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It's always very sad when u give a man your everything and he fails to appreciate you...at the end of the day the woman is at the receiving end,imagine the insults for 5 good years!
ReplyDeleteI feel sad for you Tonie. I can totally relate with what you passed thru my dear. My ex thought me a big lesson to NEVER date a broke guy. We met 10yrs ago(100L in Uni). He deflowered me, had 3 abortions for him, after which I got introduced to postinor 2 plus I also tried to avoid Sex with him so I dnt end up killing all my children(at least I get sense reach there), ws 100% faithful(no jokes), spent my money on him(my family try small for finances), bought him things to look good & presentable, I hlped cover his shame in everything even where he no dey try,(lesson number 2: DO NOT try to paint a bad man as good, cos when the bubble bursts everybody would think it must have been ur fault), I would draft a msg for him to snd to his boss because his English lang sef na apology but I didn't mind, I bought him brighter grammar to hlp with his English, (good thing is that his looks & height covered for all the grammatical & financial blunder), u needed to see me running my mouth to my frnd's that dude can never cheat nor leave me. Ppl came to him for relationship tips because we were sooo good together(or so 'we' thought) & they kept wondering how we were doing it. I thought ours was a match made in heaven(lesson number 3: NEVER be too comfortable in a relationship)Lol. He made me chase away prospective suitors & promised me heaven on earth. I prayed for him & his family more than I did for myself & my family. U needed to see me doing midnight prayers for his 36yrs old elder sister to get married like she ws my own sister. Good thing she got married this year shortly before the brk up. The family loved me (or so I thought again). After all of these, dude called me on the night of 22/May/2014 & broke up with me because according to him his pastor said we r nt compatible. Lol. On the phone?He couldn't evn do that in person! Chai, big disgrace.. Before then, dude was still living with parnts. I gingered him. We saved up some money for house. Dude lied that he invested the money in an oil deal but got duped. Money entered voicemail. I said no wahala we can strt all over. Lol. Not knwing dude actually rented the house& put another woman inside & told our mutual frnds not to tell me about it. But God has a way of revealing things to me. Two(2) months aftr the brkup, dude got engaged to some other girl. Hmmm! I almost ran mad. I got to knw so many other things he hid frm me.Infact the story too long. It's been 7 mnths & I'm still trying to heal. Right now, relationship scares the shit outta me because if this dude that I could vouch for & gave my everytin to could do this to me, then who wouldnt?. Kó easy gaun.. I hope to send my chronicle to stella one day sha.. **Whew**
Delete*taught*
Delete*friends*
Sorry I didn't proofread
This story sounds very very familiar.ma sweet frnd D s dis u?may God c u tru.we knw all u did for S.he will giv u a beta person darl.remb we shud hook ovr drnks ds evening.cheerio.
DeleteWow @Blessedchild. Some men really hav a special space in hell.
DeleteI cnt believ ppl still love like this. Really? I'm so angry at your stupidity blessedchild. Put your learned lessons to good use #say no to broke brothers
DeleteYou'll heal my dear. 7months is still short. Embrace God
DeleteNa wa oh. Men! Men!! Men!!! Evil creatures. Smh
DeletePele, e de happen like dat sometime, just look forward to better days ahead
DeleteMay God heal u blessedchild, it's a wicked world we live in. May God have mercy, some men clearly bring curse upon themselves and their generation.
DeleteEeyah. You will recover all ur wasted years in jesus name. Wen ever u feel sad...just praise him with songs. It will lift ur spirit and you will b richly blessed. E~HUGS
DeleteBlessedChildDecember 10, 2014 at 2:35 PM God will heal you completely and bring your own man your way. Just heartbreaking stuff i see.
DeleteThis Could have been me some months back, but i thank God for wisdom i was really swift and d reverse was the case.... I THREW THEIR STUFFS OUTTA MY HOME!!!! But reading dis now i knw dat isnt d end of the matter for me. Na God hand i dey now o.... Cos have invested my life &existence in this marriage!!!! CHINEKEEEEEEE
DeleteBut Tonie! Y didn't u die when 2face dumped you after living together in the US for 6 months? Y did u want to kill Annie idibia with your hatred and bad mouth till today. U married 9ice because he was close to 2face den. This is a man u never respected even in the presence of his family! This is a man u always talked down at! This is a man u av always made look like a lesser man and an errand boy! Just because you have your way with words and can get emotional doesn't mean you are not guilty! If 9ice should talk, u and I know the earth will shake. Tell people how u slapped 9ice's mum! Tell the world everything and stop the emotional blackmail! U and ur jobless supposed friend who was always listening on your conversations. No matter what 9ice did, u drove him to it! He's a Man with who he is with now. God heal all of u.
DeleteThis story sounds familiar!
DeleteIs dude's name sebastine?
Is babe's name Ruth?
Hehehe! Issorai
Eeyah! Only God knows what truly happened.
ReplyDelete..and everyone here believe her..why?because she's a woman.
Deletedude...she mite be lying, but one fact is dat she never slept with ruggedman, but 9ice fuelled the rumour and allowed it grow just becos he wanted to sell some couple of cds at the detriment of his friend (ruggedy) and wife..like wtf? who does dat? how selfish can one be..
DeleteJust move on darling!
ReplyDeleteI feel sad for you Tonie. I can totally relate with what you passed thru my dear. My ex thought me a big lesson to NEVER date a broke guy. We met 10yrs ago(100L in Uni). He deflowered me, had 3 abortions for him, after which I got introduced to postinor 2 plus I also tried to avoid Sex with him so I dnt end up killing all my children(at least I get sense reach there), ws 100% faithful(no jokes), spent my money on him(my family try small for finances), bought him things to look good & presentable, I hlped cover his shame in everything even where he no dey try,(lesson number 2: DO NOT try to paint a bad man as good, cos when the bubble bursts everybody would think it must have been ur fault), I would draft a msg for him to snd to his boss because his English lang sef na apology but I didn't mind, I bought him brighter grammar to hlp with his English, (good thing is that his looks & height covered for all the grammatical & financial blunder), u needed to see me running my mouth to my frnd's that dude can never cheat nor leave me. Ppl came to him for relationship tips because we were sooo good together(or so 'we' thought) & they kept wondering how we were doing it. I thought ours was a match made in heaven(lesson number 3: NEVER be too comfortable in a relationship)Lol. He made me chase away prospective suitors & promised me heaven on earth. I prayed for him & his family more than I did for myself & my family. U needed to see me doing midnight prayers for his 36yrs old elder sister to get married like she ws my own sister. Good thing she got married this year shortly before the brk up. The family loved me (or so I thought again). After all of these, dude called me on the night of 22/May/2014 & broke up with me because according to him his pastor said we r nt compatible. Lol. On the phone?He couldn't evn do that in person! Chai, big disgrace.. Before then, dude was still living with parnts. I gingered him. We saved up some money for house. Dude lied that he invested the money in an oil deal but got duped. Money entered voicemail. I said no wahala we can strt all over. Lol. Not knwing dude actually rented the house& put another woman inside & told our mutual frnds not to tell me about it. But God has a way of revealing things to me. Two(2) months aftr the brkup, dude got engaged to some other girl. Hmmm! I almost ran mad. I got to knw so many other things he hid frm me.Infact the story too long. It's been 7 mnths & I'm still trying to heal. Right now, relationship scares the shit outta me because if this dude that I could vouch for & gave my everytin to could do this to me, then who wouldnt?. Kó easy gaun.. I hope to send my chronicle to stella one day sha.. **Whew**
DeleteBlessed child this your story reminds me of my mine 4years ago. U'll heal. It's a matter of time. God compensated me with some one farrr better. Am happily married now with a beautiful daughter
DeleteBlessed child....why do I feel like your name is ruth? No pun. If it is then no need to sugar coat your story, you know what went down so what went around visited you as well.
DeleteSome pastors destroying marriages since 1900AD. #kmt
DeleteBlessed child it is well. God will give u ur own man.
She must be a good for remembering everything
ReplyDeleteAlso remember to move on
This was like 5yes ago
The man in question has moved on with two baby mama's and a failed political ambition
Please do the same
I pray God heal ur heart
Buahahahaha! Epic! @The man in question has moved on with two baby mama's and a failed political ambition
DeleteHahahaha abi ooo..move on sister
DeleteLol Epic
DeleteWord. And probably more baby mamas I foresee. The man has enough scandal attached to his name since the breakup but she has none so God has vindicated her. She should let it go. She's making the yeye man relevant.
DeleteNa wah oh, u see why its not good for a successful woman to marry all these broke ass niggas forming single boy, babe plz move on, u are too good for him and his poor family.
ReplyDeleteNo matter wat u do to a guy...pay his way thru school,bring him from d gutter,get him a job etc,d moment u cheat on him u'v spoilt everything...so I don't blame d guy...ao r we sure her friend is saying d truth about who cheated on 9ice?...abeg cut d guy some slack jor. Am not his fan,I can't say I really like his music but I believe a man will not wake up one day n just turn his back on d woman dat raised him like dat...u don't expect to get loyalty from a man u raise wit runs money...many gists about d toni lady..abeg free 9ice..he'l bounce back from his political loss
DeleteTo say i am gob smacked is an understatement .... Dunno but i never really believed all those rumors about her from the on set... I pray GOD vindicate d right party... i mean...who am i to judge? Even 9ice's career took a negative turn after TRADITION album... it is well ...
ReplyDelete@xclusiv
Na wah, this is so sad. Just remember that what doesn't kill you makes you stronger, period
ReplyDeletei read it too and i felt badddd if that was exactly all that happened...Well for a man that already has different baby mamas, what else do you need to clarify the accusations????
ReplyDeleteToni Payne God is preparing something better for you
I really do feel her pain.... Remember Toni, everything works for your good....
ReplyDeleteNo wonder he failed primaries.
ReplyDeleteHe has not started yet.
He obviously has an over bloated ego, he wants to contest as what?
XOXO MYSTERY
He's just a wicked,coward!that he had to conspire with his family to throw her out.
DeleteNo wonder they say african men always use adultery as excuse to divorce a woman.
randy he_goat dat can't even win ordinary primaries in his village!shows the elements are also against him for d evils in his heart.mtceew
so touching...toni should just move on...9ice has moved on since
ReplyDeletevisit my blog
www.glowysofiscated.blogspot.com
I believe you @Tony....don't mind @9CE....he will suffer for all the things and humiliation he puts you through....he has not seen anything yet...this is the beginning for him....ungrateful Man
ReplyDelete@Galore
Well, when u carry a man's cross, seal deals for him, open doors for him, he'll assume u r sleeping ur way through..vry typical of a man in d entertainment industry. His career died wen he left toni..plus I heard he's not endowed.
ReplyDeleteIf this story is true, then Nice is a loser... It is well
ReplyDeleteMove on frm ur past to a brighter future....wen u keep talkin abt ur past,d EX factor will b happi ur still paind...move on n b happi fr no reason den d EX will die of envy
ReplyDelete~@iamjbankz SA to President Jonathan 2015~
This is really so touching coming from the friend have always known 9ice is a street dog, how can you have different children from different women?
ReplyDeletePlease ladies if you think you trust a guy when the money has not arrived, check back when the money arrives.
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Oh Lord!!! Now I really dislike 9ice or whatever his name is. Let him go to court over his loss in oyo state. That might just be the avenue where he'll lose all the money he made with Toni.
ReplyDeleteAfter he left that woman his music career took a nose dive. Now it's politics and he has even lost.
Some parents are from hell. They didn't throw out her things when she was financing his projects up and down.
I pray Toni finds real love and shame all her enemies. Then, she'll sing "gongo aso" in the faces of all her haters.
Can't believe I Broke down in tears and finished reading errythaang all teary.....really dunno what to say, this is heart rendering.
ReplyDeleteI won't criticize your crying...I almost cried too.
DeleteThis touched me.
Yes ooo, JayEm, I shed uncontrollable tears. Lol!
DeleteMove on pls
ReplyDeleteIs so sad... I feel her. .. In all thank God for your life and your son... Look back and see what the Lord has done for you.... Let go your past and move on..... God in his mercy will continue to uphold and strengthen you... I am in the same shoe's too, but it is well
ReplyDeleteThere is no smoke without fire...
ReplyDeleteI will wait until 9ice comes forward with his own version.
IjeLuv, you will wait tire....
DeleteAnd to think, I am a fan, street credibility and gongo aso,love them.
Sorry Toni, please move on and be strong for Zion.
Sometimes it doesn't pay to pick a guy up from the gutters and clean him up.
ReplyDeleteGod will heal ur pain
ReplyDeleteIf what d friend said is really true, then Nice is really a terrible person n shld change his name to TERRIBLE. Since he knew the track wasn't about Toni, y didn't he speak up when pple were castigating her? Maybe his failing the primary election is part of his nemesis.
ReplyDeleteif this is all true then i guess karma is a big bad bitch. from his music downfall to losing his primaries
ReplyDeleteShe told the story herself. Lol. Move on Toni. 9ice has moved on well.
ReplyDeleteWomen always seen as the bad wife even when innocent..this is heartbreaking..to those who have been causing pains for this woman,may God forgive you all.Toni has indeed been emotionally tormented and people who don't know her still judge her.Its so unfortunate what people suffer in the name of love and marriage..Toni remain strong,as nemesis will still catch up with the wicked.
ReplyDeleteHmm toni all is well with you dear
ReplyDeleteNobody knows how this woman feels so people should stop taunting her with that cheating allegations. Even though she cheated,can people just move on already and stop pushing her to the curb?...What joy do people derive from making other people feel bad ?am a strong but emotional person, i can be strong when i want to be but i hide and cry so people don't see my weakest self. That u believe is how Toni has been living in the last 5yrs... Live and let live world.
ReplyDeleteNa wa oh. That's why some people have vowed never to marry a poor man, because most of them change when they make it. My own is, nobody should trust too much, people always change - that's the only constant thing in life.
ReplyDeleteIf her account of events is true then dude never loved her, only used her to climb up the ladder and dumped her when his career flourished.
DeleteUnfortunately, his career has nose dived,Nice go and ask for forgiveness from this woman if all that was narrated is true, i didn't say take her back cuz you obviously don't love her.
I believe you @Tony....don't mind @9CE....he will suffer for all the things and humiliation he puts you through....he has not seen anything yet...this is the beginning for him....ungrateful Man
ReplyDelete@Galore
It is actually making Sense to me now cos I too used to think its Tony he sang about on that album. If truly she isn't then Abolore is wicked then for making her look like the bad one
ReplyDeleteNa wa
ReplyDeleteShe's such a strong woman, went thru all dese n didn't break down? I salute her mehn
ReplyDeleteWow
ReplyDeleteGod is in control
ReplyDeleteThat how crazy love can get.
ReplyDelete.....................................
A piece from my work "3(0)3 things you need to know
about life"
* Any relationship is under the control of the person who
cares the least. When relationships end it is typically
because of unmet expectations or one person is not
feeling love or cherished by the other. For relationships
to grow and last both members have to be equal with
the love they give; and both should do it, not because
they think they have to do it, but because they want to do it.
That how crazy love can get.
ReplyDelete.....................................
A piece from my work "3(0)3 things you need to know
about life"
* Any relationship is under the control of the person who
cares the least. When relationships end it is typically
because of unmet expectations or one person is not
feeling love or cherished by the other. For relationships
to grow and last both members have to be equal with
the love they give; and both should do it, not because
they think they have to do it, but because they want to do it.
Hmmm.............. This is very very very deep. Toni may God wipe away all your tears and bless u wth love and joy like a river.
ReplyDeleteAwww Toni, God will give you the strength to carry on and eventually pull through..
ReplyDeleteI have passion for
decoration, makeover, catering,
baking,
general event-planning and can
do them. The only challenge now
is that
I have no capital to start on my
own. Please, I really need
something
to occupy me, lets say I am
desperate. I am hardworking
and so much
fun to work with-never a dull
moment. Anyone who is into any
or all of
the aforementioned should please
employ me. I have a child out of
wedlock so I need to help myself
and my little child. I reside in
Uyo.
I can be reached on
switestberry@gmail.com . God
bless you all.
Nawah ohh, the trauma women go through in marriage. God help us
ReplyDeleteIf all this is true I feel for Toni,some men can be cruel
ReplyDeleteThe end shall tell,wicked man
Stella, u dey swallow my comment with akamu abi. you dont want to post my comments.
ReplyDeleteToni Payne it is well with you. You dont need anybody, gossipers, witches or wizards to define you. Keep your head up and look up to God Almighty.
You will surely meet a good man that will wipe away your tears and pains
until 9ice proves otherwise av stopped buying,listening even playing his songs and thank God he lost primaries wud av gone as far as tearing posters.......av always knew smthg was fishy about him ingrate ghetto boy
ReplyDeleteYou have swallowed P on this matter.
DeleteIf she did not cheat how and where did that rumour come from??? I think she is still in love with her ex husband but that one has moved on already so she should do the same. Trust Nigerian women, before you even move out they have moved in sharp sharp.
ReplyDeleteMbok!
DeleteThe rumour was from the song 'once bitten twice shy' which now they say is about 9ice's ex not Toni, people assumed it was Toni he was referring to and 9ce kept quiet about it instead of defending his wife/ex wife.
DeleteFeel so sorry for her. It is well Toni.
ReplyDeleteThelma enemuwe said...
ReplyDeleteFeeling for her so badly.....anty serra,digwor
*faithful BV enemuwe thelma*
Thelma enemuwe said...
ReplyDeleteFeeling for her so badly.....anty serra,digwor
*faithful BV enemuwe thelma*
Lol vrendo, make I help Stella reply
DeleteOmg!*hottears*
ReplyDeleteHow can a man do this to someone he once called his wife?!
Didn't know she went through all these
Her friend's narrative just gave me goose bumps and make me wept like a child!omg!
So Sad. May God heal your heart dear.
ReplyDelete*Ayah Shehu*
So she still defending herself and lamenting after all these years?
ReplyDeleteLet it go woman and close your eyes and ears to rumours, gossips or insinuations by people against you.
What happened has happened, it's all in the past now, so MOVE ON.
Don't you know that no matter what, people must talk bad about you? People hate to see you smile and happy so they will always look for ways to make you miserable. Don't let them Toyin, please.
If you like talk from now till thy kingdom come, it won't change the mindset of those who have chosen to believe you cheated.
Leave everything for God. He is the ultimate judge and will vindicate you if you are innocent.
Stop allowing their bullshit get to you!
Stop ranting on social media every now and then. It makes you look guilty. It makes you look desperate. It makes you come across like an attention seeker.
Even if you were guilty, so what? It's all in the past now and I'm sure you have made peace with God.
You are divorced and your ex has moved on so do the same.
You are beginning to sound like a broken record honestly.
Get a grip my dear.
Develop a thick skin.
I'm sure your ex hubby's girlfriends/baby mamas will be laughing at you now wherever they are.
Please stop giving people the satisfaction of knowing that their hate and bitterness hurts you.
I know it's not easy but I feel you have dealt with this matter enough in the past.
Stop this ok.
Be happy...
YOLO
Choi epistle of life!
DeleteGenny nwa nem! Abi oh! Everybody can't love you, and you can't love everybody. Live your life!
DeleteSometimes when your good name has been smeared in mud,when your reputation has been rubbished,when your business which puts food on your table is suffering as a result of negative news,when friends and even some family nudge and pinch themselves whenever you walk past...u need to speak up. The same people who pronounced Bill Cosby guilty for being silent have pronounced Toni guilty for talking..hmm,world people!!!!
DeleteExactly what I was thinking while reading. She should just stop all these nonsense. She's starting to come across as an attention seeker.
Delete@Bibi, I understand your point. Mind you, I never said she shouldn't have spoken or defended herself ok. I'm for people coming out to clear the air when things get messy. Try to comprehend my submission before calling world people.
DeleteThe lady in question has addressed this issue several times over the years. If you are attentive and up to date , you should have come across her many replies and responses to this same issue in the past. She has over flogged this issue over the years.
All I'm saying is " e don do"
To think that 9ice has kept mum all these while. It's only making her sound really guilty and desperate.
She should stop addressing this issue for her own good.
The more she addresses it, the more people will talk. But bet me, once she starts ignoring them, (I know it's hard tho) they will get tired and shut the fuck up!
BTW, don't compare this with Bill Cosby's case. They are two different cases. Bill is being accused of serial RAPE of more than ten girls. That's a huge allegation my dear.
His silence speaks volume.
Bye!
Women are just too weak, she should dust herself and move on, isn't Ibinabo getting married again after how many kids?
ReplyDeleteNice is not your husband, if he was you guys would have weathered the storm together.He won't have left you.You have a lovely son so please thank God and hope for the best.Most importantly learn from your mistakes.Love will find you again.
Wow! Such a pain.
ReplyDeletetoo long puhleez!
ReplyDeleteThis comment has been removed by the author.
ReplyDeleteCouldn't read the whole epistle but she should try to close that chapter. Its not easy but shit happens especially in Nigeria where there are no laws to protect women.
ReplyDeleteThis kind of drama hits close to home and in as much as we all pray for a happy marriage I still advice Nigerian women to love with sense.
When a break up happens the woman usually suffers. Pls as you guys prosper in your marriage use style and gather stuff in your name and that of your kids. If you build a house together, your name too should be on the deed. If its a business, split the profits and store your own.
This nonsense is a daily occurrence. Women be wise.
That's the problem with pple, after 5yrs d won't stil let this woman rest as if d are any beta, if she actully cheated when she was married, then we should be hearing diff stories of her sexcape now dt shes nt married, bt its d opposite we ar seeing. Two baby mamas n nobody is sayin a tin cos he's a man?
ReplyDeleteExactly my anger if a man messes up its okay cos its a man but a woman does or even false rumour occurs that she did her whole generation must be punished and blamed.......#maddoublestandardthings
DeleteGod will judge 9ice. I pray Toni finds happiness. I feel her pain.
ReplyDeleteStella Damasus should learn from this. She had some people that felt sorry for her when she lost her husband, until she started her whorish attitude.....that was when most people started disliking her.
Pele o madam Tonipayne, God heal your hurt. But Stellz d tori long o haba!!!
ReplyDeleteI always knew Abolore was a gold digger but could he have been less wicked? A pity to be married to a devil! She should get over it, she will see him reaping his evil deeds very soon.
ReplyDeleteI never liked nice though.... If there is any truth in this then he is a gold digger and karma will visit him and his family and for those girls that have, are and planning to birth for him...well, more grease to your pussy.
ReplyDeletea.k.a EDWIN CHINEDU AZUBUKO said...
ReplyDelete.
This one really knw them wella....
*GLO BRING 3G TO KONTAGORA*
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***CURRENTLY IN JUPITER***
Toni please let go of ur past n let God!! 2 long menh!
ReplyDeleteI am one who doesn't judge someone but in Toni / 9ice‘s case ...I am one of those people who wished they came back together, there was even a FB page then for them and I remembered writing Toni then to keep faith all will be well because I believed in their love. I know but Toni from anywhere I first knew about her from her blog/website back then and I loved her more when she was dating 9ice and he was a rave of the moment.. .I could remember Toni ‘s excitment, so, it was great pain to hear your favourite couple are having problem but I thought ,‘it is part of those things, they will settle ‘, but alas it's been 5years and to top it all one accused of a thing you didn't do.
ReplyDeleteOne thing I am sorry for 9ice is, his stubbornness has led him astray and he's allowing it to destroy him .And I pity Toni bcos she will has to live with this forever because anytime 9ice sneezes, it reaches her. I pray God continues to make you strong but one thing I am sure about is, he will come back begging. What he couldn't do then because of his ego ...and you know what?He will come back because of his low and undeveloped thinking. That which made him not speak when he was supposed to speak or rather team up with his family to send you out will be what will make him come back to you (to ask if his SON) aside that he will need your forgiveness. (Mark my words).Toni when he comes forgive him because you have been vindicated already(5years down the love) but don't expect him now, he will still be searching for that thing until he realises he has it with you(his mentality).
How do ya'all know she's not lying? Innocent ppl don't lament for so long. Even if she cheated, so what? He never loved her enough Dats all, cos if he did he wudve forgiven her. Let her rest abeg, all ds women whining all d time.
ReplyDeleteHmmm. It is well Toni. Be strong.
ReplyDeleteMehn i really for this lady. Its obvious she hasn't moved on or maybe she doesn't know how to let go. If all this is true, then its really unfair.
ReplyDeleteMen need to know that if you treat a good woman badly, you will be paid back in your own coin whether directly or indirectly. Karma is a bitch
now dis some deep stuff...
ReplyDeletesome parents no be am at
all... seriously.... why all
the unnecessary drama ehh... I always
knew something Wasn't right.... why will a sane man will abandon his
wife Who has given u her all....
why will any sane guy Or man watch
his parents maltreat his wife and kids...
someone Who has been nothing but
loyal.. Smh...
that's why there re so many girls with
trust issues... all this stuff is just pissing
me off...
life sometimes can be so cruel.... Cos u
have to wonder what she might have Don
to deserve all dis... may God help us
all...
Toni if this whole thing is true then God himself has already vindicated you. Nice hasn't had a hit record since Tradition and now he's a failed politician. Let go completely. Ignore the evil sayers and let God continue to fight your battles.
ReplyDeleteToni forget 9ce abeg, he has moved on with two baby mamas.. Stop addressing this issue, anybody wey wan die bcos of d matter, na d person sabi
ReplyDeletey"all just shouting move on!!! asif u heard she has bin begging him..why is everybody blind to read d part she wrote sumone talked shit to her again of recent and she lost her cool..dat is why dis mata is bin revisited...can we all see who was loose...if she was so wayward..wont we see her sleeping around?..yet some self righteous fools wont stop throwing her dat useless line of bin a cheat...mr 9ice i am ur fan ..but av u stopped to think dat ur life hasnt muved forward since u left ds woman..even knowing dat d song wasnt meant for her u kept quiet..God wont stop judging u..until u beg her publicly and apologise for wat u did..wicked man
ReplyDeleteI feel sad for you Tonie. I can totally relate with what you passed thru my dear. My ex thought me a big lesson to NEVER date a broke guy. We met 10yrs ago(100L in Uni). He deflowered me, had 3 abortions for him, after which I got introduced to postinor 2 plus I also tried to avoid Sex with him so I dnt end up killing all my children(at least I get sense reach there), ws 100% faithful(no jokes), spent my money on him(my family try small for finances), bought him things to look good & presentable, I hlped cover his shame in everything even where he no dey try,(lesson number 2: DO NOT try to paint a bad man as good, cos when the bubble bursts everybody would think it must have been ur fault), I would draft a msg for him to snd to his boss because his English lang sef na apology but I didn't mind, I bought him brighter grammar to hlp with his English, (good thing is that his looks & height covered for all the grammatical & financial blunder), u needed to see me running my mouth to my frnd's that dude can never cheat nor leave me. Ppl came to him for relationship tips because we were sooo good together(or so 'we' thought) & they kept wondering how we were doing it. I thought ours was a match made in heaven(lesson number 3: NEVER be too comfortable in a relationship)Lol. He made me chase away prospective suitors & promised me heaven on earth. I prayed for him & his family more than I did for myself & my family. U needed to see me doing midnight prayers for his 36yrs old elder sister to get married like she ws my own sister. Good thing she got married this year shortly before the brk up. The family loved me (or so I thought again). After all of these, dude called me on the night of 22/May/2014 & broke up with me because according to him his pastor said we r nt compatible. Lol. On the phone?He couldn't evn do that in person! Chai, big disgrace.. Before then, dude was still living with parnts. I gingered him. We saved up some money for house. Dude lied that he invested the money in an oil deal but got duped. Money entered voicemail. I said no wahala we can strt all over. Lol. Not knwing dude actually rented the house& put another woman inside & told our mutual frnds not to tell me about it. But God has a way of revealing things to me. Two(2) months aftr the brkup, dude got engaged to some other girl. Hmmm! I almost ran mad. I got to knw so many other things he hid frm me.Infact the story too long. It's been 7 mnths & I'm still trying to heal. Right now, relationship scares the shit outta me because if this dude that I could vouch for & gave my everytin to could do this to me, then who wouldnt?. Kó easy gaun.. I hope to send my chronicle to stella one day sha.. **Whew**
ReplyDeletePs: Abeg mk una no vex if this appears more than once. Netwrk isn't friendly here.
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ReplyDeleteD stupid nice ll stil leave Sukanmi like he left Victoria Godis. I feel ur pain Toni Payne
ReplyDeleteHow can she let go when people are calling her names!!!
ReplyDeleteWhen 9ice was putting her through hell and insulting Rugged for manning up and exposing him, he thought he was the ish. Now Toni has a show, Rugged has a successful fashion line and 9ice has debts to pay cos of his political woes.
We will soon be hearing from Oreka Godis sister who slept with 9ice and taunted Toni.
The truth will always come out by force or not.
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ReplyDeleteIt is well.
ReplyDeleteQuite deep...May God heal Toni Payne and give her the grace to let it all go,those that refuse to let her be,He shall surely take care of.She is crushed but not broken,the Lord will always be her strength.
ReplyDeleteQuite deep...May God heal Toni Payne and give her the grace to let it all go,those that refuse to let her be,He shall surely take care of.She is crushed but not broken,the Lord will always be her strength.
ReplyDeleteBlessed child
ReplyDeleteI feel for you.
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Don't worry, God will send a good man your way.
XOXO MYSTERY
I have been visiting this blog since its inception but don't comment,however I feel I need to comment on this because I'm a victim of this type of circumstances(not accused of cheating though but hubby walked out of marriage after 5year for no particular reason). It is actually easy for people to run their mouths and say move on when they haven't been in such a situation,relationships are quite different from marriage so anybody castigating her to move on haven't experienced it,it's easier said than done not even when a child is involved. I pray for you Toni Payne,whether guilty or not that God in his grace will give you closure to everything you went through in the hands of 9ice and give you cause to smile again. To SDk,thanks for being a platform,will send my story in the near future to make others learn from it.
ReplyDeleteSo you mean she should not move on then?
DeleteRead and understand properly please?no one has said she should not move on,simple and plain English and please digest it with common sense,thanks
DeleteSo someone here just turned this whole thing to marrying a poor man or what not .. What does that have to do with anything ? Don't rich men divorce their wives and go back to nothing ? Madam thats even worse for us women , I have been there .. By the way , you are saying all these .. So the rich man that you are going to marry , was a woman not there for him before he married you when he was poor ? What should that poor woman be saying ? The same thing you are saying ?
ReplyDeleteSilent in the face of a false accusation is consent. Her son will the first to ask her why she kept quiet and let people slander her. Can someone just lie on you and you keep quiet? So why expect is it from celebrities as if they are not human. Is it easy to move on from marriage? Is it a joke or a fling? Some people should imagine it was them before commenting.
ReplyDeleteThr problem is that she has been defending herself for the past five years. At what point will she stop?
DeleteOk, I shed tears reading her friends message. That cannot be fake. I cried for Toni. I believe she has let go of Nice but not the wasted time, wasted resources, wasted relationships and her battered image. Toni, please try to move on. Trust me if it makes a difference a new set of people believe your story. Please make lemonades out of the lemons that life has thrown at you.
ReplyDelete"he deflowered me " wow so this word still exists.
ReplyDeleteHa! It's a trump card on this blog
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