Update:
Some weeks back I dropped a comment about returning the SUV my man bought for me because of a statement he made(the good head comment ) that caught me off guard.
Apparently Stella posted it as Chronicle. Lol.
My sister refused to return the car and he kinda noticed I was a bit distant. So when I got back from my trip, he came to pick me up from the airport by himself .
I am avoidant while he’s the solve the problem head on type. We talked and he clarified that with or without “head” he was going to buy my car .
Over the weekend he Proposed!!! π
I keep staring at my ring because I still can’t believe it.
A little back story…So this summer I was supposed to go visit my parents but my dad kept asking me not to buy my ticket yet and I was a bit worried but he assured me that he’d let me know when to buy my ticket. My birthday was last month and my plan was to spend it with my folks so I was a bit down but my parents called me on video call and kept saying they will see me soon .
So last week, my man told me he was taking me on a date over the weekend
( our date night is Thursdays) and he wanted me to wear a particular outfit and it will be delivered to me. I was like why?.
Anyways my sister out of the blues called me and said she booked a spa day for me and I had to go the next day or it will expire . I was like don’t worry I’ll call them and pay the extra fee to extend the date cos I just wanted to stay home for the weekend and sleep until my date in the evening.
She pressured me until I gave in and went. Massage,mani and pedi was done ..
Come Saturday evening, my sister came to my house and was like where are you going, I said on a date. She then said ahan won’t you makeup? ( I hardly make up except I’m going for events. I don’t wear makeup to work). I said no. She then proceeded to convince me to put on a little makeup
My man picked me up. On our ride he was a little too quiet and when we got to the location I was confused cos what are we doing at a library??? He was like baby just trust me. Immediately we stepped inside the staff were all smiling and showed us to a room and when he opened the door I saw the most beautiful arrangement of white roses and baby’s breath flowers and lit candles in a library room full of books. ( I love novels. You’ll always find me reading especially urban fiction novels. They are my escape from reality ).
OMG!!!
I was stuck to the floor in shock. In the middle of the room was an artist’s board with pictures of our relationship journey. At this point I was already a mess. The tears were free flowing and he allowed me to take my time and gather myself meanwhile my man was nervous .
Then he started talking about how much he loved me and wants to do life with me and have babies and all that stuff and he wouldn’t want to ask me the most important question to start our journey without the people that mean the world to me not present.
Next thing the door opened again and I heard people coming into the room cos my back was turned to the door so when I turned I saw my parents and I screamed(haven’t seen my dad in 2 years) and stared sobbingx2.
Then he got on his knees and I couldn’t tell you what he said cos I was a mess until he tugged my hand and said baby you haven’t answered and I said Yes and everybody started laughing and clapping.
It was an emotional moment for us and our family and friends. My fiancΓ© family was present too. When I watch proposal videos online, I always say why is she crying like that but see me crying a river!
So all this while this man was planning with my folks and didn’t tell me. That’s why my dad asked me to put my trip on hold cos they were coming to visit.
I asked him how the got the Library idea and he said he saw that I wrote in one of my favorite novels that I’d loved to be proposed to in a library surrounded my novels. This is an old novel and I wrote this 5years ago. I have even forgotten. Wow! (Habakkuk 2:2).
We had a little engagement dinner to end the night and it was an absolute joy!.
I’m so grateful to God for the amazing people in my life and I can’t wait to start this journey with the Love of my life.
I’ve always wanted a small intimate wedding but my man is from a large family so that’s kinda impossible.
It’s gonna be a Fall wedding!
Have a great weekend guys...
*Awwwwwwww see me crying....Can i attend the wedding too?LOL
bwaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaa(Crying
Congratulations
Wow! ❤️π₯° I'm so happy for you.
ReplyDeleteCongratulations dear.
Awwwww π€ Love is so sweet π
DeleteCongratulations girl, God bless your union in Jesus name π
Adunni
OMO RAISE TO POWER 10. ARE YOUR PARENTS AWARE OF WHAT YOU DID HMMMM
DeleteOh dear!
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I love love stories.
Congratulations. God bless your union.
Congratulations. God bless your home.
ReplyDeleteAbeg! This is fiction. You are bored, jobless and you write stories to feel better. You have no fiance, nothing. I don't believe this bs but if it's true, congratulations. Now go out there, find a job and keep writing but only as a hobby because it won't sustain you financially.
DeleteAnon 16:11 relax, it sounds strange and like a novel for you doesn't mean it does not happen to people in real life. Do not project...
DeleteUntil you meet people that a living what you term fantasies, you will always question stories like this.
There are people who make it big with writing, not as a hobby, do they have other streams of income inadditiin to writing, yes, as we all should in this current economy.
@ 16:11 be shouting this is fiction there. Just because you haven’t experienced something doesn’t mean others aren’t experiencing it. Your dreams are others lived reality.
DeleteIn September I’ll be celebrating 20yrs in marriage with my husband. I will never forget my proposal, my husband took me to Paris and planned the most beautiful proposal with his cousin. I always tell my daughter to never settle for less. Anyway her dad shows her how a man should treat a woman everyday by the way he treats me.
Poster congratulations and I wish you guys a blissful marriage ahead. Young ladies desiring marriage, tell God what you want and watch him do it for you. You deserved to be loved correctly.
@ 16:11
DeleteThat means if I share my own proposal story, you will call me a big lair π
Do you think it’s paupers that read Stella’s blog?
You better pray for God to elevate your life. People dey ball wella.
I don’t even see the big deal in this proposal that’s giving you heart attack. The one thing I noticed is the man is intentional about her, not just spending money.
My SIL that they proposed to her underwater in the Maldives nko? π€£ asin the resort staff swam under water with the “will you marry me” sign.
Dey play.
I love an intentional man. May this kind of fiction locate me in Jesus name. Amen
DeleteSee me just smiling all through reading your update.
ReplyDeleteWonderful love story with great families.
May your union be blessed and successful.
You got me smiling !!!!!! Congratulations
ReplyDeleteAwwwwwww... This update had my face beaming with smiles as I read through.
ReplyDeleteFor the many times you wrote "my man", I smiled sheepishly even more☺️☺️
Congratulations on your proposal dear poster. I wish you both a marital union full of splendor and joyπ₯π₯ππ
What a beautiful story.
ReplyDeleteCongratulations πππΎ
It’s been long I read something like this, so beautiful.
Congratulations to you and yours
ReplyDeleteI'm not crying, ezzz breeze that enter my eyes. Congrats poster. May your life stand the test of time π
ReplyDeleteThis is so sweet. Congratulations.
ReplyDeleteThis is so sweet to read.
ReplyDeleteCongratulations dear
congratulations poster! i pray you have a beautiful wedding and marriage.
ReplyDeletesince you mentioned God and included a bible scripture - please put him first in your relationship and do what pleases Him.
for those who needed reminding of the original chonicle: https://www.stelladimokokorkus.com/2025/05/chronicle-of-blog-visitor-narrative_0746766196.html
congratulations to you and your man.
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ReplyDeleteSomeone help me sing... πΆ love is sweet oo, when money enter love is sweeterπΆ
ReplyDeleteCongratulations poster.
Congratulations to you, this is too sweet.
ReplyDeleteThis is beautiful π. Congratulations π π π
ReplyDeleteCongratulations babes
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Congratulations ππ
ReplyDeleteIt's gonna be a forever honeymoon!
What a beautiful end.. congratulations πππ. May your joy never be cut short.
ReplyDeleteWhat a beautiful end.. congratulations πππ. May your joy never be cut short.
ReplyDeleteThis is so beautiful to read. Congratulations and God bless your home
ReplyDeleteSaint Elsewhere... I just wish you are the one that wrote this..... congratulations ππππ to the poster.
ReplyDeleteCongratulations poster πππ☺️
ReplyDeleteAwwwww, congratulations to you guysππππ₯³π₯³π₯³
ReplyDeleteIf he wants to he will. I love this story. Every proposal is different but as long it is done with intentionality thtat;s what matters. Congrats young lady. May your home be blessed
ReplyDeleteLa La Land.
ReplyDeleteCongratulations Darling π₯°
ReplyDeleteHello iya Boys
You see how you were ready to end the relationship and look at this now.
ReplyDeleteCongratulations to you. We know your man pays attention to details and will treat you like a queen. And please give grace to your man in the future, don’t jump to conclusions too quickly.
Congrats
ReplyDeleteCongratulations sissy....Jehovah i can see what u are doing for other, chai......what a lovely proposal
ReplyDeleteThank you so much guys ππ½
ReplyDeleteWhere una dey see these kind men na,congratulations poster
ReplyDeleteAwwww so beautiful π» congratulations to you
ReplyDeleteI see no reason why my harmless comment here got deleted. It is well o.
ReplyDeleteGod when will I experience such love in my life
ReplyDeleteAwwwwwwwwwwwww.... congratulations π
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