She said some family members ignored his wishes and buried him in a place he had rejected.
She said, "He gave me his reasons why he did not want to be buried where we eventually buried him. And that was a problem because the first time I saw him was a few weeks after the funeral, in my dream. He looked very angry, he did not talk but he was very angry and there was only one thing that could have made him angry because every other thing I did well"
Interview with: Splashfmibadan
Interview with: Splashfmibadan
Is this Kemi's mother?
ReplyDeleteStep mother
DeleteThis is serious
ReplyDeleteHmmmm!!!
ReplyDeleteNa wah ooo
Orisirisi
ReplyDeleteSo if you know this pull him out and relocate the casket to the his requested location. Keep a small second graveside service with the immediate family only. There is nothing difficult in it.
ReplyDeleteI despise when rogue family members override the wishes of the deceased. This is why ppl should open their mouths when they are alive and let it be known to one and all, not just in the will record alone. Better yet, contact the funeral preparers and setup everything ahead of time. While we have no power over the conditions of our birth, we all have the power to walk down to a funeral home and take out a package of our own specifications and mark our burial site.
Is this advice applicable to the average Nigerian person? I'm sure you know how much funeral services cost.
Delete19:27, actually it is. One woman in her 70s-80s who has no children or was ever married and who lived on a low income all her life made her own funeral arrangements and bought her package. She has not left her burial up to anybody or the government.
DeleteMany ppl are afraid to do this because it feels morbid or they fear death will come sooner for them if they prepare, but it is the right thing to do.
Is that Kemi's father?he should relocate himself
ReplyDeleteReally?
ReplyDeleteThen he should have appeared to those who ignored his wishes and not you. How will they believe you if you tell them this? What is the proof that you saw him in your dream?
Nigerians sha.
Madam, EXCEPT HE WAS RAISED FROM THE DEAD, it was not your late husband that appeared to you in a dream. He is 'asleep' in the world of spirits until the day of judgment.
ReplyDelete*Luke 16:19-31 The rich man was told he could not go back to warn his family about eternity because they already have the law and the prophets to warn them.
He served 3 months as governor. The noise is enough. Propose that the older children relocate your relative. If the children agree, it is possible.
ReplyDeleteA professor of mathematics should have documented and disseminated his wishes concerning burial instead of all this nonsense of dreams and vibes.
For a woman who usurped the home of another long-suffering wife of a serial philanderer, it's unlikely you have a serious vote. The children of the actual wife are the definition of generational trauma. I doubt they will agree on the sum 2+2.