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THE SHOCKING BETRAYAL FROM FRIENDS



I will try as much as possible to summarize this whole thing.

I had a clique of friends in Lagos before cutting them off.....

we were very much close...so one fateful day while on the street with my friends I saw this lady and I collected her number though two of my friends said they wanted the lady too..

let's call them D and B 

They wanted her but I was the one who moved fast before them to collect her number...so D disturbed me all day for her number that he likes her and would love to date her, so I gave D the girl's number..


Long story short, they started dating and got married.. after a year of their wedding, they had a child but D isn't the biological father of the child but our other friend B and I was the only soul who knew about it...

how did I get to know about it?... D and I were then in the same line of work so we had a job in Abuja..


It was D's company that was running the job but he brought me in because it was my area of expertise..so after I was done with my part of job, I was to go back to Lagos because he still needed to continue with the job, he bought some yam(you know how cheap Abuja yam is compared to Lagos) and some documents, so he pleaded to drop it in his house for the wife...

So I got to D's house and I met B and D's wife in the sitting room in a very hot smooching..my eyes couldn't believe it, I dropped what I brought and when I was about leaving, B called my name I answered and he said ''are you not going to say anything'' I told him I have nothing to say .......

I started getting calls from D's wife that she wants to see me...so one fateful day I went to see B at home because he pleaded for us to see and I met D's wife and that was when I started asking questions on how this whole madness started and it dawned on me they had been together even before she got married to D...

 remembered I said it was myself, D and B that liked the girl but B didn't even show it that he wanted her, he just went behind us...As a good friend I told B to stop and I left even though they apologized but I told them it is not my business to tell anyone.

I have this inquisitive habit that I always feel something is off and i will want to know more about an issue, so I pretended I had left while I was at the window listening to there conversation that was when I heard the bombshell and discovered that D is not the biological father of the child the wife had rather it is B..

I went back inside and I confronted both of them.


Well I confronted both of them and till this moment I still don't know if it was the right thing to do or not because I guess that was when the whole issue started...

B is this narcissist and manipulative person, he knows how to sweet talk anyone into making them believe he was present when God created the world.


Then I started noticing a huge distance from every of my friends after 5 months that i confronted them..

One day we hung out and that was when D opened up...damn I had never ever been so humiliated in my entire life the way I was that day... I was accused of disturbing D's wife for s#x, that I have always wanted her, that the day I came to drop yam at his house, I tried to rape his wife...

I was shocked and I was looking at B but I couldn't say a word...


I was slapped, bathed with alcohol, water and pepper soup and I just couldn't say a single word...I asked D one question ''do you believe I can do this to you?''...I was perplexed when he brought out doctored proof of me disturbing his wife... apparently there was a screenshot of WhatsApp messages supposedly from me.... sending messages to the wife .....


They went as far as saving my name on a contact and sending those messages to D's wife like I was the one and even went as far as admitting I tried to rape her and I was apologising to her in the chats...



My whole world collapsed that day

l I couldn't say one single thing and me keeping mute made me guilty as anything, immediately I knew it was B behind the whole thing.... only one of my friend G who said he feels something was wrong and that for me not to be able to defend myself knowing fully well the kind of person I am, he tried to make them see reasons but none was having it...

The embarrassment was so much that people were just looking at me at the bar...they left me there and I couldn't stand up for hours until my brother came to pick me up..

He asked what happened but I did not say a word because I know how aggressive and hot tempered he is...the humiliation was so much that it got to my parents and D's parents..my parents asked me if i did it and I said no...They asked me what happened but I did not utter a word.


I was supposed to resume at the company where D works after I resigned from my place of work... interview had been done and the appointment letter was already given to me but all of a sudden they said they gave the job to another person, that moment I knew it was D behind it...


The humiliation was just too much and I almost exploded.. You know how difficult it is when you know the truth but you cant speak up.


G kept reaching out to me, he told me it was D who told his boss that I embezzled money in my former place of work that was why I was sacked that was the reason I did not get the job..

So many things happened that I can't even type because I faced humiliation every day with my family... 

One morning when I was about leaving Lagos to Ibadan for fresh air I knelt down and I told God...''I don't know how long it is going to take with everything I have gone through and the humiliation you must show yourself that you are God and vindicate me..''


I blocked everyone of my friends, my parents and no one knew where I was for 2 months.. the first day I called my mum after those 2 months she cried all through and I felt it...those 2 months was one of the toughest and darkest days of my life..


A strange number called me one day some years later and it was my friend G...

I was told D's sister caught D's wife and B together...B had been leaving in the UK where he relocated to with his wife and kids, he came back home this year and apparently they hadn't stopped their affair and that was how the whole saga blew open... The can of worms opened from D not being the father of his first child, to them knowing I was aware of it all but kept wuiet..

G asked me ''were you aware of it?''

My reply was GOD HAS VINDICATED ME!!!!!

5 years plus and it feels like yesterday...I thought God had forgotten the case but never knew he was preparing a table before me in the presence of my enemies...

God just works in a miraculous way... 

When my brother told me then that B moved to the UK..I was pained and I thought there was no way the secret would be exposed but never knew God was waiting for the perfect time

Up till this moment I still never told a soul about that secret.


This whole issue put me in a very dark place.. when I look back and remember the whole humiliation I and my family went through...I just want every one of them and their family go through it....


Every one of them has been trying to reach out but I kept blocked them all.

Forgiveness???? I can never give them that..

*This story really really got me so emotional and i pray that you heal and find closure...

You can still stay away from them but take their calls and let them know that you have forgiven them, pronounce the words and after that you can block them again.....Not forgiving them is not good cos you wont find closure..

May God heal you....