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Adaure explained that her journey took her across several states and even beyond Nigeria as she worked to keep her family afloat. Looking back, she said her choices were shaped by necessity, not lack of desire, pointing to the heavy responsibilities she carried from a young age.
It is this kind of responsibility most people run away from when they want to marry... Shout out to all the strong women out there who came through for their families and paid the price like this!
Adaure of the famous Adaure song!
ReplyDeleteShe still dance but not professionally anymore.
She's the one?
DeleteShe's beautiful even at this age 😍
Adaure?
ReplyDeleteIt's always the first borns!
Pls men and women, wise up. As you are taking care of your family, take care of your own life too. Plan for your own future too.
"My siblings children are my children"
Dem fit no send you in old age o.
Eiya. Reminds me of Monica
ReplyDeleteOne of my church members did this similar thing
It's a pity the people you took bullets for, didn't acknowledge all your sacrifices...
ReplyDeleteChai, that is not nice of her siblings.
ReplyDeleteJust go and watch Monica.
ReplyDeleteMoral lessons Choose yourself always
Some siblings are ingrate..
It is well
Just go and watch Monica.
ReplyDeleteMoral lessons Choose yourself always
Some siblings are ingrate..
It is well
I am just a few years younger than her and I am bitterly regretting. On top of everything na abuse I dey chop daily. May God repay me. Nobody not even your own children are worth it. Please always put yourself first oooo
ReplyDeleteMay the Lord grant you your heart desires.
DeleteIt is well with you.
Chai. May God remember you & reward you immensely 👏
DeleteI will be 44 next week. This is my story, no husband. No child. At my prime, I was having suitors back-to-back but my father rejected all with the excuse that if I marry, who will help him to train my siblings. The siblings he was worried for are all married and settled while I am still here 100 percent single. The same parents that did not want me to get married are now worried about my marital status. Most nights I wonder if my sacrifice for my siblings was worth it, the only difference between me and Adure is that I went to school and I am working. I am not a liability to anyone,
ReplyDeleteThere's still hopefpr you getting married and having kids. Try harder if you truly desire both.
DeleteIf you want kids and don't want to carry them yourself, you can try surrogacy or adoption
While I feel your pain and discomfort please know that 44 is not old age, you can still marry and have a good life. Do not give up or think all is lost. God is still in control and He is still working on us. Call out and ask for what you want and have faith and it will be done. Have faith no matter how small, just a little is all you need.
DeleteE-hug.
DeleteIt is well with you. Please keep your faith alive
The Lord is on the throne.
So sad. It is very wrong for your parents to have treated you thus. Were they ignorant of a woman's hours of rush and how limited they are? Now the God that judges everything will remember you; just keep a pure heart with right attitude.
DeleteYour dad didn't do well at all. Why will you train your siblings when your parents are alive? 🥹
DeleteYour own husband will come dear 👏
Chai, your baba no try. But don't lose hope, you'd still marry and have kids. I strongly believe this.
DeleteThis is terrible and is the stark reality of parental failure. Why have kids you can’t take care of? It should never be a child’s responsibility to train other children. Everyone, myself included, should learn from this. Plan your family and don’t push children to become breadwinners because of your inability to plan. E-hugs for you Sweetie! It’s never late, focus on yourself going forward.
DeleteToo bad
ReplyDeleteHow can someone sacrifice herself for the betterment of her siblings and the same siblings neglected her in old age.
Always choose yourself.
Even children are not guaranteed to take care of you at old age after all your sacrifices for them.
ReplyDeleteLet's just plan out future for ourselves by investing in real estate, pension, scheme, business that can run without our presence, etc
True talk
DeleteIt’s too bad that even in her 40s or 50s it never occurred to her that there was still a chance to experience some life beyond turning herself into to a workhorse for others.
ReplyDeleteMarrying older is not the same as marrying young, but it is still a life experience and can be beautiful and comforting if it is a good union.
I wish her all the best!
No man came to her at that age again
DeleteI left home to feed home, mo jare tan won se jollof
ReplyDeleteImagine !
DeleteThey cooked jollof after you left home to hustle for everyone in the home to feed.
I hope you have learnt your lesson
Hmmmmm
ReplyDeleteFirst Daughters Should Please Go Watch Monica ooo..
Hello iya Boys
first daughters are the people that suffers from such, no matter what never allow your family problems to stop you from taking good care of yourself.
ReplyDeleteAnd first sons too sometimes. But the men end up getting married no matter how old they are . It is not the same for women, after a certain age, to get a man will become difficult except you are ok financially.
DeleteNot all first daughters. It's not wise to generalize.
DeleteMay help come to you and comfort you ma'am.
ReplyDeleteIt is well with you.🙏
Put yourself first people.
ReplyDeleteThis is real life Monica
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