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Sunday, 4 February 2018

Chronicle Of Bog Visitor Narrative...

Oh dear!!!




STAND ALONE NARRATIVE
WICKED MOTHER

Good day Stella.

Stella my mum is a very wicked and shameless woman. If I want to start talking about the things she has done I won't finish.


She's a big gossip everyone in the neighborhood knows her. Sometimes they call my cousins living with us and tell them about my mother and the things she talks about people. She can sit with Mrs A and talk about Mrs B, then turn around and tell mrs B what Mrs A said. And she won't say it the way it was said oo. She'll add salt and pepper just to cause trouble.


 And these women are young enough to be her daughters oo. Now everyone has known her to be like that and there are distancing themselves from her. These things she talks about are very terrible things. Things one shouldn't be talking about someone else.


Then is it her borrowing. That one is a different story. Anywhere she hears that there are giving loans, she will locate the place and ask for the loan. She borrows from all and sundry and she doesn't pay back. People use to come to a provision shop my dad opened as a side business to collect things as payment for the money she owes them. It was like that till that business died down. She collect clothes on credit but doesn't pay back.


 She even had to go and borrow money from my sisters ex boyfriend. The guy started using it against my sister till my sister had to end the relationship. Then the lies she tells to borrow money. She Lies that my dad is irresponsible, doesn't pay fees, beats her and collect all her money. All these are very big lies. Since I started school this woman has never bought exercise book for me. Even when my dad gives her money for fees she uses it to buy clothes and do whatever she does with her money. My dad has settled her debts of hundreds of thousands countless times just to avoid embarrassments. I almost didn't write wassce because she used my wassce fee and lied to us that she has paid.


I won't lie to you- I hate my mother. She doesn't care about her children, she doesn't think about how her actions will affect her family and even her husband. She complains about everything my dad does and sometimes try to turn us, the children against him. But it doesn't work cos we know better. She's a very selfish and wicked person. She never has good advice to give to anybody.


Stella, my dad has gone broke. We are suffering financially now. He can't go to work anymore because of no money to buy fuel and no money to even pay transport fare. No savings, nothing. Every business he tried to venture into in the past, my mum used debts and wasteful to bring it down. 


Sometimes she goes to the sales person and collects money and then tell them not to tell my dad. Millions of naira wasted. Lately she introduced my dad to loans. Thank God he built a house otherwise maybe Na for street we for the live or back to our village because I know he can't afford rent. Now almost half of his salary goes to payment of these loans. So we are forced to feed from hand to mouth. Nothing is working well for us. Every government appointment that should be given to my dad gets cancelled at the last minute for no reason. Or he gets replaced with someone else.


 If you see our house you won't believe it. Blinds are torn and discoloured, the chairs are close to 10years old(no kidding), we still use wooden centre table, we have never had flat screen TV before. Not because my dad doesn't want to buy but because there's hardly any money left after settling bills, paying fees and of course settling her debts.

We have all tried talking to her about it severally but she said its not her fault that it's her stepmother that is doing her. Mtcheeeew


And did I mention that she has no housekeeping skills at all. She can peel fruits and keep in the payout in morning and leave there till night if there's nobody to clean up. If you enter her room ehn, their toilet nko. If my dad tries to tell her to try to be cleaning up their toilet and bathroom it becomes World War 3.

Like I said if I want to talk we will sleep here. Sometimes I try to think of good things about her. But I can't because the bad too plenty. It's tiring sometimes I just sit and cry. My dad is a ghost of who he used to be. I just pray he doesnt develop hypertension.


Please I need your advice. Maybe there's something that can be done. I've prayed, fasted, shouted, everything I can think of. My dad even threatened to divorce her once but it didn't help because it just made her cover up her borrowing tracks more carefully. Please bvs I need your advice. Thank you.


*This one pass me!!...WHAT!!!
oh my goodness!!!

75 comments:

  1. Have you ever denied yourself a meal in other to pray for your mom?
    We should not be ignorant of evil that operate in the lives of our loved ones and the antidote which is calling upon God who alone can change the human soul!

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    1. didnt u read? shr has prayed and fasted... which meal denial be that again?

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    2. Are you blind or didn't you see where she wrote that she had prayed and fasted...na wa😤

      LEP😛

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    3. Where ur papa see dis kain woman marry? Or she wasn't like dis when he married her?
      Pls I put d blame on ur dad for making such woman bear kids for him..
      I'm sure it was love Dat was covering his eyes back then..Let him suffer for his mistake of marrying ur mother.

      Just find a way of tolerating ur mom bcos she is never gonna change.. Its in her DNA..


      ***Chy Ozo***

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    4. Chy Ozo... see comment!! Tueh for you.

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    5. Your father should have taken a second wife. This for don calm her tey tey.

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    6. Erased Ink..Its like ur brain was erased as well.Why attack my comment? Did I attack urs? Tueh at u triple times.. its like u are mad abi??


      ***Chy Ozo***

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    7. Anon 15:43, she prays and fasts but she hates her mother! She’s lying about the prayers and fasting biko. No motivation to do so. The mother needs love, true prayers and no judgment.

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    8. Omo this one is serious. Keep enduring till you move out. Abi you wan change your mama?

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  2. Advice on what? Well, this is your family cross, you all have to carry it with joy




    *Larry was here*

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    1. LMAO.....anywhere she hears they are giving loan, she will locate the place and ask for the loan... odiegwu really!

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  4. And yet some people will assume divorce is bad in the eyes of man and also God, this situation shouldve called for a divorce yrs ago before affecting the children involved.... she can literally destoy lives! Your dad shouldve seen this coming miles away and gotten rid of her.

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    1. Daz why I blame d man up there for making such woman a mother..I don't pity such men cos I know someone who is in a similar situation but not exactly what d poster wrote up there. A marriage they should have dissolved long time ago before kids came in,d man was forming "Love" and keep forgiving and taking her back..Now they have separated finally at 30somthing years of marriage which is now affecting their daughter's cos d five of dem are still single bcos no man wants to marry from a broken home(igbos take marriage serious).

      I put blame on any parent that sees something terribly wrong with their partner and still continue bearing kids and suffer them emotionally tomorrow.


      ***Chy Ozo***

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    2. There is a lady that I know that is like the poster's mum,I just pity anyone that will marry her.i don't think poster is from the west else the man would have married other wives long ago.

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    3. saying he should suffer for bis mistakes is very mean, we dont know the whole story... youre too quick to condemn.

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    4. The poster's mom is just like my aunty

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    5. @Erased ink but why you wasting time trying to reason with that one called @Chy Ozo? I bet my Monday lunch that she's worse than this poster's mum 🤣🤣🤣🤣 with her snake-like tongue. Crab feet

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    6. @Erased Brain..Who else is supposed to suffer for d mistake if not her husband? If it was d other way round won't the wife bear d consequences of her choice of horseband? So why are u menstruating ontop my comment? Are u d said father? Mind yaself.


      ***Chy Ozo***

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  5. Sorry but I laughed at ur last complaint.

    This one too pass me oh. Maybe ur dad should send her back to the village for a while and claim it's permanent, maybe she will learn then

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  6. I know some people will disagree with me but your family is in spiritual bondage, your mother's borrowing habit it just a way to keep your family in poverty. What you should do is set aside a day for everyone in your family to fast and pray every week, try soul winning and watch God turn around the situation for good.

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  7. I follow Stella shout oh my goodness..! This one is very strong. Maybe Doppelganger or Droyalty will have a better advice for you. Oh! This is not Droyalty' line of expertise. Lol

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  8. Just when I thought have seen it all, poster dont hate your mum pls, take her for counselling or deliverance.... This is not ordinary at all, Village people are involve

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  9. This is spiritual. She needs a deliverance section

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  10. Keep praying for your mother.my own mother is worst

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  11. She is possessed ,let her go for deliverance.

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  12. She is possessed ,let her go for deliverance.

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  13. Take her to MFM for deliverance simple.
    It's not ordinary.

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  14. I believe there are some other things you couldn't tell us; like your mom being a frequent visitor to mediums. Could be to find solution to her problems or the initiation of it all. I write this because of experiences and the fact that no human being is created evil by God. After he created everything, he said it was "good". When they pointed out like in the parable Jesus told, thorns growing in the field, he said; "an enemy has done this". That enemy is Satan, he does not like a peaceful family. The same way he scattered it at Eden is same way he does so today. Most times, people seek him out through mediums, witches, Bablawo, spiritualists, some "pastors" etc. The word of God is there for us to know the truth and be free from his antics.
    Yes, you "have fasted", but I will tell you, fast and pray until your mom/family is free.

    I used to work in a company with a "man that was regarded as useless". Every dime he earned went into alcohol, gambling and women. A well educated executive became disheveled and gaunt like a scarecrow. I wonder how women allow him to mount them. In fact, it was because of him, that I concluded that women will allow even a pig to mount them as long as he pays. If he opened his mouth to talk to you, you will think that a soak away has collapsed and fecal matter is oozing. He manages to wear dry cleaned attires to work during some sober times. The management got tired of him and his blunders that has caused losses. Most times, it is out of benevolence of the CEO who kept encouraging him and believing that he will change because of the experience he had had in the past. He only missed one or two promotions and that was all.

    One day, this guy came to work, neat, sober and courteous and stayed till dismissal. We all laughed and said that it "won't last". It did, one week, two, a month then we began to ask what happened. His entire family (who have gone to mediums in the past for solution) listened to their eldest sister and began to fast and pray; 6-6 for a whole year. He just one day felt like a mist was lifted from him and began to detest the way he lived. He has gotten married and have kids.

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    1. You won’t know how deeply helpful this comment is. Bless you.

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  15. I think your Mum has mental illness . Don’t be too hard on her. She has zero control of her thinking, behaviours and actions. Medications and therapy might help her.

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    1. Gbam!!!! This is the truth!!! She has some air of obsessive compulsive disorder and needs to see a psychiatrist.

      The problem with Mogerians is that we think mental illness means person don kolo. You’ll be surprised to learn ot the illnesses on the spectrum and your mother’s behavior fits.
      You guys need to do something about it.

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  16. Na wa! This one na mother of life

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  17. This is not Ordinary nah poster take your mother to where she can under go delivance..

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  18. You have explained ur mother being a theif, gossip, liar n dirty, nothing there about her wickedness...

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    1. I thought of the same thing.careful how u call ur mother names.as for what happens between her and her husband,its none of ur business.

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    2. Una mumu eh... none of her bizness?

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  19. Am sorry but ur mother might be a witch or simply possess. She needs deliverance

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  20. Your father is a very very patient man to have kept such a nightmare for a wife all these years.

    If I were a kid in that house i would have encouraged my father to send her packing a long time ago or send her back to the village for at least 2years and tell her that she should go for deliverance before she would be allowed into our house.

    The way it is going in that your house,i won't be surprised if she gives your father high blood pressure one of these days...let your father stop paying her debts and let her spend some months in jail then you will see how fast she will stop her madness.

    LEP😛

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    1. all these weak men sha

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    2. Marriage is for better for worse. What if your partner abandon you when you need him most.
      Helping her find solution to her problem is the only way out.

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  21. From your narration, you have made up your mind about your mum, and I do not know if you will keep to any advice that is given to you. Be that as it may, I will advice you have a very serious talk with her and follow this by action of prayers. Just imagine if another girl( your brother's wife )wrote this about your mum? you would have castigated her. May be it is spiritual because I do not believe any mother would want to her daughters (may be her son, to get at her daughter in law).
    Have you thought may be she is doing it for attention? from your dad or the children.Please keep praying .Don't give up on her

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  22. Nawaooo this one pass me abeg. Just continue fasting and praying for her , I hope one day God will take control

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  23. There are so similarities between your mom and mine , the only difference is that my mom doesn't borrow or buy in credit. She can gossip for Africa and even gossip her own children and spoil us to our love ones and husband. All my brother's wives have ran away for her behavior, she will carry dirty clothes from Abuja to asaba for her daughter in law to wash and iron and patch the torn ones even dirty bra and okata together . She still buy gold and expensive clothes at her age, two of my sisters died one from Hiv and the other an alhaji used her for money ritual because of my mother love for money. Since I got married with 2 kids i have not invite for omugho for fear of breaking my home, I send her money afar . I can go on and on but let me stop here.

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    1. Hmm.. Endtime mothers.
      Queen and Boss type loading after the jazz fade

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  24. For the borrowing part, there is almost nothing that can be done now. It has become a habit and would be very difficult if not impossible to contain it.

    For being dirty, you've to take that responsibility dear. Once in a while, enter their apartment and do one or two cleaning up.

    This too Shall pass... Be strong

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  25. She needs deliverance. I believe she does not know what she is doing. Pls you guys should locate a good church for her deliverance. You guys need to fast and pray. Your dad is a very nice one. How many men can take what she doing. So many women haven't done half of what your mum is doing, their husbands are cheating left and right and using their wives characters as an excuse.

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  26. I don't think she is possessed, it's just a part of who she is, it probably started as a habit when she was young and didn't get any reasonable correction. Habits tend to mould one's character over time. And it's pretty hard to change her now cos first of all she has had that character for long so hoping she will change is like hoping a vulture will turn into a chicken. Secondly it's very hard to change a person that sees nothing wrong in her actions, true and genuine changes take place when the person acknowledges that there is a problem and a need to change. All prayers will do is to make her see the need for change but she will still have to put in personal efforts to change.
    I will just advice you to focus on how to help your dad and your siblings and pray for her , crying over this spilled milk will fill you with nothing but bitterness and resentment and it won't pay off at all. Help your siblings by ensuring none of them follow her footsteps.

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    1. Ur comment is all I read here. Poster plz read this.

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    2. This comment says it all. I recently watched a video by Will Smith where he says blame and responsibility don't go together. Yes it is her fault that your family is suffering now but it is your responsibility (your siblings and father as well) to ensure you live happy,fulfilled lives. You can't change her but you can take charge of your life.

      My mother is similar and we have all tried and failed to change her. I have distanced myself from everything. I don't depend on them for anything so their issues affect me less. I have also learnt to accept that she won't change and if I want to have a relationship with her I have to accept that this is who she is. I am much less bitter and angry as a result. It's not easy oh and it's a lifelong journey. Best of luck.

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  27. I think you kids should send her to the village and bar her from coming close for some months,or run away with your dad and lock up your house so she doesn't sell it else she will affect your lives negatively.

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  28. Your mum and mine are twins. My mums own ehn she can curse for Africa and on top lie she will still be swearing that may she not eat the fruit of her labour abeg which labour this is a woman who while I was in school she will collect money for every provision I take in her shop, there was a day her friend was there the woman was surprised and she told me in her presence that I'm suppose to be taking those things behind her bit by bit.
    My dad is in a very bigdebt now I just dey pray make God no let am die now because he deserves to eat what he laboured for.
    My mum is fetish too very fetish, different things you will see with her, she doesn't care about her children at all, whenever mydad travlea and he drop money for upkeep she will divert it and we will just be eating nonsense things later when were of age my dad will give each one of us money she still quarrel with us that how will he be giving us money just imagine o your own children.
    If you tell her to come with you to a church she won't go and she can quote bible ehn..
    If you advise her its problem, the children must not be in good terms she will say you are discussing about her in fact too many things I am tired of typing.
    Thank God most of us are married now, we have left her house for her and my dad has a second wife and we gave our support haba you say you can't be cooking and serving your husband at 54 and you are still angry he got himself someone who will, money forwaahing machine was sent to her she spent it and now she's complaining again that how can she be washing at her age abeg are there no women older than her who are still active in their homes?

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  29. This is what happens when a child turns into a brat right under the parent's nose. I'm not against showing affection to children, but there should be a balance Joseph in the Bible was his father's favourite but that didn't make him turn to a spoilt child. It is possible to shower a child with all the love and attention you can give while ensuring the child maintains his/her sanity.
    Most of the time, there is no immediate consequence of improper child upbringing, but sooner or later the child becomes a burden not only to the immediate family but also the society. Parents do your work well and do it in a balanced way, don't create problems for your grandchildren and the society. The most annoying part of this improper training is that the child grows into an adult that doesn't know how to take responsibility for his/her actions, they always look for who to blame when they fail.
    All around us we see men and women like this everyday and shake our head at them but right in our sitting room, a child is being groomed to tow that same path.
    Pamper your children, love them to the fullest, give them all you can afford to give them but make sure discipline and moral accountability and responsibility isn't swept under the carpet.
    #mytwocent

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  30. No matter what, I can never hate my mother. You better start praying for her if everything u said up there is true and also change dis your negative mentality and thoughts about her. 'You attract what you constantly think of'..

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    1. You speak of your own reality , you are not living here. So don’t be quick to judge.

      Truth is , it is easier to say we cannot do certain things in certain situations when we haven’t lived that situation. It is better to say ‘may nothing ever happens to make me hate my mum like this’ cos you don’t know . Perhaps you would’ve done or said worse if you were living the poster’s life

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    2. Grecey u are wise..I million likes!!


      ***Chy Ozo***

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  31. Poster. I am conflicted about what to advise you. On the one hand I would suggest you start to save and take care of yourself so you don't get sucked into settling her debts like your dad. If you want to survive and thrive in the long run love her from afar.
    On the other hand she is your mum. You all have to band together and stage an intervention - spiritual, physical and mental. Spiritually you have to continue to fast until she is delivered. It may take one year or it may take five. You guys indulged her for so long that it is all a part of her and she can't let go. Physically, warn her and contact all her past, current and even potential creditors that her debt is solely hers and your dad will no longer bail her out. Even if you have to circulate her photo on social media do so. People like your mum need a very firm hand. She has been enabled all her life and she is dragging everyone down with her. It will not be easy and people will say you are all unduly harsh but this one pass sentiment. Her behaviour will affect your future. Imagine her borrowing from your inlaws and husbands in the future. Hmm. This one is hard men!

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  32. Dear poster, this could be mental illness. I would suggest you take her to a psychiatric hospital and get her treated. Not everything is spiritual.

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  33. #Be thankful for all the roadblocks and detours. They protect you from paths not meant for you*

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  34. Ask God what is wrong with her.l believe He will answer you.And make out a time called quite time where you can have a relationship with the Lord.The same time every day for t least an hour.He will deliver her and the family as a whole.Try it and see.It works.

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  35. So sad. Please read about psychopaths because I see a pattern here

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  36. Na wa o. It's really a situation, Walahi ...

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  37. Oh dear.. it must have been really tough for you growing up. Please forget what's behind and look forward to what's in the future. U can be whatever you determine to be in life irrespective of where you 're coming from. Focus on the positive and things will only get better.

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  38. I feel for you and your Dad. I can imagine what you are going through. Please continue to pray for her. Encourage her to go to a Bible believing Church.In fact, let her just start going to Church hopefully she will get arrested by the Holy Spirit and repent. You and your family are in my thoughts. May God touch your Mothers heart to change. Hang in there.

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  39. "I hate my mother. . ."
    That's a strong statement. Do you know that it can cost you peace with God and eternal home? God says we should not repay anyone evil for evil (Romans 12) and we should love our enemies (Matthew 5:44).

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    1. Abeg lets hear biko awon church goers

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  40. Father in the name of the lord Jesus, we pray for Posters mom to be healed in Jesus name.

    Poster, the answer to prayer is praying some more. Elijah was a man just like you were, he prayed and there was no rain for years, he prayed again and there was rain. Hezekiah was told 'thus said ' he was going to die. Hezekiah prayed and before the prophet could leave the house, he received a word from God that he will live. Praying is communicatlng with God and communication is a two way thing. You pray, he listens, God speaks to you and you listen.

    When you pray, at first it seem there is no change but a lot of changes are going on that your eyes cannot see. When you pray, God is also teaching you patience, love and forgiveness. The more you pray, restoration takes place. Your mother is not just restored, you are restored too. Your heart will soften towards her and God begins to heal your family. Be specific with your prayers, ask God to give her money management skills, ask God to restore riches to your family. Ask God to continue to make your father love her, ask God to completely heal your family. Share the holy communion everyday with your family.

    I don't mean go from one place to another trying to find solution or someone to pray for her. Read passages in the bible concerning prayer and how people changed things with prayer.

    KING XOXO MYSTERY

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  41. go to OFM Auchi for deliverance or Christ Mercyland Warri. People will just be suffering in silence when they can get divine help

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