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STAND ALONE NARRATIVE
SECOND WIFE LOADING
I am about to marry a second wife because it is what i want and not because she is pregnant..... I am in love with my wife but i am also in love with the other lady and want to do the right thing by her....
My wife has no fault and the other lady also had no fault...I lied to her about my marital status until i got her hooked on me and now she cant let go..My family know about lady number two but will pretend that they know nothing so as not to hurt number one.
It has been easy cos i do not live in the Country where both Ladies reside..I cannot relocate wife number one with the kids anymore cos wife number will also want to come after i marry her and i dont if a Christian is allowed to proudly
parade two wives...
Everything is going on smoothly but the problem is how to tell my wife....I dont want a Yul scenario on my hands at alll.... What do i do if my first wife leaves me? How do i make her understand that i am still in love with her but fell in love again? I am even confused....
Please nobody should say its voodoo cos its not....I went into this with my two eyes opened....Our baby is arriving soon and i will be in town soon to formalise our union but how do i tell my wife? I dont want to do it secretly....
Stella use your redpen well....
Oga abeg leave my name out of this scenario oh cos na bad advice i get to give you......If your girlfriend is already pregnant, please go ahead and marry her, enough of baby mamas littering everywhere.
I know someone who didnt tell his first wife before he married a second wife, i can still remember the chaos that followed and her being in hospital for a long long time cos of the shock of hearing she has a co wife that has already birthed a child....marry her but make sure you tell your first wife..This is my bad advice to you....
If you love your wife, you wouldn't hurt her by cheating on her 🙄. Now you're concerned if she leaves you.
ReplyDeleteHe love his wife yet cheated and did not just cheat but impregnated the woman and did not end there but planing to marry his side chick. Oga ask yourself, if that wife no.1 do this and still claim to love you, how will you feel?
DeleteYou are only concerned because you know your life is about to spoil like that of Yul.
Funny guy. I don't see you as a real man because you are selfish and see nothing wrong in hurting someone that did you no harm and has kept their own end of the bargain. That means you lack integrity and you see nothing wrong with that. Your attitude reminds me of the chronicle of the klepto a day ago. She is better than you in that her case is actually psychological, while yours is greed. No advise for you. You already know what you want. So now if your first wife desired relocation your selfishness deprives her of that dream. I hope she hears, leaves your greedy azzz and remarries a better man who knows her real value. You are not it mehnnnnn. Once some men become rich, they fail to reason fairly, it now becomes about pleasing themselves and honouring their fleshly desires. They throw discipline and common sense outta their car window and cruise on. Mumu
DeleteSo our educated and enlightened parents who married more than one wife didnt love the 1st wife? You ladies should stop saying rubbish cos it doesnt favour you. Life is too short. Do what pleases you - male or female.
Delete@18:22, this must be a man. Another selfish man who wants to eat his cake and have it.
DeleteA woman should just sit and take what you dish out because you out, cos you did her a Favour by marrying her right? Life is not like that.
If the poster wasn't afraid of the outcome then he would not have sent this chronicle.
If he thinks he is doing the right thing, let him continue.
She is supposed to clap for him and say weldone Ko??
Isssoright
Oga, why do you allow the spirit of lust to overrule you?
DeleteNa wa for you because the once happy family will soon go down forever.
If you wife did it, will you forgive her?
Abeg o tell me your wife's name, may be I know her or she's my distant sis
You Dey mind the yeye man?
Delete‘I am in love with my wife but i am also in love with the other lady and want to do the right thing by her....’ just imagine!😡 🤦🏾♀️
I hope with all of my heart that the baby you are expecting with your mistress belongs to another man, I pray you find out after you finished training him or her. I also pray that your mistress becomes your worst nightmare after you have married her.
ReplyDeleteYou think you can play with yours wife emotion, spring up a baby and strange woman on her cuz your are a man that fancies himself in love? E no go better for you
Amen!!!
DeleteHmmmm. No iota of remorse. He sounds proud of himself. Feels he can comfortably have his cake and eat it. Him go still add another one once the newness of this new one wears out.
DeleteAMEN!!!!!!!!!!🙏
DeleteAmen to your prayer Gifty, Oga that second wife will be a nightmare to you starting from the day you marry her . This is my prayer for you and so shall it be!!
DeleteMr Lover Lover Lead Yaself Well oo..
ReplyDeleteShebi Your Open Ya Eyes Korokoro
Carry On Dey Go Mr Lover Lover
Hello iya Boys
You consciously created this kind of chaos for yourself, yet you are far away in another country. You lack knowledge of the true definition of love.
DeleteWetin concern us with your yeye love? .Liar 😂
DeleteWait until your children grow older. I pity you.
What I know is that you can't hurt someone and tell them how to react. And your family? They are demons! Shior
Poster, God punish you!!! You claim to love your wife, and love another woman? Thunder fire you for wanting to bring such pain on someone you love.
ReplyDeleteYou want advice abi? If you go ahead and marry the side cock, karma would visit you.
How can you love two women the same?
You claim you are a Christian, can you serve God and Mormon??
Why the hate words and curses? You should be better behaved. He didnt kill anyone!
DeleteCheating and Polygamy, I cannot Stand .
ReplyDeleteUncle Just Put Yourself in Your Wife's State.
How Do People Intentional hurt Thier Love ones is Beyond me.
Your Decision,Your Life.
Deal with it
Bastard man
ReplyDeleteWho says it’s voodoo? We know it’s not bro, you are just a greedy f00!.
ReplyDeleteWomen your in-laws are not your family o, know this and know peace!
Oga my only prayer is for your wife to pull May Edochie on you, I pray she doesn’t forgive you and I pray your life become wose than that of Yul.
We pray the Lord helps her forgive and heal from this betrayal. She doesn’t even need to pull a May Edochie on him his harvest for seeds sown will definitely be reaped.
DeleteAmen!
DeleteDid you ask if before falling in "love"?
ReplyDeleteMen always want to eat their cakes and still have it. Biko carry your cross with your full chest, you didn’t consider her feelings before cheating and impregnating another woman. I hope you would have embraced it if you’re in her shoes.
ReplyDeleteI only pity women who choose to lose who they are all because of a marriage. I love how men are trained to be selfish, a man will make decision for his satisfaction before considering others.
ReplyDeleteBuild community outside your marriage because that will be your support once a human decides to bring rubbish upon you.
Poster, we can't decide how your wife should react, you made yours so she's allowed to make any decision that is best to her, not everyone wants to be numbered.
She can't travel any more with you because of your new wife but who knows whst she forfeited thinking you both are building an empire in her head.
Anyhow this turns out, you have a selfish family members.
Felicity
He probably sends foreign currency to them so they support his bad decisions. Wait until your kids grow your eye go clear, your children will deal with you worse than you treated their mother.
DeleteHmmmmm! Felicity, what you typed there took me donkey years to learn.
DeleteFelicity your first is PURE GOLD.
DeleteI had to take a screenshot so I can share with my female friends because I'm tired of speaking English.
It is that selfishness that allows them outpace women, not intelligence, not a brute, not anything.
Unfortunately, very few women learn this, nor can imitate.
I like kind and considerate men like the OP. Men who are so thoughtful of their wives and will do everything to make life easier for them. With two wives in the house now, the work load on the first wife will reduce. The wear and tear on her body too will reduce. She will even have a companion now. Isn't that all so lovely? What a blessed woman the first wife is.
ReplyDeleteOP, I think it will be good to add a third wife just to balance things up. The most resilient structures in the universe are triangular for a reason. For that stability you seek, a third wife will be the magic. You are going abroad soon? What a great opportunity awaits you! Hurry! Make haste and increase thy household to the glory of God and shame of the devil.
Congratulations!
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DeleteLol..
DeleteHe will definitely fall in love again..
This is why some women cheat too..
Sarcasm. Selfish man can't relate with those Sarcastic scenes you created. 😔😔😠
DeleteJust commot love from your mouth because you don't love no 1,if you do,you won't betray her so.What do you even want?see how you want to make your once beautiful life so complicated,you can't even relocate your family again because of your wandering third leg.Better tell your wife and don't hurt her more
ReplyDeleteYou leave me with no choice but to ask what is the real meaning of love or i love my wife again? can you explain to me what love means if you can use your two open eyes to hurt a woman who has sacrifices everything for you. She birthed your children, she took your name, she has been faithful to you, she has been there for your kids even when you have not been around. Her crime is to love, marry, birth, remain faithful, take care of the kids in your absent, protect the home, keep praying for you to make it. What did she get from you, you keep leading a another lady that you are single and you both kept on deceiving yourself till she is due.
ReplyDeleteYou are more than a wicked man, please never you say you love that woman again. Hope if she did same thing you would have still believed she loved you. You don't have any right to think or request she should remain in this cheating, no love marriage like everything is okay. I pray she walk away from you because someday wife number 3,4 will join her. If you have the mind to fall in love again for the second time without asking her yo walk away, you will surely betray your marriage again and again.
Let her do whatsoever makes her happy at this point because you too did what you feel is best and makes you happy. If she want to give you fire, sun, rain, cold water you don't have any choice than to take it. If you get more than what Yul got, you luck. May God give her the wisdom to handle this painful betray from a man she love, sacrifices, have been there for amen.
You claim to love your wife, but you are. knowingly hurting her. Go and face whatever consequences you will bring to your family oga.
ReplyDeleteWicked Man and an even more Wicked family. So if they find out their daughters husband is planning to take a second wife, they will keep quite, because they don't want to hurt her. What a filmsy excuse we are humans, before we are inlaws. As for you Mr poster May God judge you
ReplyDeleteThis is wickedness! If your wife had done this, hope you would have clapped for her.
ReplyDeleteThe way some of you men treat women cos you feel you have the upper hand and can do as you please is so evil and annoying. No worry na.
And he opened his mouth to say she didn't offend him.
DeletePeople wicked o
The one that didn't suffer with you will be the first the first wife to step foot abroad. Una dey see am?
ReplyDeleteWell, you have to tell your wife so she wouldn't be shocked when she finds out later. You no try as a Christian you claim to be. This is not Christlike
ReplyDeleteHe who brings an ant Infested wood brings lizards.
ReplyDeleteGod has given you a good wife with no issues, but because of your long throat you had to get another one pregnant and want to marry.
I hope you come back here and tell us how it's going. And you said first wife did offend you.
I pity you. Polygamy is not a joke. Be ready.
You claim you love your first wife but impregnated another shior! You are just a confused somebody that doesn't know what he wants! Just put yourself in your first wife shoe, how would you feel?
ReplyDeleteWhat are you on about poster. You love your wife and you want to spring this wonderful surprise on her. Isokay. Hope you would be able contend all that comes with this decision after. Selfish lots.
ReplyDeleteWhy do you people normally behave like this? Iwa were sha. If reverse was the case, would you be happy ? It is the nerve to say you went in with an open eyes, if your first wife was your daughter or sister or mother, would you pray for such to happen to her? Una go dey use hot fire burn person without burning yourself with it, first.
ReplyDeleteI am so upset with your action. I am praying that both women leave you on the long run and deny you access to your children.
And your family members knew about it? Wow. she has not been told. This is serious. Fear people, especially when it comes to in-laws.
ReplyDeleteAs a Christian, poster there is a reason you are told to drink water from your own cistern. The Word of God obeyed is wisdom and gives life. You have chosen your own way. There will be consequences.
DeleteFear humans. No one can be trusted.
DeleteAll I learned from this story is that culture supersedes religion. No real Christian man is going to have two wives, but your culture states it’s ok, so you forgot your religion in all of this.
ReplyDeleteIt doesn’t matter what you tell your wife, you’ve already made up your mind.
@ Poster, You cannot betray someone, break their trust, and then expect them to calmly “understand” because you say you are still in love with them. Love without honesty, respect, and accountability is not love. If your first wife chooses to leave after finding out, that is a consequence you will have to accept. She deserves the right to decide what kind of marriage she wants to be in. What you should do now is tell her the truth, the full truth, and be prepared to accept whatever decision she makes. Even if the decision includes her sleeping with another man while claiming to love you too. Let all of us kuku be mad together! Wicked Man with a more wicked family members!
ReplyDeleteNa wa.
ReplyDeleteThis one hard.
Let someone from your family call your wife, ask her to come over and tell her on your behalf.
this is the reason why i keep my inlaws ar arms length. very selfish lots like this posters own.
ReplyDeleteGo broke and baby Mama 2 will leave your cheating ass.
ReplyDeleteI pray your wife finds out and leave you.
ReplyDeleteSee the way you are even numbering her without her knowledge.
Seems your mind is already made up. Whichever way you want to do it, you'll never have peace. Simple
ReplyDeleteAll the female BVs are cursing the Poster out, even the coded female cheaters😁😁😁Wonders shall never end. The truth is if women are allowed to marry more than one husband at a time, lots of you female BVs would have multiple husbands each, with no apologies. Is it not you coded knackerdemuses here?
ReplyDeleteI honestly don’t understand it. If a woman is born in a country and culture where polygamy is acceptable why the anger when it does happen? It is better for Nigerian women who are against polygamy to either marry an outsider from a culture where it is not accepted or do not marry at all.
DeleteMr Adelove😉. You're one selfish man sha. I put it to you that you do not love any of the 2 women. You love no one but yourself. I don't even have any advice for you, because you've done what you want to do with open eyes according to you.
ReplyDeleteActions comes with consequences, and this cannot be an exception. Whatever it results to, you just have to sleep on the bed you laid.
“Stella use your red pen well…”
ReplyDelete“Oga abeg leave my name out of this scenario oh cos na bad advice I get to give you…”
“This is my bad advice to you…”
Oh my gosh…
Stella and Poster…
I laff sotey I come weak
Stella match Poster aura for aura
Una no go keel perlzin for dis blog
I don’t even know wetin to say to two of una
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This is just too bad poster. Your life will never remain the same. One way or the other she will still find out.
ReplyDeleteThe earlier you do the needful, the better for you.
You've hurt a good woman and mother of your kids and I hope she forgive and divorce you.
Tell her. Let the chips fall where they may. I hope she takes you for all you have. Little b**ch
ReplyDeleteHello Poster,
ReplyDeleteYes, a person can feel genuine affection for more than one person. Human attachment is not limited to a single emotional bond. So it is possible that what you feel toward both women is real at an emotional level.
But love is not measured only by intensity of feeling. It is measured by conduct. Care, honesty, accountability and responsibility are the practical tests of it.
Your feelings may be sincere, only because both women formed their attachment inside a reality you control. But the structure around it is not. It violated trust.
What your actions show is something else - intentional deception. Whether you agree or disagree, you pursued a second relationship through deception, allowed it to deepen because you were selfish, and now you are trying to preserve both attachments without facing the full cost of your choices.
You seem to have an avoidance disorder. You delayed telling the truth. You let circumstances grow until the decision feels forced by pregnancy and time. Now you hope to keep your marriage, your new relationship, and your reputation intact. That is unlikely.
Your wife has lived inside a marriage she believed was exclusive. When she learns the truth, the deepest injury will not be the second woman. It will be the long deception.
Is the other woman also tied to a life built on incomplete information? Or perhaps she knows all the truth?
Your first duty now is honesty. Tell your wife the full truth yourself, privately and directly. Do not soften it with claims about loving both women. Accept that she may leave. That choice belongs to her.
Then decide what life you are prepared to stand behind openly. Remember, you have children you did not consider in your choice and decision to manage two households. Their interest ought to come first, and requires transparency, fairness, and long-term responsibility.
Please, reconsider the path you are about to formalise thoughtfully. The ethical weight before you will become overwhelming with time.
Poster. Mr Yuletide example is supposed to serve as a deterrent. But you're too slow and selfish.
ReplyDeleteMost of Nigerian men will always show their true colours, they always do this because they know a lot of Nigerian married women take shit in marriages, I don't have any advice for you, good luck to you.
ReplyDeleteSir.. you have to tell your wife about your second wife.
ReplyDeleteThis is a betrayal of trust and I will never support this act of yours. E no good.
I no wan talk pass this one.
Don’t tell her
ReplyDeleteSome people mumu sha....
ReplyDeletePoster imagine if u treated this way. Oga u are stupid and wicked person. I don't see this ending well. You just be egoist and selfish. I prefer you tell your first wife. Normally we never finish handle one wife u come dey add one more. Next year you go add wife number three and say you love them all
ReplyDeleteGod forbid a husband like you.. you are a weakling.. so you are aware of exactly what is going on with Yul? You can see how the mighty has fallen yet it means nothing to you.. I pity you..Tufia
ReplyDeletePoster, my own is sha tell your wife about the other woman. Everybody go dey alright.
ReplyDeleteAnd the wicked woman who is okay hurting another woman is whom i feel so much disgust for. maybe when the gives birth to a girl who will be treated same way, then she'll understand life.
ReplyDeleteBe ready to face the consequences of your action and choice. Be a man, since that's what you want.
ReplyDeletePoster, I hope your first wife calls the embassy to report you for what you about to do.
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