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Trying to use the formula given by a friend or your parents might at times jeopardize your love for your wife and your children. Yes, your friend might call you a weak man or woman wrapper or mumu, oga, no mind them because if you do, you go just wake up one day begin beat your wife except if you notice she is having an extra marital affairs and even with that, you still have to pendal softly in dealing with such issue.
There is this Alfa I know . What he does is teach few children kewu but the wife works in a bank. This man no get shishi and when you see him with his wife, you will think he is the one bringing things to the table.
A year go, the wife asked him to stop the kewu thing and try learn how they buy and sell ALUMINIUM. Bros was doing anyhow but at the end he obeyed not knowing that the wife had a good plan for him.
Baba went to learn the thing for 6 months and after, the wife discussed with him that, she has an opportunity to get a loan from the bank. In a nutshell they collected the loan and used the money to buy a complex close to my shop for 70M.
The husband did not know that, the wife had made all necessary arrangement and contact to help her husband. She took her husband to a woman who is into sales of aluminum(the woman kan dey give them aluminum worth 100m for credit)
The husband did not know that, the wife had made all necessary arrangement and contact to help her husband. She took her husband to a woman who is into sales of aluminum(the woman kan dey give them aluminum worth 100m for credit)
They renovated the complex and began to sell aluminum. See ehn, the man don become big man now and the wife still works in the bank and both husband and wife are using the latest benz. You need to see this man now, looking fresh and their children go to the best private school wey helicopter dey always drop student for school.
If na your wife God bless to lift you up, oga, love her very well and she will be submissive to you automatically without any reason to doubt you. Alfa wey dey waka around kan be person wey don dey travel to china now. Their children are presently in the states for holiday.
If na your wife God bless to lift you up, oga, love her very well and she will be submissive to you automatically without any reason to doubt you. Alfa wey dey waka around kan be person wey don dey travel to china now. Their children are presently in the states for holiday.
As man, don't be in a competition with your wife instead, work together and see things change for better.
Ire ooooooo
Ire ooooooo
Pinky, while I agree with you that couples should do what works best for them, I believe something things are non-negotiable.
ReplyDeleteMutual respect, tolerance, consistent and positive reaffirmation of your partner plus a healthy dose of attention are things that make a difference.
Nice one. Ire oooooo..
ReplyDeleteWow! Nice write up and story that ends well 🥰😘
ReplyDeleteWeldon Mc pincky👍
I love that,it shows that you are really speaking from experience of a married man 👏👏
All these in 6months! God is good
ReplyDeleteCountries with large populations like Nigeria present greater opportunities for prosperity, especially in niche fields that are not yet saturated. Naija men and women been making wealth since time immemorial without the need to japa. Remember your Creator placed you on a continent to walk on gold and every precious metal and gems. Gave you the greatest diversity in humans and animals. In truth, where is greater than Africa on Earth? Who on this planet as a group is smarter than Nigerians? Africa is heaven on earth in so many ways.
DeleteThe brains need to be repositioned and countries look inside more, drop the tribalism and talk to God for intelligent direction cause everything is already there. If Africa was so bad why all these strange ppl from all over the place want a foothold there?
Wise words, Nigeria is blessed with great numbers of people which is one of our asset.
DeleteWow!!!!! Great!!!!
ReplyDeleteThis is a good turnaround for him and the family’s fortune. Some women are very wise and some are not. But this man’s humility paid dividends. Who say opportunities nuh dey Naija, in 2025 this man made a complete 180 in his life, status changed and he is a completely changed person in less than a year, right on Nigerian soil. May they cleave together even closer now than ever and may God’s hedge of protection surround them stronger.
ReplyDeleteFor us non-Nigerians what is kewu?
I would say a high majority of women are naturally submissive. Problems come when there is past life trauma with their father or relationship history, some form of violence or a belligerent husband who does unwise things and love to listen and follow outsiders. Many men’s gold treasure is right at home under the name of wife. Even the Word says a wife is a blessing and a man receives favour from God for marrying a good woman.
Kewu, Islamic training
DeleteThanks Yemi💐
DeleteOver 30 years ago a bunch of us doctors relocated to the UK. Some of us with our wives, some of us found wives in the UK. Only a few of us are still with our wives and I noticed that we are the most successful because God truly used out wives to uplift us. In those days as a medic, you will never get to be a registrar, talk less of a consultant if not by the special grace of God. My wife was the one who helped me decode the system in my particular hospital. I am quiet and serious and a book worm but she is a good observer of human nature. She would send so many chocolates and biscuits to all my colleagues and never forgot their birthdays. She also encouraged us to get on the property ladder early while some of my friends didn't want to as they harboured dreams of going back to Naija . Her method was roughly buying the worst house in a good area, fixing it up reselling and then moving onto a better area. We really took advantage of the housing boom, got properties in Nigeria too and we ended up in millionaire's row before the recession hit in 2008. All the friends who treated their wives badly are either now divorced or their wives are always away using omugwo as excuse. Some of those divorced wives have really prospered now. This life.
ReplyDelete@"All the friends who treated their wives badly are either now divorced or their wives are always away using omugwo as excuse."
DeleteNot all unpleasant marriages, separation, and/or divorce come from ill-treatment of wives.
Even wives treated good and well can cause a marriage to be bad or end badly unless where a man has resigned himself fate.
Not all the wives of your colleagues in thriving and failed marriages were as astute as your wife. Right?
What goes on in marriages is known only to God. Sometimes, even the couples do not know what is going on. The typical Nigerian and some other people will spiritualise the unknown. The book-learned will search for biases, complexes, and brain/mind programming unconnected to each spouse's fault.
Thank God or congratulate yourself for your marriage and stop gloating over your colleagues "failed or failing marriages".
ThankGod For His Grace And Mercy 🙏
ReplyDeleteHello iya Boys
Sha marry a good spouse
ReplyDeleteAn encouraging example for those with an obsessive ego. The answers to some of your prayers could be allowing your wife to blossom in their field with guidance, rather than undermining their growth.
ReplyDeleteMarriage is not a stage for ego, but a covenant of peaceful endurance. A man who fights his wife’s strength will fight his own fortune. A woman who despises her husband’s weakness will despise her own covering.
In every lasting union, one moment comes when one partner must stoop so the other may rise; tomorrow, the roles reverse. Pride kills marriages faster than lack or poverty. Humility feeds them better than wealth.
Your friend’s voice, your culture’s taunt, your neighbour’s sneer, and family overbearing - none of these will raise your children nor guard your old age. It is the hand you hold at night, the one that believes when you falter, that decides your peace. Do not compete with your spouse; build with them. Time will expose who truly understands marriage.