STAND ALONE NARRATIVE
ANGRY; JEALOUS HUSBAND NEEDS ADVICE
Good day Stella. Please help me post.
I've been married for about 5yrs and I'd admit that the spark in the marriage is gone.
We just basically live like co-tenants. We started drifting apart after she accused me of having an emotional affair with a lady and possibly cheating about a year ago.
I'm not here to affirm or deny those accusations. That's not the point of this chronicle.
My wife recently got posted to the HQ of her organisation in the heart of town. She was initially in one of the branches on the outskirts of town. Now I've noticed my wife is always overdressing to work. She basically replaced all her old clothes and shoes before she resumed in the HQ like she was planning something when she gets there.
She's now fixing nails and wearing heels. Even wearing makeup. And normally she's a very beautiful woman. Even Stevie Wonder can attest to it. She wasn't doing this when she was in the branch office. She said I couldn't possibly be expecting her to dress like a slay queen and sit in public transport for 2 hours out of town only to reach there looking sweaty and worn-out. I don't buy it.
I feel she's seeing someone or trying to get someone's attention. I've asked her for her phone at impromptu times and she has given me without shaking. She even left it with me overnight and went to sleep one time. None of her devices is passworded. I don't even know what to think. I know the marriage is now bland, but still no man wants to be cheated on no matter how bad the marriage is.
Should I get a private investigator? Should I storm her office and ask questions? How do I handle this?
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WAHALA!!!
Oga if you go near her office eh, thunder will faya you there!!!!
So you cheated on her but the thought of her cheating on you is killing you and you wanna destroy her destiny with jealousy? please dont try it.....Leave her in peace and stop trying to make amountain out of molehill
In fact you know? Since you said the marriage is already dead, please hire a private eye, whatever he finds out will not make any difference...Some of these men eh, once you are fed with your own tablets, you begin to convulse....ah ah!!!!
"I am not here to affirm or deny those accusations". Really. 🤣🤣🤣🤣. She gives you her phone, dresses really good to work, and now you think she is seeing someone else. So e dey pain you ba. Abeg let me laugh jare 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
ReplyDeleteCandy crush let me perch here and laf my own 🤣🤣🤣🤣
DeletePoster isi gini 🙄
Allow your wife display her new clothes in peace biko 🙄
Don't mind him, oniyeye somebody 🤭
DeleteShe's always overdressing, fixing nails & wearing heels and makeup 💄
Hian! Abeg if women no do all these shakara, wetin she come life come do? 🤣🤣
Adunni
People in the head office dress way more than branch offices, she won't fit in dressing the way she did before. There's every sign that you married a good woman but you are a dangerous man. I hope that she divorces you and runs far away before you harm her or her career. You NEED HELP!!!
DeleteDon't give yourself HBP o! Your wife just upgraded her looks to match her new location. Okay ,you want her to look unkempt so nobody will snack her from you abi? Leave that woman alone please.
ReplyDeleteLadies, this is exactly how to wake a comatose marriage. Take note and learn from this woman. She stepped up, focused on herself, increased her value and now he needs her back. Watch him woo her again. Watch him get attentive and romantic again with her. Watch him go to her office well dressed and take her to lunch thereby marking his territory so her colleagues would take note. Watch him call her at intervals and have those tingling small talks about nothing. Watch him buy her gifts and flowers as she deserves, sending her cakes and flowers in her office. Because, if he does not, someone else surely will. He is wise. He is back in love with her and he isn’t going to harass her at all, which is why he wrote this chronicle. He is just asking for tips to win her back. I love to imagine this lady in heels, hair, makeup, chic clothes and smelling nice in her beautiful office.
DeleteOga, please my comment is not for you.
You are nit here to affirm or deny her accusations ke? You do am abi you no do am?
ReplyDeleteBetter calm down, she's working in the headquarters in the heart of town so it's only normal she dresses the part.
She must have seen how ladies there dress up &decided to upgrade. And this one is here ranting. Guilty conscience is worrying him 🤣 Poster you'll be fine ehn
DeleteAdunni.
Why is it hard for you to say whether you cheated or not?
ReplyDeleteYou said the marriage is bland and in cases like this, most times, the women in such union tend to switch things up by behaving like you wife in order to get their husband's attention again, it doesn't mean that they are cheating.
Have you thought of working things out with her so your marriage can be sweet as before? Please pack that energy of getting an investigator into renewing things with your wife.
So because she bought new clothes, all you could think of was that she did it to get attention from men. Imagine that?? This got me laughing. Which kind ' yee yee mentality is that??
ReplyDeleteDoes it means that you don't like her looking good?? Why are you jealous and suspicious when she doesn't hide anything from you? Change is constant Oga.
Are you Odogwu or Odi -egwu??
C'mon change that mindset, women dress to look good not because of men, but because looking good is good.
Odogwu or Odi -egwu?? off me, looooolz!!!
DeleteShe does not hide anything!
DeleteBecause she gives him the phone?
Rather, he should not be jealous because there is no evidence for it.
Odiegwu obviously
DeleteGuy is crazy, instead of you to work on your marriage and try to salvage what is left of it, you want to allow the devil use you.
Change o
Poster why don’t you want to deny or accept the accusation? 😂😂😂😂😂
ReplyDeleteHe’s guilty na. Back to the matter. It’s probably harmless. There’s this hospital I regularly do extra work at, all the ladies there are peng and in heels. Whenever I’m going there, I dress accordingly and also wear my best wig plus makeup. Meanwhile, when I’m back at my regular hospital, hahahaha, I’m back to scrubs and looking homeless
DeleteOga you cheat or you no cheat? No gender has the monopoly of cheating(cheating, is not gender based). Even if she's cheating as a way of pay back, what will you do? End of marriage? Hahaha. Make you sef taste the meds you served her.
ReplyDeleteLong hiss
Oshi werey. So, you expected her to be wallowing in self pity because of you? As per, kini? I honestly wish she's seeing someone so that you'll feel same way she felt when your third leg couldn't be controlled. Yeye dey smell
DeleteThe way you guys celebrate revenge cheating!
DeleteIt appears to confirm that cheating is the Number 1 or only gift women reciprocate .
Women do not give back on good.
Would you expose yourself to the related matters (STIs, spiritual exposures, etc.) you guys always scare cheaters with just to spite your partner?
Oga, go and sit down. She accused you of cheating, did you cheat? YES!! If you didn't, you would have said it in your first line.
ReplyDeleteShe has upgraded and now you are feeling uncomfortable.
No man wants to be cheated on, only women...lmao.
She is giving you the medicine that will cure you,.
Oga, you are supposed to be happy that your wife is looking sophisticated and dressing gorgeously than before, don't destroy the already bland marriage by monitoring her up and down.
ReplyDeleteBut if you still feel to investigate her, no problem, but make sure you get your facts straight before accusing her to her face.
Then lastly if you cheated on her or you're cheating on her, you have no right to be jealous, because you should be ready to take what you dished or dishing out.
I know you cheated, you won't take half of what y'all dish out.🤣🤣
ReplyDeleteAnyways, my advise for you is to go back to where you both started from and fix it. I don't advise divorce, and that's on period!
This is because I have seen first hand harm it causes.
Alaye, don't hire any yeye investigator o... Go home to your wife and go gold. Retrace to where you both first said, "I do till death do us part".
Pls leave her alone and geddifok out of her life before you destroy it . Omoale
ReplyDeleteThis! 😂😂😂😂
DeleteSee how are feeling with just the thought that your wife might be cheating, now imagine how she felt when you were cheating on her and she knew. Oga go and sit down one her place, leave alone to shine!
ReplyDeleteStella OOOOOOO. Your tensioning come harsh pass the wife own.
ReplyDeleteOga, No let HBP wund you over woman matter.
Na only woman get right to go disturb her husband for office over cheating allegations O.
Man no get that kind right or privilege O.
Dem fit even deal with you there with Olopa.
And worse be say man wey done dey eye your Madam naim go call and pay the Olopa fuel money.
Hehehehehe
If you want, repair your marriage for happy marriage sake not becos to prevent your wife from cheating. D only probs now be say e go be harder for you as your wife sef know say she don put you under tension.
Seriously now
Do you expect a woman to dress shabbily or lesser than her colleagues at the HQ?
Dressing is apart of good work ethics and positioning for visibility and promotion.
Even a cleaner earning N50k was recently asked by her employers to do her hair. What they did not ask her is where the money for that would come from.
Work on your marriage or accept it as is. At the very least, you both have peace even if it is unhappy peace. Some men do not have peace of any kind at home even from their ultra faithful wives.
Dear Poster,
ReplyDeleteIt's time to grow up. If I were in your wife's shoes, I would probably do the same; refresh my wardrobe and start dressing smartly because I have my own life to live......
What is concerning is that you’re not taking a moment to reflect on whether her concerns or allegations might be valid.......You haven’t asked how to reignite the spark in your marriage or how to reconnect emotionally...... Instead, your focus is solely on whether she’s cheating.
This attitude comes across as callous and jealous....... Her decision to improve her appearance isn’t the issue; it’s your desire to see her unhappy and withdrawn, likely hoping that your behavior will make her desperate for your attention......
I admire that she’s taking control of her life....I sincerely hope she fully realizes the kind of partner she’s with and what that means for her happiness moving forward.....
You need to do better and grow up....
P.S Instead of thinking about private investigators or storming her office, ask yourself: what led to this emotional distance? You mentioned serious accusations from her in the past, yet you’ve made it clear you're not here to address whether they were true.... You skipped over the opportunity to take accountability, rebuild trust, or even ask how to revive the spark in your marriage.
ReplyDeleteYour focus on her looks and clothing changes as a threat reveals more about your insecurities than her intentions..... She might simply be stepping into a new role with confidence; something that should be celebrated, not questioned....
If there’s any hope for this marriage, it starts with honest self-reflection, open communication, and empathy....Your poor strategy to your outrageous assumptions is suspicion and control....Very low bottom of you....
#SMH
😂😂😂😂
ReplyDeleteWow..
ReplyDeleteSo looking good affects men like this..lol
This is exactly how to handle a cheating man..HBP will do the rest for you..
Oga talk to Ur wife, apologize genuinely and be a better husband all the gragra will not work..
Not men.
DeleteIt is affecting this man because of what had happened and is happening in his home.
There are men who want their wives' dressed looks to turn the heads of other men and women always.
A well dressed woman is always the pride of her husband. People praise him for taking good care of her even if she pays for it herself.
Oga , respect yourself. Instead of you to find a way to revive your marriage with beautiful romantic moves, you intend to destroy what is left of it.
ReplyDeleteGive her attention. Text her and woo her over again. Compliment her look always.
Rebuild instead of tearing down. You will gain nothing from jealousy.
Good luck.
Hahaha I love madam already 🤣🤣🤣 ma fi Sia pawon, she don use sia finish you.
ReplyDeleteShebi you said you are not ready to defend your cheating allegations 🙄 you never see anything
Lol@mafi sia pawon🤣
DeleteYou obviously don't want her progress. It's your time that will rather she has a kiosk supermarket in front of the house, where she has little or no time for herself or her look, become older than her age, and her IQ reduced to her environment.
ReplyDeleteProbably start tying wrapper on her chest from morning to night.And running up and down to go sell kerosene, chinchin, etc and juggling it with house chores, picking children from school and cooking (because you wouldn't want a house help in your house too)
But you got disappointed when she's still working, and not just that, she's now making progress with her job.
Your type also frustrates her in the house, make her feel unloved, unwanted and a nobody. Won't even be surprised if you body shame her or withhold adorning her with good words.
Your type won't support her and won't let her leave either.
Just want her to become a prisoner of you., and be at your mercy.
You know the truth so stop dis flimsy excuse. If you ain't ready to swallow your pride and restore your marriage, and treat your wife right, abeg free her make better person see her.
Thank you HF, you have said it all. I pity his wife.
DeleteStella that your Eslap can I borrow it
ReplyDeletePoster you deserve to be slapped by 75 year old woman who saw hell in marriage yet survived and thrived in life
Make Bp locate you there
😂😂🤣
DeleteThis must be the funniest chron I've read in a while 🤣🤣
ReplyDeleteOga see you see hbp
My advice : watch war room if you haven't. Fast and praaaaaay for your Mrs .. All will be well !
This must be the funniest chron I've read in a while 🤣🤣
Oga see you see hbp
My advice : watch war room if you haven't. Fast and praaaaaay for your Mrs .. All will be well !
From ur tone of post, I can already tell u are the kind of man that deserves to be cheated on!!!
ReplyDeleteYour wife has found peace with herself! Go and continue seeking urs in the bossom of ur sidechicks!
Very yeye man
DeleteYou support revenge paternity fraud.
DeleteYou support revenge cheating.
After you will return tomorrow to say...
The day you were accused (ostensibly without supporting facts), you only issued a silent threat; maybe you went to pray against that accuser.
You women should know that nothing justifies revenge cheating.
The day that Doctor woman who was the main sustainer of her husband asked for advice about her husband whose sisters misled to marry another wife, you all without exception advised her to leave the marriage. And she came back with an update that she left the marriage.
Where a woman does not add that she is the financier of her marriage, you guys do well to throw in the cheat back advice or when she confesses to cheating, you guys find a way to justify it for her.
The day a man complained here bitterly about his wife and the temptation to cheat, you guys all were up against it.
No woman should be cheated on.
No man deserves to be cheated on.
Under any condition.
Who ever is tired of a marriage should follow the due processes under the type of marriage contracted to terminate the marriage.
We hide too much tongue in cheek and behind one finger to tell our minds and disclose who we are yet we pontificate as me is am doing.
We say Cheating by a husband exposes him and his family to STIs, demonic infiltrations, this, that, those, etc.
But revenge cheating by a wife has immunity from all the disadvantages of cheating. It is hailed here nearly always.
#Yinmu
She is probably rebuilding some of the the confidence your action(s) chipped off her.
ReplyDeleteHbp will soon kpai you .Am happy if women can be giving you people a dose of your uselessness .Carry gun go the office not investigator ok .
ReplyDeleteThe issue here is you are not ready to rescue your marriage, you expect her to dim her light forever because the marriage seems not to be working.
ReplyDeleteYou both should visit a professional, take her out, revive your marriage if it still matters to you, not all women will start looking displaced when things are not working back home.
The money you will pay private eye will pay for a weeked getaway eith her or a night out, spice up your marriage, apologise when necessary, na husband you be no be God
Felicity
Oga your wife just want you to feel this way, she's not cheating, how can she be cheating and you have her phone over night and nothing was found?
ReplyDeleteWicked man! Heartless man! You better pray and fast. While at it, watch war room and drink 25litres of “oyel.” Enemy of progress! Blood sucker! See you see wizard! Hater of progress! Selfish man! I wish I knew your wife. Wicked man! Household demon!
ReplyDeleteAnon be calming down naa, wetin happen 🤣
DeleteYou wish you knew his wife.
DeleteYou would have paired with her to cheat or pair her with your male relative to cheat?
It is puzzling why men, who detest infidelity, frequently engage in the same behavior towards their female partners.
ReplyDeleteDoes this stem from their ego or another factor?
When a marriage becomes dull and the couple starts living together more like roommates, the priority should be rekindling the relationship and fortifying the marriage instead of closely monitoring her movements, which could potentially lead to health problems. If you continue like this, God help you, you don't suffer a heart attack.
It is understandable to feel concerned when your partner starts making efforts to dress nicely and you're unsure of the reason. While this could be a sign of infidelity, it's also possible that she's simply trying to look her best for other reasons or simply to improve her personal style. If your wife is dressing more these days, try to approach the situation with understanding and open communication. Focus on appreciating her newfound confidence and style, rather than criticizing it. Consider if she's trying to express herself, gain more attention, or perhaps just trying new things.
Men are just babies in big bodies jor.
Mind una no get.
Small wardrobe changes, you don dey run from pillar to post, your heart don dey beat, you nor fit breathe.
Ka bar ka yi hida kafin ka mutu
Again, the generalisation. Just like men who say women have fish brains forgetting that they have mothers and sisters.
Delete"I'm not here to affirm or deny those accusations. That's not the point of this chronicle."🧐👀
ReplyDeleteWhen you are ready to addressed this part ☝️..let us know because only then will we advice you.💅💅💅
Enemy of progress, I can smell jealousy🤣🤣😂😂
ReplyDeleteoga you cheat abi you no cheat?
No need to even ask you, you cheated on your so beautiful wife abi?
That HBP wey you dey look for go locate you this year
Oniyeye 😂😂😂
ReplyDeleteHe's an Oniyeye somebody 🤣🤣
DeleteAdunni
How I wish she works in a company like where I work ehh, the day you storm her office, you'd almost commit suicide because of the way men and women in the office will insult your miserable head
ReplyDeleteHow do women still remain in a loveless marriage? So you know she's beautiful but you still cheated abi? I know if you had the power you'd get her sacked
Oga abeg go siddon for one place.
ReplyDeleteYou see men you can't even take 1/3 of what you dished out. is okay continue with your rubbish
ReplyDelete"We started drifting apart after she accused me of having an emotional affair with a lady and possibly cheating about a year ago.
ReplyDeleteI'm not here to affirm or deny those accusations."
Now I ask....You cheat abi you no cheat?
You think you are wise?
oga you don't have to worry your self. you already said she gave you her phone to hold till dawn and she didn't password her phone. that's enough reason to know she's not cheating. her over dressing is due to standard of her new work place.
ReplyDeleteany woman that password or hides her phone for her husband is evidence to know the person is cheating. please don't give your self heart attack.
All the best
"any woman that password or hides her phone for her husband is evidence to know the person is cheating. please don't give your self heart attack."
DeleteThat is not true always. It may hint at cheating. BUT It may also hint at financial non-disclosure, unwillingness to share her family issues discussed via family social media platforms e.g whatsapp, and other matters with husband. If she uses the phone for work, it may mean strict compliance with binding official privacy and confidentiality obligations.
Stop echoing the female Bvs here. That is why they are alleging you are a female.
Cheating is an act of wickedness. A wicked heart can plan any scheme to evade detection. What if the cheating partners agree to no calls or messaging at all. What if the plan only lunch time cheating. What will you find in their phones.
Some comments here just evoke only laughter.
If she was cheating, she would have passworded all her phones and be secretive with her gadgets. Rest don’t make a mountain out of a molehill. If your wife is looking good appreciate her looks instead of giving yourself HBP
ReplyDelete🤣🤣🤣Dear wife, if you are reading this, please keep pressing the gear. Increase the speed every morning. If possible, send your akant number to Stella, I will gladly contribute towards the pressing.
ReplyDeleteI join you on this comment🤣🤣🤣
DeleteSincerely that Lady loves you and trying to get your attention back, but if you do not give her the attention she needs you might lose her. It's obvious people will ask her our whether she is married or not.
ReplyDeleteOga pls relax so you don't get yourself worked up.you have gone through her phone,what else do you want? You are accommodating Satan in your home and that's very dangerous.
ReplyDeleteOftentimes,he brings these evil thoughts to us, inorder to mess up our thoughts and ruin our lives.Forgive your wife if you feel she has cheated on you.its important we live in love and learn to forgive so when we pray our prayers will not be hindered.
Before you keep that grudge, have that conversation.
I can only 😀😀😀
ReplyDeleteCheating feels like it’s wired into human nature, but some disciplined minds would rather erase the entire file - wipe it clean, even from the recycle bin - than install it without activating it. But in your case, your suspicion is louder than your introspection, and that’s the real issue here - whether or not you admitted to having cheated.
ReplyDeleteWhether that's the case or not, the thought of someone else dangling the same carrot before your wife is messing up your mind big time. You seem vulnerable, even to your own vulnerability. And in this instance, it's an absurd masculine insecurity which most men in this space go through. Meanwhile, you're barking up the wrong tree while the house behind you is quietly burning.
A woman who hands over her phone without a blink, sleeps peacefully beside you, and keeps her digital doors wide open isn’t hiding - she’s healing. Meanwhile, you’re still stuck in the courtroom of your own guilt and denial, refusing to admit whether you crossed the line first. That omission speaks volumes - louder than any accusation. Her new light might not be for another man at all; it could be the dawn of her rediscovered self-worth.
Try to see things from her perspective, instead of playing into her hands like a baby whose toy was taken from him. Why dress to the nines and endure hours of traffic just to get to a workplace far away? When an officially knit casual would suffice. The head office is the centre of attention. The stage where anyone who knows their worth would bring their A-game along. Not just in value, but in substance and demure. Don’t storm her professional world; respect the boundaries of her social identity. Otherwise, you risk looking like an insecure billboard for tiny sideshows in a place built for professionals with a sound mind.
Hiring a private investigator won’t help, even for an insecure mind like yours; it’s cowardice, pridefully masquerading as concern. If the marriage is bland, paranoia won't fix it - presence will. Instead of chasing shadows, why not sit with her, own your mistakes, and ask, “How do we get back what we lost?” If you can’t handle her growth, then admit you’ve stopped growing, too.
You don’t fix a flickering bulb by smashing it. You switch on humility and grow into the man she married. Not this panicked, insecure boy clinging to memories like a child deprived of comfort. Be the respectable partner she deserves, not the trembling echo of your fears. Like a baby whose mother's breast was removed from his mouth.
Slim Shaddy
ReplyDeleteOga, let me reveal something to you about cooperate organizations.
ReplyDeleteNow here it is : Her change of dressing happened as a result of the new place she's posted to. Everything in a cooperate organization is all about competition but a healthy competition especially when the office is in the heart of the town. You can go and see for yourself and compare how the staff in her new office dress to work as compared to how the ones in the outskirt dresses. Those in the outskirt may dress down because of the caliber of customers that patronize them but when in the city, you have to upgrade so customers won't see you as a lowlife. People (both customers and colleagues tend to underate you when you are not matching up to the standard of dressing in the organization where you are working. The manager in the branch she's posted to may have an impact in the way the staff in her branch appear to work. I remember during my days at the office, our boss made it compulsory for all of us to be on hilly shoes, make-up and your hair must be nearly done. You are never to be caught unfresh else you'd be send back home to go do the needful , so , we mastered the pattern and any new staff that comes needs not to be told what to do, they'll just adjust immediately without being told how they should appear. As a new staff, common sense will even tell you to go and upgrade your wardrobe because you'd be looking like say na your world bad pass if you don't adjust to our standard of dressing.
I remember a married friend who used to be nonchalant in her choice of outfit to work, when you tell her she'll just ignore but when she was posted to her new office, she found out that married women there do package themselves very well, make good hair and all that and they are very competitive there, she said it was as if her husband couldn't afford to take good care of her whereas the fault is not from her husband, she chose not do care much about her looks. She said if she continued like that her colleague may use it to insult her one day that she didn't marry a man that is well to do, so to avoid see finish and any form of disrespect, she went to buy correct wigs, shoes etc. This is someone that her most expensive wig was just 30thousand naira, but because of that she went to buy wigs of 80 to 150k . People in the work place are not smiling, any small thing they'll gage you from head to toe and use it to insult your family so even if you are the poorest, just endeavor to look rich , so that nobody will have any reason to insult you tomorrow. Go and see for yourself how her colleagues dress to work in the new branch you will understand why she changed.
Well said. The woman has told even if a lie. That is just the fact. What assurance does he have the woman was not cheating at her former office. Her then so called dowdy clothes?
DeleteDont dirty, sometimes smelly home services providing women chop tje lae householders or vice versa?
Poster please make sure you resolve issues with your wife, rekindle the love before she will attract better men that will take good care of her than you do . But for now i can assure you that she's not cheating and cheating is not in her agenda but in a world of uncertainties, she might attract better men who would sweep her off her feet.
DeleteYou don finish the work 👌🏻😁
ReplyDelete@ Ebony among the few I will always doff my hat for, here.
ReplyDeleteWe will meet someday.
21.48, you doff your hat for chatgpt? No be she dey write all those things oh, you can tell by the style of texts and use of hyphens na. Nothing dey her head at all, na chat dey do am. Not that it's a crime though, she just needs to credit her source.
DeleteIf this is not a joke, get busy, Mr man, I think you have too much time on your hands to be thinking about rubbish, with your nonsense ego.
ReplyDeleteDear Poster,
ReplyDeleteI am a man like you and brotherhoods are highly disappointed in you. After you cheated on your beautiful wife you want to storm her place of work to embarrass yourself. Instead of getting a private investigator don't you think FBI will be better off.
Gaskia! You are a disgrace also an educated illiterate.
Simply because he said he does not want to answer his wife's accusation here? No.
DeleteFor wanting his wife to dress shabbily to the HQ, and the planned visit to her office? Your disappointment may have bases.
You sound wicked to me sir. You are about to let your ego and baseless pride get in the way of working out your marriage. Private investor ko! You claim your marriage is bland yet you want to monitor her for no tangible reason. So she should let go of herself and look like a finished woman because you have chosen not to properly love the woman you married??? Lol
ReplyDeleteInstead of you to be investigating her up and down, why don't you try to rekindle your relationship with her? It's obvious you still have feelings for her
ReplyDeleteBro, you brought this on yourself.
ReplyDeleteShe has decided to put in more efforts on her looks, and you're still upset with that? That's totally unfair.
Try and make amends with your wife, or file for a divorce if you can't live with her anymore.
You have nobody to blame , but you alone.