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Thursday, 28 December 2017

The Unwelcome Room Mate.-3

This post details what a Nollywood actress went through in real life years back trying to squat someone......Find Part One and two





She said,I have forgiven you because I'm very happy right now,that your friend that came by the other day has made me so comfortable,He has bought provisions ,toiletries and as we speak A decoder is being installed for me. And I said to her but it should be me forgiving you and not the other way round. I became sad again but then I got a bit excited Hmmm a decoder?who wouldn’t be happy.


Got back to Lagos few days later but before I got home Nana had called that I buy her some medicines on my way home of which she had shouted the living day light out of me and even to the chemist guy who got the description through my phone and the guy was like, Hey tell that to take things easy OK.


Handed her the medicine and settled down to see the changes in my room, I tried to ask how it happened since she was so rude my big friend on his visit. Anyway, I got the remote to check how it was functioning but she took it from me. I also tried to take some flakes and milk but she returned it to its pack. I actually thought she had had a bad day but it happened the next days and I understood it was just her. Finally, my big friend visited while I was home but guess what? He wasn’t talking to me, Nana had cooked up stories of what I never said about this man I barely knew him to the extent of such stories. I confronted him and got myself cleared and things seemed fine again.


He came very frequently now dating Nana. He drops money on each visit and he would say Buy whatever you need, first I thought we would share 50 50 but for wia. Nana would send me to the market to buy as many as 4 to chickens then I will cook with her and she would have me prepare everything from onions to pepper and when we are ready to eat she wouldn’t let me touch the food. She would say things like I no come Lagos to feed anybody.


This was soon after my trip from Home and I was so broke, Nana wasn’t making things easy at all. Lost few of my friends then because Nana walks them out harshly especially when I wasn’t at home and even if I were present she does same. Yes I was so helpless because she overpowered me. I'm sure you don’t want to know how many times I went to be so hungry while there was a full pot of chicken stew in my own pot cooked with my Gas cooker. My room soon became so unbearable for me as I was practically working and cleaning, doing errands, and stuff . 


Only Neighbors and close friends believed that was my place because I became a maid to a Tigress. A neighbour once came into the room to say to Nana Why don’t you take your friend as your younger sister and live in peace? Of course she nearly tore her face for ever mentioning I was younger.



I ran into an old friend who was looking for where to buy handbags for his wife, So I decided to bring him home to buy from Nana (she had quite a few she was selling then,) I did that so I could make some gain to help myself. I doubled up the price which he didn’t argue at all. Surprisingly He paid in Dollars and it was 500. For the few things he took, I knew he just giving me that though. I was dancing as I saw him off, ran back to the house to calculate and take out Nana,s money but she was on top of her voice claiming it was money for her goods and there was no Extra.Next thing she started communicating with the guy and he was even coming to visit her not me.


I managed to find money to get myself going. Something funny was that Nana cooks and would let me touch her food but I cook and open up my pot for her to serve herself and she takes the best part of the food, Yes she eats my own food graciously.


I remember once I wanted to take chicken from her pot and she said to me ( I Know your parents didn’t give you chicken to eat but you cant have mine) I had to remind her that My dads poultry was the best in town when I was growing up so I grew up eating lots of chicken and eggs. I made her understand its just normal to help a friend in need just like I'm accommodating her. I also told her that if this room was hers, she would not accommodate me or any other. A friend of mine wanted to find a particular channel on TV but she took the remote from him. There was never a time she went out so I can have the room to myself, she only entered the bathroom or stood by the door. If I receive or make calls she will push me away from the decoder area and tell me that my phone waves will damage it ( LAUGH) So I answered or made my calls outside.


Had a neighbour upstairs who was also walked out of my room a few times he came looking for me. we were not so close then but I started spending more time in his room as a matter of fact I was sleeping in his room because mine was too hot for me. This got us closer and we started Dating even though I didn’t feel right dating a neighbour, I will call him Doka. Things were so bad that when my tissue paper finishes which she uses with me. 


Nana would buy hers,keep it in her bag, roll them up in small portions and store them in the pillow case so she would take from there to go pee. She said so many unpleasant things to me. I got a job one day and I decided to give myself a treat by making fried rice. I got all my ingredients ready, A guy was selling some fairly used fridges outside the house and he allowed us use one of them because my fridge wasn’t so good then. 



All I had in that freezer was my sausages I bought for my rice, I was busy when the guy came calling for us to clear up the freezer because he has a buyer for it. When Nana ran off to clear it I was relaxed. She said she transferred the things to another freezer. Next day I went looking for my sausages but it wasn’t there. 


Searched all the fridges, asked Nana,she told me off,asked the guy, he helped me search and it wasn’t there. Then the guy suddenly asked, Was it in a black bag because the buyer went away with a black stuff in the fridge and I thought it was trash. So obviously Nana transferred only her things and left mine behind.


 I quickly sent for another pack, made my rice, offered it to her and she ate it very well. (Food is nothing to me) In the next compound was also a woman I took as an aunt. Her Elder sister is my Mums best friend. So with her it felt like family especially as we spoke same language. Initially I and Nana had times we talked at length but I found out that everything I told her she changed it and made it sound the other way round or horrible. Like I told her the house caretaker was very nice to me, he personally made sure I got my room in that house. Nana told him something else and I lost his friendship. So at time there was court injunction and everyone was asked to quit the house, Infact we were all thrown out that morning.


I couldn’t find favour with the Lawyer anymore because of Nana Mythical stories, It was only by Gods grace I was able to win my room back and I paid my rent immediately and we moved back in. So when my big friend came he refunded my money back and I shared it with Nana.

One very stubborn friend of mine came around by herself after I kept stopping her not to come around because I didn’t want her to get insulted. Shared my experience with her, it sounded so impossible to her that she promised to fight for me. She is quite older though. She refused to leave, stayed with us for 3days to observe things by herself.Folding up tissues, guarding her food,hiding her remote, hiding toothpaste. She also witnessed how I cooked, served her and she ate. On the 3rd day she said to me So everything you told me is true because I have seen for myself and I will not let this happen to you. 



She was so hurt that I took her for a stroll and as God would have it we ran into Nana,s boyfriend that came in the first time she moved in ( Remember?) I introduced him to my friend as Nana,s boyfriend and he was like Do you want me to die young? Anyway, he bought us drinks and we got talking, he was shocked to hear Nana was still at my place, He showed me some horrible text messages Nana sent to him about me that first day.the reason she was so engrossed to her phone. But he said there is a particular one he would never let me see or else I will kill myself. 



There and then I made up my mind to take back my room and regain my peace money or no money. Got home that evening so determined to throw her out. Woke her up that I needed us to talk. She laid back and was wondering how I sound that mean to her. Woke her up again and told her I wanted her out of my room. 


She got up and the first thing she grabbed was her decoder even before she started proper packing. Moved in with a next door neighbour for a night then made calls to the caretaker and a vacant room was given to her upstairs, SO SHE STILL BECAME A NEIGHBOUR. And this is was where the real Evil started, It was such a Competitive life she lived.


IT CONTINUES......


*If you read this story and you dont believe it,please keep it to yourself and take your bitterness out of here...Writing about this is form of closure for her..I know about this story and would counter anywhere she misrepresents what happened....
If you dont believe her,you dont need to comment.

54 comments:

becky naka said...

You tried...That's all I can say.

SDK Babe @amaq_collections said...

Na wah o. This story is annoying sha. You and your house? Ha! You try.

Olori Oma said...

Nawa

Anwuli Uzu said...

AM SPEECHLESS

MUMMY SINACH said...

I am following up closely....
In this life? Dem never born that friend

Dada Toyosi said...

Like seriously? Na me talk say i get patient, ur own triple mine,can't even endure to dt point,so she get money to rent her own apartment? If na me,she no go even see anywhere sleep dt night talk more of getting a room close by,u over try abeg

Aunty Social said...

I won't lie I felt somehow reading this. In your own house someone was treating you like a slave and you just relaxed forming the good girl or what? Concocted lies and stories about you and you still did nothing?. You should be a peace and tolerance ambassador by now. Kudos.

Remy Davies said...

Haaaaa Nana is so stingy kilode. I used to have a friend squatting with me she showed me pepper even when she moved out she didn't spare me we made up after 3 years but when I realized I wasn't safe with her I prayed to God to pursue her out of my life. God answered

Anonymous said...

Is Nana her lover? Does she know somethings about you that could tarnish your image? Why so accepting of BS in the name of accommodating a person?

Anonymous said...

This is unbelievable!!!

Eka Joy said...

Everything isn't about being bitter, you know??

But I'm sure we are all enjoying the story. Very interesting

@michelleogo said...

Wow!

Lily Rose said...

Madam writer, why didn't you love yourself? Why allow another human treat u so badly? Abi were u gaining something from her? I really don't get how u could subject yourself to such abuse in ur own house. Yes. You did it to yourself. You permitted it.
I hope u have developed more self confidence and self love o. Because if u don't, this cycle will only continue to repeat itself.
This is not being kind. This is being a fool.

STARRY LARRY said...

I'm so angry at this poster's gullibility, I've never seen such in my life. Mind you, the way your friends (male) come around is alarming, they're always coming to dash you dollars, God dey o. Na which kain job you say you dey do again?




*Larry was here*

Susan Mark said...

Poster you mumuness is on another level. This is so annoying.

Anonymous said...

If you were my sis I really know how to treat your fuck off, there are somethings you shouldn't be telling people, cos shame came n catch me on your behave, I'm gentle but not stupid, next time don't care about being alone or not having a particular high class friend that was your fear, I wish nana was squatting with me, na she for run out

Chidinma Grace said...

Hmmmm. Nawa o. Mine is the other way around, but it's not my house so I can't complain but pray to God to bless me and give me my own house. So I can relate to this story

ChyAdaJesus said...

Low self esteem is too bad....

Anonymous said...

Abeg I am done reading this, which kind yeye niceness be this one.. They never born the person wey go try this rubbish with me.

Sally jayd said...

Reading this makes me upset. Poster, you tried. How could you allow a squatter treat you like shit in your own house?

Waiting for the next part of your story.

Just Glamour said...

Since this story is real,can you codedly tell us who Nana is,I really wanna know how far she made it in life,I will never allow anyone with accommodation issue keep some stuffs in my house,talk more of passing the night,God forbid,I like the poster sha,I for don beat shege commot for the Nana body.

Jojo Urenna said...

I should send in my own story to Stella. This brought back memories

Just Glamour said...

You suppose know,e be like say na oku enu she dey do,both Nana too.

Chameleon said...

thank you jare @first paragraph

Chameleon said...

Writer, if I know you face to face I'll call you mumu but since I don't know you, Enjoy Ma.

SDK Babe @amaq_collections said...

Thank God your nightmare is over and you are alive to tell your story.
Keep it coming biko.

Lady j said...

I don dey vex.

Cassie said...

Hmmmmmmmmm, that's all I've to say. Poster God forbids I use any derogatory words on you.

Tessbaby said...

Stella pardon me if I dont believe this story. That doesnt make me a bitter girl. Its just so hard to understand how anyone can tolerate this level of wickedness in her own house. Impossible! Unless of course there's more to their friendship.



Make I dey read on maybe we will get there soon.

Tessbaby said...

I tire.

Teddy said...

Honestly . Very annoying story. I fell like slapping the nana through my phone.

Teddy said...

I swear

Anonymous said...

Story of two prostitutes more like.

Anonymous said...

Na wah o, reason why I don't allow visitors n also don't stay over at pple's house.

Person no fit try this rubbish with me o, na e for don use e hand pack go. Poster you try o

Curious cat said...

Make una dey lie dey go. Bitter ko bitter ni.

Anonymous said...

I suspect this poster kept Nana because of inferiority complex on her part. Since she said she was a budding actress then i think having high class actress stay with her gave her some sense of belonging hence she was ready to tolerate this shit and maybe the Nana lady knew this too. Nana felt she was doing the poster a favour by staying with her.

tolex cakes N more, Ilorin said...

Obviously there's something btw the poster and the tigress that is missing in this story. Playing miss nice for all these insults is beyond me

Anonymous said...

My I don't blamed this poster BC I have seen something close to this,though not from my friend,but sister in-laws. But by the time I woke up from my slumber, I rugged pass Nana. I even rented out the house with help of my Landlord son and they new tenant did not give them time to move out as she was in a hurry to move in. I did not know I could be wicked until this two started showing the Nana in them under my roof. I'm anognmous BC they also read this blog thanks to me who introduced them.

Anonymous said...

Don't doubt the poster. I had a neighbor who had a replica of Nana as friend. This girl is so wicked that when there's water issues she'll rather go and bathe elsewhere than fetch a bucket of water in the house she was squatting. All through her squatting period, she never for once cooked ordinary noodles or wash her own clothes. My dear, my own na to observe I no advice anybody ni. Because my mumu neighbor was so beholden to her leech. Me sef taya

Push up said...

Please what kind of heart do you have? Abi did she know a major secret about you? I don't see why il suffer this way for a useless person... ahh people know me o u can't do parasitic relationships

Olive Oyl said...

You just asked the questions in my head. You tried poster,I can only tolerate this from my parents

Fuck you said...

U area dunce and i put it to u dat nana is ur lesbian partner cos even am imbecile wont take this rubbish from anyone...if this truly happened pls dont take this ur mumu into 2018...stella if like no post my message use am take drink coffee

Anonymous said...

Really shocking, if not for you Stella there is no way i will believe this non-sense.

Who is the nollywood actress please.

Love.Eating.Pussy said...

Haba Anthony Joshua so it is this easy to beat someone.

LEP😛

Chika Vincent said...

Na wooo, will I say you are too Gentle. Am still waiting to read to the End o...

Anonymous said...

It sounds rather unbelievable. I don't have to apologize for saying that, or keep it to myself, a blog lives on comments, if everyone starts keeping comments to themselves.... Hmm.
Kratos

Ed said...

So because someone doesn't believe your story,it means the person is bitter? Mtchew....the story isn't just true but too impossible to be true.

Anonymous said...

I'm so annoyed ehh. Poster na you I wan slap some sense into.

OnileEre! said...

This story looks incomplete to me. Incomplete as in the narrator is not telling us everything the way it happened. My mouth is Just agape.
I mean did she have your nudes and is blackmailing you with them or what? How can an ordinary person have so much power over you like that? I'm just amazed Biko

Anonymous said...

I won't lie, it is horrible but I have similar experience when I was in school,but at a time I had up my neck, all the goodness in my evaporated, then I knew that everyone had a beast in him or her. I threw her out without regret.

Isolde Fontaine said...

Hmm...have experienced something a little close to this. someone i helped out by accomodating became something else... she will refuse me from borrowing her books (we were in the same dept), she will arrange her own part of "my" locker and leave my own part plus so many other things. I tried to be nice for a while then finally threw her out. Wanted to become my madam in my own room. hiss.

Anonymous said...

My sentiments exactly. This dirty story just confirms my belief that Nollywood actresses are prostitutes! Jehovah!! "Big friends and dollars", abandoned by a friend in a hotel in PH... prostitutes!!! Endless number of married men involved with them. Decoder, provisions, dollars all for nothing???

Anonymous said...

My sentiments exactly. This dirty story just confirms my belief that Nollywood actresses are prostitutes! Jehovah!! "Big friends and dollars", abandoned by a friend in a hotel in PH... prostitutes!!! Endless number of married men involved with them. Decoder, provisions, dollars all for nothing???

seun said...

If this story is true, then it's witchcraftery at work. The nana woman is subduing that lady using diabolical means. May God save us from horrible mistakes

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