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Monday, 4 December 2017

BBNaija's Uriel Pens Heart Breaking ODE To Her Mum

Uriel broke hearts Yesterday with this Beautiful ODE to her mum......

 ''.....Even though Dementia wants to take you from me.. just know I have memories to last a life time''





22 comments:

CHI EXOTIC said...

Awww Uriel
You're a strong lady

Kisses to your mum.

Miss Ess said...

Chai! The Lord keep mama strong

Chidinma Grace said...

That's so emotional.

The General's Wife said...

Awwwwww

Reading all that and then looking at the mom’s face....😢

Remain strong Uriel.
She is still here with u,u know.

slimqueen said...

Very emotional. God bless her.

Anonymous said...

I wish i can say such nice things about my mum....how do you praise a mother that absolutely hates it when she sees her children progressing? A mother that deliberately creates a wedge between the children doing well and the ones that aren't?
A mother that will make your life a living hell if you decide to go against her wish and marry who want instead of who she wants?

Mhiz A... said...

Dementia is very bad. For one to be alive and not remember things or people anymore...awww I don't even want to imagine that.

Anonymous said...

Yep dementia will do all that. Some people are not well informed, they will be angry with their loved ones who have succumed to this illness. Some will say, mom, grand ma/pa is a witch. Especially when they revert back to their childhood & start talking about things that no one makes sense of.


Or they 'sundown' , where by in the evenings they get extremely confused, some might pack up their bags or tie a bundle of their little belongings, that they are leaving.


Some will not recognize their kids. A friend's dad (just 68) has just been diagnosed as having onset dementia. When he goes to see his dad, daddy will be like..'how are you young man?what's your name again?' Mind you he was with his dad in the morning of the same day to help with his care, personal hygiene & grooming. The guy would just break down crying. It is so hard for him to accept it. His dad, his hero, is now like a 2yr/o, dude cannot just comprehend.


Worst of all both dementia & alzheimer are progressive diseases. Let's show our parents love. Clean them up when they make a mess with food or with urine or faeces. Do it with love, you will be fulfilled when they are gone. That guilt of... if I had known...I would have...will not hang over you like a dark cloud the rest of your life.


May God give us strength & understanding as we take care of our ailing & aging parents. Money alone does not suffice, be hands on. Don't only pay people to do it. When you visit, take upon yourself to administer care e.g feed them, bath them, assist them with dressing as well as change their underwear/ adult diapers when they are soiled. Remember they once did that for you.

SteffySoFynSoFlySoJuicySoNaughty said...

gosh its so painful, i can so relate, i might share my mum healing story after our family thanks giving.
God is indeed faithful.










*hangs leg on the wall*

obianuju augustina said...

May God deliver your Mum,this ain't right, you have to pray for her please.

Angrybenuegirl�� said...

My granpa had Dementia and trust me it wasn't easy...😢 he lost his memory and couldn't even remember his second wife and kids😓. He didn't know how to use the loo and couldn't even hold his cutlery himself... just imagine an old being in a baby form...😭😭 i understand what Uriel is going through and it takes a greater love to look after one living with dementia cos you have to be extra patient...Cos that parent was patient with you while growing up as well...🤗 I pray God continues to strengthen her spiritually, physically,emotionally and most especially financially.😗

Welcome to my World said...

The lord is your ststrength. My prayers to your mum

Noni said...

I TEND TO GET SO TEARY EYED WHEN I SEE THINGS LIKE THIS.

PROSTATE CANCER TOOK MY DAD LATE THIS YEAR.

MY LITTLE HOPE I STRUGGLED TO RETAIN IN GOD LEFT WITH HIM.

I DON'T KNOW WHETHER TO BLAME HIM FOR NOT TAKING NOTE OF THE EARLY SIGNS,


OR BLAME GOD FOR TAKING HIM WHEN IT WAS TIME FOR HIM TO ENJOY HIS KIDS.

HE NEVER ASKED FOR RICHES FOR 'EGO NWOKE ANAGHI AGWU AGWU'

RATHER, HE ALWAYS SAID 'GOD, KEEP ME ALIVE TO ENJOY MY LOVELY CHILDREN'

GOD DIDN'T GRANT HIM THAT WISH,

MY HEART WAS BROKEN INTO PIECES THE DAY HE DIED.

HE DIDN'T LIVE TO SEE HIS PHARMACIST AND NURSE GRADUATE,

HIS LITTLE PRINCESS MADE UP HER MIND TO STUDY SCIENCES WHILE HE WAS AT THE HOSPITAL,

AND HE WASN'T THERE TO MAKE MOCKERY OF HER INDECISIVE NATURE AS USUAL,

HE TURNED ME INTO AN ADULT AND BREAD-WINNER OVERNIGHT.

THAT DAY, I SWORE NEVER TO HOLD ONTO ANYTHING,

NOT EVEN LIFE OR ANY LOVED ONE,

THEY ALL GO AS THEY COME,

FOR ALL ARE INDEED EPHEMERAL AND VANITY UPON VANITY.

SOME SAY I AM DEVOID OF EMOTIONS,

BUT, I JUST CAN'T ALLOW ANYTHING ELSE BREAK ME.

NOT EVER AGAIN.

RIP B.O,
YOUR DEATH LEFT ALOT OF GOOD TIDINGS IN IT'S WAKE,
I AM TAKING CARE OF THE FAMILY YOU LEFT BEHIND,
JUST LIKE YOU TAUGHT ME TO.

WE WILL BE JUST FINE.

#TEARY EYED AT THE OFFICE#
#WHERE'S MY MAKE-UP AT#

Chika Vincent said...

So Emotional mama is healed in Jesus mighty name..

Dada Toyosi said...

Ur mum is my mum twin sister

SANDY YO said...

Very sad something. Chai! Keep being strong babes.

Anonymous said...

😘😘😘 better pikin

Anonymous said...

You are not alone.

Anonymous said...

My dad is their brother.we should have a reunion party for them

Jeni_zee said...

You would be fine... stay strong

Anonymous said...

I couldn't hold back my tears reading your story. You're right people go as they come. This life is truly nothing there is nothing worth holding unto on earth.

Patty boo said...

Wow!! So many sad stories.. my heart goes out to all of you.

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