STAND ALONE NARRATIVE
ADVICE NEEDED
Please I need advice on whether to go and beg my friend or leave her alone....
She introduced me to her married boyfriend and we hung out a couple of times and I was made to understand he is a no go area and she forbade me from giving him my number the one time he asked.
I met him at a party with his wife and he beckoned to me to sit with them and introduced me as his friends sister.....The wife was funny and made us laugh a lot,i kept looking at how happy they were together and kept wondering why he was dating my friend...
I was in my gossip mood and I asked for her phone number and she gave me and I flashed her with mine...
Short to say, after that day without the husband or my friends knowledge, we have become friends as in real friends in the last 6 months...
My friend has found out from her boyfriend that I am friends with his wife and my friend came to fight me at home that I have no right to connect with her boyfriends wife....She slapped me but I did not retaliate cos it caught me by surprise...
She is no longer friends with me claiming that I am jealous....Should I cut off from the married woman and face front? or continue and ignore my friend? This womans friendship is really good cos she gives me good advice and gifts me money without me asking
What do I do?
Please I need advice on whether to go and beg my friend or leave her alone....
She introduced me to her married boyfriend and we hung out a couple of times and I was made to understand he is a no go area and she forbade me from giving him my number the one time he asked.
I met him at a party with his wife and he beckoned to me to sit with them and introduced me as his friends sister.....The wife was funny and made us laugh a lot,i kept looking at how happy they were together and kept wondering why he was dating my friend...
I was in my gossip mood and I asked for her phone number and she gave me and I flashed her with mine...
Short to say, after that day without the husband or my friends knowledge, we have become friends as in real friends in the last 6 months...
My friend has found out from her boyfriend that I am friends with his wife and my friend came to fight me at home that I have no right to connect with her boyfriends wife....She slapped me but I did not retaliate cos it caught me by surprise...
She is no longer friends with me claiming that I am jealous....Should I cut off from the married woman and face front? or continue and ignore my friend? This womans friendship is really good cos she gives me good advice and gifts me money without me asking
What do I do?
You dey crase!!!
I am sure that given a little time, you will tell the wife about his affair with your friend...You broke the girl code and yes you are jealous!!!
You already lost your friendship and trust me the woman will find out one day and see you as a mole and drop you like hot sheet...... I am sure if given the chance, you will date the husband......hisss!!!
PLEASE SENDIN YOUR CHRONICLES
Choose anyone of the two that's the friendship is more beneficial to you. The most important person here is you, which of them do you want to be loyal to? You can't be loyal to the two, and if your side chick of a friend does not add any value to your life, dump her for the new friend. Mi o raye alaye repete
ReplyDeleteMumu talk.
DeleteShe cannot be loyal to the wife without telling her the truth. See am?
DeletePoster should let go of her adulterous friend (Poster seem to be in the same game anyway) and also pull away from the man;'s wife. Otherwise, she will collect from her friend and the wife when the man or his wife ends the adultery.
Poster is the same as her friend, that’s why the friend had to warn her that this particular boyfriend is a no go area.
DeletePoster just get out, you’re a jealous opportunistic snake.
17.19, thank you. Poster, you are no different from your friend! What are you doing with that woman, of all people to befriend. Make una no worry, when sidechicks begin to threaten your marriages, don't go crying.
Delete03:22, your last part spoilt your comment. All marriages that side chicks are disturbing, the wives slept with married men right? Including the ones that married as virgins .
DeleteKeep living under the rocks and believing that men cheat because their wives slept with married men while single. mumu.
10:17 I am not the first anon but there are plenty side chicks too who end up in the same position as the woman in the story. Loyal men are rare and that's why sometimes virgins were unfortunate to come across them too in marriage. So I don't think the first anon was talking about karma.
DeletePoster you and your friend should leave that family alone
ReplyDeleteSIMPLE!!!
DeleteIt's like you people used to share sugar daddies before now? Nne na wa ooo
ReplyDeleteI've just noticed another name for prostitute now is baddie .ochim
DeleteOh shit! There's a girl code?
ReplyDeleteGuys, they've been playing us all along.
OP, I no get better thing to tell you o. You are worse than a snake to that man's wife. Like, how are you dumb enough to not reason that nothing good was ever going to come out of friendship with her?
When she finds out that your 'friend' is her husband's side skank, you will wish you were dead because that woman will hate you with the heat of a thousand suns.
That man will be sure to come for a taste of your cumbox too. Ensure you give it up when he does. There is no honour among you, your friend and that man. May God help the wife the day she finds out how much in the middle of betrayers she is.
Girls Code?
DeleteWhat did you think the fight with Dante is all about. He reveals too much about what his Sisters told him about women and the other things he learned in gains or loss personally. Things men do not talk about and get called MEN by women.
Hahahahaha
Dirty advice from dirty men
DeleteGive to the man what box ?
The disrespect on the wife tho! See what this man has opened up his wife to because of his wandering pr**k
ReplyDeleteYou have no business being friends with his wife.
ReplyDeleteDear Poster,
ReplyDeleteYou are a tiff!! You are not just following a married man; you had the nerve to get close to his wife....Longer throat Ahewo girl...I won't advise you because you all are so annoying and irresponsible...
Mtsheeew...
NEXT CHRONICLE PLEASE!!
The man is her target and I'm sure her friend knew what she was capable of.
DeleteThis is one of the reasons I can never tolerate a cheat and God is faithful not to let it happen.Now I know why my mom divorced my dad for cheating and never looked back. They will expose you to danger. You will be stupid to think the only danger they can expose you to is StDs. I remember how a scorned side chick killed her sugar daddy's daughter.
ReplyDeleteWhat if you had poisoned the wife? How come he introduced you to her and let you get so close to her.. very filthy man.
One of the duties of a husband is to protect his wife but sadly these cheats makes their wives vulnerable. what if your friend decides not to get angry and decieds to use you to penetrate her life, the life of her kids etc further?
I have nothing to say about you and your friend. I don't care how she feels or whether she gave you a slap. That's you both problem. both of you should disappear from that woman's life and leave her alone. Wicked people
May God protect that wife, she is surrounded by venomous vipers. Very evil creatures all around her!
DeleteIkwakwakwakwa
ReplyDeleteBoss DANTE, see the gender that you are trying to redeem.
So a female BV here(one of the gender here that accuse men of being cheat) actually has an olosho friend that is dating a married man, she did not even caution her or end the friendship, instead, she carried her giveaway scavenging long throat to go and meet the wife of the man her olosho friend is dating.
Na wa ooo.
Teejay, Tripple C, Oshodi DSS etc, see where una dey find wife.
Ikegwuru.
Just know that you're dumb. The man in the chronicle is a saint abi? Evu.
DeleteHAHAHAHAHAHAHA
DeleteSDK yard pipu. Una no dey eva fall persin hand
You funny too much
The stori come be like fiction
Hehehehehehe Haaaaaaaaaaaa
MAN LAFF TAYA
The man is the married one here. Of course red pillers will never address that fact. He is a useless and irresponsible man through and through.
DeleteAmusu na dem .enemy within
ReplyDeleteLonger longer long throat. Ogun kee u dere
ReplyDeleteBETRAYER!! Oversabi!! You had to collect her number, for what exactly? She gifts you money even without you asking.
ReplyDeleteI don't rate people like you at all, you do not know what real friendship and loyalty means. Shame on you!!
You are not a loyal friend, why are you friends with that woman in the first place? she give you gifts , money plus advice that you cannot get else where till you get it from that woman. You think that woman does not know that your friend and her husband running some shit together? she will use those gifts to draw you closer and she will teach you and your friend lessons you both will not stay close to properties that does not belong to you.
ReplyDeleteYou broke the girls code and should remain far from that your friend. Face front and forget going to explain anything to her, you will soon sleep with that her married friend cos your eyes is on material things.
It's dicey.
ReplyDeleteReally don't know why you established friendships with the woman in d first place.
Search your heart. Was your motive genuine?
You would never have met any of them if not for your friend.
Your loyalty ought to be with your friend, who you are to talk out of dating the married man and breaking the peaceful relationship you witnessed between the couple.
Rather, you decided to be d second parasite.
While your friend is collecting from the man, you are collecting from the wife.
It's a selfish relationship and you know it.
To imagine the reason you are sending this chronicle is not because you feel sad for the wife, but because you don't want to loose out of her generosity to you.
How do you think she's going to react or see you, when she realises that all these while, you knew about them and kept mute? That's backstabbing you know.
You don't even care about her of her feelings or her home?
Is that friendship? Please leave the poor woman alone. You are not her friend
Stella please don’t post another chronicle
ReplyDeletePost this particular one throughout this week
She deserves one full week bashing,everyday swear,every 2pm we go just gather type our mind give am
Abeg bring your eslap,she need am
Girl are you maddddddttttttt
Wey Dey worri you
You Dey crazeeee
How dare you?
If you see poison you go give person
Tueh
I pour you 7 days spit
Who Dey raise una sef
Babes here see am oh
No Dey carry these girls go meet your bakery
I don’t know how many times person go tell una
All these shout bvs and Stella Dey shout here una no Dey hear
See am na
See am
Both you and your friend are shaneless, detach yourself from that family.
ReplyDeleteAhewo dey your eyes
ReplyDeleteYeye dey smell
Real friends yen yen yen
We all may not understand why you became friend to the wife but it is a bad idea,end it now because she will still found out and hate you for it. No matter the explanation you may give her and for your old friend let her be,she is not also not good for you,any woman that can confidently introduce you to another woman's husband as her man friend is not a good company to have too, so you won't both reap from what she is sowing.
ReplyDeleteAunty, is just matter of time that u snitch on your so called friend
ReplyDeleteThe man called her
ReplyDeleteHe is generous to her friend
The wife is generous to her
Who come life to look askance
She alone did not waka come
Girls Code is on adultery
Dante sabi things dat agwan
No wonder
The longer you look at scattered things on the floor, the more likely you will see a pattern.
This life.
Desperate Chicks!
ReplyDeleteThe person that should take the highest blame is the husband. Why did he introduce the wife to his side chick's friend. Poster, I hope you are telling the whole truth because I find it unbelievable for the man to do so and also ask you to share a table with them.
ReplyDeleteYou have strong mind poster, to the point of laughing with the wife, exchanging contacts and even becoming friends. I think you should avoid both the wife and your friend, end the friendship. If your friend slapped you, you don't know what the married woman will do when she finds out. Her own will be worse, I promise you.
Why are you friend with wife and side chick, e reach to dash you slap through through, anty pick a side and stop confusing yourself and people, you're just anywhere belle face.
ReplyDeleteThat woman knows. Just pray she is not the type to bathe you in acid. Na the useless man I blame. Introducing hos and oloshos to his wife. Mchew
ReplyDeleteWhat kind of long throat girl is this? Betrayer of the day😏
ReplyDeleteJust live the family alone
ReplyDeleteAwon oniranu 🙄🙄🙄
ReplyDeleteWhy are you friends with someone that sleeps with another woman's husband? That alone has placed a question mark on your person. The moment you have a friend that fancies other people's husbands and you didn't talk her out of it or quit the friendship, rather you kept mum and continued, then you're not doing the right thing.
ReplyDeletePlease leave that family alone. If the man's wife finds out one day, your friendship with her is over, e nor get wetin you want explain.
The man self na real oniranu. When you know say your eyes still dey street, why you marry?
ReplyDeleteYou female BVs are very predictable and funny. Why did he marry if he knew his eyes still dey street? Which kind yeye question be this? Can't men marry more than one wife if they are willing and able? No religion (christianity, islam or traditional) condemns it. Cynthia, I know you are a christian, so pls show me any verse in the Bible that condemns polygamy.
DeletePls tell the wife of your friend exploit I beg you so that she can be saved from these devils around her after you have taken slap from your friend so you need to retaliate so that it can be 1-1 draw
ReplyDeleteYou didn't do well babe.You would have just enjoy your self at the party without collecting the woman 's number.
ReplyDeleteThe wife too that is opening teeth with a stranger nko. Is she that bored.
ReplyDeleteThe truth is, sometimes you can just click with someone completely unexpectedly. Look, since you and the wife are already friends just maintain. But stop accepting money from her, you cannot truly be an equal friend if you are accepting her money. Please maintain yourself according to your capacity. Friendships where money are being given and received become unbalanced. If she can afford luxury items and you can only afford okrika, face your okrika in peace and be content. Birthdays and Christmas are the only exception. People respect those with self-respect, so no matter the temptation to accept just brush it off or tell her to donate the money to a charity or hospital.
ReplyDeleteNa all these oloshos dey condemn Yul and Judy.
ReplyDeleteIkwakwakwakwa
You dey mind all these female BVs on this blog! Always pretending to be saints - but most have either befriended married men when single or even still engaging in adulterous relationships at their work/business places as well as churches and voluntary organisations that they belong (Rotary, Lions, etc). The kind of secret/coded adulterous affairs by single and married people of both genders these days in Nig, must be worse than sodom and gomorrah .
Delete@gossipmood😁😁
ReplyDeleteThe nonsense self disrespecting men expose their wives to
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