He first noticed small-small movements that didn’t add up, then one day he came home earlier than usual, quietly opened his own door and heard whispering that didn’t belong to him.
He walked in and caught her red‑handed with another man...There was no denial, no explanation, just betrayal staring him in the face.
Instead of being ashamed on her behalf, her family told him to continue paying her school fees like suffering was his calling.
When he later shared his story online , one lady tried to shoot her shot by saying he should marry her instead, Ugo that has seen premium shege didn’t even let the comment breathe before dropping a sharp, exhausted “are you mad” ...
His response carried heartbreak, school fees in pounds, emotional damage and pure male fatigue .......
What is the essence of this story now?
ReplyDeleteThe essence na say make we try dey get conscience, dey do good and appreciate good wey people do for us.
DeleteYou're a mumu
DeleteAnonymous you be Hausa goat oo, wetin she talk were bad now. She said make both make and female dey try get conscience, to make the world a better place make we no dey take advantage of people were dey for
Deleteus. E no easy anywhere ooo, but as you be bad person you get rebuttal
10:33
DeleteI follow you ask Stella. When the story is not about a husband. How we go take abuse all men now? Ha, I have found it. Let us abuse all men for the rude way Ugo replied the woman who shoot her shot.
Amotekuns over to una.
ReplyDeleteWhat type of stupid comment is this. Amotekun is a regional security outfit in the South West. It's just like saying ESN over to you or ebube agu over to you.
DeleteYou better stop this rubbish because if retaliation starts now, we all know what will happen here. Always starting what they can't finish and when people defend themselves they start to cry victim.
Anon relax. Amotekun or Amotex is another word used for women here.
DeleteOmo this is very painful, in his own home?
ReplyDeleteSome folks never get over the pain of infidelity. Ugo probably bought the bed and paid for the housing and to come up and see everything defiled. All the labours of his love tarnished. I wish him well.
ReplyDeleteMr Ugo sorry o. Make the family refund all the money spent biko.
ReplyDeleteThis is exactly why some men now hesitate to invest in a woman they haven’t married. When I say women know exactly what they’re doing, believe it. A woman is often loyal to how she feels in the moment, not to a man’s sacrifice.
ReplyDeleteSo why sponsor a woman’s education if you’re not married to her? If you’re going to do it, why not make it official first? Not that marriage guarantees loyalty, but at least you’d have legal and social grounds to stand on.
The lady’s family is shameful in this situation. I pray I never come across a family like that in my search for love.
©️ TEEJAY
Oga teejay how is the lady family shameful nawao. Shameless you mean?
Delete"A woman is often loyal to how she feels in the moment, not to a man’s sacrifice."
DeleteThis is a horrible thing to say about women in general. But anyway, you will be rewarded with what you say.
Shameless I meant to type. Autocorrect.
Delete©️ TEEJAY
Teejay, they are married. I think she gave birth not too long ago. The car he bought for her should be around 30 million naira or so.
DeleteBut I guess riding another man's rod was more important.
Anonymous 13:15 was Teejay wrong? Why is it that women on this blog feel guilty when one of them is caught cheating? If you as a woman is loyal, whatever Teejay wrote shouldn’t move you
DeleteTj, you are not serious! Was this not the same thing judy was doing to Obasi, yet you support her!
DeleteYou men started gifting women cars because they gave birth, and now you all are complaining “women are now too materialistic”
ReplyDeleteMy guy’s wife just put to bed, this is their second child, when she had the first baby, he gave her a push gift of 500k.
But this time, he couldn’t get her anything, and looking at her you can see that she’s not happy.
My friend told me how unhappy his wife has been since they returned from the hospital. I asked him if he got her anything after the delivery? He said NO
If she doesn’t understand that we are all living in a 2026 economy and things have changed then she should not have had a second child. Even here in the abroad that so many are desperate to come ppl are losing jobs daily, everything is sky high and there is a mental health crisis like we have never seen before.
DeleteEveryone needs to have good social awareness of the times we are in. Husbands should be honest with their wives about the finances. Do not pretend things are good when they are not. Honesty and transparency should be constant in marriage. Wives should question the finances.
Those who are making babies should have a good nest egg in place and pray, pray, pray.
11:31
DeleteYou assume every person get sense in marriage even if they get sense as professionals and for themselves. For some people you all explanations with documentary evidence fall at your own feet.
11;05 you’re not a good person. Imagine being pressed someone was appreciating his wife. Tufia. It’s how you have concluded that the push gift is the reason she’s unhappy. Post partum depression nko?, am inattentive husband not pulling his weight around the house now there are two kids nko?. Who even said push gift has to be 500k?. Can’t it be an affordable gift?. Welcome home balloon/decor?. Advice your friend to learn his partners love language. You sef mind your business
DeleteSorry Ugo
ReplyDeleteLife is a bitvh
Chai!,that pain never leaves oooo
ReplyDeleteI will like to hear the woman side of the story. We Nigerian women are not this wicked, in Patience ozokwor voice, lol
ReplyDeleteShameless family that shoudd hide their faces. The audacity for them to tell him to keep paying her fees.
ReplyDeleteYou no fit fuck your woman pass who she dey cheat with. You dey make love to am, the other guy dey brutalize am in a way he leaves his mark in her, that keeps her coming back for more.
ReplyDeleteNa person own dey sweet pass.
Betrayal is such a painful thing.
ReplyDeleteOga intentional man sorry oo next time use your head well inugo🙄
ReplyDeleteNow I understand some of the comments about your comments.
DeleteSo Sorry Ugo
ReplyDeleteChaiii
Some Women See Better Thing Say Nah Bad Dem Want
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