, everything will be alright.

Anonymous said...

Lmao! Chike แป‹sแป‹ kopuru gi

Anonymous said...

Drain him? With what? A gun? Did poster say he has a bag of money he takes from to spend on those women? We don't even know the source of his money. What about if the draining start and guy man tire to pay and decides to face peace outside because his home is becoming too expensive. We go see another chronicle of a providing mans to a run away man.

Anonymous said...

Madam,start using condom from today before you die young. I guess you are still breast-feeding, protect that angel now. Stop snooping and detach your love and emotions from him and start pretending as if all is well. Start tasking him like your life depends on it, start saving big from now. You have not seen all of this man.

Esther Mgbolu said...

How can a woman vouch for her hubby that he doesn't cheat?AWON VOUCHERS keep vouching you hear.
Madam you are asking stella if you should continue to snoop?If you want to snoop,snoop but see you see HBP.You had better concentrate on your children

Anonymous said...

Is it by credit card only? Abeg too much lies

Anonymous said...

Celebration of evil in hypocrisy.
There is a way that seems right to mankind but the end of it is destruction and death!

Justyswt said...

Chief, chief, I raise Beyonce hand for u. Tale mama.

natabombom said...

dear poster firstly stop spying on him before u might die before your tym remember u live for your kids. continue playing ur role as his wife dont change ur doings or else he diverts to his side chick. secondly if u are working i advice u tell him to establish a biz for you in other to have wat to fall on wen he is finally taken by his desperate chick. save as much as you can for the rainy days.

Chickyclassy Mee said...

Some married women baffle me,make una dey use una head,MeN hardly keep to a woman, especially to a married wife, you have to decide if u can live with it or stay single and pray your husband uses protection. Simple. Men are adventurous, they love to try out new things.

Chickyclassy Mee said...

I dey tell u no be only vouch, na voucher.some ladies have refused to be intelligent.

Anonymous said...

StellaMaris be shouting queen you are bae and be fooling yourself, ashawo. You think Linda follow her own advice??

DON™ said...

Your husband is about to marry a new wife. He won't stop playing outside betting until he hit jackpot.
Pele tie

grace bassey said...

Best reply ever. You need to stop loving him. Live your life

Yori Yori Princess Loveme Jeje said...

Make una shut up. Not every man cheat. So keep shut if yours cheat, that is your headache

BEDS AND ROSES said...

Me I'm even speechless on this chronicle.
Let me read comments.
Your husband is a chronic cheat. Keep praying for him. Life is too short to die over a man with a wandering smthn.

Anonymous said...

Credit card is so easy to get with diamond bank. They go even give u one within a week if u apply for a diamondxtra credit card. Na serious target for their staff so them go do am for u sharp sharp.

Anonymous said...

Silent crazy guy ๐Ÿ˜‚๐Ÿ˜‚๐Ÿ˜‚๐Ÿ˜‚

Joy Okanje said...

You have not told yourself the truth, you have lost trust in your marriage and the only thing you will achieve for snooping is divorce I am telling you from experience

Anonymous said...

Queen I sent you an email, kindly respond.

Anonymous said...

@blackberry how is it doing you

Juan Uchenna said...

Hmmmm if you want to be alive and enjoy your children, better stop going through your man's phone because you see your grave i.e. You won't last on this earth and once you die he will marry another woman. pray aggressive prayer you will see things falling in places, allow your hubby that's if you want happiness in your home, rather embrace God he is the one who makes all things good. He will make your family good in Jesus name

Anonymous said...

Chai, poster please talk to God. You have authority over him. Declare and decree and it will come to pass, it mite take time but surely it all happen.please be strong and be wise.

Chikito The Professional Fire for Fire a.k.a Ugegbe Chike Teflon said...

*dey beat chest

@Queen yes oh! #ChikiChi2017 Good to have you back ❤❤

@blackberry all join for prophetic annointing ๐Ÿ˜‚

@Chike nna m you're very faithful. I know.... I know.... no shaking ๐Ÿ˜

Push up said...

One thing men do not know is that you keep cheating until you start disgusting your wife and then she finds herself someone to appreciate her. Your hubby is so mean, thank God you spyed imagine birthing different kids out side then one day 3kids would stroll into your house and claim he is their father after suffering with him. My advice is since the money is going round make sure you pack all, spend too much that the money isn't enough to go round. Sheybe he says he has broken up with her pls snop some more it will give you the anger you need to pack the whole money. Let your emotions come down then fall in love with your kids and money cause you will need it, buy enough properties in your name so that when your feelings die you will hold one child in your right and the other in your left and bounce and God will punish parents that support their kids when they are trying to break others homes, nawa o

Fuck you said...

U fuck up for this one

Zukk3i said...

Dear poster, I am team snoop, all the way. The thing about snooping is that you need to be mentally prepared from the beginning on what your line of action will be when you do discover him cheating. For me, the objective for snooping is not to change him but to protect myself.
Spending your time praying and trying to be a perfect wife is not a solution. It will not prevent you from getting HIV and std's from him and that cheating husband of yours already has one leg out the door. He is a grown man and not a child, if you want to pray,pray for yourself and your kids. Remove your emotions and use condoms. Make sure as much assets have your name on it. Inflate your bills and save, save and save. If he can afford to rent an apartment for his side chick, he can afford your bills.
Your husband has rented an apartment for her, her parents know he is married and endorse that relationship, my dear, that woman has no intention of going anywhere. Do not stop snooping but pretend that you are not interested in snooping because you need to be informed at any point their relationship moves to another level for you to be prepared for any yeye decisions by your husband. As your husband has his game plan close to his chest, have your own too, close to yours. Drop the tears, they will only give you hbp and use your head. Hope for the best but prepare for the worst.

Femilicious said...

My dear....how can you allow your self to get high bp because of a man cheating . Now that you know who he is then you need to secure your well being and mental health.

Anonymous said...

Women jealousing women since forever......leave her lies or truth for her jor

Anonymous said...

And you are not going to be married to one?

sholetoga said...

I don't even know why people create problem for themself. If it ain't broken, don't mend it......ughh

DON™ said...

Which side you dey sef ?

jelly said...

Madam don't give yourself BP, stop snooping on your husband's phone already and concentrate on your kids and pray that all those evil side chicks break free from him.

Anonymous said...

I suggest she opens a joint account with him. That way excessive spending is monitored. Madam poster have you watched the movie war room? Please you need to fat and pray for your home

Red Wine said...

Your problem is that your husband is cheating, you should be happy you have kids, if you are in the waiting room like some of us are you will not have time to snoop. Instead of giving yourself hbp why don't you focus on your kids and keep praying for your husband.

Feddy said...

Quite a difficult one. I have just a few suggestions:
1. If you don't want to die of HBP, desist from any form of snooping as already canvassed by many.
2. Since he takes care of you and the kids, desist from fighting him because he still loves his family.
3. From my experience in marriage, the more a woman fights and picks quarrel over an issue, the bigger the gulf between them.
4. If you are a Christian engage him in more spiritual exercises. Ensure the family prays together and reads the scriptures.
5. Don't follow the advice of doing things behind him. It will further widen the space between you.
6. Compel or coarse him to start robust savings for the kids through educational insurance or other means.
7. Keep talking with him, keep appealing to his conscience. Never be violent. I bet you he will be yours completely.
* I still believe the best way to win a man is through patience, love and dedication. I am a living example.


Iuleha virologist said...

Task that man senseless, you need more financial security, he has too much money to go around hence he rented a flat for another woman. You don't deserve to be treated like this, hurts me when I see women who have resigned themselves to 'fate'. You are not wise...just snooping and doing nothing. Have the number of kids you can take care of on your own. Make that man pay for your heartache and lost youth. Make him pay!

Anonymous said...

The only time you should ever snoop is when you are looking for an excuse to break up.
If you not gonna leave him after, don't go snooping cos there will always be something on a man's phone, even if he's not cheating physically.

Anonymous said...

If you want to get your man back,go to any strong garment church(fake ones many)nack Pigeon on his head he will be loyal forever!or ask those from cotonou.when my husband was misbehaving i called a meeting he promised to change but nigga had plans.you see most pf these parents go diabolic just to keep the money coming soo you have to be ahead of them both physical and spiritual trash them and send them where they belong.made sure my man learnt from his foolishness and the girl that one bought market she wont be able to pay.

World People said...

This doesn't apply here. Isn't the marriage vows broken?

Anonymous said...

Stella you are not being fair. If you know the amount of wives getting HIV from their husbands you would encourage snooping. Just pray it never happens to anyone you know. Women please do not listen to Stella; SNOOP to save your lives.

Anonymous said...

Get a credit card and pay for that spy App. Your man is never going to stop. I am confused.wwjd?

Anonymous said...

Increasing bills doesn't always work, it's good you have a good job. Ignore him and find ways to keep yourself busy.

Anonymous said...

Poster if you chain a man most time it affects their finances oooo, most of them start going down bizness wise ooo, are you ready to cope with a poor man cos a chained man can't make good money, thats the side effect,
Queen who told you that juju doesn't have side effect even paracetamol has side effect let alone a, charm that will change a full grown man character,
Poster believe it or not all black men cheat, you want to kill your self, countine, & you don't knw how spiritually strong your husband or his mother is, not all men can be chained with juju, the ultimate sacrifice for you is prayer, it has & will always be the master key,
Every human being has a fault, your husband fault is womanising, only God can change him,
If your husband want sex 5times in a week can you give it to him cos from your narration your husband has high sexual libido, don't drain him else you chase him away into the arms of another considerate woman,
Since he takes care of you & the family very well, pray for him he need help no marriage is a bed of roses don't mind people advising you to chain him, IT WILL AFFECT HIS INCOME OOOO, AM TALKING FROM EXPERIENCE OOOOOO

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