Chronicles Of Blog Visitor Narratives.....

Wow,so its not only cows that are milked?

NARRATIVE NUMBER ONE
MARRIAGE WITH FIBROID AND LOW SPERM COUNT

Hello SDK,

I read your blog and appreciate it a lot

My marriage will be two years soon.few months into my marriage I was diagnosed of fibroid.i have never felt pain or any discomfort within me before my wedding.my hubby was not happy with this and so hew he became cold towards me.he went as far as telling me that if I don't have kids it will be problem.the doctors at the hospital refused to give me drugs as they said since it was not disturbing me there was no cause for alarm.

My hubby and I went native and in the process his sperm analysis was requested for.The result came out with low sperm count.with this,we had peace at home.we began treating it. The result finally came back positive after much treatment.fast forward to today,his sperm again came back abnormal.it has been fluctuating and the doctors have insisted for a surgery.

I am really scared.The native woman has insisted I shouldn't touch the fibroid and a doctor also said surgery is not a guarantee that it will work out.without the fibroid the doctors would have referred us for IVF because the sperms are abnormal.

he has been given fertility drugs but still it is not a guarantee because I have been told that after the surgery if his sperm doesn't improve then we will have to go for Ivf.

Please SDK,I am very confused bout everything and I need advice on what to do.before his last sperm analysis,he was already acting like i am the only problem.i just started with a lady that does massage and I believe it will work but my hubby wants the surgery. please what do I do?

Going in for an operation is something both couples and the doctors should agree on..If the docs say its not necessary and you dont really want to,then you shouldnt!...why is your husband putting pressure on you?He should face his low sperm count abeg!

I have gone under the knife for CS and i know the fear that grips one,it can even kill not knowing whether you will make it or not.

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NARRATIVE NUMBER TWO

A RELATIONSHIP THAT MILKS YOU HIGH AND DRY ALL 

IN THE NAME OF LOVE...

Hello Stella please can you post this on your blog. Thank you .

I have this cousin, we are really very close, she has this boy friend who is just using her and she cannot see it, they have being dating for 3years  now, and anything the guy tells her she does, she pays all his bills, no be small be bills I dey yarn o, big ones.

Last year she bought a land for the guy's mother worth 4million in Ajah area, she didn't tell me o, somebody very close to the useless boy friend told me, I asked her and she denied it, later she said it wasn't that expensive.

This is a girl that has not bought land for her own father, she takes care of her dad no doubt, but the dad is in a rented apartment, I cannot say all, but the recent one is the boy friend came and told her he just gained admission in Edinburgh to go for his masters and needs both accommodation, school fees, feeding and some other things which I cannot remember and will cost 7.5million, and  my cousin is planning to give him the money next week.

 I just cannot believe it, so the same guy that always tell me things about her called up on Monday, and gave me this latest gist and more, that the boy didn't gain any admission to any university, that he as already done introduction for another girl and he is planning to do the wedding from the N7.5m, and use the rest to start a business. Can you just imagine that Stella?

 I was so pained, I went to her house, told her she said i am jealous bla bla, like 30 mins after I arrived the boy friends mother came, she now told me to excuse  them she wants to speak to my cousin alone,I enter one room put ear for door they listen, Stella the mother is shameless, she told my sister that she want to start building in the land and everything will cost her N10million, and that she won't mind having the money before May ending, that she wants to finish the house by the year end, I don't know when I came out of the room and told the woman she was a thief,that if somebody is doing that to her own daughter if she would like that, that did she not follow her son for the introduction, me and my cousin almost fought, she asked me out of her house, the woman denied every thing I said Stella.

The guy that gives me all this info said he would try and get me some of the introduction picture so that I can show her, that the boy,s mother, father , In fact all his family were there and that my sister gives money and take care of, family of 419. 

The annoying part is that she doesn't see it, I plan on telling my uncle(her dad),since i am the only one that is aware of all these things, and she is addicted to your blog so I know she will read this and people's comment. Please BV's help me to advice her o, before she transfer the money, apart from the money self she in is for serious heart break, i am just so worried for her. When a woman starts taking care of a man, it doesn't always end well. What else can I do apart from telling my uncle?.

Thanks Stella

WOOOOOW.....is this what they call Jazz?

Make i sit down and read comments oh.