Monday In House News In A Red Satin Dress

 Monday hailings....

MONDAY MEMO

Salutations of the highest order and belated Mothering Sunday wishes to all those who missed it yesterday....

I hope your weekend was easy and relaxing for you?I also hope you did not troll me or anyone Online.....

I noticed that some alleged annons come into the in house news to read what i have to say after trolling me massively a day before...

Unfortunately these sets of disgruntled elements and their ilk do not know that by the GRACE OF GOD, i control my narratives......And the ones i dont control, I dont care about them..LOL

Can i give you advice?Please dont waste your time and emotions hating on me,spend that emotion on something that will bless God.....

And please nobody should use me as a role model oh...so that when i fall you dont come opata on how shocked or disappointed you are....I am a work in progress , allowed to make mistakes and learn........That said, the annon going on that Doris post to yarn that they are disappointed in me for being the friend of pastors, u need rehab.....I am the friend of all because my Job demands that...FRIEND OF ALL, especially the bad ones...I will not change for anybody.....

Remember this and rest!
One more thing, You say nah pastor dey sponsor my former giveaway initiatives?And that is why my curses dont work?I am not a magician, and if the giveaways here waa from any pastors pocket you walk free, if it is not hand go touch you, just look well.

All those advising me in Doris post yesterday. I dont need it..I was doing this job before we all met online, you cannot say because you read my blog you now know more than meok? I am the one who knows what this job is about and i do it my way to protect myself.......Keep your advice to better yourselves OK?

The only place we are allowed to do i too know and give free advice is in the chronicles......

This is not a rant but me stating it how it is....... You are allowed to say your bit but talking to an adult woman like me disrespectfully and hoping to get off without me insulting you ? e no go happen!

A lot of you insulting me in the comment section are people  whom are BVs that i am no longer in good terms with, people who have received money or gifts from me at one time or the other...Na una do me bad thing na una dey cry wolf? Its exhausting seeing the comments all the time...

I dont force anyone to stay commenting here,dont stay becos you like me, stay becos i am doing a good job and if i stop doing the job then leave but dont start insulting me and thinking you and I are on the same level you hear? I am very humble but the truth is that ELEDUMARE don bless me and most of that i mingle with here are not my class (Some are higher and some are lower)...

Freeme and stop being so jealous of a successful woman growing and making mistakes...Mind your mistakes and leave me with mine!

Only you hold yam and knife

only you be Judge and jury...

DROPS PEN!

I am about to step into the dentist's Office for check up and cleaning and checking Swarovski stones on my teeth.

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TEACHER LIFE

Teacher’s Day is one of those days when we pause to reflect on the importance of teachers in the world.
In the school where I work, there’s a small tradition. Parents sometimes send gifts for teachers through their children. It’s not compulsory, just goodwill.
And like you would expect, there are always different kinds of parents.
There’s the one who brings something elaborate.
There are those who bring something simple.
And there are those who send nothing at all.
Sometimes children notice these differences more than the adults do.
I’ve had children look sad because their classmates brought gifts and they didn’t. A few times, a child has quietly offered me their snack as a “Teacher’s Day gift.”
I always return it and tell them gently,
“It’s okay. The fact that you are learning is already a gift to me.”
Last year, something happened .......one of my pupils walked up to me with a tiny packet of biscuit wrapped carefully in gift paper.
Her face was shining with excitement.
“Miss C, I brought this for you.”
I’ll admit, I was a little skeptical. So I decided to call her mum to say thank you , that way I would know if it was truly meant for me.
When the mother picked up, I thanked her for the gift.
She simply said,
“Yes, it’s for you.”
So I thanked her again and ended the call.
The little girl had an older sister in a higher class. That afternoon, her teacher came to me complaining.
“Can you imagine what this parent sent my pupil to give me? A ₦100 biscuit!”
I asked quietly,
“I hope you didn’t return it.”
She said she did.
“I told the child I wasn’t hungry.”
My heart sank a little.
I said to her,
“You didn’t hurt the mother. You hurt the child.”
She didn’t understand what I meant.
“But the child ended up eating it,” she replied. “If she really wanted to give it to me, she would have left it on my table.”
Then I told her something.
“Her younger sister gave me the exact same gift today. And I accepted it.”
She shrugged and said,
“Well, it’s you that want to accept it.”
The next day, she came to show me a long message and voice note the mother had sent to her.
The woman was heartbroken.
She said her daughter came home upset because her teacher rejected the gift she carefully wrapped for Teacher’s Day.
My colleague tried to explain that she didn’t realize it was meant as a gift.
But the mother responded with one sentence that said everything:
“But the other teacher collected hers.”
Now my colleague was upset with me.
She said I should have rejected it too.
But here’s the thing.
That biscuit was not about the money. It wasn’t about the brand.
It wasn’t even about the snack. It was about a little girl who felt proud enough to bring something, anything, to say thank you to her teacher.
Sometimes in teaching, the smallest gifts carry the biggest hearts.
And in moments like that, what we accept or reject is not just an object.
It’s a child’s intention.
And those are priceless.

WOW......nice read...Thank you for teaching us....

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NOTORIOUS FOR JESUS

My mum was a member of a particular church and while she was there, she was a faithful member. A tither and an usher. But life happened and she lost her job.

 That was how everything changed. The Pastor stopped calling, the visiting stopped and a new Pastor was transferred. Mother felt unseen and unloved. She lost her popularity and stopped commanding attention and she wanted to leave the church but I tried to convince her that she was going to church for God and not man. 

She opened up to me that she can no longer function in the church because the new pastor only familiarised himself with only the rich members and since she cannot function in that capacity anymore, it is best she left. I encouraged her to find another church nearby if she's tired rather than just staying at home once she's out.
I love my mom but I don't think her motive for going to church is right. Sadly a lot of people are like her. Going to church for recognition and validation and not out of sincerity and curiosity to learn about God. Nowadays it is difficult to distinguish social gatherings from religious gatherings, with people struggling for relevance, silent competition rooted in deep dark jealousy and the constant need to pretend to seek God when in actual sense, it is all charades and shenanigans. It is disingenuous behaviour for me. 

The denial is brutal and the crowd you see every Sunday harbor a bit of these plots.

There is a bit of your mum in everyone..I have seen people scramble t get to Church early to get front seats....They like there cos its seats reserved for rich people..lol

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A MESSAGE FOR ANY WOMAN THINKING ABOUT REMARRIAGE

If you’re a divorced woman, widow, or single mother thinking about remarriage, this message is for you.

In today’s world, many women are pressured to believe their worth is tied to having a man. Society often pushes the idea that a woman is incomplete without marriage. But this mindset can create dangerous situations where some men approach women not with respect or genuine love, but with entitlement.

Learn to have a spirit of discernment, self-worth, and the importance of protecting your peace when navigating relationships after divorce or single motherhood.
Not every man who approaches you has honorable intentions. Some see vulnerability where they think they can lower your standards. But you are not incomplete, and you do not have to accept less than respect, alignment, and genuine partnership.

This message is about awareness, wisdom, and empowerment.
Be gentle. Be loving. But also be discerning.
Because discernment can protect your peace—and sometimes even save your life.
You do not have to accept less than respect, alignment, and genuine partnership.
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EVERYDAY LEGAL TIPS EVERYONE SHOULD KNOW_

 Do not sign any document without reading it.
Many people sign papers quickly because they trust the person giving them the document. But once you sign a document, the law assumes you agree with what is written in it.

 Be careful when lending money.
Try to assess the person before giving out money. Consider their financial standing and their ability to keep to agreements. It is also wise to request a guarantor who is financially capable of paying the debt if the borrower fails to do so.

 Always collect proof when you pay money.
If you pay rent, buy something, or pay for a service, always collect a receipt or keep your transaction receipt. It is very important.

 Do not insult or threaten people online.
What you post on social media can give rise to legal disputes if it damages someone's reputation or threatens them.

 Do not take laws into your hands.
Even if someone wrongs you, fighting them or embarrassing them publicly can also get you into trouble with the law. Report to the appropriate authorities. And as much as practicable, AVOID TROUBLE!
Stay informed.
Stay protected.
Stay Legally Wise.
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WEIRD FACTS

---- 11% of the world is left-handed.

---- People think that to be strong is to never feel pain. But in reality, the strongest people are the ones who feel it but get through it!

---- Russians smile less than people from the US, due in large part to a popular Russian proverb: “A smile without a reason is a sign of idiocy.”

---- Philophobia is the fear of falling in love.

---- Not arguing at all in a relationship represents a lack of interest. People who care about one another tend to argue now and again.

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