Thursday In House News

 Hailings...

THURSDAY MEMO

Una well done oh...I hope say your day dey waka well? I kpoof but na wetin to eat now i dey think of cos i need to break my fast.....Na soso food just dey my mind since cos i get food for fridge.......

Today na my cook free day but i go still go small shopping later cos i go like buy things for pizza...My pizza na ogbonge ooooh.

Make you enjoy your day and no think too much.....

For the person wey just dey post comments since yesterday about me sending people 1k airtime...Your entitlement mentality don make me also end airtime giveaway now cos your comments shock me....You carry am from yesterday enter today....I just even checked and realised that Waju was the one who made the mistake ......Even if i said 2k and later changed to 1k, I have every right to do so cos na me sabi where e pinch me....I dont boast but i know what i do behind and its been God....Make we leave am

Make una enjoy una day oooh......

Sipping Cappuccino and gisting with one of my sister friend.......

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LUST WILL FINISH MEN FASTER THAN POVERTY
Let’s stop pretending.
Most men aren’t destroyed by enemies ; they’re destroyed by the women they chase.
-- YOU’RE CHASING CURVES, NOT CHARACTER
You see hips and lips, you forget your grind.
A woman who offers nothing but sex appeal, bills, and emotional chaos is a loaded gun pointed at your future.

-- SLAY QUEENS ARE NOT WIVES — THEY’RE DRAINERS
The streets are packed with pretty faces and empty souls.
She’ll drain your wallet, time, peace, and masculinity — then switch to the next guy without remorse.
-- LUST MAKES MEN WEAK — AND WEAK MEN GET ERASED
You think it’s harmless fun?
That same “fun” is why you’re broke, unfocused, and stuck in the same spot.
While other men build empires, you’re chasing waist beads and filters.

-- A MAN WHO CAN’T CONTROL HIS ZIP CAN’T CONTROL HIS DESTINY
Your discipline is your defense.
If a soft voice and soft thighs can distract you, you’re not ready for real power.

-- STOP FINANCING YOUR OWN DOWNFALL
You pay her rent. Buy her data. Send her lunch. Sponsor her soft life.
And what do you get?
A headache, a lighter bank account, and a destroyed reputation.

-- THE STREETS HAVE NO LOYALTY
Today it’s you, tomorrow it’s your richer, older, or more reckless replacement.
Understand this: She’s loyal to her stomach — not your name.

-- LEGACY OVER LUST, ALWAYS
Chase peace, purpose, and legacy.
The real man isn’t the one who sleeps with the most women — it’s the one who builds a name money can’t buy.

FINAL WARNING
The quickest way to die broke and forgotten is to chase women who bring nothing but drama, bills, and stress.
If you don’t control lust — it will control and finish you.
A weak man is a slave to beauty.
A wise man builds a life that beauty will beg to be part of. Choose legacy. Move with sense.
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Na wah...This must have been written by a man who is bitter.

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‎12 Ways Parents Kill Their Children’s Confidence without Knowing -
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‎One of the greatest gifts you can give your children is confidence, the courage to face life with boldness, to believe in themselves, and to rise even after failing. Unfortunately, many well-meaning parents unknowingly destroy this gift with their words, actions, or silence.
‎Here are 12 subtle ways parents kill their children’s confidence without even realizing it:
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‎1. Constant Criticism
‎When every mistake is met with harsh words “Can’t you ever do anything right?” a child begins to believe they are a failure. Correct with love, not condemnation. Children need guidance, not a running commentary of their flaws.
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‎2. Comparing Them to Others
‎“Look at your cousin… why can’t you be like her?” These words may sound innocent, but they crush self-worth. Every child is unique. Comparison tells your child they are not good enough, planting seeds of insecurity.
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‎3. Overprotection
‎Parents who never allow their children to try, fail, and learn on their own unknowingly raise fearful adults. Shielding them from every risk whispers, “You cannot handle life on your own.” Confidence grows when children are trusted with responsibility.
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‎4. Lack of Encouragement
‎When children do something well, be it a drawing, a school recital, or helping with chores, they crave affirmation. Silence at such moments can be as damaging as negative words. Encouragement is the fuel that powers self-esteem.
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‎5. Excessive Punishment
‎Discipline is necessary, but punishment without explanation breeds fear. A child who grows up afraid of their parents may obey on the outside but feel worthless on the inside. Discipline should correct, not crush.
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‎6. Ignoring Their Voice
‎When a child speaks and you wave them off—“Keep quiet, what do you know?” you teach them their opinions don’t matter. Soon, they stop talking, even when their input could make a difference in the future.
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‎7. Withholding Love
‎Some parents only show love when a child succeeds. But children must know they are loved unconditionally. Love that is earned destroys confidence; love that is given builds it.
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‎8. Public Shaming
‎Scolding a child in front of others, neighbors, siblings, or classmates may correct behavior but damages dignity. Shame makes children want to disappear instead of grow. Correction is best done privately.
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‎9. Unrealistic Expectations
‎Demanding perfection, straight A’s, first position, or flawless performance, pressures children into anxiety. When they inevitably fall short, they feel like disappointments. Encourage progress, not perfection.
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‎10. Neglecting Quality Time
‎Children equate attention with value. When you are always too busy with work, phone, or TV, they begin to feel unimportant. Confidence grows when children know they matter enough to be listened to and spent time with.
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‎11. Negative Labeling
‎Words like “stubborn,” “lazy,” “stupid,” stick longer than you think. Labels shape identity. Over time, children begin to live out the negative names they are called. Speak life, not curses, over your children.
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‎12. Not Believing in Them
‎When parents doubt their children’s abilities “You can’t do it” they are planting seeds of failure. Confidence flourishes when a child knows their parents believe in them, even when they struggle.
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‎Final Word
‎Dear parents, confidence is like a fragile plant. It can be watered with love, encouragement, and patience, or it can be trampled under harsh words and neglect. If you want your children to grow into bold, secure, and successful adults, be intentional. Correct wisely, love deeply, and affirm constantly.
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‎Remember this: Every child deserves a home that builds them up, not one that tears them down.
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Types of Fake People 

The Two-Faced Operator
Nice in front of you, critical behind your back.
Example: “You did great!” (Later tells others, “She’s not that capable.”)

The Opportunist
Appears only when they need something.
Example: Ignores you for months, then suddenly calls before asking for a favor.

The Credit Thief
Takes recognition for work they didn’t do.
They Present your idea in a meeting as if it was theirs.

The Fake Supporter
Claps publicly, competes secretly.
Example: Congratulates you online but tries to block your opportunity offline.

The Gossip Distributor
Pretends concern while spreading your business.
Example: “I’m just worried about her…” (then shares your private matter.)hahahahahahhahahaha

The Social Climber
Uses people to gain status.
Example: Only interacts with you when influential people are around.

The Selective Loyalist
Loyal only when it benefits them.
Example: Defends you when you’re successful, disappears when you face trouble.

The Image Manager
Obsessed with looking good, not being good.
Example: Acts humble publicly but treats people poorly in private.

The Victim Player
Twists situations to avoid accountability.
Example: After hurting you, says, “Why are you attacking me?”

The Energy Drainer
Pretends friendship but constantly undermines you.
Example: “I’m just being honest…” (then discourages every plan you share.)

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Which one are you?hahahahahahahahahahahahah

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WEIRD FACTS

--Drink green tea before bed to burn calories while sleeping. Green tea will also increase your metabolism.

---In Brooklyn, New York, you can rent a mom for $40. She listens to you, gives you advice, cooks, and helps with chores.

---NASA once banned beans because astronaut farts could cause sudden fires on a spacecraft.

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