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Saturday, January 31, 2015

Childhood Sweethearts Banned From Getting Engaged As Teenagers Fnally Wed - 35 Years Later‏

The pair dated for two years before Ian's family moved to Australia in 1979, having forbidden the couple's love.
Carolyn and Ian lost touch until they were reunited in 2010 when Ian, 50, found his first love on the Friends Reunited website.




Carolyn, 51, subsequently decided to take a massive leap of faith and leave her life in England behind to rediscover her lost love.

The couple ended up getting married and couldn't be happier.

"I feel very lucky, it feels like I've won the lottery," Carolyn said.
"I've never been happier. I never used to believe in fate - now I do. We were meant to be together."


The loved-up pair met at school in Frome, Somerset, when Ian, 14, was in the same year as Joanne - the younger sister of 15-year-old Carolyn.

"We were inseparable from the moment we met," she said. "It was proper first love. We wanted to get engaged, but our parents said no."

Smitten Carolyn was utterly devastated when Ian moved away and although they got on with their separate lives, Carolyn never married.

Ian had a marriage that ended, but neither he or Carolyn have ever had children.
"I think he must have always been in the back of my mind. I never ever wanted to marry or start a family with anybody," Carolyn said.
They could have met again in 1990 when Carolyn visited Adelaide with her younger sister for a six-month holiday, but she got cold feet.
She said: "We were going to knock on Ian's door but the morning we were going to do it, I chickened out.

"I regretted that big time when I got home. But obviously the time wasn't right for us."


Twenty years later and out of the blue, a shocked Carolyn received a message from Ian on the website Friends Reunited in May 2010.
She said: "I was on a girls night out with my sister and I saw this message from Ian Cook and I thought 'THE Ian Cook?! It can't be!

"It said: 'Hi, I'm not sure if you're the right person I'm looking for, but have you got a sister called Jo?'."
A flurry of messages and two days later, they heard each other's voices for the first time in more than 30 years.

Carolyn was initially unsettled by Ian's Australian accent but was surprised by how natural it felt to speak to her former love on the phone.
"It was so weird, it was like we had spoken last week. We chatted for about three hours that first time," she said.

Just five months later, Carolyn took a gamble by booking a one-way ticket to Australia for a reunion with Ian - and she hasn't returned since.
"We both knew that something was still there; before I even left England we knew that we were going to be together," she said.

"I was determined this was going to be my life. I was nervous on the flight but Ian met me at the airport and we just ran into each other's arms.
"We've got a lot older but I could see it was him, he hadn't changed that much."
Within a month of their reunion, they got each other's names tattooed on their wrists to show how committed they were to each other.

Ian, an operations supervisor in the oil and gas industry, proposed at Christmas that year and the couple finally married on December 19, 2013 - 35 years after they first fell in love.
They had to wait for a permanent visa for Carolyn, who works in retail, and wanted all of her family to be able to come to Adelaide for their special day.
"The weirdest thing is not being called Carolyn Walker any more! I was that name for 50 years, and now I'm a Mrs. I never felt I wanted to get married before, but this just felt right," Carolyn said.

"Sometimes I have to pinch myself now, I think I might be dreaming it all. It is unbelievable."
Carolyn's parents Alan and Vera Walker, of Frome, Somerset, celebrated the couple's tale of true love.
Alan, 78, said: "It might sound silly but it was just meant to be.
"We obviously knew Ian when they were courting. He was a tear away like they all are at that age but he was a good lad.
"He had to go with his parents to Australia, and we thought that was the end of it. The father was worried for Carolyn's gamble but realised they were adults and could take their own risks.

"I warned Carolyn that he might be a little, fat, bald man by now, because it was 35 years ago. But they recognised each other and that was it.
"It was almost as if it was all meant to happen. I suppose it was fate."
Her sister Joanne, 49, who works in retail, said: "She is the most lucky woman alive!"culled




Lucky couple!....Some people marry and still go back to their first love ...
My first love NNAMDI and i couldnt be the together because we were not meant to be abeg and even though hes a darling and we still talk,i dont wish to be with him and i am lucky to be married to be the best man in the world....*blows kisses at sweeeeeeet hubby.lol








75 comments:

  1. Stella y u no marry him after he don wine ur kpekus"finish

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    1. Cute... The woman looks way older now

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    2. My first love Muyiwa. I still think of him a lot. After 13 years. Was so young then and I am full of regrets too. He changed the course of my very existence.

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    3. Ewu! Ewu! Ewu!

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    4. I'm still with my 1st love, my only love, I can't stop loving him! I believe I'm happily ever after and I just love love!

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  2. Which one is first love?
    Abi na first boyfriend you mean?

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  3. So how come never married all this years before they finally met again,congrat to them

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    1. Ewu! If you ask me na who I go ask? Ewu! Ewu! Ewu!

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  4. Awwwwww....
    Que Sera Sera....
    What will be will be....

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    1. Ewu! It is whatever will be will be. Ewu! Ewu! Ewu!

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    2. Abi o....Btw, Tgw, Awayu? Been awhile

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  5. Hehehehe @my first love was Nnamdi and I don't wish to be with him.
    Same here too Stellz,mine was E....A and I am so happy I got married to my LJ. We still talk occassionally.

    Happy for the couple.

    There was another sweet story about a man and a woman that were forbidden to marry but their kids grew up and fell in love when they met in school.the D-day of the parents meeting was when they realised they were childhood sweethearts.their kids eventually got married

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    1. Ewu! Amebo for Africa. Better face your work. Ewu! Ewu! Ewub

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  6. Awwww! They even maintained d height difference.......choi! Oyibo luv can be sweeeeeet

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  7. This is really a tale of true love

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    1. Ewu! No na fake love. Ewu! Ewu! Ewu!

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  8. Eeyah! Some parents just find pleasure in delaying the destiny of 2 love birds....
    Some blessings can be a pain in the neck when its too late abeg. Oluwa shaanu

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    1. Ewu! Please speak only english on this blog biko. Ewu! Ewu! Ewu!

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  9. ***HEALING-RAIN***

    Anita Baker's sweet love in my mind right now.
    Sweet love indeed.

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    1. Ah ah ah ah ah caught up in d rapture of love *in anita baker's voice*

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    2. Pls,who do ladies refer to as first love? D very first bf(puppy love tins),D one dey lost dia V to,Or d one dey first have a serious rel with?...dey cld be different guys...pls educate me on dis

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    3. Ewu! Bitter love nko? Ewu! Ewu! Ewu!

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    4. Bitchplis, it's the very first bf. Most times, it's not puppy love.

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  10. Never really had a first love because I've been too scared to give my all to both my exes. I really wish I could experience real and complete love with a guy..... Oh well.... Great story, enough to get me to open up....shrugs.

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    1. Ewu! Do you have money? If you do, lets link up. You should also be ready to be shouting Ewu! Ewu! Ewu! 24/7. I'm sure I'm your man. Ewu! Ewu! Ewu!

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    2. U need medical attention Ewu love, your brain needs to be reset with hot slaps.

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    3. Thank u my dear lol.ewu ur head.

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  11. Stella Sugar, my 1st love is Nnamdi too. Choi, such coincidence

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    1. Ewu! Let me be your 2nd love. Ewu! Ewu! Ewu!

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    2. @ewu, attention seeker rubbish

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  12. Stellakork, is it the NNAMDI I know??Lol,just kidding...

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    1. Ewu! If you ask me na who I go ask? Ewu! Ewu! Ewu!

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  13. Oooh nde di..una own better ooo, let our own hubby locate us singles ladies. Amen.

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    1. Ewu! You are a single lady. I am a single man. Do you have a good job? Are you tall, fine and fair? Are you ready to be shouting Ewu! Ewu! Ewu! 24/7? If all your answers are yes, I'm your man. Ewu! Ewu! Ewu!

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  14. My 1st love or should I say 1st hate! Thank u Lord 4 delivering me from his hands o! It would hv bn hell on earth! Kai I chop beating 4 dat guy hand sha! Lol,

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    1. Lol @nkirukah, u no get hand to beat am back??? U fuck up aswear, hahahahahaha.

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  15. Love is so sweet, am a hopeless romantic. God bless ur union. When u meet THE ONE u jst know.

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  16. Hahahaha Stella. Nnamdi my brother was your love really?
    This story too sweet. Read till the end. Me and love stories tho

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  17. Hmmm! This story be as e get ooo! So is she going to start birthing at 50? Oyinbo pple sef! Wish dem all the luck they need! This story sounds like a fairy tale to me! The woman is lucky! If naa for naija! Make I hear say she nkechi go wait for emeka! After 2yrs she go try front! Naa she go use her hand dey tell pple say soldier go! Soldier come! Barracks still dey.... wish them the best tho.

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  18. Hmmm! This story be as e get ooo! So is she going to start birthing at 50? Oyinbo pple sef! Wish dem all the luck they need! This story sounds like a fairy tale to me! The woman is lucky! If naa for naija! Make I hear say she nkechi go wait for emeka! After 2yrs she go try front! Naa she go use her hand dey tell pple say soldier go! Soldier come! Barracks still dey.... wish them the best tho.

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  19. Beautiful love story. Lemme read on as Bvs regale us with fake tales of how they left their hubbies for their true love, or how they want nothing to do with their first love cos their hubby is the bestest (copy copy mentality).

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  20. My first love was a proper Benin boy, very fine sweet looking, aje butter boy so....i was 15yrs then, innocent, very pretty, a virgin with a very cute bulgy eyes...he was about 18yrs then...I was so smitten by him then n each time he came around to see me my heart was race so much. but suddenly, one cool october morning, sometime in 199*, ds bobo sent his elder sis to me with a sealed envelop, as I opened it, it was a letter telling me that he will be gone for a month, that he just got admission into UNIBEN then, I cried my eyes out, cos he didn't even come to see me b4 he left......lo n Behold, that was d last I saw or heard from him till today, Lol. funny childhood love. Love is sweet o, very very when u happen to be with da right person.

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  21. Even after 10 years of marriage and 4 kids, my daily wish is that I'm with my 1st true and only love...By d way I dated a good number of guys but none came or comes close even my husband..True love never withers or dies, it just gets better and stronger..I miss u S like crazyyyyyyyy.....If not in this life, in my next life u must wife me..remember our promises. ..#truelove#fate#passion#soulmate#life.....

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    1. Better oshi. Why didn't he marry you? He died in the war while serving d country? Cus that's the only excuse for this your nonsense.

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  22. So sweet! Today is my birtday say a prayer for me please bv.

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    1. May God Almighty grant all ur heart desires..many more yrs

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    2. Hbd dear,may the almighty bless and keep u and perfect all that concerns u....

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  23. Awwww,happy for them.am still friends with my first love sha,he is a wonderful guy but am in a happy relationship

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  24. Great love story.what will be will be.

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  25. I love my 1st love.chidi.buh I love my crush more I just pray everything would work out fine for us. UBA God must make you wife me soon I no need this longer throat abeg nice guy that wants to escape.chukwu ekwena.

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    1. @that nnewi chic, does the UBA guy live in London? And is he from Nise?

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  26. I think I'm weird.
    I don't think I have experienced the first love thing.
    Or even love itself.
    I don't understand.

    Awww for the high school sweethearts, though.

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    1. Me too. Maybe I'm stone cold Steve Austin. Even my ex hubby dat was my first n childhood sweet heart. Was with him for 10 yrs.... Rel n marriage. Sometimes sef I don't rem him. Marriage has ended 2 yrs nw n I don't rem being in love. God Pls help me Na. Let me experience this kinda of love.

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  27. Awwwwww true love will always prevail

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  28. Awwwwwww,first love hmmmmm,side eyes

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  29. My first love is a very popular movie person now. We were doing ajebo things then,love letter n stuff till we relocated. We didnt have sex just some few kisses n groping. So,imagine me seeing him at a wedding late last year,i heard someone mention my maiden name behind him. We hugged. Then to forestall rumors,we went somewhere with 2guys n discussed at length. The next day we met n one thing led to another and we made love. So sweet. Mr Tc,i am glad we met again.

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  30. Ewu love is back, funny enof i miss whoever it (lol) is.
    I dont miss my 1st true love mbok.

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  31. I'm marrying my first love's younger bro.. N I'm madly in love with my hubby to be....no regrets leaving the elder one jor....

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  32. My 2nd luv,,,( Abeg not first luv ) is uwafiokun Patrick... We usually call him larry back in d days in London as I bin dey work for bank in naija... He used to live in dagenham and worked for Macky. ( una grab) .. Na Benin boy wey bin go for university in ekpoma ..,... Abeg stella of d universe help me find am as d weere wey I do for d boy no get part two before I vamoose....... Story from d goddess dupe. Stella chai,, I cook jollof rice die for dis boy for London . Larry and siblings efosa, osas, nosa ,,itohan abeg make na contact stella if una still dey dis planet ,,,

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  33. My 2nd luv,,,( Abeg not first luv ) is uwafiokun Patrick... We usually call him larry back in d days in London as I bin dey work for bank in naija... He used to live in dagenham and worked for Macky. ( una grab) .. Na Benin boy wey bin go for university in ekpoma ..,... Abeg stella of d universe help me find am as d weere wey I do for d boy no get part two before I vamoose....... Story from d goddess dupe. Stella chai,, I cook jollof rice die for dis boy for London . Larry and siblings efosa, osas, nosa ,,itohan abeg make na contact stella if una still dey dis planet ,,,

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  34. My first love and most probably my only love, no one else can make me forget my name the way this guy does without him even trying. ...hmmmm, but I walked away from him cos I know, I would not have been happy. I loved him much more than he loved me, and no one can hurt you more than the one you love. ...Eni, thanks for spoiling me for other guys

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