Wednesday In House News

 #wcw Hailings!

TUESDAY MEMO

I salute you all and hope that your day is going on smoothly...If not tomorrow, you go again!

I saw all the responses to yesterday in house news questions and the responses were so different that even i could not find where i saved the answers...hehehehehehhheheheheh owner of yansh no sabi the size of the yansh...

Today i remembered BV Miss Mae, she must be so grown now.....I remember that drama like yesterday......It is one of the reasons i always have a problem gifting someone phone or laptop...

What Blog drama do you remember? can you gist us about it? some new BVs may find it interesting.....Who remembers the Kedu Ije group on this Blog?That group almost became a Mafia here and i had just started Blogging and didnt know how to handle them........I wonder where they are now and if they are still that way and if they are still married...I hope that they are happy....I pray so.

Oya gist us and also include if you were part of any drama..

On Friday we will do a giveaway thingy..It will be interesting.........

Today, I am aking Fusli with chicken brouhaha sauce....hahahahahahahahhahaha na me give am chicken brouhaha sauce oooooooooooooo..its always stressful to prepare.

I am off..

Tight hugs

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TOXIC RELATIONSHIPS/MARRIAGES

There are relationships that should not last a single day. Yet, you see women staying three, four, five, even ten years in something that has no direction. Some marriages don’t even survive two years, but you are still figuring out a relationship after a decade? What exactly are you holding on to?

You see all the signs, disrespect, neglect, abus* , but you blind yourself and say, i will wait, karma will punish him when they finally leave you.

My dear, hear me well, karma is not your savior. Even if he leaves you today and begs God tomorrow, God will forgive him. That’s the kind of merciful God we serve. Don’t f00ll yourself into thinking your pain automatically becomes his punishment.

If you deliberately stay in a toxic relationship, or a marriage that is clearly not a marriage, you are the one chaining yourself.

And here’s the bitter truth, if you let a man waste your years, he will leave you one day and marry the woman of his dreams and nothing will happen. He will still succeed, because God gave you signs to leave from the beginning, but you chose to ignore them.

Learn to value yourselves and not wait for pain to graduate into destruction.
So, I beg you , use your head. Stop waiting for karma to fight for you. Stop excusing a man who has already shown you he is not yours. Your life is too valuable to waste in the wrong hands. Open your eyes, choose yourself, and walk away while you still can.

Leave toxic relationships for your own good.
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WEIRDFACTS

---Mistakes are proof that you are trying.

---Be careful who you open up to. Only a few people actually want to heal your wounds. Others just want front row seats to the drama.

---Sometimes the only way to win is not to play the game.

---A beautiful face attracts more partners than a beautiful body, according to a scientific survey.

----Ten out of ten people die. Don't take life too seriously.

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Some men aren't worth your time.

They don't want to love you properly at all, but at the same time they don't want to let you go.

The more you give to them, the less they unfortunately appreciate, and the minute you've had enough and decide to walk away is when they are ready to love you and treat you right.

So you decide to give them a chance in the hopes they've changed only to realize they only changed for a very short period of time.

You finally find the strength to walk away and here he comes again, proclaiming his love for you.

What alot of people dont understand is that if a man shows anger and persistence to get you back once you try to break it off isn't proof of love at all.

A man trying to flatter you or making weak attempts to be "nicer" for a couple weeks isn't proof that he's trying, its proof that he knows you well enough to know how to defuse you long enough to hook you once again.

Lets put it this way....

If you take a childs toy away from them, the child begins to cry.
Same goes for the relationship... If you take away a relationship of convenience, a man begins to cry. Just because he cries doesn't mean you give him what he wants.
Stop listening to what your man keeps promising you and start watching what his actions keep telling you.

A lot of women don't know what its like to be loved by a real man.
You know lust, you know joy, you know passion and you know the fear of abandonment.

Stop chasing your idea of what love should be and recognize what love actually is.
Love isn't promising to act right after he gets caught screwing up time and time again.

Love is him acting right from the very beginning because he doesn't want to lose you because he knows how truly special you are.

Love isn't telling your grown man he needs to change so he can keep you, love is a grown man changing on his own because he cant imagine life without you.

So take my advice and choose to be loved properly and always no matter what..... remember your worth.

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Read it again until you understand it and put some worth on yourself...some of una ladies dont have selflove at all..

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