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EX GIRLFRIEND ISSUE
I am missing my ex-girlfriend but don't know how to approach her to resolve the issue. I know where I can trace and find her but don't have the courage to do so and just ask for forgiveness because I just came up with some flimsy reasons then for the breakup just to belong.
I miss her personality and other things like her beauty, the flash of her eyes, the laughter, her deep throated voice, open teeth. I just fell in love with everything about her. We met during service year. We met, talked for some time, and then after about three months of getting to know each other, she agreed to be mine...
She later blocked me everywhere online till date. My close friends were the reason for the break-up as they convinced me I was still too young to be loyal to only one woman.
I am sure I’m not the only one who made such mistakes and gets to miss his ex, a lot of guys/ ladies would be experiencing this as well. You will begin to ask yourself: why the break, what went wrong, do I need re-evaluation going forward, do I miss him/her? Am I happy leaving him/her.
We had a nice time while it lasted, I guess I took her for granted but putting this out here has helped lighten my burden. After service months and into the real world. We had our little issues, but I guess my immaturity got the better part of me.
Six months into the relationship I started acting up due to peer influence.
Till today, I still ask myself, why did we even break up? It sounds foolish on my part. We had huge dreams and wanted to be better. She was everything a man would ask for, very different from what I'm experiencing on the dating scene now. Sometimes I feel I let my soulmate slip away.
Who has reconnected or tried to reconnect with an ex on genuine grounds before?
Look at this man....
Please eh leave her alone, she is better off without you cos una type no dey ever change oh..
You get work?are you better off financially? otherwise there is no need going back cos she will not be the same person you described......And guess what? She may have gotten married with kids.......Oga face front and pray you find someone else that will appreciate you....
Make i give you bad advice.....Go find her, buy flowers go and as soon as you see am kneel down with two legs begin beg,make sure say you cry and water dey run down your cheeks........You go see wetin go happen...
Now that sense has entered into you, better go and look for her and apologise asap. This was how long ago you broke up?
ReplyDeleteHow could you let your friends influence you? As a youth Corper, are you a child? Don't you have a mind of your own?
Go to where you know she is, and apologise with a peace offering. and this time behave yourself.
If u very sure u are sorry then go for her, apologize genuinely, change and show her how much you've changed..if she's yours,she will come back..
ReplyDeleteI believe this has been a long time ago. I think you should move on with your life.
ReplyDeletePlease follow Stella's bad advice. Even if she says no, don't worry, keep pleading and when you receive your salary send something huge to her account without her asking, Keep doing it every month. Go to her house and wash, cook and clean. If she had a boyfriend, don't worry, just keep being good to her. Don't forget to pray oo, join all the prayers online .
ReplyDeleteLeave her be please. The only reason you are thinking of her is because the dating scene is showing you shege pro max. She is better off without you. You are for the streets, enjoy it while it lasts.
ReplyDeleteI pray she will never be available by the time you go back to her in Jesus name, you don't love her, you only want to go back because you are not lucky with love, who says there's no karma, this one is currently eating it as e dey hot.
ReplyDeleteZoom zoom..and hope u find her still single bro..sometimes it gets too late..all the best..damn!!
ReplyDeleteGuy. Don't sweat it. She's probably moaning another dude's name right now. Telling him all the sweet things she used to tell you. He probably hits her deep in spots you could never hit and she pulls him closer as he does so. You said she blocked you all over social media? I guess the relationship was all in your head. Women don't move on that fast if they are really into you.
ReplyDeleteDon't try getting her back. She's no longer the same woman you knew because you'll have her whole heart again. But if sloppy seconds is your thing, then hey! Go for it.
You are very wrong by saying women dont move on fast like that when they love a man. I did same to my ex just so I can get him out of my mind because my seeing his contact was messing with my mind. I needed to move on and that was the only way I could. That love for him almost ended me. I pray never to be in that situation with any man again
DeleteYou always bring out your misogyny no matter how hard you try to hide it. A woman that is hurt shouldn't block the he goat right she should hang there and be begging himcos he's a king right . Rubbish
DeleteCalling another human being sloppy seconds. Well done sir.
DeleteIf those ppl are still your friends then leave her alone because they will still influence later on something else and you will go ahead and cause problems for your life following them.
ReplyDeleteIf you have gotten rid of those friends and they are no longer in your life you can go ahead and try to woe her back. Just be aware that she may never love you like how it was ever again. You have wounded her and even if the wound is healed the scar will still be there with the lifelong blemish to show. So do not expect to get the same woman back, she may be very different from the person you broke up with. You will have to decide if the risk is worth it.
How can a man who does not have his own mind and need to follow others to feel as though he belongs be the head of a family and be a source of strength and respect for a wife and children?
ReplyDeleteWe all make mistakes in life but a man who doesn’t know his own mind and how to stand proudly in his convictions is not a man who should be married. Do not disturb her unless you have made some deep work on your identity.
He was young pls
DeleteThere is a TV show on DSTV that can arrange for you both to reconnect in a romantic setting and discuss and then decide if you guys want to rekindle the love you once shared. I have watched some episodes where guys apologized and the girls accepted to start the relationship with him again.
ReplyDeleteThe name of the show is LOVE COME BACK. You can contact the actor Suleiman Ibrahim, he is the host . You can also Google about the show to understand it better.
Good luck as you follow your heart.
Poster try this.
DeleteThe show makes all the necessary arrangements. You will give them the girl's information and they will invite her for something else that will make her gladly show up. It is later on that she would understand what she actually came for when you (the man) is eventually brought into the mix. Some people reconcile, but some don't.
Don’t try it
DeletePoster stay your lane. Don't come and infect her with the infections you contacted from your multiple partners experience over the years. Stay in your lane mmiri oku apkawu gi.
Deleteyou better face front, allow her stay where she is because she have respect, rest of mind, she is with a man who have a mind of his own, a man who can protect her always. You should look for someone else to be with and not her, you want her back because you have tested water and find out that there is nothing outside.
ReplyDeleteYou are her vomit, she cannot take back her vomit. Move on.
I pray she sees this chronicle and my comment. The biggest mistake I made was going back to my ex who came back pleading. He actually came back to me because of everything you wrote up there and couldn't get another girl as good as me but guess what, he came to finish the remaining pieces of my heart. His character and nonchalant attitude didn't change but became worse and ended up infecting me. Now, I am all alone treating chronic infection that has refuse to go. I was so stupid to have accepted him back.
ReplyDeleteYou see now that the advice of not being loyal to one one man has made him contract investing?
DeleteConfused men everywhere who think they are wiser than God.
The more I read stories like this, the more my heart tightens. If there's anything like tight heart used to describe the state of my heart. I try my best from time to time not to remember these things anytime I want to judge men. Joy comes in the morning. Peace and love.💕
Call her na
ReplyDeleteShe might be needing a man too
Don't bother.She is someone better than you.
ReplyDeleteSee the bad advice men like to give themselves? That you are too young to be loyal to one woman? Oh my goodness. Damaged evil men everywhere. Over the years I've heard men and boys give themselves really bad advice . Parents, please give your children orientation. Teach them how not to bend to pair pressure because, if you fail to do so, hmm...
ReplyDeleteConfused people everywhere .
Besides, what's deep throat voice?
That's is she's not already married. A good lady like her will be taken by a good man who knows her worth.
ReplyDeleteShe's gold man 🪙 solid gold & you threw that away....just like that?
Well, all hope is not lost. Do as Stella said in last paragraph 😊 Wishing you good luck in your ultimate search 👍