She wrote:
''I found peace After the Battle ..... there’s a kind of peace that only comes after survival. It’s not the fragile kind that depends on everything being perfect. It’s the deep, unshakable peace that says, I’ve been through the fire and I’m still here. That’s the peace I carry today, but getting here wasn’t easy.
There was a time when I trusted no one, not even myself. I carried wounds so deep that even the closest people in my life, the ones I thought would protect me, turned out to be the ones who betrayed me. That kind of pain can harden a person, make you question your worth, and silence your voice.
For a long time, I let that betrayal define me. But the turning point came when I finally realized my self-worth. I looked in the mirror and remembered that I am enough not because of what anyone else says or does, but because of who I am at my core. That realization was the beginning of healing.
Now I live with a promise to myself never again will I lower my standards for anyone. LOVE, RESPECT and TRUST are not negotiable. My boundaries are not walls, they’re the foundation of my peace and if there’s one thing I want you to take from my story, it’s this stand up for yourself. Even if your voice shakes, even if you stand alone at first, even if it feels like the world doesn’t understand stand anyway. Because survival is not just about making it through. It’s about reclaiming your voice, your worth, and your peace.
I survived. I healed and so can you. Emmanuella Eversmiling Redrose
There was a time when I trusted no one, not even myself. I carried wounds so deep that even the closest people in my life, the ones I thought would protect me, turned out to be the ones who betrayed me. That kind of pain can harden a person, make you question your worth, and silence your voice.
For a long time, I let that betrayal define me. But the turning point came when I finally realized my self-worth. I looked in the mirror and remembered that I am enough not because of what anyone else says or does, but because of who I am at my core. That realization was the beginning of healing.
Now I live with a promise to myself never again will I lower my standards for anyone. LOVE, RESPECT and TRUST are not negotiable. My boundaries are not walls, they’re the foundation of my peace and if there’s one thing I want you to take from my story, it’s this stand up for yourself. Even if your voice shakes, even if you stand alone at first, even if it feels like the world doesn’t understand stand anyway. Because survival is not just about making it through. It’s about reclaiming your voice, your worth, and your peace.
I survived. I healed and so can you. Emmanuella Eversmiling Redrose
Hope no problem in paradise with her man, Kwam 1?
ReplyDeleteHaa, since na. She and K1 don waka oh.
DeleteNa wa o
DeleteThat kind man eh, who fit tame them?
Wait no be them do fairytale wedding? Person wife wey marry Kwam1? Abi no b she?
DeleteShe don comot Marshal from her name?
ReplyDeleteI saw what u did their hahahaha
DeleteEvery right thinking woman must prioritize herself, love herself like no one would and protect herself peace of mind. Empower ourselves not to be used.
ReplyDeleteOde always looking for rubbish men, give them good men mbanu. Wasiu has used you and dump you like the ones before you. Senseless people.
ReplyDeleteIt is well with you ma 🤗
ReplyDeleteThe shortest reign queen in kwam1 palace. Her reign was too short, haha. Anyway it'll not be too long before baba will find another oni fufu green , the way titi is going about,she may likely go back.
ReplyDeleteI don't even know if I can say titi is lucky if she went back or kini gbogbo katikati wey this old man dey do sef? Wetin these beautiful women dey find with him? Even the ones he condemned are still bearing his name, oga o
Money na your mate?
Deleteyou will be alright.
ReplyDeleteThis is what happens when you think you're special and other women before you were wrong.
ReplyDeletePeace is key, good for you Emmanuella
ReplyDeleteEveryone deserves peace ✌️
ReplyDeleteAbeg shift. You see a chronic womaniser and think,you're special. 🙄🙄🙄
ReplyDeleteNo mind the woman
DeleteMy dear, the red flags were glaring but we always think we can tame a man and make him stay. Pele Ropo, the next desperado will soon be doing pepper them.
DeleteYou will be fine in no time achala ugo
ReplyDeleteYou will be alright ma'am
ReplyDeleteThank God you realize on time
ReplyDeleteIt is well with you
ReplyDeleteI don’t know what she passed through but I understand the peace she is talking about. A little something just happened the other day and people around me were running halter skelter claiming they couldn’t sleep because of worry and fear of the unknown., but not me. I slept like a baby. Whatever didn’t even penetrate the first layer of my skin not to talk of my heart and mind. And like she said., getting at this point wasn’t easy. I literally passed through hades to get to this level of peace. At my darkest night, when I used to feel I could fall down and die because of pain and betrayal. I prayed to God to give me peace, the type that passed all understanding. The type that will keep people wondering how you could be at peace like this when everything around you is going crazy. That was the only thing I could ask , pain would not let me even pray , I tried to shut everything out, not to think about it but I couldn’t do it on my own and I went to God. Just that single prayer point. The peace that passeth all understanding. I want it so bad but wasn’t sure If that can come due the chaos around me. I don’t even believe in miracle that much but Saying it was like laying my burden on Jesus feet. And miraculously, one day, I couldn’t feel the pain again. The cloud was gone and it has been years. Now I guard my peace with my life. It didn’t come easy and a return journey to hades is not for me. It was pure hell.
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