Tuesday In House News

 Tuesday greetilicious hailings .........

TUESDAY MEMO

How are you doing? shout out to Glam granny Gigi...She sent me a hilarious message yesterday......in fact a lot of people did concerning what i said inside in house news about collecting one linca to drinking and helping me pay...LOL

Well, i didnt know i am a comedienne ooooh....

Shout out from me to all the people who pinged me laughing.....

Some people have vanished with their IDs but they are still here commenting as Anonymous..... let me ask you very clearly, wetin you do me wey dey make you hide?

Please the person trying to re-enact a scene with some BVs here who allegedly stopped commenting cos **they got married when stella didnt want them to ''..Please stop dropping such comments, i have honestly moved on from that story, e no dey hard me to move on, those who know me know this...Constantly trying to dust up the issue is because?This is a plea.....Thank you.

Do you know that the person you are looking at may be silently battling financial commitments you know nothing about.? They too may be praying for help.
Let’s slow down on this sense of entitlement. If someone helps you, see it as grace and not an obligation. God bless us all as we hustle for our daily bread.

Let us do blog celebrities and their claims to fame......

what they they do to become celebrities here?Please this is not a post to bring anyone down but to celebrate them.....Una see say somebody dey cry  for one post say i no acknowledge am ......Even me I am not a celeb here but a pen pusher...

Even if they no longer comment, still mention their IDs and their claim to fame... lets go!!!

So lets go and make it interesting oh...

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15 Words Parents Say That Children Never Heal From ( Even in Adulthood) -
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‎Words are powerful. They can build or break, heal or wound, inspire or destroy. For children, the words they hear from their parents become the voice that speaks in their hearts for a lifetime. A careless sentence can remain like a scar in their memory, while a loving word can fuel their confidence forever.
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‎Many parents love their children deeply, but unknowingly use words that weaken their self-esteem, destroy their confidence, or damage their relationship with them. If you want to raise confident, godly, and emotionally stable children, you must learn to guard your tongue.
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‎Here are 15 things every parent must stop saying to their child, and what to say instead:
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‎1. “You are useless!”
‎No child is useless. Words like this do not correct; they crush. A child who constantly hears this will grow up believing they have no value. Instead of attacking the child’s worth, address the behavior: “This action is wrong; you can do better.”
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‎2. “Can’t you be like your brother/sister?”
‎Comparison is poison. It breeds resentment, jealousy, and low self-esteem. Every child is unique. Instead of comparing, celebrate their individuality: “You have your own strengths; let’s work on improving this area.”
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‎3. “You will never amount to anything.”
‎This is a curse in disguise. Many adults still battle with these words in their subconscious. Speak life instead: “I know you will grow and succeed; keep putting in your best.”
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‎4. “Leave me alone, I don’t have your time.”
‎Repeated dismissal tells a child they are not important. Even if you’re busy, acknowledge them: “I’m working now, but once I finish, we’ll talk.” Children who feel heard will keep their hearts open to you.
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‎5. “I regret having you.”
‎No words crush deeper than this. Children never asked to be born. Statements like this create bitterness and distance that may never heal. Instead, assure them: “You are a blessing, even if things are hard right now.”
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‎6. “Stop crying! Only weak people cry.”
‎Crying is a natural way children express pain. Suppressing emotions makes them cold and disconnected as adults. Rather say: “I see you are hurting; tell me what’s wrong.”
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‎7. “Why are you so stupid?”
‎Labeling a child as “stupid” kills their confidence and makes them afraid to try. Correct with love: “That was not the right choice; let’s learn a better way.”
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‎8. “If you fail, don’t come back home.”
‎Fear does not motivate; it paralyzes. Children pressured like this may cheat, lie, or break under stress. Say instead: “Do your best. Even if you fall short, we’ll work together to improve.”
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‎9. “You are too fat/too thin/too dark/too short.”
‎Body shaming from parents creates a lifetime of insecurity. Celebrate their uniqueness: “You are wonderfully made, and I love you just as you are.”
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‎10. “You are a big problem to me.”
‎Children may be challenging, but they should never be called problems. Instead, affirm them: “Parenting can be hard sometimes, but you are worth every sacrifice.”
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‎11. “Don’t disturb me with your questions.”
‎A questioning child is a learning child. Shutting them down kills curiosity. Instead, encourage: “That’s a good question; let’s find the answer together.”
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‎12. “You embarrass me.”
‎Telling a child they are an embarrassment makes them feel rejected. Handle mistakes with correction, not shame: “That behavior is wrong, but I still love you.”
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‎13. “You are just like your father/mother!” (in a negative way)
‎This statement not only insults the child but also sows disrespect for the other parent. Instead of making comparisons, focus on the specific behavior: “This action is not acceptable; let’s work on it.”
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‎14. “I don’t care what you feel.”
‎Dismissing emotions makes children bottle up pain, which can lead to rebellion later. Instead, say: “I may not fully understand, but your feelings matter to me.”
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‎15. “I wish you were never born.”
‎This is one of the most destructive sentences a child can hear. It tells them they are unwanted and unloved. Replace it with unconditional love: “You are a gift, no matter what.”
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‎Final Thoughts
‎Dear parent, words are like seeds. When you plant harsh, negative words, you reap broken children. But when you plant words of love, encouragement, and affirmation, you raise children who are confident, emotionally stable, and deeply connected to you.
‎Parenting is not about perfection, it’s about progress. Even if you have used some of these words before, today is a good day to start afresh. Apologize if necessary. Begin to speak life, and watch your children blossom.
‎Parents, which of these phrases do you think is most damaging? And which alternative will you start practicing in your home today?
‎Don’t be the parent your child hides from, be the parent your child runs to.
‎Replace shouting with conversations.
‎Replace threats with guidance.
‎Replace fear with connection.
‎Because at the end of the day, you’re not just raising a child, you’re shaping a soul.
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I have used two of the words up there out of frustration back then.....However i still accept that they are wrong......

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WEIRD FACTS

 ---Smiles have been proven to be more attractive on a woman's face than makeup.

 ---Don’t confuse your path with your destination. Just because it’s stormy now doesn't mean you aren't headed for sunshine.

 ---Misomaniac is someone who basically hates everything.

 ---According to scientists, men who grow beards easily and earlier in life have been found to be more likely to go bald.

--- When your mother was born, she was already carrying the egg that would become you.

 ---Be a first rate version of yourself, not a second-rate version of someone else.

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FOR YOU

“Dear wife…
Stop killing yourself trying to be a ‘good woman’ for a man who is not being a good husband.
Yes, I said it.
Cooking every day won’t fix disrespect.
Submitting won’t make him value you.
Keeping quiet won’t make him change.
Some of you are suffering in silence just to keep a title called ‘wife’…
But deep down, you are unhappy, unheard, and unappreciated.
Marriage is not slavery.
Love is not endurance.
And being a wife is not a life sentence to pain.
Tonight… ask yourself the hard question:
‘Am I truly loved here… or just tolerated?
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