Friday In House News

 Weekend hailings........

FRIDAY IN HOUSE MEMO

How una dey? This weather is somehow and its stalling my groove....Today rainy and hot and the next day, rainy and cold and hot..haba!!!

Anyway, how is your day going? mine is good and i will spend today in the kitchen trying out new recipes today....I sometimes make out days to try some kinda foods to see how its done......Last two weeks i tried to make Oatmeal waffels and my people nothing i did was right, i wasted one crate of egg, one pack of oatmeal and plenty banana..I am not trying that again abeg....

What else? Enjoy the rest of the day..

The Fatherhood Chronicle will resume next week....If you are interested in starting any kind of Chronicle for the in house news , send me a mail and please know that it has to be something you wanna do cos i aint paying you for that...... Do you wanna talk about business or something that will move your business and others? Na your hand e dey!

Today i would like to do a giveaway prayer of Double measure, pressed down, shaken together and running over....... Whatever you bless anyone with today shall be multiplied in your store house, double measure, pressed down,shaken together and running over..........As you key into this giveaway, use your FAITH as the key to unlock.....I am only a vessel in Gods hand......

God bless everyone, including the bad ones here....LOL

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INSIDE THE MIND OF A WOMAN GOING THROUGH MOTHERHOOD

It’s been crazy and super exhausting for me in the last few days. Settling in the new place, watching the kids settle and adjust, has been taking up my time. I'm trying to find a new routine for everyone, too. I had a blast on my birthday, and my kids were super excited.

Since we are not too far from a major express road, my boys have been having a blast watching trucks pass by in the evenings. Taking them there was a chore at first, but now we spend it counting and identifying the kinds of trucks and other vehicles passing by. They even try to identify the brands at times. This has made the whole walk down to watch the trucks more bearable for me.

Since we moved, my princess has been fixated on a particular gown. It’s a full princess gown, and that's what she wants to wear even to bed. She throws a tantrum when she can find it, and she has also learnt to search the laundry basket for it .

I am looking for the gown to buy at least two to three extra so she can wear it more often and avoid the tantrums I get when it’s dirty.
Her brothers weren’t fixated on any particular outfit at this stage and weren’t conscious of their looks at all. It’s fun watching her grow and her shenanigans.

The house is so beautiful and i pray we dont hear anymore stories.....

This your girl is already a drama queen at this age? na wah oh

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FROM THE COMMENT SECTION

Dear lady,,

I am sincerely sorry for calling you out some years ago. I didn't know you and that name was associated with more than eighty people. I did not know you would take it personally, or be recognized as the person referred to. I am sorry, if it affected you negatively in any way.
As for the things you wrote about yourself which you later claimed to be some "cruises', I was truly concerned about them. How was I supposed to know they were fictions?
I have forgiven you, for all the evil you did to me. I ask for your forgiveness too.
Please draw closer to God. He is all we need. Every other thing is like a wind. PEACE!

This was dropped in the wrong post so I am reposting it here hoping that whoever it is for will get the message... I hope it isnt who i think it is?OK so who do you think dropped this message?
 
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TESTIMONY FROM THE COMMENT SECTION AGAIN

Hello guys
I'm the lady that wrote to you all here 2weeks ago about being ttc for 2yrs and after all the necessary tests the doctor said me and my husband are okay, and did not give us any medication.

Guess what guys, I missed my period last week and did a pregnancy test and the results came out positive rejoice with me and pray I carry my pregnancy to full term and deliver healthy baby(s) God is merciful

Congratulations.... I pray you carry to term and birth a healthy baby in Jesus name

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WHAT NEXT?
Have you been able to reach a goal at some stages in your life?

For some of us it’s graduating from school or university, to some, it is getting that promotion, others are into hitting a challenging sales target.
It is always a great feeling when we achieve our ambitions, but then, after reaching our goals what should we do next?

I like to compare goal-achievement to climbing a mountain, and when we get to the top what do we do? In that context here’s what I think we should do after reaching one of our goals.

1. We need to Enjoy the view:

It would be a shame to climb to a great peak and then start your descent without taking a moment to relax and enjoy the view. So why is it that after accomplishing a goal, many people forget to enjoy the moment and move on too quickly?
Once you’ve reached your goal,

I would encourage you to stop, take a deep breath, bask in your achievement and find a way to celebrate what you’ve done. After all if you don't blow your pipe, no one will blow it for you. A lizard that jumps from a high iroko tree says if no one praises him, he will praise himself.

2. Learn from the experience –

I’m sure that after someone has climbed a mountain, especially one that they’ve never scaled before, they will have made mistakes and needed to use new skills along the way.
Similarly, any significant achievement would have involved errors, risks and the development of your capabilities. By taking note of the things you’ve learned throughout the experience, you will be better prepared for the next stage of your life.

Thank those who have helped you along the way – Mountain climbing may seem like an activity for individuals, but very few successful climbers are able to get very far without the assistance of others. They are called destiny helpers.

In our endeavours, there are always people around us who have helped us to reach our goals. Make sure that you take the time to express your gratitude to your spouse, your mentor, your staff, your peers, God or anyone else who has been helpful to you. You’ll probably find that they will sign up quicker to assist you again next time if they aren’t taken for granted. Yoruba will say "Yinni yinni keni o se imii," (literally means appreciating others for what they have done motivates them to do more).

3. Look to greater heights

– Unless you’ve climbed Mt Everest, there are always bigger mountains to climb. One success leads to another bigger challenge. The best reward for a well done job is more job

Once you’ve reached a certain level of achievement, don’t rest on your oasis or set goals that you can reach with little planning or effort. Look at the mountain that’s bigger, harder and more challenging. "Hard way the only way" was the title of an American film in the 80s, the title speaks volumes.

I hope that you have a lot of mountains ahead of you to be climbed.

And whenever you reach a new peak, try much to enjoy the view, learn from the experience, be grateful to those who have helped you and look to greater heights to climb. The world will celebrate you thereafter.

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WEIRDFACTS

-----Swimming immediately after eating is safe, despite what you may have heard.

----Metathesiophobia - Fear of things and or people changing.

----Forget attention. Just grow in private.

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LETTING GO IS HARD....?

Letting go is hard but staying with someone who makes you explain everyday how you need to be treated is draining.

You can only repeat yourself so many times before you run out of energy, especially with a man who refuses to change or grow with you.
The truth is, men aren’t complicated.

He hears you, but he makes no effort because he doesn’t care, and no matter what you say, what you give, or how patient you are, it will never be enough for a man who doesn’t value you.

At some point, you have to be real with yourself and say ...
“I’m not loved here. I’m not appreciated.”
“I’m not valued. I’m not seen.”
What you need to do .... is walk away, and stay away because a man that cares about you, would never put himself in a position to lose you.

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