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Truth is that you have to look out for the ones who are not bitter cos most of them are. They sometimes carry unresolved anger from their previous relationships and want to apply it in the new ones. My brother just escaped from one.
ReplyDeleteI’m beginning to love your sincerity in your comments.
DeleteI hope the bitter ones here won’t call you a “pick me” like they usually do to women who don’t support their shenanigans.`
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Truth is that you have to look out for the ones who are not bitter cos most of them are. They sometimes carry unresolved anger from their previous relationships and want to apply it in the new ones. My brother just escaped from one.
ReplyDeleteWhere is the lies here? Good a woman said this. A man saying it would be termed hate.
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Broad generalisations like this are a huge problem. Single mothers get married all the time.
ReplyDeleteTo me, I think it could be from experiences they’ve witnessed and seen from others, and also the baggage some women come with. I won’t speak for all men though, because they may have their reasons.
ReplyDeleteSettling with a single mom shouldn’t be a problem for me just because she has a child or two. Most of them aren’t even done with their baby daddies anyway and that's a huge problem on its own. `
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They don't want the burden of raising another man's child
ReplyDeleteDoes “single mom” mean a single woman living with a child, or a single woman who has given birth to a child?
DeleteI’m asking on the premise that you said men don’t want to take on another man’s responsibility. So I’ll ask this: what if the baby daddy has custody of the child? I’ve often seen cases where men take the child and give their mom to help raise him/her.
Would you still say marrying such a woman makes a man afraid of responsibility? Or does that mean she’s no longer a “single mom” since she’s not the one nursing/raising the child?`
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Some don't want to carry responsibility of another man's children
ReplyDeleteThey fear replacement
Hmm 🤔
ReplyDeleteThis is one of those discussions that always provokes debate, but the premise is fairly straightforward. People have preferences. Everyone has standards about the kind of partner they want until life changes their own circumstances.
ReplyDeleteIsn't it interesting how a woman's decision to reject certain men is often described as a personal preference, yet when some men express preferences of their own, it is sometimes framed as a social problem. I find that double standard unconvincing. The claim that men don't want to marry single mothers is simply too broad to be true. Generalisation is our problem because plenty of men do.
A more meaningful question is: Why do some men choose not to? The answer is no different from why some women choose not to marry divorced men, single fathers, unemployed men, or men with children from previous relationships. People consider what they are willing and able to take on in a long-term relationship. That is a personal decision, not necessarily a moral thing.
Being a single parent does not automatically mean the person is bitter, emotionally damaged, or carrying "too much baggage." Equally, someone who chooses not to date a single parent is not automatically irresponsible, immature, or afraid of commitment. Compatibility is shaped by individual circumstances, values, priorities, direct or indirect experience, life goals, not stereotypes.
In reality, most people choose partners based on a combination of compatibility, emotional maturity, shared values, financial realities, attraction, plans, and family circumstances. Having children from a previous relationship may reduce the dating pool for some parents because some people prefer not to assume that responsibility. However, it does not make a single parent undesirable or incapable of finding a loving, committed partner. Likewise, anyone who decides that such a relationship is not for them is simply expressing a personal preference, not prejudice.
Either way, everyone is entitled to their preferences, provided they do not present those preferences as truth or use them to stereotype an entire group of people.