According to confidential sources close to the family, Mrs. Abi refuted claims that her husband had ever been violent towards her throughout their 14-year marriage. She, however, confirmed the existence of a decade-long extramarital affair between her husband and the alleged victim, describing it as a painful reality she had endured for years.
Mrs. Abi accused the side chick of persistently calling her husband to extort money from him, revealing that a staggering ₦1.5 million had been transferred to the woman in a recent transaction.
While she condemned the reported violent attack on the mistress, Mrs. Abi hinted that the situation could have been handled differently, expressing a desire to see the other woman held accountable, not through violence, but through a lesson in respect and boundaries.
“I would have preferred a different way to make her understand she cannot continue to disrespect people’s marriages,” she allegedly remarked, suggesting that her frustrations were more with the mistress’s persistence than her husband’s indiscretion.
The alleged victim, whose identity remains undisclosed, is said to be receiving medical treatment following the incident. Meanwhile, legal proceedings are expected to follow as authorities continue their investigation into the alleged assault.
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Your husband disrespected your marriage madam.
ReplyDeleteShe's part of the "Abokoku" ministry.
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DeleteAnd it is her full prerogative to handle it the way she chooses within the bounds of the law.
We need to stop the shaming of women on how they handle their matrimonial affairs where they have not caused loss to anybody else.
The wife is the victim of a husband's adultery.
If she chooses to stay in a marriage with an adulterous husband, that is her cup of ...
I have read several posts on this blog where a wife stayed on after adultery by her husband.
The majority comments appear to blame the wife if she stays on in the marriage.
Comments always evade the husband's co-adulterer(s).
We comment as if we know what the woman is doing to make her husband stop his silliness.
If a woman refuses to leave her matrimonial home for an adulterous interloper and leave her alone, what has she done worse than those who run the interlopers street and stay in the marriage?
Why do women not put the same or more energy at shaming female co-adulterers as they put in shaming wives who want to salvage their marriages?
Here is not to support adultery by husbands. But continuous long term adultery always involves 2 people.
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DeleteSo, where is her husband receiving treatment?
ReplyDeleteWomen should learn to hold their spouses accountable before an angry side chicken blinds you or sends you to prison.
Mtcheeewwww
ReplyDeleteAn enabler is all I see here.
ReplyDeleteShe's remorseful
ReplyDelete"She cannot continue to disrespect people's marriages", did your husband respect yours??. Women should learn to face their cheating men, than the side chicks.
ReplyDeleteShe doesn't want to acknowledge the disrespect outside. Yeye dey smell
DeleteSome women can be so stupid!
ReplyDeleteVery stupid honestly..
DeleteThis is not her business,let him face his judgement..
I Honestly do not know if I should Cry With Pity or Laugh with Pity Mrs Wifey.
ReplyDeleteFor 14Years of Your Marriage, It was only for 4Years,You were " The Only Woman" 10 Years Later,You Litetally had a Co-Woman"
Doh Madam
my gender should do better.
ReplyDeleteI tell u
DeleteOther ”woman” is not the only person to be held accountable in any way, both genders should also respect and know boundaries.
ReplyDeleteKeep supporting you husband's wandering peek. His next mistress will kpai you and marry him if do not run away from that nonsense marriage.
ReplyDeleteWifey isonu 😠😠😠
ReplyDeleteI will always be baffled by women who pin the blame on the other woman in an affair while letting their cheating husband off scot-free. It's like they're absolving him of all responsibility. What's behind this glaring lack of self-awareness? Is it loyalty, denial, or something else? Either way, it’s a puzzling dynamic that raises questions about accountability and self-worth.
ReplyDeleteMadam, it's your husband that disrespected your marriage.
ReplyDeleteMadam, are you defending your faithless husband or what? Haba mana.
ReplyDeleteUnfaithful
DeleteExactly defending unfaithful husband. Clap for your self.
DeleteThank you anonymous and Big Mama for the correction. I appreciate.
DeleteWhy are my gender like this 😞are you defending this man? hian
ReplyDeleteThe other woman has suddenly become the victim while your name is now eternally associated with the ph00l you married due to the statement you didn't have to release, regarding his show of criminality.
ReplyDeleteDon't your innocent children deserve a chance at a life without scandal? Can't someone in your union of dunces provide some distance for them from your matrimonial mumu-rity?
Husband failed at marriage, failed at offing someone join. Wife failed at common sense leaving the children to hope in God. It is this kind of molue that someone decided to hang unto for ten years as second fiddle then you will blame Buhari and Tinubu for damages priced at 1.5 million as too much. I can imagine how this man's other concubines will feel so embarrassed at the situation.
Endurance team,some women sef
ReplyDelete'she cannot continue to disrespect people’s marriages'
ReplyDeleteThe audacity for her to call what she has a marriage.
Madam I hope you know your horseband risks a jail term for his actions?
ReplyDeleteNo worry, by the time he is jailed, your eyes will clear that he did wrong by cheating on you for years. Keep blaming the lady.
I’m genuinely curious - why do some women think they have to endure this? Christian women, you do know that adultery is the only reason Jesus Christ Himself permitted divorce right? You also do know that you can separate yourself from the situation even if you choose to ‘fight for your marriage’. In this case, it will be only you fighting, and it will be in the place of prayer, not in chasing him or trying to be a ‘better wife’ for a man who isn’t even a good husband to you. You can move on with your life and your children, with dignity, pursuing your dreams, pursuing and loving your God. You can live a fulfilling life without a man who is not happy to dwell with you - think about it. Separation is mentioned in the Bible, and not as a sin. You can separate and stay single or reconcile. I promise you, you won’t die. I promise you, you don’t have to sleep with married men, neither do you have to suffer. Do you not know your God? Is your husband your God? How did we anchor so much of our self worth and value on our husbands? Dear women,
ReplyDeleteplease wake up!!!
Madam, ten years is not an affair, that is a whole other marriage. Your husband is polygamous and he must know why he kept that woman in his life for an entire decade and why he willingly and happily financially support her. It is obvious that you cannot meet all his needs and there is something in that woman that you don't have.
ReplyDeleteNow you got violent on her for what? The frustration you feel is the feelings of failure that you feel deep down that you are not enough for your husband. I am sure you have raised hell in your house, cussed, quarreled, denied him everything and none of it worked to make him stop seeing that woman. You cannot take out your feelings of failure, frustration, and insecurity on someone else. This is why they used to tell women to marry a man who loves them more than they love him, to marry a man who adores you and put you on a pedestal, it is to avoid situations like yours.