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Thursday, June 26, 2025

Relationship Coach Kingsley Okonkwo Asks Interesting Question

 Hmmmmmm...Probably someone scare by so many divorce stories....

18 comments:

  1. It means he's just not ready for marriage...and that's okay.
    There's no rule that says that a man (or woman) must be married from 30. Even Jesus was 30+, handsome, comfortable, and still single.
    Some people just want to be left alone. Marriage isn't for everyone.

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    1. Simple has ABC. Marriage isn't for everyone. I'm one of them.

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    2. Thanks you.

      What a rubbish question asked with the to please his female members so they can gather and insult men and then pay tithes and offerings since the pastor is on "their sides".

      Truth is the best time for men to get married is when they're younger and not too rich per se, like when they're like in their late 20s and are still building. But N0!.. them ladies his mate or younger with few year don't want him then, they want a ready made,. Baba go lock up, build him life and career finish,. Old corn cum "hustling" pastors would now be shaming and trying to bully the man to now go and marry the old corn who were initially not interested in him. The last time it was pastor Eneche and his wife that were doing same..

      See, the last thing on a rich 30 plus young man mind is marriage.. do you know the enjoyment and peace he is having?? You have no idea fam,. Make e come be fine boy and get game join. Life is almost perfect. You think he'll want to get 'arrested' with one woman with her dramas when he is having various pretty damsels throwing themselves @ him?? That time he'll set his standards high cos mehn, if he has to leave all these enjoyment then it has to be with someone worth it.. then them girls gonna be mad and hate him cos the don't meet such standard.

      What these pastors should be preaching instead is for ladies to marry and build with a young guy with prospects.. cos like I said, when that man see money and what comes with it,. Una go beg am to marry Lol

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    3. Lol, Noc You finish work for Jesus body 🀭😁

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  2. It is neither about the age or bank balance. A man needs to be in that space where he feels he is mentally and emotionally able to take a wife and LOVE her the way she deserves to be loved.

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  3. Very valid question.
    Because getting ready for marriage is as much a mental or a psychological state as it is a physical or financial one. Both states of readiness have to align.

    You have money and are of age doesn't mean you have what it takes to build and stay in a marriage.

    You need to find yourself, know who you are, be comfortable and confident ALONE before you should even begin to think of sharing your life with someone. You need to BE WHOLE.

    I say this because nothing reinforces traits(whether good or bad) like marriage. And as such it must be understood that not everyone MUST marry. Because marriage is not for everyone. Most people are better off alone. And it is time we start celebrating those who choose not to marry.

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    1. Oyel dey your head 😁🀭
      Time to start celebrating those who chose to remain Single πŸ’ƒπŸ»πŸŽ‰

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  4. Not yet ready,or ,seen or met the chosen one. πŸ™„πŸ™„πŸ™„

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  5. Or it could be that he ain't ready.

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  6. Maybe he's taking his time.

    No be everybody marriage dey hungry.😎

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  7. It’s not age and money that makes one ready for marriage, it’s spiritual, emotional and mental maturity and health.

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  8. See how the comments are sedate, pointed and perspective/issue based.

    If the post was about "women", comments would have been as fabricated below:
    "Again, again? Wetin women do sef?"
    "Why is this man so fixated on women women? Did his woman run away?"
    If woman matter no comot from Nigerian man mouth per day...
    "All dis Pastor Kangs sef..."
    "Na only women matters Nigerian pastors preach about."

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  9. He's not ready, which means he's not ready. That's not a big deal. We all know marriage take a lot more than age and bank account. It's definitely not a walk in the park.

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  10. Still looking for the perfect under 25 yrs old girl to marry according my 38yrs old husband younger brother

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  11. Who never ready shouldn't even dare πŸ‘ŒπŸ»

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  12. Hmmmm… I used to think like this pastor. Now I have sons in that age bracket with excellent jobs who are yet to find the woman they will like to marry. They claim the dating apps and pool have become like a mall where you browse endlessly. I never knew it was challenging for men as well as women. I pray daily that my sons and my daughter meet the right ones, in Jesus name.

    I sometimes find myself scrutinizing girls comments’ online when reading IG blogs, wishing I had the guts to matchmake my adult children with some well mannered girls but knowing they will be horrified at such due to their culture and distance. I cannot for the life of me imagine being hostile when I finally have good daughters in law. A good daughter in law and son in law is a blessing and I hope to love them whole heartedly. The rain falls on both male and female. It’s more than having a good job and your own home.

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