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Tuesday, June 16, 2026

TUESDAY IN HOUSE NEWS

 Hailings....


TUESDAY MEMO
How una dey?
Have a great day and don't lose your smile , don't look around the negative things around you and losr your smile...Don't!!!
I noticed the male BVs are under attack from Annons...This is really strange and I wonder the people behind this new trick to get them to exit the Blog..Why nah?????The most under attack is Papa Chucky wey kuku get una time cos i see his responses.....Papa chucky how chucky He must be so big now....10k fit buy chucky something? send the aza to Waju my accounts officer.
To Every BV being attacked under anon, honestly sometimes i delete the comment and i am always shocked to see it enabled...sometimes the mistkae is mine either by error or just for entertainment but i take responsibility and will try as much as i can to delete.......
Hugs and kisses!
😘😘😘😘😘😘😘😘😘
I am eating one or two slices from this yummy mushroom pizza bought for me by one of my Bambinos....Join me oooooh cos it is so big that i screamed when i saw the package.....May God bless your kids also to remember to pet you and buy you things......This will be all i will eat today....Plus one or two cups of capuccino....Danke!


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BE CAREFUL ON GIVING ADVICE - A MUST READ!!!

One thing people should be very careful about is giving advice or pushing strong opinions from a privileged position without realizing it.

A lot of advice sounds wise until you examine where it is coming from.
Some people speak from comfort and forget that comfort has shaped how they think. They assume their choices are simply the result of discipline, intelligence, faith, or strong values, while ignoring the role of money, access, education, stable housing, healthcare, family support, useful networks, and the basic relief of not living under crushing pressure every day.

This is where the problem begins.
Once a person does not account for their own advantage, they begin turning personal experience into universal wisdom. They speak as though what was possible for them is equally possible for everybody else if only they would think better, work harder, or pray more.
This is how advice becomes careless.
It is easy to preach patience when your own survival is not on the line. It is easy to speak of principles when need is not pressing you from every direction.

This is why maturity requires more than having an opinion. It requires location awareness. It requires the ability to ask yourself, from where am I speaking? What advantages am I assuming? What realities am I failing to see because life has not forced me to face them?
This does not mean truth changes because people are under pressure. It does mean truth should be spoken with humility, context, and seriousness.
A person can say something true and still say it in a way that is blind, arrogant, and unhelpful.

And this is one reason many people feel unseen when public commentary addresses their lives. They are being spoken to by people who know principles but do not understand conditions. So the words may sound clean, but they land like stones.
There is a difference between conviction and elitism.
Conviction tells the truth with clarity. Elitism pushes truth, if it is truth at all, without enough compassion, context, or awareness of how different people actually live.
And elitism is not only about money. A person can be elitist intellectually, spiritually, socially, or culturally. You can look down on people simply because life has never cornered you in the same way. You can speak as though others are only making bad choices, when many are navigating burdens you have never had to carry.
This is why people should be careful before advising others, especially on sensitive matters. Before you speak strongly, ask yourself whether you have truly accounted for the weight other people are under.
Because one of the easiest ways to become unhelpful is to confuse your vantage point with wisdom.
And one of the clearest marks of maturity is knowing that where you are standing may be shaping what you are able to see.
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This is a good read for those of us who give advice in the Chronicles post..most of us judge too quickly and too wickedly and we need to stop it.


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WEIRD FACTS

--- Coffee can lower your risk of tooth decay.

--- Some people feel uncomfortable when the TV volume is not divisible by 2.

--- Psychology says that too much stress literally causes the human brain to freeze and shut down temporarily.

--- Don’t ruin today by worrying about yesterday’s problem.

-----Some people are actually afraid of being too happy because they think something tragic is going to happen soon. This is known as Cherophobia.

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THINGS THAT ARE TRUE BUT YOU MAY NEVER KNOW...

You will agree or testify that at least one of these is true...If you see it, please state it....
1. Somewhere in the world, a person once cared deeply about you but never found the courage to say it.
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2. Someone noticed your presence, admired you for a moment, and carried on with their day without you ever knowing.
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3. A small act of kindness you considered insignificant has remained in someone's memory for years.
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4. At some point, your words or actions gave someone the strength they needed to keep moving forward.
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5. Your name has come up in conversations, stories, and memories that you'll never get to hear.
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6. Someone defended your character or spoke well of you when you weren't around to speak for yourself.
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7. There is someone who sees your call, message, or post and feels genuinely happy to hear from you.
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8. Your journey has encouraged people in ways you'll probably never fully realize, even if they never tell you.
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9. Someone still remembers a conversation you forgot years ago because it meant more to them than you ever realized.
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10. A decision you almost didn't make changed the course of your life in ways you'll never fully see.
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11. Someone has used your story as proof that difficult seasons don't last forever.
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12. You've walked past people who were silently wishing they had your courage.
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13. A compliment you gave in passing became part of someone's confidence for years.
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14. Someone has compared themselves to you and wished they had what comes naturally to you.
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15. You've been someone's answered prayer without ever knowing it.
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16. A lesson you shared casually became advice someone carried into a major life decision.
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To be continued tomorrow

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A NARRATIVE WORTH READING

Some men are more wicked than the devil.
This is exactly why their old age is always very lonely
A few days ago I was at the hospital.
A friend's daughter was not feeling fine, so I joined his wife to the hospital since he had a morning shift at work.

We were at the children's ward.
And what I saw there has refused to leave my head.
Everywhere I looked, I saw women, women carrying babies, women sitting beside hospital beds, women sleeping on chairs, women who have practically paused their lives because their children needed them.

Some of the children were seriously sick.
Some were battling different health conditions.
Some mothers looked exhausted, you could see it in their faces, you could see it in their eyes and you could see that they hadn't slept properly in days.
Then I saw three babies inside incubators.
Tiny babies, babies that came into this world too early and now have to fight before they can even begin to enjoy life.

These women have been in that hospital for over a week.
And not one husband was there.
So I asked questions in my heart
Maybe their husbands travelled, maybe they work in another state, maybe they are far away.
Even if they were working in another state, nothing stopping them from taking excuse to be with their family as the man of the house.
When I asked the women about their husbands they all said the same thing
"Our husbands are around, not abroad, not out of state but around.
Going to work and coming back home.
And that got me angry.
Because when that baby cries at 2am, it is the mother that gets up.
When the doctor calls, it is the mother that answers.
When bad news comes, it is the mother that carries the fear.
When injections are being given, it is the mother holding the child.
When tears start flowing in the middle of the night because nobody knows what tomorrow holds, it is the mother crying alone.

Yet some st*pid men believe sending money is enough. No sir.
Money is not enough, your child is in the hospital fighting for life and you have not shown your face for one week? How?
Some men are very wicked.
The painful part is that some of these same men can spend hours with another woman.
They can sit in a beer parlour.
They can attend football viewing centres.
They can spend the whole evening laughing with friends.
But somehow they cannot spend one hour sitting beside their wife and child in a hospital.
How did some men become this wicked?
And what hurts me the most is knowing that some men will even blame the woman.
Some will say: "She can't even give me a normal baby."
"Let her handle it, after all she's the mother."
Imagine that level of wickedness.
A child both of you created, achild carrying your blood, a child fighting for life.
And your reSponse is to abandon both mother and child because things did not go exactly the way you expected.
Honestly, some men do not deserve the title of husband.
Fatherhood is showing up.
Fatherhood is standing beside your wife when she's breaking.
Fatherhood is carrying the burden together.
Fatherhood is looking at your child and wife in that hospital bed and saying
"We will fight this battle together."
I know what I went through running around for my friend's child that was just stooling.Buying things here and there, going from one place to another, worrying, checking on her constantly.
And that was just ordinary stooling
Now imagine what these women are going through.
Imagine carrying that burden alone for one week.
Imagine carrying that burden alone while watching your child connected to tubes and machines.
Imagine carrying that burden alone while your husband is somewhere living life as if nothing is happening.
Some men are wicked, very wicked and heartless.
And one thing life has taught me is this
The same wife you're abandoning today.
The same children you're refusing to show up for today.
They are the same people you will expect to stand by you when old age comes.
Life has a way of returning energy.
And many men don't realize that until it's too late.

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Long but interesting read....

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102 comments:

  1. My SDK family make Una come oh.
    I noticed say, anytime I eat food or drink water, my stomach go just big, like this now, na XL polo I they wear now because of my stomach.LOL.
    Abi na fat I they fat, Abu evidence of good living.
    It's not results of 🍺 because since this year I don stop to drink beer, because it gives me serious headaches.
    πŸ˜†πŸ˜…πŸ˜‚

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    1. It might be accumulated fat from the previous beer that you consumed.
      Anyways it depends on the kind of that you eat.
      Excess 'swallow' and carbohydrate can protrude belly.

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    2. No fear,na odogwu feature πŸ€ͺπŸ€ͺπŸ€ͺ

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    3. Amen to your prayers Stella.

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    4. Hahahaha πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚
      Na evidence of good living...do some sit-up exercises though πŸ‘

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    5. It is only in Nigeria you will hear people say being fat is evidence of good living. You better lose it. You have a slim frame, adding a pot belly to it is a no no.

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    6. Because that is how it is in naija! @Anon

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    7. Men 40 above are running away from fat... else the person is ready to buy hbp drg God 4 bid

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    8. You are very correct @blogbrityπŸ˜πŸ˜πŸ˜πŸ‘

      Triple C, relax that's how it is with them odogwu😁

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    9. To fat no be evidence of good living o. We're working out for longevity, not just for looks. ⏳Shredding the weight, securing the health. πŸ”₯na the level we dey now.

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  2. My Love for corn especially cooked one with ube is something I can't explain, but I don't believe that I have not tasted corn this year at all, at this junction I come against anything that is trying to put asunder between me and corn to leave us alone Amen.. make I go buy corn I Day come..

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    1. I love corn, both cooked and roasted.

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    2. Buy for 2 and send address for pickup.
      I have eaten boiled corn and pear but I can never get enough of it.

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    3. I also prefer the boiled corns but no fresh ones here

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    4. I bought 5 pieces of fresh corn for 1800 and it was worth it..since my mind is not soo much on it..
      I don't know if mango is still available...I crave for it badly

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    5. I really don't like corn, but if I wan manage chop am, I perfer the cook corn.

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    6. It's my to-go snack now aside carrots. Just add coconut πŸ₯₯😊

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    7. Candylicious baby I prefer cooked ones, roasted one usually taste some how in my mouth
      Marie oya drop your address so that I can send some your way
      Blogbrity cooked fresh corn is usually very sweet with either ube or coconut

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    8. I like corn too especially cooked one but I've not tasted any this year. Not being able to get fresh ones..

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    9. I ate one yesterday, roasted but i wasnt getting that corn sweetness.
      Hopefully when next i buy, its going to be sweet and soft.

      How have you been?

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    10. Roasted corn lover here! I have not eaten it this season yet cos I haven't seen it.

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    11. I love corn too, whether cooked or roasted, make e sha be the one wey them harvest same day. I love it with coconut. I dey wonder how people dey enjoy am with ube. I bought some at the market the other day, I cook am so tey, this corn refused to done. I didnt want to add potash. I just chop am like that oo. Lol.

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    12. Mor I hardly see those raw ones here, so I usually buy cooked ones
      Altuage you day miss ooo, corn is bea
      My darling Adunni I even use it as lunch, breakfast or dinner self
      My darling MercyBee even me, I have not tasted it too, but I must buy it today
      My darling Mariam baby I'm good, how far about your Dread journey

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    13. I Made Corn And Beans Last week Saturday, Put some For Freezer
      I'm Still On It ooooo..

      Wellcomeee Innnnnnnnn Houseeeee Newssssss ooooo
      I Greetlicious Everybody ooooo

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    14. I love corn especially when cooked with beans. I had that deliciousness this Sunday πŸ˜‹

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    15. Mine is corn 🌽 and coconut πŸ₯₯

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    16. Boil corn is the best for me. Everyday anytime.

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    17. Roasted corn 🌽 with coconut any day

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    18. My love for corn 🌽 ehn

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  3. Good afternoon y'all
    Thankful for life.

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  4. Good afternoon my people, how una dey?

    Raining heavily over here since morning .

    Thank you all for your compliments yesterday, I really appreciate.




    WE KEEP MOVING!!

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    1. Same here too.. craving something spicy to eat..

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    2. This shuga try to dey answer person or interact. You are boring.

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    3. Thank you guys πŸ₯°πŸ˜, I really appreciate πŸ’ƒπŸ’ƒπŸ’ƒ



      WE KEEP MOVING!!

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    4. Boring na small thing?
      Dem plenty like dat for here

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  5. I had the opportunity to listen in on a conversation sometime last week. It was a disturbing narrative, but then it really showed the reality of most married women in Nigeria. The narrator( married woman) was complaining to someone else, I won't have listened to the conversation, but the narrator was really loud. According to her, there was an elderly woman who was living in the same neighbourhood as hers. They were cordial. So, the narrator had an event earlier this month. So, on the day of the event, the elderly woman came around to help her with things, but she came around with her teenage daughter. I'm sure you guys know how mature some teenage gals look nowadays. Most of them look older than their age. I think that teenage daughter is in this category. As soon the narrator sighted her, she sent her away with the excuse that her mother brought her in to seduce her(the narrator) husband. In her words, " she knows my husband is around, yet she brought her mature daughter. My husband has abandoned us for 11 years. He recently came back, and they want to snatched him away again. I couldn't hide my anger, so I chased the daughter and her mom away. " Furthermore, she said she doesn't even mind if they encounter each other outside, but in her home, she won't allow it. To say I was gobsmacked was an understatement. She even said further that men are naturally covetous. I couldn't say anything to her because I just happened to overheard. But then, the other women she was narrating saw nothing wrong in that conversation and even encouraged her the more.

    Then it hits me, this is why some men think they're doing women a solid by being their lover. The average mindset of a married Nigerian woman can be pretty surprising. Many of them feel it's their job to keep their men on track. They even make excuses for their men's shady atrocities. Some of them will even act oblivious to their dirty habits. Some women know their husbands are sleeping with their maid, and instead of taking action, they will keep chasing them away, citing witchcraft and laziness as excuses. If this narrator was that comedienne, would she have reported Baba Ijesha? There are thousands of that narrator outside there. But because Baba Ijesha sin was brought to public, he should pay with his life? He was indicted and served his terms, so what's wrong with starting a new life with someone who wants to?

    I'm not a rape apologist, but the sexual rot we have in our society today stems from some women overindulgence of their men. At least, he sinned, and he paid for it. When is that molester you call husband going to pay for his? Sanctimonious good-for-nothing lots!πŸ˜’ The fact that some of you believe the mercy of God, which is not physical, is sufficient for you with that criminal acts that no one has caught with but want Baba Ijesha head is actually amusing to see. Clowns!

    I actually don't want to share this story, but the news online today made me write it out. I actually feel the overconsumption of others ' lives and choices will be the death of some netizens. Why are you crying more than the bereaved? How did someone else's joy become your own headache? Una wan burst artery on top people wey no know you.

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    1. My dear, it's a deep rot. Some phoolish women will blame their neices, neighbours etc for seducing their husband. A big grown man o.

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    2. If you have nothing to say, zip it.

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    3. Come on Brianna. You started well but later derailed the point you were trying to make. Wouldn't the clap back session of Sunday been a better space to share what you wrote instead?

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    4. Too long a story that makes absolutely no sense.

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    5. Adunni, i tire. At least he has paid the price for his foolishness. How about the ones we still have around us that yet to get caught? Wrong focus.

      Anon, my epistle is not for a cretin like you. Keep it moving!

      Dogedity, point out the part you think shouldn't be here? Like I wrote up there, I didn't want to share the story because it's not my business. The news online today just feels like a connection to it. In today's society, we obsess over people's dark past too much. Meanwhile, the real issue is staring us in the face, but we skirt around it. What's wrong with someone moving on and starting fresh after serving time for their past mistakes?

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    6. Madam Briana kindly go and marry your baba ijesha as second wife and allow us to breathe what kind of crush are you crushing on him since. Give your future daughters to men ke baba ijesha in the future and enjoy it

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    7. Deputy Jesus anon, Oh, sure, it's super easy to judge others when your own skeletons are locked away in a private vault. The one you married, you sabi wetin he don do before he marry you. And the future husbands wey you don keep for your daughters, you don sabi wetin dem go do? Oponu.

      If we are going to condemn, let's start from the beginning otherwise live and let's live.

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    8. To snatch*
      Overhear*

      I didn't read the rest.

      So you too don't know when to use "ed"?

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  6. Stella some of your male BVs are very arrogant. Some one like excess3code, Vincent, Dante,dodgetiy and Kelvin . They are very rude sometimes.
    Despite the fact that some have made trolling their daily Job

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    1. That excesscode is doing too much.

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    2. Exxedcode that can't even type better sentence. Big time mysogynist hw can't even hide his hatred for women

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    3. Excess 3code must be terrible outside here.

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  7. Veekee James gave birth via CS and in a month she's already wearing corset? How?

    Someone please give me tips!!! I'm 2 months postpartum via CS (emergency though) too but my belly looks like I'm 3 months pregnant...

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    1. Pls, I beg you...don't follow the band wagon.
      Every woman differs with their bodies.

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    2. Exactly, don't be too hard on your self,
      Good afternoon everyone.

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    3. Look for Aju Mbaise. That herb is very powerful.

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    4. How are you sure that she have birth via CS?
      She didn't say that, who told you?
      VJ gave birth via natural way

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  8. Good afternoon SDK and BVs.

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  9. Beautiful day my people
    Let me look for boile...
    See y'all later

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    1. Lol 😊 Mor baby, it's boiled corn abi?

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    2. Good afternoon beautiful Mor baby 😍

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    3. Adunni baby it's roasted yam, plantain and fish.. maybe roasted corn.. everything roasted today..hope you're holding well dearie

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    1. Hi Cyn dearie 😍 Hope your day is good?

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  11. Fsk fsk bingo ,take πŸ’ΈπŸ’ΈπŸ’°πŸ˜­

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  12. Cool and calm weather over here after heavy downpour
    Good afternoon beautiful people πŸ’•
    Y'all enjoy the rest of your day πŸ‘Œ

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    1. I'm telling you..I love rain..not complaining

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    2. Enjoy the cool weather dear 😍
      Was thinking it will rain here ☁⛅

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    3. Send the rain to us beautiful MercyBee 😍

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  13. Onichabor Christopher16 June 2026 at 14:55

    Good afternoon everyone
    I enjoyed all the stories today
    Enjoy the rest of your day

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  14. IHN
    Good afternoon everyone πŸ₯³

    I wish you all a fruitful and exciting day

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  15. Dear Stella,
    Chucky is great . Thanks so much. I appreciate you.

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    1. This comment has been removed by a blog administrator.

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    2. What a pity 😭

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  16. Good afternoon BV
    Informative stories, God bless the senders.

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  17. Raining here. My clothes have not dried for days now.

    Hello everyone, how una dey?

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    1. Eeeya, sorry dear. Maybe you dry them indoors.

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  18. Beautiful Afternoon Blogfam πŸ₯°πŸ₯°

    Cool weather from here.

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  19. It's that type of weather that you were drink ordinary satchet water and pee frequently before the day ends.

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  20. Good afternoon beautiful people.

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  21. Hello beautiful people 😍
    As I went to Iwo road this afternoon to send a customers package, I noticed the crowd but I did not understand what was going on
    As I about to leave, I heard someone saying that VDM was on his coming, hence the crowd
    Na so I Mount and waited for his arrival
    I was able to take some pictures and videos , then I followed the protesters before I finally left for home
    May God almighty touch the heart of the bandit to release this innocent people
    Amen

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  22. There are some caring men in Nigeria, just that they're rare, I remember when I was seriously sick in 2009 and was admitted, there was one girl who was also seriously sick that we were admitted together in the same ward, her father was the one that stayed with her throughout her admission, her mother came on the day she was admitted and went back the same day, she didn't show up until the third day, when she came back on the third day, she didn't bring a dime, food or anything for the welfare of her daughter and didn't spend up to 30 minutes before she left, the father was questioning her why didn't she bring ordinary food for her daughter, she was just giving excuses, that father was the one taking care of the girl, bathing, going to buy food, going home once in a while to cook food because he wanted his daughter to eat homemade food.
    She went back and didn't call or show up again until her daughter was discharged after two weeks, and didn't drop a pin when they were looking for money to discharge the lady, she didn't even show any concerns, the father was the one running up and down.
    The father even went as far as going to his village to bring bathing water for his daughter when the hospital didn't have light to pump water and said they can't be putting generator on every time, I even used from his water to bathe, and he took care of me temporarily and took me to the restroom when I needed to use it because my mother needed to go home and get some things for me.

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    1. This man you described is an outlier ! It still stands that majority of men / fathers leave their wives / mothers to handle such situations alone so her observation still stands

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    2. Were u not taught the use of paragraphs in kindergarten?

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  23. What does Mushroom taste likeπŸ˜•
    I love chicken pizza.
    Amen. We'll reap the fruit if our labour as parentsπŸ™
    Weird facts 2πŸ˜†
    Truth that you may never know is so true..

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