THURSDAY IN HOUSE NEWS

 Hailings.......

THURSDAY MEMO

How are you doing? Today has been a good day and i hope that your day is going on as planned? I am here, near my cappuccino machine trying to make my first cup for the day and oh i intend to take like 2 cups......

Enjoy the rest of the day and stay on your lane...

I had to quickly post this, if there is mistake, please use your eyes to correct it....

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MEMO CONCERNING ALLEGATIONS AGAINST BV MISS H AND BV GLO GLO

XP i saw what you posted but i dont understand it.....Miss H has never asked me for money before...NEVER!......In fact sometimes i offer to send her money and she will tell me not to worry that the last one i sent is not finished.....When she wanted to pay for her exams...She didn't ask me for money and i kept asking her how she would pay...She told me she saved money from all what i was sending her and that her mum would complete the rest...When she paid she sent me proof of payment and i could sense that she was proud that she could take care of herself......

Miss H was a broken little girl when she came on the blog to tell us how her mum was slapped at the school she cleans.....Her mum is no longer in need and i know how much profit she makes from selling chicken....

Miss H late grand mum sent me prayers before she died.....I watched the video and i cried so much that the old woman was so grateful.....

Sometimes i forget to send her money and when i remember i ask her and she tells me she did not remind me cos she still had with her.....

I have tested her in so many ways.

I know everything i need to know about this growing young woman who has taken me like a big sister and loves me so much..I have watched her growing with confidence and i have seen her voice rise.........

Let us not kill what we watched grow.....

If she is a scam, then she is a good one and i clap for her...

If she is not a scam, I say Amen to whatever her prayers are for her accusers....

I have been accused wrongly several times....I know how it is....

This is my conclusion----I withdraw my financial support for Miss H until XP finishes her investigations and clears her name of all ALLEGATIONS AND ACCUSATIONS...It is now between XP, miss H and God..

As for BV Glo glo.....Let her tell her story when she is ready to do so...I will not allow anyone make her feel ashamed......She does not come to me for money but to talk when she feels overwhelmed..I told her to tell her story cos it is shocking and a lot will learn from it...I did not ask for monies for cos i will send her money myself when i am ready cos i have been following her story for many years and the reasons i feel she needs to talk about it and the words of encouragement will help and then anyone who wants to help her will be through.....BV Glo glo is a walking miracle...Please nobody should mention her in any scam and if she indeed a scam then i will understand cos what she has survived eh, only someone who is made of NEPA wires will survive it....

Babe dont let anyone scare you, I am here and I will not abandon you!

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WOMEN DONT STAY, WHERE THEY ARE LOVED THE MOST!

Listen up, Men.

If you’re not mentally sharp, emotionally controlled, and strategically aware, a woman will use you like a step ladder — climb you to upgrade her lifestyle, then dump you the moment a man with more power, more game, and more resources shows up.

That "I'm different" mindset?
That "she loves me for me" delusion?
That "as long as I treat her right, she’ll stay" fantasy?

DELETE IT.
Because here’s the truth that soft men can’t stomach...

1. WOMEN DON’T STAY WHERE THEY’RE LOVED THE MOST — THEY STAY WHERE THEY’RE ELEVATED THE MOST

It’s not about your feelings. It’s about your value.
A woman will leave your loyal arms for another man’s better offer if you don’t constantly evolve.

2. SHE CAN SLEEP IN YOUR ARMS TONIGHT — AND PLAN HER EXIT TOMORROW

If a better deal is on the table, emotions vanish.
That "forever" talk only applies while you remain her best option.

3. LOYALTY ENDS WHEN THE UPGRADE ARRIVES — UNLESS YOU ARE THE UPGRADE

Not just financially.
Mentally.
Physically.
Spiritually.
Socially.
And in status.
It’s about power, frame, and dominance — not desperation.

4. IF YOU STAY NAIVE — YOU’LL GET PLAYED

Romanticizing while she’s secretly collecting options behind your back?
You’ll be that fool who gets the “You’ve been amazing, but I need time to find myself…” text.
Translation?
“I found someone better. You’re no longer useful.”

5. IF YOU’RE NOT HER BEST OPTION — YOU’RE JUST A TEMPORARY BENEFIT

It’s harsh.
It’s cruel.
It’s reality.
Men who deny this truth get devoured.
Because when you don’t understand her psychology…
She becomes your weakness.
Your downfall.
Your destruction.
Step up or step aside.
This is warfare.
Get hard or go home.
Be wise!

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Well, some men think they are smart and be writing nonsense up and down!..In fact i am in this category, come and beat me!!!

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CLAMP YOUR MOUTH!!

You are buying a house?clamp it
You are buying a new car? Clamp it
You are getting married? Clamp it
You are buying a land? Clamp it
You are looking forward for a promotion at work? Clamp it
You are going out of the country to relocate? Clamp it
You are expecting a baby? Clamp it

The reason for this is that 99% of the time , the reason you couldn't achieve most of these things mentioned above didn't come true is because you open your mouth too soon to the wrong people at the wrong time . 

As a matter of fact the wrong people could be your closed friends, immediate members of your family, social media friends you trusted, coworkers etc. You were wrong to share your projects, your successes with people who claim to be your friends .

 The envy and jealousy is on low-key is enough for people to feed off And tear you down. Privacy they said is power .

 The majority of your friends wants to see you do well but never better than them . And just a reminder even some family members have hidden envy towards your marriage, success and everything that concerns you. Nobody can stop what God has for you no matter their envy and jealousy but maintain privacy 
A word is enough for the wise so please clamp your mouth most people you think they will be happy for you aren't but just pretending to be know this and know peace 

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FIVE HABITS MEN LOVE

Men won’t admit this, but there are certain feminine habits that hit them harder than makeup, curves, or any “hi beautiful” text.
And they’re SIMPLE, but most women never do them with intention.

Here are 5 real habits men secretly love:

1. Pausing before you reply.
Not long… just one calm breath.
It gives “I’m not rushed.”
Men feel that confidence instantly.

2. Smiling when he talks, then looking away first.
It’s soft, it’s feminine, and it makes him wonder what else is going on in your mind.
Men love a woman who gives warmth but not availability.

3. Saying his name in a soft tone.
Not “hey.”
Not “babe.”
His name.
Men melt for this and they will NEVER admit it.

4. Letting him help you with something tiny.
Opening a bottle.
Lifting something.
Fixing a little thing.
Men love feeling needed in small ways, it activates their masculine instinct fast.

5. Ending the conversation first.
Not with attitude.
Just a soft:
“Alright, talk later.”
Then you disappear.
He’ll replay that moment longer than you think.
These habits work because men fall for energy, not effort.
When you’re soft, intentional, a little mysterious, and not chasing, you create emotional tension he can’t shake.

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