Monday hailings!
I dont have much to say today......
Growing up, my mum hated wearing trousers. We were four girls. We'd normally wear skirts and sometimes even rotate clothings amongst ourselves. We all were pretty much of the same height and our bodies were similar.
But personally, I loved trousers. I love how it makes you look chic and girlie. I also like making my hair but my Dad liked that we had low cut .
I hated these two decisions by my parents. They were quite strict too but the no-trousers policy largely came from the church.
We went to a church where trousers were forbidden.
But you know what they say, "The heart wants what it wants".
One time we had a social gathering in our school and we were to bring different costumes. This girl brought fine black trousers and she borrowed me to play my role.
Somehow she didn't remember it and I decided to keep it. I took it home and hid it in the wardrobe. The down part where no one would see me.
I'd often have friends visit me during the holidays and we would go out together. So I decided to sometimes wear it.
I'd wear it and look at myself in the mirror. A teen, so shy and so beautiful. I had the best curves in the right location.
One day after my street waka about. My mum was waiting for me at the door. She had just returned from the office. She asked for the trousers and I was shocked. Who told her? I never knew till date but I strongly suspect it was my older sister.
I thank God she didn't raise dust. I simply went into the wardrobe and gave her the trousers.
That was the end of it until I became a young adult before I got the confidence to wear trousers again.
In hindsight, I am thankful for the opportunity to raise my daughter liberally with no judgement on clothing. No strict adherence . I let her explore. She's very fashionable. Also, the world has changed a lot. I allow my daughter to wear trousers. We live in an area where there are many tiny insects that stings like mad, you'd have to cover your entire skin to save yourself from itching. Which normally leaves scars because of the vigor of scratching.
I learned an important lesson, that sometimes, the things that others frown upon, might just be the things that we need.
Wetin concern my mama and papa with trousers?LOL
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EXCUSE ME?????
You are emotionally abusing your spouse and claim to be loving your children at the same time?.
You no well.
You think children learn only from what you say?
You think they are not seeing what is happening?
You think buying stuff for your kids while maltreating their mother is love?
You proudly go out and come back late and that’s your way of punishing a woman? You endanger your life and turn around and think it’s the woman you are punishing? And come OUT to brag about it?
Unbelievable!
How some people can be infantile beats me.
#copied
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WHAT IS THE COURT?
Let me say something that may shock you
Court is not for Truth.
Court is for Proof.
Yes read that again.
Many people enter court with confidence:
“As long as I’m saying the truth, I will win.”
That mindset has destroyed many strong cases.
Because in law, truth alone is powerless without proof.
You can be completely honest.
You can be 100% right.
You can even have people who “know what happened.”
But if you cannot present admissible evidence, the court can still rule against you and it will not be injustice. It will be law.
Here is the reality most people don’t know:
- Court does not listen to stories it weighs evidence
- Court does not reward emotions it applies rules
- Court does not assume it requires proof
Let me break it down
Everyone says a man is cheating.
The whole street “knows.” But you have no messages, no pictures, no credible evidence.
In court?
That “truth” is empty.
Here is the part people don’t like to hear
Court respects documentation more than narration.
Court respects evidence more than feelings.
Court respects proof more than belief.
So remember this simple line:
Truth is what happened
Proof is what you can show
And in court what you can show is everything.
This is why you must start living wisely:
#Copied
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WEIRD FACTS
--- Morning wood' is a sign of good health. ::LOL google morning wood
---Astronauts at the International Space Station witness 16 sunrises and 16 sunsets every day.
----The oldest person in history, Jeanne Calment, smoked cigarettes from the age of 21 until she was 117
She quit five years before her death at age 122, as she was no longer able to see well enough to safely use a lighter
---A 390-year-old bonsai tree survived the bombing of Hiroshima. Later, the tree was gifted to the U.S. and it still lives in Washington, D.C.
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TODAY IN HISTORY
--- On this day in 1804, Napoleon Bonaparte was appointed Emperor of the French. Even today, the French leader, a native of Corsica, is widely known for his successful military campaigns – and his final defeat at the Battle of Waterloo.
--- On this day in 2009, the Sri Lankan Civil War ended. The 25-year conflict between the government and the separatist Tamil Tigers had claimed up to 100,000 lives. It ended with the Tigers’ defeat.
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DID YOU KNOW?
---- South Africa’s Naspers is the largest publicly traded company in Africa by market capitalization. Naspers’ wealth largely stems from a brilliant early investment in the Chinese tech giant, Tencent.
----Putting one foot in front of the other is a complex process that engages approximately 200 muscles.
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Take time to improve, but don't waste time to prove.
ReplyDelete💯💯🙏🙏.
HBD to you, Jeweluchi Chocolate Noir, wishing you a happy many returns of the day and cheers 🥂 to a better life ahead 💗.
Thank you fam
DeleteWord, happy blessed birthday jewulychi Chocolat noir
DeleteJeweluchi is Elizabeth jackrich because they share same birthday
DeleteThis is what will kill woke parents. Being extremely liberal because your parents were extremely strict
DeleteGood afternoon everyone,hope your day is going on well...
ReplyDeleteOmoh eeh my today's production wan show me shege but las las i succeeded 👏👏
This your blog ID na helele 😂
DeleteGood afternoon Nne
What are you producing?
DeleteHahahahaha... After reading yesterday's clap back, I said I will start calling you the most trending name on the post. 😁
DeleteEnjoy the rest of your day.
Hahahaha 😂 Glory baby, Sunday what? 😆
DeleteDrama gurl😂🤣
DeleteI come dey wonder wetin you do anonymous them, every blessed day, especially clap back post, they are on your matter!!
E come be like say them dey vex say you dey chop suya
Ah ah🤣🤣🤣😂😂
Anonymous on this blog are all batshit crazy Biko😂😂😂😂😂
NN Nwannem naso the helele happen oo😅
Delete14:59 i produce and supply special bleach and liquid wash i call them special for a reason😘
Lora babes i tire abeg i reach celeb as the thing don too much like this nah🤠
Adunni bae Sunday celeb Ighotago😅😅
Gifty nwa Ikegwuru oo,dey go soon chop their eyes oo nothing concern me sef
Let me address this nonsense some of you were posting inside SP as concerns BV Ali B.....someone asked me to look for him after insinuating nonsense and i said i would not that this place is not a charity organisation...I meant charity with time and did not even know the desperately hungry umu bingos will read another meaning into it....
ReplyDeleteAli B does not beg for money please!
If you are looking for him, please do so, I am not looking for him and he is not missing and is on my WhatsApp group....
He will post when and if he feels like,I am not putting him under duress to comment if he does not want to and nothing is by force....
Now move on with your cow dung insinuations....it failed to hit target!
#umubingo
let me give you something else to give you headache...I love Chike!
I WILL NOT ENABLE ANY FURTHER COMMENT ON THIS NONSENSE!!!
We love !CHIKE! 😋😋😋😋🥰🥰😀. nothing do you stelly koko.
Delete🤣🤣🤣 All i read here na Umu bingos🤣🤣🤣 SDK abegoo my belle oo ikwakwakwa
Deleteme wey wan travel go see Chike,i wan ask him chunchim that's bothering me 🤔
permission granted since morning sef🙄😅
GBAM!
DeleteIf I no love SDK, wetin I gain in life? 😭
Alpha female per excellent 💪
Always bursting my brain. No time for BS. 😃
Hahahaha 🤣🤣
DeleteChike ezigbo mmadu, sweet boy wey no dey keep malice 😂
Bvs and jamming of heads are like 5 and 6.
DeleteGood you cleared the air cos they were already saying he begged for money inbox.
I hope he's ok wherever he is sha.
To be frank, Chike is so fine 🥱
DeleteHe use cuteness take baff
Caramel sauce umu asa
Chike my salt
Chike my pepper
Chike my dopamine
Chike, if I pity your soul, make I curve
Nwoke di too soft
Nwoke wey no dey keep malice. Chai!
To be frank you have to endure, you get!
You will be feeling like it want to kpai you but it will not kpai you. You get!
Lol 😆 This our generation ba? dem no send any borri
Hahaha 🤣🤣🤣 @ Baci.
DeleteUna good afternoon oooo... chike 😋
ReplyDeleteHello beautiful people, please where can I buy original shea butter in Lagos? Would you believe that majority of shea butter has been mixed??? It's so unfortunate.
ReplyDeleteYour best bet is to go to those women that sell herbs (elewe omo) and plead with them that you need original one for use on a new bron baby as recommended by your family head. Tell her that fake ones are affecting the new born baby and you are ready to pay more for the original one.
DeleteThis is the only way to get original Shea butter in Lagos.
The woman will give you date and she will tell you to come back for it. She will get it for you if she doesn't have it at hand.
Very unfortunate. I only buy from Osun state....they have good shea butter.
DeleteThank you so much Fresh Petals. I appreciate.
DeleteSlutty Chick, I'm completely baffled!!!!
Good afternoon y'all
ReplyDeleteHappy birthday Choco ❤️. Live long and enjoy life in good health. Have a wonderful celebration.
Thanks a lot my Girlie'O ❤️❤️
DeleteHope you feel better today Pretty? 🤗
DeleteI just got diagnosed with fibroid. I don't have any symptoms, my menses comes normal, no excess bleeding during menstruation, I had some crampy feeling last week that was why I did scan and fibroid was found though the crampy feeling has since stopped but I was told the fibroid is big even though my stomach feels so small. I don't know what to do as I'm scared of surgery, God please help me. Hubby is very worried, we are done with childbirth already
ReplyDeleteFrom all you said, no major symptoms that are risky.
DeleteAnd you are done with child birth.
I would advised you ignore and at menopause, it will shrink on its own.
You are so lucky o
Pls don't be scared. If the money is available, get a good hospital. Take away fear from your mind, fear is dangerous. Pray about it and God in his infinite mercies will make the operation to be a success.
DeleteMaybe you should redo the tests somewhere else.
DeleteGod's got you dear 🤗
Since there are no serious symptoms, no cause for alarm.
DeleteJust adjust your diet. Stop taking soft drinks, reduce sugar, reduce carbohydrates like rice, eba, fufu, semo, etc.
Stop eating bread and snacks made with flour and sugar totally.
Eat more of beans, fruits, vegetables, etc.
Mine were three big ones detected. I started having painful periods with large bloody lumps that lasted for weeks.
The doctor gave me medicines and told me to adjust my diet. I'm fine now with normal periods.
I cut off soft drinks and the above snacks completely. I cut off bread too . I drink green tea now and I eat little swallow with plenty soup. I also eat enough fruits and vegetables everyday..
I will hit menopause very soon and they will shrink.
You don't need surgery unless it is life threatening.
I forgot to include fried foods. Reduce fried foods too and oil, all types of oils.
DeleteThe most important thing in fibroids control is diet modification. If you do surgery and you don't adjust your diet, they will grow back.
This is a fact.
How many times will they open up one's belly to remove fibroids?
Good afternoon SDK and BVs. Very cool and calm Monday. Blessed week. 🙏🏿🙏🏿🙏🏿
ReplyDeleteGood afternoon beautiful BB 😍
DeleteAmen Bb dear 🙏
DeleteGOOD AFTERNOON MY SDK FAMILY 🌹
ReplyDeleteHappy birthday Choco noir.
May God bless your new age with blessings, good health and prosperity in Jesus name 🙏
Happy birthday to our beautiful Choco dearie 😍🎂 Very calm & intelligent sis with a heart of gold 💖
ReplyDeleteGod bless you more as you celebrate another beautiful year dear 🎉😘
I receive your plenty hugs Stella dear 🤗🤗
Congratulations Nk baby & Glory dear 🎉🎉
I am enjoying this cool weather with a cup of hot tea ☕ Pls join me beautiful people 😍
Carry go jare Adunni dear 💕
DeleteI'm also enjoying the cool weather on this side ☺️
That's nice to hear Mercy baby 😊 Enjoy dear 🤗
DeleteThank you Stella
ReplyDeleteAnd thank you everyone for your kind wishes.
God is awesome and my day is going very well ❤️❤️❤️
Happy beautiful birthday 🎉 to you Choco baby. May you live long in good health and abundant blessings.♥️♥️
DeleteCheers 🥂 to your new year Choco dear 🎊🎉
DeleteHappy birthday Jewelu Choc Noir.
DeleteGod bless your new age.
Birthday love & blessings chocolat noir, I wish you all the good things life has to offer you with abundance of peace of mind.
DeleteYou and my kid sister share the same birth date and she is one of my favorite person in the world. So I wish you both more years and prosperity 🥂
Happy birthday Jeweluchi Chocolat Noir.🎊🎊🎊
DeleteHappy birthday dark choco, God bless your new age. Have an amazing year 🥂🎉🎊
DeleteEnjoy your birthday babygirl 😘🎂
DeleteHappy birthday to you Choco baby. Wishing you more fruitful years ahead in good health and sound mind.
DeleteHappy birthday sis 💞
DeleteMore blessings to you 🎊🎉
Happy birthday to you Choco gurl. I wish you many happy returns of good health and prosperity. Enjoy this very special day.
DeleteHappy birthday Jeweluchi Chocolate Noir.
DeleteMany more blessed years I wish you
Awwwwwwwww sis, I'm just seeing this.
DeleteHappy birthday to you love, keep shinning and winning ❤️ 💖
Happy birthday Choco. May God bless your kind heart
DeleteHappy birthday, Jewel. Wishing you divine blessings and multifaceted growth in life. In Jesus name 🙏
DeleteHappy birthday Jeweluchi
DeleteHappy birthday once again Sweet Jewelu Choco baby ❤️ have fun and enjoy yourself 🤗
DeleteHappy birthday Choco. Best wishes for the new year.
DeleteHappy birthday Choco baibay 🥳🥳♥️♥️♥️♥️
ReplyDeleteI don reduce my awards dem Stella 😆
ReplyDeleteI don pack the ones wey I reduce dem put inside my pocket.
Common sense should have told you to do that earlier.
DeleteAre you at war with it?
Lol 😆 You do well dear 👍
Delete14:43
DeleteIf I lacked common sense, I’d be just like you. Please feel free to file yourself under things I don't care about.
Weldon Baci babe e dey show well😘
DeleteAdun, thank you 😘
DeleteGlory O, na now I see your own well o.
IKWAKWAKWAKWAKWAKWAKWA 🤣
Which one be Sunday clap back celebrity again? Omoh!
Good afternoon my good people of SDK blog. Another day to be thankful for.
ReplyDeleteNotorious for Jesus's write up reminded me of my trouser wearing journey. As the first child/girl, I was unsure of my parent's position on wearing of trousers and I didn't want to ask directly so I soft launched with this baggy trouser that was in vogue then, I think it was made with polyester. I bought them in two colours; mint green and coffee brown. I wore them round the house, no resistance from them.
ReplyDeleteThen I tried plain black pants, badly tailored rubbish that we used to buy from the wheelbarrow then at Dutse Monday market for #300 😂😂😂.
I later introduced jeans shortly before I left the house for higher institution but made sure to wear tops that were long enough to cover my bum. Good old days.
Miss Aboki, you go school? I been no know o. Which school abeg? Chai, over surprise dey do me o
DeleteLol 😂
DeleteYou really used your small pikin sense wella then
Lol. They didn't mind because they didn't have a problem with it. Can a Deeper life church daughter wear baggy trousers in the house where the parents are? Impossible!
Delete15:11, I thought you now have sense.after the bashings and warning here. I didn't know you are still a moron.
DeleteDoes Miss Aboki not write better than some alleged Masters degree holders here?
The heck she writes better than you with your disjointed stories and long ramblings.
Receive sense !
15:11, maami fly away from here. You get coconut head like your son , like mother like son. Dem say make you leave us alone, you still dey here dey troll.
DeleteAnon 15:11
DeleteThat is not a nice thing to say. Me wey no go school nko? Wetin you go con tell me? My own go worse be dat 🙄
Get help please. ASAP
16:30 and 16:34 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣.
DeleteUna no get chill at all.
Maami you too leave this joint like the owner warned you to.
Meanwhile where is your son sef? He's been missing here for some days 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
Mgbeeke miss aboki stop replying ur fake comments.
DeleteGo to school, forms are selling for next academic session.
What freaking shii
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Happy birthday jewelu choc, cheers to a new year
ReplyDeleteThank you so much Chee
DeleteHappy birthday Chocolat Noir. God's blessings and protection be upon you 🙏
ReplyDeleteJusty babe thanks a lot .
DeleteHappy Birthday Sweetest Jewel 🥰
ReplyDeleteMay The Good Lord Bless Your New Age
Wishing You Heaven Best 🙏
Long Life And Glorious Prosperity ❤️🙏
Congratulations To Nklicious Baby 🥰
And
Glorylicious Twinylicious Baby 🥰
wellcomeee Innnnnnnnn Houseeeee
I Greetlicious Everybody ooooo ❤️
Hello iya Boys
I greetilicious you Chika love 😘
DeleteThank you so so much Chi I appreciate you.
DeleteHappy birthday to you dear Choco babes may you live long and prosper more,may God answer all your secret prayers Amen 🙏
ReplyDeleteWow! And Isaw my name up thereoo💃
Thank you dear sweet Stella😘
May God multiply you more in Jesus name Amen
Congratulations Glo baby ♥️
DeleteGood afternoon all
ReplyDeletePlease how do i retrieve my blog ID and also how do i unclone my phone.
I know what fact 1 is without asking google 🤭
ReplyDeleteCongrats Nk and Glo baby 👏
Nice day ahead ✌️
My dear, I didn't know the meaning o...had to go google it 🙈😆
DeleteOmor todays weather is extremely cold... congratulations nk baby and glory asa... enjoy your gifts
ReplyDeleteHappy birthday choc Dearie..live long and be happy ..cheers to your new age
Better cold than hot! Na to wear hoodie/cardigan. 😉
DeleteEnjoy the rest of your day.
Thanks dear Mor😘
DeleteWoww💃🏻
ReplyDeleteThank you so much Jewelu, God's continuous blessings 🙌🏻
Really appreciate 😘
Happy birthday Blessings Choc Noir, Wishing You a Prosperous and Amazing New Year Sis🎉🥳
Today began on a beautiful note, so shall it progress.
Wow, at the weird fact on the Oldest Person in history's health despite her smoking life style. Good health was actually portioned to her😁
Cheers 🥂
DeleteCongratulations Nk baby of the most high 🤗🤗
DeleteHappy birthday Choc Noir 🥳 My fellow May baby.
ReplyDeleteStella, I receive ya happy hug 🫂
Enjoy the rest of the day, everyone.
Awww see my fellow May born 🤗🤗
DeleteCheers @ Osundi 🥂 🤗
DeleteGood afternoon to us all.. Before I start to dey play forget the important thing...
ReplyDeleteAbeg, who dey Greater Manchester here. I need info on how many secondary school on there and minimum of teachers in each school...
Or if anyone has a verifiable means of me getting it online..want them for RDC.. working on a topic that has to do with teacher intention and I'm using Greater Manchester as a case stidy
You know you can Goggle yeah?
DeleteGood afternoon 😊😊😊
ReplyDeleteHappy birthday 🎉🥳🎉 Jewluchi Choco noir
God bless your New age...
I don catch the hugs and sense...
ReplyDeleteWe move
Good afternoon everyone 😍🥰
ReplyDeleteGood afternoon house.
ReplyDeleteDem pursue school fees gbese people last Friday, dem no pursue my pikin.
I am so happy. During my own time, na everytime dem dey pursue me because my parents were broke.
I am doing better than my parents, thank you Lord. 🙏
Does your child not attend the school you run?
DeleteAs it should be
DeleteIt's the prayer of every parent that there kids do better than them
Thank God for our own lives.
DeleteIya Nini, your children are still of primary school ages, why are they not in your own school? The one you own and run?
You people are funny o. She sef know wetin she dey run. Una fit send your children to her school?
DeleteHmmm...iya you just brought back memories. We thank God for provision.
DeleteMadam doesn't want her kids to speak "female actresses" kinda grammar like she does 🤣
DeleteOmo 🤣
DeleteAnons make una lemme o
I don laugh tire for here.
Showers of rain.
ReplyDeleteGood afternoon beautiful people
ReplyDeleteBirthday blessings on you Choc!!!!
ReplyDeleteMay you age gracefully and enjoy the fruit of your labour.
©️ TEEJAY
Happy birthday to you, Jeweluchi Chocolat Noir. I wish you all the best today and always. Have a good one dear.
ReplyDeleteLovely weather
ReplyDeleteI catch the hug 🤗🤗
Good afternoon everyone 💞
Happy cake daiiii choco 🍫 choco 🌹 🍷........
ReplyDeleteHappy birthday chocolate Noir
ReplyDeleteHappy birthday Choco,many more happy healthy prosperous years ahead
ReplyDeleteHappy birthday Chco Noir. Jelu - junior❤️
ReplyDeleteYour life is a blessing and your presence makes every space brighter. . May God continue to guide your every step🙏
Welcome ihn news
ReplyDeleteBcs make una help me pray for my son
He clocked 6 today
Six years ago
I was passing through labour pains but thank God it ended in praise
Happy birthday to your son!! 🥳
DeleteGuys please let's continue supporting Chike.
ReplyDeleteLet this be his best year ever.
I like as na man do man.🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
Smoh cheating dem won die online.
Imagine!
Even the ones that are cheating with multiple side chicks are condemning him. Smellin' peegs.
Fix your lives first before you chook forked tounge inside the lives of others. Bingos.
Hahaha 🤣🤣 anon abeg no wound me with laughter.
Delete🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
DeleteMy dear, forget say we dey catch cruise with this thing wey chike and Sandra do but there is no justification whysoever for infidelity. If your partner is cheating, don't stay and stoop to their level, just walk away. Divorce them. Ending the marriage might be the best course of action. This is advice directed at women.
DeleteStella You did not see HF beddings ID that is longer than Baci 's own? She listed all the things that she sells, she kuku do signboard and use as blog ID, you no see am?
ReplyDeleteWe told her several times to reduce it but she refused. She get coconut head. Isi Aki.
Maybe if you tell her she will hear.
She is not a regular anymore thats why...have you seen her since on Saturday?
DeleteAnyway its all good
HF OOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO come and adjust your blog ID
There actully a way to accomodate all withit blinding out the post title
Lol Stella you've time.
DeleteI agree
ReplyDeleteThe court room is for proof
Happy birthday Choco.
I love cold the weather☺️
God Almighty 🤦♂️
ReplyDeleteI love the cold weather I meant
I remember when women wearing trousers was such a taboo for many faiths, still is for some. Those ones also forbade any chemical treatment to the hair, wearing makeup, jewelry or high heels, the plain clothes they wore were never even fashionable. They were to be plain as a sign of their commitment. I always wondered if they were truly happy because they never appeared joyful or relaxed.
ReplyDeleteThey were always aggressive and bitter. I think those traits come with their commitment to their Church doctrines
DeleteHappiest birthday celebration dear Choco Noir. Thanking God for beautiful soul like yours still existing in this wicked world and for that may God perfect and defend all that concerns you.
ReplyDeleteI catch that your happy and lots of love hug SDK and thank you for giving.
ReplyDeleteAnd thanks a bunch for Bvs Teacher N and Glo. God bless you plenty
Good afternoon blogfam. I hope we are having a stress-free monday? Happy Birthday Jeweluchi. May lines keep falling in pleasant places for you .Enjoy your day.
ReplyDeleteWe go settle morning wood for court 😆
ReplyDelete