COMPLICATED ISSUE
Please Stella I want you to post this so that you and bvs can advise me.
Early this year my hubby was down with hbp and the drugs he was given was causing erectal dyfunction as in he can't raise up. So I was praying for him. I decided to join one prayer group to intensify prayers.
I met the singing leader, a very beautiful woman that if she sing here,heaven will open. She's rich too but humble and friendly. I became close to her because she was always encouraging me even though she doesn't know what was bothering me.
One day she invited me to her place and I went. We were gisting. She told me how her hubby was cheating up and down, he doesn't even have time for her. That she complained and he bought her a s#x toy that she should use and satisfy herself.
I now told her about my own problem,how I have not gbensh for almost a year. She now told me to follow her to her bedroom. We entered and she brought out the toy. This is my first time of seeing a s#x toy. She told me this is what she use to make her self happy. She brought out a bottle of wine and gave me a glass and she also took a glass.
This woman undress and started using the toy on herself and she was mourning and touching herself. I won't lie, I was turned on. And she offered to use it on me. She undressed me and I was just weak maybe the drink. I lay down and she started using the toy on me. I was mourning like a s#x starved person.i won't lie I enjoyed it. Before I knew it she started sucking my nipples and giving me head. I was in another world. I came several times.
This became a routine for the both of us. And I became addicted. I can't stay a day without seeing this woman.
One day my hubby told me that he feels he's ok now that we should do the do. I just lay like a log of wood praying for him to get it done because I wasn't feeling anything. He noticed and ask me if there's a problem, I just lie that I just wanted to be sure that he's fine.
Now the problem is I don't enjoy having s#x with my husband anymore and he's complaining and suspecting wether i am having an affair....
KAI..... The woman sings and heaven will open? God cannot be mocked, it is not heaven that opened.....Lesbians are now operating in Churches without fear......All that story she told you is cock and bull to get you to relax with her..
The problem with women like her is that they make your life a living hell if you want to break off...Now she has initiated you and man no dey sweet u again? You better tell you husband everything that happened between you and that woman and apologise...You know why? Cos she will tell him later when u try to break off....na wah
Lord forgive us o, so what should we advise you on 😒😒😒😒
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Cut off.
DeleteAgent of darkness operating in Holy places. Jeez
Madam, if truly you prayed for your hubby, ask God to deliver you, block this witch and cut off fast.
She's a recruiter
You are not fully a lesbian so it's very easy to stop it before it consumes you.
DeleteStella you suppose use WTF and that shocked EMOJI as your red pen...Chineke Nna!! Lord have mercy even me no know wetin to advise you....I think you are bisexual and hoping to experiment cos if she touch you even if you were tipsy, your eyes for clear to dash her some hot slaps and run away...Ayayayayaya!!
DeleteLesbianisim don start be that now. You had better pray and break from that bandage. She gave you drink, use sex toy on u. Same thing not washed. U started moaning like a goat,next thing suck nipple. Sister no advice for you.
DeleteStella, e shock you! And you forget WTF 🤣
DeleteOh God have mercy!
DeleteA spirit has entered you
🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 all of you up here are wucked 🤣🤣🤣 which one is ayayayayaya
DeleteOrishirishi 🤦♀️
DeleteLike my mum will say,
ReplyDeleteChurch is a hospital, different people with different sickness.
Poster what advice do you want to hear? To continue to shine your fellow woman plate or go back to rod? You are easily influenced. I stayed in a room with lesbians during my uni days,and was never tempted at all. Your only way is to go back to God with a sincere heart and ask for forgiveness. That lady never led you into it,you have always secretly fantasised about it.
DeleteSo sad 😢
ReplyDeleteSee church Mother's committing evils,sing heaven down in church, then go back home to consume alcohol, engage in dirty acts,and put the blame on the drink ,why will you tell another person about your husband's condition, you're very gullible, or you deliberately wanted to be with her, even if it was a man that came for you, you for still fall, better stop that dirty thing and stop attending the fellowship or just go be with her,tufia
DeleteHmmmmmm Madam confess to your husband and beg God for forgiveness my coins
DeleteYou are now bisexual.
ReplyDeleteDesist from it beforce you both get caught or divorce your husband and go lick 😋 your partner. Gosh!
Who says the devil isn't in the church? Be joking, who sang more than the devil.
Eleyi gidi gan
ReplyDeleteO gidi gan o.
DeleteO gidi gang ni ooooooo
DeleteHmmnn...this is what the Yorubas call "Nkan be"
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ReplyDeleteDouble hmmmmmmmmmmmm.
DeleteTriple hmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmm.
DeleteMehn this is the way addiction starts.
ReplyDelete14 days fasting and deliverance prayers on yourself and reversal of evil
DeleteDelete and block that demonic woman , cut off COMPLETELY ANY SINGLE CONTACT with her
No be only heaven dey heaven, pit of hell is opening wide for both of you. Repent oooo before she scatters your marriage except you want it scattered yourself.
ReplyDeleteLesbianism everywhere...I pity your husband sha
Things like these really happen in real life? I know I can be naive, but I never knew stuff like this happened the way the poster detailed. I thought these folks meet each other through their own groups, clubs and websites.
ReplyDeleteSo even though your husband was not alert below, you both gave up all forms of intimacy? You do not need penetration, as you discovered. Why do couples do this? Just because an erection is not happening doesn’t mean you forget each other, you simply learn new ways of intimacy. Now, you run gone in the complete opposite direction and it sweet you there.
Now, I am going to come right out and say you were always a bicurious person. I do not believe this woman led you into anything, you got what you always desired and now you discovered that you love it. Don’t go come forming innocent, you ain’t five years old. You are a fully grown woman who knows right from wrong and involved in the church. That woman did not turn you out. So either accept that you are a bisexual person and live with that, but don’t come trying to paint no picture of woe me. Mtsscchhwww
I equally believe she could have cheated on her husband if "the right person and right condition" presented itself.
DeleteBut she already cheated sleeping with another woman. Eeeeek. Poster, I will confess to my husband and break off but e go hard as you don taste wetin sweet you. Some married women and the search for long thing na wa.
DeleteAre you minding her? She is not as pure as she is painting herself to be.
DeleteIs the woman a doctor that you had to tell her about your husband's condition?
Advertising your husband's condition with no guilt. I wonder how he would feel knowing you have told your church friend who might have told another church member. Who doesn't know how news travels faster in some churches? Different kinds of people worship there including gossipers.
Just don't bring diseases to the innocent man and add to the one he is already facing because I don't understand this one you both are sharing vibrators and exchanging body fluids with no idea of her health status.
I wanted to say the woman took advantage of you but you were smart to let us know she asked for your permission before she used the vibrator on you and then I wanted to say you asked for it then you were smart enough to let us know you were under the influence of alcohol. Weh done Ma! Who are you trying to fool?
I pray your husband finds out and divorces you. The fact that you cheated and did it with a woman changes nothing.
The first time, we could try to excuse your actions and be understanding and say, it was a mistake but for someone who wants to make us feel she isn't into "that", it is hard to take you seriously and very strange that you kept going back.
Words on Marble.
Correct 💯 The going back to the extent that she is hooked is her crime gangan see the way she is excusing herself take full responsibility as an adult you re shying away like Adam, I hope the woman has not spread her husband's problem to the public when this kasala go burst poster your face you no go fit see am for mirror
DeleteYou said it all.
Deleteposter are you not afraid of God...? You went seeking solution for your husband in prayer and have entered into bondage.
ReplyDeletePlease abeg run away from that evil woman and report her to the leader of the prayer meeting! See the wickedness she has initiated you into? You will end up in hell if you continue that evil with her. Please seek deliverance from this immediately!
Indeed, God cannot be mocked! I agree with Stella that you should inform your husband immediately. The lady could even go as far as blackmailing you.
ReplyDeleteSex has led many into bondage.Paul said all things are lawful but i will never be brought under the power of anything;bible says they promised them freedom but gave them boundage ,you are in woman
ReplyDeleteA complicated situation is getting more complicated. You know, poster, you're not yet ready to stop seeing the woman. The question here is; will you choose this woman over your husband? She said she's doing it with her husband's consent while you're doing it hiding from your husband. Think.
ReplyDeleteDo you know you're not the first person this woman with a "heavenly voice" is doing this to? From pleasuring herself with the dildo, she ended up undressing you effortlessly after a bottle of wine. Haha.
Make up your mind and be resolute about it.
Good luck.
🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 heavenly voice that makes the wings of birds flap non-stop 🤣😂.
DeletePoster is long throat.
DeleteHmmmm!
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ReplyDeleteStella if na you , you go talk ?
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DeleteBlood Of Jesus 🙏🙏🙏
This is what happened when people don't have mind of their own. The woman run am street and the said woman might not even have husband. This was an easy initiation for the predator.
ReplyDeleteI hope she find strength to pull out of it and inform her husband
Yes, she doesn't have a mind of her own and she is long throat
DeletePoster pls run o. That's how they start luring you with gifts, cash, attention and love. You may end up losing your home.
ReplyDeleteMy advice all that she did on you and you enjoyed them why not try them out with your husband or you teach him so he can be perfect and you keep your home. If you don't stop you might end up being a pro amd start recruiting yours for your own satisfaction. Flee from her Biko
See you see bondage of lust of the flesh. I feel sad for you because the devil is an extremely wicked master. That’s why the Bible says “FLEE!!!” For this kind of issues. My dear fleeeee for your life, fleee for your soul. The devil is terribly wicked. And he ll deal with you if you don’t retrace your steps now. You will most likely end up in disgrace and so much hurt and regret.
ReplyDelete“ If your eye causes you to stumble and sin, pluck it out and throw it away from you [that is, remove yourself from the source of temptation]; it is better for you to enter life with only one eye, than to have two eyes and be thrown into the fiery hell”
A word is enough for the wise.
She really needs to pray and ask God to help her hate the evil practices. It's only God that can help her out of this
DeleteLol..
ReplyDeleteWhen I was still a man, e no get babe wey I fear reach church girls..
In my first uni, there was this one that was nacking my gee, na so she go begin cry after sex say she don commit sin, come tell my gee to rub anointing oil all over her body while crying and praying😂😂
Abi was it the one that visited 'my friend' one Sunday from church, before you know it, e Don sup, she come lock up dey vex say my friend tempt am to commit sin, after awhile, na so she say make them go room to go pray for forgiveness, as them enter room she say make Baba go on him kneel and repeat after am, as Baba dey repeat the prayers, she don carry kpekus put for Baba head, the way that new bride take put her head for that that gospel musician deek on her wedding, before you say Jack!, Second round Don sup..
Church babes are the oga kpatapata of them all
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Dantress
You fit break pesin ribs wit lafta
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Dante true true you don become trans woman, so wetin be your pronouns...Oriegwu!! Purrr!!!😂😂😂
Delete🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 this one don scatter the committee meeting table finish 😂😂😂😂
DeleteI heard a similar story. The husband eventually found out. Your husband will find out. But know that you are an adultress.
ReplyDeleteI was discussing this the other day. I'm becoming more convinced that there is a bit of a lesbian in every woman. That part of her is just waiting for the opportunity to display itself. Too many instances of what OP did abound. Too many instances I tell you.
ReplyDelete11 years back when I was still a wildling, I thought I was two timing two friends. I got the shock of my life when I came home unannounced one day and caught them making out right there on my bed. What pained me was that these girls simply ignored me and carried on as if I wasn't in the room. I thought I was two timing them. Ashe na me dey two time myself.
Over time, I got to know more of that circle, I was shocked the number of lesbians around. Some even married and others in serious relationships. But them dey do woman dey even fight on top woman. Fresh babes o! And their jealousy is not here. You wan try?
I'm not shocked anymore. They are everywhere.They are the rule and not the exception. But it is not any of my business. To each his own. I don't condemn nor do I care. Whatever makes anyone happy.
😂😂😂😂 Sorry for laughing especially when they carried on even when there has a caught 😂😂😂
DeleteIt happened to one of my cousins he said they are besties o he was on his way home to meet his babe only to see them naked and doing the do he said his mouth was on the floor that what the bestie said is that they re exploring since the girlfriend is horny he said he pursued dem commit for lodge that day and called them umu ekwensu,things dey happen
Delete@sdk, on the contrary. The Bible says at the mention of the name of Jesus every knee bows and every tongue confess that Jesus is Lord.
ReplyDeleteMatthew 7 in one of the verses says many will come and say to me we did this in Your name and the Lord will say i knew you not.
So It's not about the lady who is pretending to be what she is not it's about the souls God wants to reach.
And as per the the poster, i hope you know there is a spirit behind lesbianism and it is vicious, it is a destructive spirit. Your conscience is still alive that's why you wrote this. Leave that group and go confess to someone who can stand with you in prayer so you can be delivered. May God help you and show you great mercy.
@ Lady T , best comment ever! Thank you!
DeleteI think the first deliverance is to tell her husband, don't meet with the woman again and pray to God for forgiveness and peace of mind.
DeleteAnd you have time to pray??? I am not judging you ooo.
ReplyDeleteRepent for the kingdom of God is at hand.we will all give account on the last day.
ReplyDeleteSodom and Gomorrah was destroyed in the bible for reasons like this.
Hmmmmmmmm
ReplyDeleteMake sure you have an understanding husband o. Seek counsel before you tell your husband. Nijia men are wired differently o. Pray to God for mercy and once you know deep now within your heart that you have let go for real, then come out clean to him. Don't expect him to forgive just like that o. Give him enough time to heal. Go check yourself for STD o.you should not have allowed him mount you until all medical test and prayers are done. Innocent man don dey entangled. But it all, it is well.
ReplyDeleteSpeechless 😲😲😶
ReplyDeleteNo be lie, judgement will start from God's house 🥺
ReplyDeleteDon't bother telling your husband cause I will bruise his ego badly knowing his inability pushed you to a fellow woman and not even a man.
ReplyDeleteBe intentional about breaking up with that woman if you still want to save your marriage.
I don’t see the point in telling him either. The man was down for six months or less and within that time she replaced him. What are these vows ppl are taking about? His issue was due to illness and she couldn’t pass such a basic test. You haven’t said the man was a bad husband so he didn’t deserve being cheated on because he was treating his illness.
DeleteI am nobody’s judge nor jury, but this was too easy a test to fail and fall into such a trap. Plus, in these times having relations in a stranger’s space is risky because everyone has a camera on their phone and you do not know if this woman has secret camera in her space, especially since she is rich. I am not even going to touch on you introducing another woman’s flora into your lives. Would you love your husband kissing you with the lips he went down on another woman with? Yet you have brought that home to him and let’s hope this woman does not have hpv.
I don’t know what you have gotten yourself into but for the sake of your marriage and the vows you took before God and man end it. She has nothing to lose, if her story is true, she and her husband lives completely separate lives and they have their understanding, but you have a husband who is committed to you and you have everything to lose if you continue down this path. Adultery is wrong!
Hmmmmm. Going from one prayer house to another. Hope you have seen what you are looking for.
ReplyDeleteWhy hiding some parts of the story
Poster you know the problem with this relationship it will end hard for you to break off if care it's not taken,lesbians are jealous and the worst she will do is to do you dirty that you will be ashamed of yourself for your husband to know talk more of when she start blackmailing you,you re already hooked that your husband don't move you any more,just pray it will not cast like this naija fashion designer with one yellow lady in ph , your marriage is at stake of say na man and if you re caught e no go too loud but Le Le things hnhnh I pity you in advance, the way your painting the picture sef as if you re two yrs old that doesn't know anything take full responsibility of your action and cut her off face your husband and get it on again , had it been that you re using ex toys for yourself in peace it would ve been better as per konji things but lesbian relationship now you re bi na wa
ReplyDeleteMadam, d demonic spirit has possessed you. I hope you see it for what it is and try to deliver yourself because the end thereof is destruction.
ReplyDeleteThe sad part is, you both are in church and commmiting such abomination. So , you have become lukewarm and it will take the grace of God to restore you back. (You have to be willing and go for deliverance).
Thus will definitely end badly if you continue and the dev will ensure to mess you up because he takes more than he gives you in 100 fold and won't stop until you are completely destroyed.
The choice is yours.
I had the same issue with amlodipine I use to control my hbp, immediately I noticed my sex drive is low I went back to the hospital and my medication was changed, that solved it completely. Every little thing people will run to church to pray over something that requires practical solutions. No wonder they have uses religion to turn you all to dummys. Nonsense.
ReplyDeleteAs in ehh what is even the correlation between medical problem with church grown adults acting and behaving as if they re under manipulation but you have brain,when what you wanted it's not giving you you what you re seeing no be run you suppose run instead long throat for sex turn her to lesbian and she is excusing her self
DeleteGod have mercy on us. That is why I don't go too deep with people as per forming close friends even pastors because this days even the anointed is deceived na only God knows who is truly for Him. I will advise poster to first confess her sins to God, talk to your husband and go for deliverance full time because that woman has pulled you into her coven na only God fit save you now. How would you jeopardise your home for demons to come play it is well Amen
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ReplyDeletePoster when this kasala go burst I hope you get shock absorber extra face to face the music you told her about your husband predicament,you became her lesbian partner hnhnhn just pray she don't cast you ,blackmail and open your yanch in the public lesbian are extreme jealous
ReplyDeleteI believed her, a lot of things had been going on the church. Choose your friend careful.
ReplyDeleteHaaàa at this point, the Lord's prayer is needed..... (Deliver us from all evil)
ReplyDeleteOmo, my mouth was hanging loose the whole time. It's a very strong hold to get out of. I wish you hadn't started it. Na deliverance you need
ReplyDeleteOh God, this is serious
ReplyDeleteYou don become a lesbian be that oooooh, try to detach from her before it's too late for you
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